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over a year ago
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"My partner offered to try it with me but now saying no. Is there any way to tell if she's interested in any of it without asking"
She is saying no, which must mean you have discussed the idea and been told her answer, in this game no means precisely no...  |
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"What like seeing which way she stirs her tea in the morning ? Or using tarot cards ? The only way is by asking and respecting her decision after "
See I'm confused i she knows I want to but I've told her I'm not bothered but she brought up the idea and always making jokes about 3 ways |
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In my (mr) opinion:
First, you need to speak to her about it, properly. It needs a LOT of understanding and trust. If you can't have the discussion you shouldn't be doing it.
Second, your description of 'wife share' straight off makes me think you've got the wrong end of the stick about the whole dynamics of it all. |
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"What like seeing which way she stirs her tea in the morning ? Or using tarot cards ? The only way is by asking and respecting her decision after
See I'm confused i she knows I want to but I've told her I'm not bothered but she brought up the idea and always making jokes about 3 ways"
Talk to her. Ask her straight out if she's interested or not. If she says "no" tell her that you're getting mixed messages because she's always making jokes about it. You will know where you stand then.
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"In my (mr) opinion:
First, you need to speak to her about it, properly. It needs a LOT of understanding and trust. If you can't have the discussion you shouldn't be doing it.
Second, your description of 'wife share' straight off makes me think you've got the wrong end of the stick about the whole dynamics of it all."
Maybe not between cuckold and wife share and mmf there's certain bits I like |
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"What like seeing which way she stirs her tea in the morning ? Or using tarot cards ? The only way is by asking and respecting her decision after
See I'm confused i she knows I want to but I've told her I'm not bothered but she brought up the idea and always making jokes about 3 ways
Talk to her. Ask her straight out if she's interested or not. If she says "no" tell her that you're getting mixed messages because she's always making jokes about it. You will know where you stand then.
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"What like seeing which way she stirs her tea in the morning ? Or using tarot cards ? The only way is by asking and respecting her decision after
See I'm confused i she knows I want to but I've told her I'm not bothered but she brought up the idea and always making jokes about 3 ways
Talk to her. Ask her straight out if she's interested or not. If she says "no" tell her that you're getting mixed messages because she's always making jokes about it. You will know where you stand then.
Your right thank you "
It's funny how difficult it can be to have these conversations but trust me, the more frequently you talk like this the easier it becomes.
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So, you're a married couple, and you had a conversation about you being on here on your own, and she was fine with it. But the conversation about you doing it as a couple is too awkward to bring up? |
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"So, you're a married couple, and you had a conversation about you being on here on your own, and she was fine with it. But the conversation about you doing it as a couple is too awkward to bring up?"
Lol that was the next thing i was going to type 
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You shouldn't need to be in an open marriage (or in fact any kind of relationship, open or not), to know that 1. Communication is paramount and 2. What consent is.
We've been together for 11 years and he's always known I'm bi. Early doors I asked if he ever thought he'd be up for it, he said no, I respected that, end of. He joked about it over the years, as did I. Fortunately for me he's come around to the idea recently (of his own volition) and when I cracked a joke about it a couple of months ago we talked about it and agreed we'd open up.
If you have to talk someone into doing something like this then their heart won't be in it. Would you enjoy it if she wasn't really up for it? I know I wouldn't want to put my partner through that. |
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"So, you're a married couple, and you had a conversation about you being on here on your own, and she was fine with it. But the conversation about you doing it as a couple is too awkward to bring up?"
I say wife share but we are just close friends really close but wife girlfriend is there a different category for each |
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"So, you're a married couple, and you had a conversation about you being on here on your own, and she was fine with it. But the conversation about you doing it as a couple is too awkward to bring up?
I say wife share but we are just close friends really close but wife girlfriend is there a different category for each"
Yes, there is a difference in 'close friend' and 'wife'.
But I'm not getting involved in this thread anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to your wife. If she doesn't wanna do it you can't force her.
However I'm more concerned about your profile photo. Is that washing machine on your head? Are you ok? |
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"Talk to your wife. If she doesn't wanna do it you can't force her.
However I'm more concerned about your profile photo. Is that washing machine on your head? Are you ok?"
Judging by this thread there may have been some lasting damage |
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