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So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better  |
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over a year ago
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"gutting....but at least honest!! 
yes, each to their own but she didnt know that we dont meet people who bareback so prob thought it was ok with us.  Thats life! "
Good way to catch out the liars, let them drop themselves in it when asked????? |
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over a year ago
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We have met people on here before and got put off by the same thing!
We really DO NOT believe that people still do bareback!
Unfortunately we can't always spot them but if we do - it's a NO FROM US!
The most annoying thing is that some men (we are looking for guys only at the mo) say they want safe sex but then you see them without a C in their pics - clearly NOT with their partner...
I think a lot of guys (I KNOW THAT NOT ALL OF THEM ARE LIKE THAT) prefer bare if they can 
best way to stay safe is stop swinging
unfortunately that's the only way ...
Paul and Sandra
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Hey, Good on you both for saying NO to bareback but we have noticed on your likes list you only state threesomes
Please press the safe sex button too as a lot of people on here will think you do bb.
How can anyone play without a condom??
Why risk meeting anyone who will happily play bareback & risk your health, who knows what they have got.
We have personally put a forum on this in the past & been slated from members saying its their choice to go bareback.
Good luck & have fun xxxx |
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"Hey, Good on you both for saying NO to bareback but we have noticed on your likes list you only state threesomes
Please press the safe sex button too as a lot of people on here will think you do bb.
How can anyone play without a condom??
Why risk meeting anyone who will happily play bareback & risk your health, who knows what they have got.
We have personally put a forum on this in the past & been slated from members saying its their choice to go bareback.
Good luck & have fun xxxx"
We did have it but deleted it as we found people just lied. We prefer to chat and just ask... with no indication on our profile of our view. Human nature. Just get a more honest answer. Sad but true. |
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"Hey, Good on you both for saying NO to bareback but we have noticed on your likes list you only state threesomes
Please press the safe sex button too as a lot of people on here will think you do bb.
How can anyone play without a condom??
Why risk meeting anyone who will happily play bareback & risk your health, who knows what they have got.
We have personally put a forum on this in the past & been slated from members saying its their choice to go bareback.
Good luck & have fun xxxx
We did have it but deleted it as we found people just lied. We prefer to chat and just ask... with no indication on our profile of our view. Human nature. Just get a more honest answer. Sad but true. "
I also find it helps with the conversation...more to talk about than a profile stating every like and dislike etc etc!!!!! |
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"been to clubs meet nice couples then in private room he wants to do without... that's a big "No"...happened now twice, how do people like that tick? "
Well to be honest Ive given up trying to understand it and just try and concerntrate efforts in finding people who are likeminded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been to clubs meet nice couples then in private room he wants to do without... that's a big "No"...happened now twice, how do people like that tick? "
well no being funny its not work the risk plus after seeing ur profile ur wife is pretty hot. i would want her filled with n ones spunk if she ws mine....  |
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"Hey, Good on you both for saying NO to bareback but we have noticed on your likes list you only state threesomes
Please press the safe sex button too as a lot of people on here will think you do bb.
How can anyone play without a condom??
Why risk meeting anyone who will happily play bareback & risk your health, who knows what they have got.
We have personally put a forum on this in the past & been slated from members saying its their choice to go bareback.
Good luck & have fun xxxx
We did have it but deleted it as we found people just lied. We prefer to chat and just ask... with no indication on our profile of our view. Human nature. Just get a more honest answer. Sad but true. "
Good on you for sticking to your guns.
We can understand your reason for taking "safe sex" from your interest list.
The only thing is its a double edged sword, a lot of people , us included, won't contact people who don't have it on their list.
We've had some brilliant times but none, in retrospect, worth dying for.
XXXX |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better "
Look on the bright side. It was probably a single guy anyways |
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To be fair I just count everyone as having just barebacked most of the site..
That way its my choice if I go safe or bare.. 
although mostly its safe.. but we have with a regular partner gone without... but that is our choice..and we do put that on our profile so people can make an informed choice.
I have been asked by most men if I will go BB.... even those that have a big song and dance on their profiles about ONLY SAFESEX..
Hence my stance that I treat everyone as if they just have.. as most people wont be honest anyway.
cali |
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"been to clubs meet nice couples then in private room he wants to do without... that's a big "No"...happened now twice, how do people like that tick?
Well to be honest Ive given up trying to understand it and just try and concerntrate efforts in finding people who are likeminded. "
likeminded couple waves |
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better
Look on the bright side. It was probably a single guy anyways "
Ha ha. Thats what I said to OH  |
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better "
couldnt you have just asked her if she would mind using condoms with you? |
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"To be fair I just count everyone as having just barebacked most of the site..
That way its my choice if I go safe or bare..
although mostly its safe.. but we have with a regular partner gone without... but that is our choice..and we do put that on our profile so people can make an informed choice.
I have been asked by most men if I will go BB.... even those that have a big song and dance on their profiles about ONLY SAFESEX..
Hence my stance that I treat everyone as if they just have.. as most people wont be honest anyway.
cali "
I think you are right. A lot would go for it but all we can do is try our best to meet likeminded people. Can do no more. We know there are risks, we just try to minimise them. Didnt meet single fem as we are not comfortable with it. |
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"been to clubs meet nice couples then in private room he wants to do without... that's a big "No"...happened now twice, how do people like that tick?
Well to be honest Ive given up trying to understand it and just try and concerntrate efforts in finding people who are likeminded.
likeminded couple waves "
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better
couldnt you have just asked her if she would mind using condoms with you?"
we just arent comfortable meeting peeps who bareback. we have discussed it and agreed its something neither of us is happy with. Everyone has a choice, but ours in non negotiable. |
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better "
"Interested in the same things" its uncanny, on a swingers site , swingers talkin to swingers it happens quite a bit that. |
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better
"Interested in the same things" its uncanny, on a swingers site , swingers talkin to swingers it happens quite a bit that. "
now now, be nice  actually we dont all like the same things |
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better
couldnt you have just asked her if she would mind using condoms with you?
we just arent comfortable meeting peeps who bareback. we have discussed it and agreed its something neither of us is happy with. Everyone has a choice, but ours in non negotiable. "
I do see where your coming from but im sure you have met people who bareback before, just not everyone is as honest as this lady
I remember someone on here posting......treat every meet as they bareback and you wont go wrong
And its right, you can only protect yourself meet to meet the best you can, and tho a lot of people on here put down those who bare back i actually applaud their honestly because at least they give you the real facts for you to make a decision on and not just tell you what you want to hear like a lot on here
But anyway im sure someone else will be along soon dont take long on here to replacde a meet lol |
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"We live a swinging lifestyle. We're all at risk. Condom or not.
Protect yourselves as best as you can or stop swinging. That's the safe way!"
Of course, but didnt really aim to have another bareback thread. Was just letting out a little frustration. Tongue in cheek (my own unfortunately)
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better
"Interested in the same things" its uncanny, on a swingers site , swingers talkin to swingers it happens quite a bit that.
now now, be nice actually we dont all like the same things "
Just being ironic, was'nt being nasty, we dont accurately like the same stuff, true. |
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"So... at last. A sexy lovely bifem. She winks me. Seems genuine. She sees my pic and OH. Still all good. She sends hers.... very nice indeed. We chat further. Hit it off. Sexually we def are interested in the same things. She doesnt live too far... she can accommodate! She would love to meet up for some very horny fun with us... her offers were very attractive. Then...she says the word bareback... I ask holding my breathe... yes she does. Damn damn and all the bloody damns. Thats it, game set and match. Agh!!!!! the disappointment. Ah thanks... that feels better "
Good for you for walking away...you might have just saved your own life. |
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I know Ruggers doesn't like it when other threads are mentioned but funny how some people change their mind. Just read the "trying to get pregnant by swinging" thread. I think I was the only one that mentioned the hypocrisy: this thread proves my point.
Anyone that takes the word of horny strangers that they don't bareback are frightenly naive. I assume everyone I meet has been bareback gang banging but try and protect myself as best I can.
"Safe sex" on here is as meaningless as the Sydney disclaimers. |
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"I know Ruggers doesn't like it when other threads are mentioned but funny how some people change their mind. Just read the "trying to get pregnant by swinging" thread. I think I was the only one that mentioned the hypocrisy: this thread proves my point.
Anyone that takes the word of horny strangers that they don't bareback are frightenly naive. I assume everyone I meet has been bareback gang banging but try and protect myself as best I can.
"Safe sex" on here is as meaningless as the Sydney disclaimers."
So true Sassy. I'd even go as far as comparing it too a love struck girl asking a bloke with a hard on if he loves her.
It all comes down to whether or not you are prepared to believe what anyone tells you  |
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Well if you ask someone if they do bateback and they readilly agree that's not a good sign. What I was saying was yes we only play safe obviously but also don't meet people who offer bareback. We aren't daft...its no guarantee but don't want to meet those that seem willing! Personal choice I think. Anyway...didn't mean it as another bareback thread. |
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Ok so she does BB
And you don't so does she object to condoms?
Or do you just not play with people who bareback?
Just curious is all because surely everybody bare backs someone at some point in there livers en if it's just a regular partner
Like I said I'm just curious
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"Ok so she does BB
And you don't so does she object to condoms?
Or do you just not play with people who bareback?
Just curious is all because surely everybody bare backs someone at some point in there livers en if it's just a regular partner
Like I said I'm just curious
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Obviously people in committed relationships don't all use condoms. We meet singles. Its different from meeting a woman who is barebacking whilst swinging etc |
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I know full well that most of the people I meet will have barebacked someone...
So on that I take everyone as a risk and assess it on that.. I have safe sex on mine ticked as do normally do it... But am honest that we don't always...
I know everything in life has risks.. but if I overly worried I'd never get out of bed..
Cali x |
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"I know full well that most of the people I meet will have barebacked someone...
So on that I take everyone as a risk and assess it on that.. I have safe sex on mine ticked as do normally do it... But am honest that we don't always...
I know everything in life has risks.. but if I overly worried I'd never get out of bed..
Cali x "
I know you do Cali and I admire your honesty. |
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some dispute it.. I think that if a man does not cum in your mouth the risks are less... but I always and I do mean always.. swallow at least some if not all...
Cali |
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"some dispute it.. I think that if a man does not cum in your mouth the risks are less... but I always and I do mean always.. swallow at least some if not all...
Cali "
Exactly. So I dont. We minimise our risks but dont dispute there are risks. As I said, everyone has a choice and ours is to MINIMISE our risk taking. Just looking for likeminded people. I think thats fair enough. |
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I agree totally... I wouldnt want someone that would feel uncomfortable with anything we want to do...
So I make it clear.. Funny thing is had a few people be a bit funny ( only couples to be fair) that we on occassion bb... yet not had one person moan that I love messy play orally..
and when I do a good bukkake session it ends up all over me..
I think its not unreasonable.. I just think that as long as you do whats right for you then thats okay.. but I just wouldnt trust someones word that they always play safe.. that is my only issue with those that say they wont play because someone will go Bare.. as really to be fair.. the next 3 people that say "oh no... never" may have had a gangbang creampie for all we know..
That is just how I see it..
I just couldnt actually not taste or swallow cum.. if I cant have it in me that is the next best thing.. I actually cried once when a guy came in a condom..
cali x |
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Am I not reading this right? Your message says "she". Is this where I discover the word "bareback" is not what I think it means
Forgive me if I am being thick (;-) I thought non-bareback was wearing a condom
I suspect i am far too innocent for this complex world  |
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"Am I not reading this right? Your message says "she". Is this where I discover the word "bareback" is not what I think it means
Forgive me if I am being thick (;-) I thought non-bareback was wearing a condom
I suspect i am far too innocent for this complex world "
you are correct. she has sex with guys without condoms. Her choice. Not mine. |
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