We have only anonymous pics in our public gallery, because we really don't want to be outed as swingers at work or with family. Question to people who do have public face pics - do your colleagues and families already know that you swing? Or do you not care if they find out? Or do you think the chances are so low that you might as well risk it?
If you've been spotted by non swingers through face pics on here - what happened? |
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I have been recognised a few times, when I was on last year, someone found my address on social media and just turned up at my house while I was making my kids dinner!
I’ve been stalked on social media by a few guys I went to school with.
ANd one guy told his brother. Completely unknown to me. I had a massage (his job) and he locked the door and sexually assaulted me. I managed to get out and deleted everything as I ran home.
I wouldn’t show my face now. Which is crap because I like my face. But my safety is my priority. Such a shame these idiots spoil it |
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"Jesus thats awful! I hope you wne to the cops. People like that should be banged up. Its surprising how many nutcases walk the streets. It really is. "
I never told the police, I feel like I put myself in that Situation, It’s my fault for putting my face up, thinking people have the same intentions as me |
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I never told the police, I feel like I put myself in that Situation, It’s my fault for putting my face up, thinking people have the same intentions as me "
Not your fault at all. It is perfectly ok to say you like sex (even sex with lots of people). That doesn't mean you want to have sex with everyone - and it certainly doesn't give anyone the right to r@pe you. Hope you have managed to come to terms with it. |
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I never told the police, I feel like I put myself in that Situation, It’s my fault for putting my face up, thinking people have the same intentions as me
Not your fault at all. It is perfectly ok to say you like sex (even sex with lots of people). That doesn't mean you want to have sex with everyone - and it certainly doesn't give anyone the right to r@pe you. Hope you have managed to come to terms with it. "
I didn’t get r**ed, it didn’t get that far. I’m perfectly ok now, just extremely wary x |
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"I have one on mine. I don't care whether I am outed as a swinger. I do what I want "
I have a few on mine from time to time. I’m single with nothing to hide.  |
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over a year ago
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"Kissmeslowly's profile gave me the best laugh of the day: "If we meet and you look nothing like the photo you sent, you are buying the drinks until you do!"
Love it!"
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I show some of mine BUT I don’t think the pics I show are that recognisable as me- I don’t wear much makeup day to day and people that know me think I’m straight laced. If people recognise me they are here for the same things |
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Four years ago a person (we never did find out who) felt it was their business to inform everyone in the office where Gill worked all about our little hobby. The information got back to our families and neighbours and for a couple of years caused us a great deal of grief. In the end Gill felt she had to leave the job she loved and which she had been in line for promotion.
For that reason we no longer have public photos.
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I have public face pics as i dont care what people think, plus i was introduced to the site by my adult nephew when i was single before lol and iv had atleast 3 people recognise me as i used to be a doorman so quite recogniseable lol x |
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"I show some of mine BUT I don’t think the pics I show are that recognisable as me- I don’t wear much makeup day to day and people that know me think I’m straight laced. If people recognise me they are here for the same things "
Indeed x |
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The other thing to consider is if you have face photos within a private folder on Fab and then send them to people via the site ,they have the Fab Swingers logo embossed onto them revealing to anyone who may see them at any point in the future that you were on a swinging site .We would prefer the site had a logo without the word ‘Swingers’ in it and until then we will send people face photos direct via phones or personal hotmail or gmail e mails |
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""If you've been spotted by non swingers through face pics on here - what happened?"
If they were non swingers why on earth would they be on here?! "
But surely this site USED to be for swingers but is now heaving full of the spillover from Plenty of Fish and Match dot com too? |
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