Just thinking about juxtaposition of the dynamic. You push, you care. You treat like a princess yet use like a sensual whore, you adore, yet sensually degrade.

Just s thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure about anyone else but Tom treats me like a whore in the bedroom and a princess outside of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had three d/s relationships and all three have been perfect gentleman socially ..... but they can be complete bastards during a scene

Just my experience ... maybe I've been lucky!!

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By *icentious OP Couple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I suspect it is role reversal for subs.

I’ve never met a bottom that’s not strong minded and confident in every day living.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

"I suspect it is role reversal for subs.

I’ve never met a bottom that’s not strong minded and confident in every day living."

This

to allow yourself to be used to a certain degree, takes a lot of inner strength. As a guy I'm very different to my other Tgirl self, it's only when I'm dressed I feel I can let the subservient self free and allow myself to fully embrace that side of my personality.

My work life demands that I am confident and assertive, often dealing with complex issues but as a Tgirl I can let it go and relax into something more comfortable. Hopefully that makes sense

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By *icentious OP Couple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I suspect it is role reversal for subs.

I’ve never met a bottom that’s not strong minded and confident in every day living.

This

My work life demands that I am confident and assertive, often dealing with complex issues but as a Tgirl I can let it go and relax into something more comfortable. Hopefully that makes sense

Fully.

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By *rongstantineWoman over a year ago

hull

Never met a true Dom. They all suddenly start getting switchy with me haha

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By *icentious OP Couple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Never met a true Dom. They all suddenly start getting switchy with me haha

Ha ha, you’re not the first to say that.

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By *rongstantineWoman over a year ago

hull

"Never met a true Dom. They all suddenly start getting switchy with me haha

Ha ha, you’re not the first to say that."

I need an Alpha Domme badge

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personally, i'd say yes.

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By *icentious OP Couple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Never met a true Dom. They all suddenly start getting switchy with me haha

Ha ha, you’re not the first to say that.

I need an Alpha Domme badge

Glad I haven’t your inbox

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By *rongstantineWoman over a year ago

hull

"Never met a true Dom. They all suddenly start getting switchy with me haha

Ha ha, you’re not the first to say that.

I need an Alpha Domme badge

Glad I haven’t your inbox

Rarely get bothered here. Too much of a gentleman haha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure about anyone else but Tom treats me like a whore in the bedroom and a princess outside of it

I would like a Tom of my own please x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't stand them

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Are Dom’s always gentlemen outside the sensual dynamic?"

The ones I know - yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never met a true Dom. They all suddenly start getting switchy with me haha

I also would like you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe being a gentleman, modest maybe even to a degree humble, is like etiquette, grammar and most importantly charm insofar as they can achieve positive results inside and out of bdsm. All take a certain strength of character to be effective, though posh public school type gentlemen seem less interesting than the handsome rogues.

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