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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of us, it just depends on what you've got to offer. If you're interested in meeting a bi woman just to add a bit of spice to your relationship then you're probably not gonna have a lot of success because what is that actually offering to the women you want to meet? |
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There are plenty of bi women on fab, the trouble is they are very much sought after. Because of this they can afford to be very choosy about who the chat to and meet.
OP if I was in your position I would be asking myself "am I doing enough to attract these ladies?" "are my messages good enough and is my profile the best i can make it?" |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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As a bi female I wouldn’t meet you based on your profile, sorry and not to be harsh but it doesn’t tell me what you’d offer and makes me feel like I’d just be a toy for you to use also the lack of pictures won’t help, sorry guys |
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"There are plenty of bi women on fab, the trouble is they are very much sought after. Because of this they can afford to be very choosy about who the chat to and meet.
OP if I was in your position I would be asking myself "am I doing enough to attract these ladies?" "are my messages good enough and is my profile the best i can make it?""
 The last paragraph, should be the mantra of this place. Indeed, maybe, just maybe, users should be made to should be made to complete a basic exam before entery here. It would at least mean that something as basic as manners and what delete and block actually means, rather than reading the constant groans from those that fail to recognise the concept of the reciever isn't interested and they should move on.
It stagers me sometimes how little thought is given to messages and profiles and I do get we all have our own views on how to do this. So many fail to see that their first contact is often the only chance they will get to make an impression. It might even not get that far either, as many fabbers may look at the profile before any contact is made and have already decide that this fabber is not for them. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"There are plenty of us, it just depends on what you've got to offer. If you're interested in meeting a bi woman just to add a bit of spice to your relationship then you're probably not gonna have a lot of success because what is that actually offering to the women you want to meet?"
This, and that there seems to be a lot of fake couples profiles here...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are plenty of us, it just depends on what you've got to offer. If you're interested in meeting a bi woman just to add a bit of spice to your relationship then you're probably not gonna have a lot of success because what is that actually offering to the women you want to meet?
This, and that there seems to be a lot of fake couples profiles here... "
And a lot of the real ones seem to think they'll get me into bed with "hi x"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because we're bi, it doesn't mean that we're looking for couples - I'd prefer to meet single people, of any gender.
If I do want to consider a couple, then I need to know that I'll like both of them - so I'd need to see a nicely-written and informative Profile, with photos of them both - but that seems to be an impossible ask...
Perhaps the problem isn't in couples finding available Bi fems, but in Bi fems finding couples that have got anything to offer!
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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago
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I am a genuine bi female off a happily married couple.We find in our experience that the genuine bisexual lady is very very hard to find.In our opinion a lot off ladies seem to be doing the bisexual thing to please the male half off the couple and not themselves. Sadly we have also come across a lot off jealous guys who spit the "dummy out "when the ladies are having a naughty time..
However I have met a few lovely ladies and still live in hope.
A true genuine bi lady should be happy to meet another bi lady without either off their partners present....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a genuine bi female off a happily married couple.We find in our experience that the genuine bisexual lady is very very hard to find.In our opinion a lot off ladies seem to be doing the bisexual thing to please the male half off the couple and not themselves. Sadly we have also come across a lot off jealous guys who spit the "dummy out "when the ladies are having a naughty time..
However I have met a few lovely ladies and still live in hope.
A true genuine bi lady should be happy to meet another bi lady without either off their partners present....
Just my opinion "
What about couples like us though, who really enjoy playing together? neither of us want to play alone? |
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They're definitely out there, we're talking to a few, have spoken to a few we didn't click with and have a meet arranged with one this weekend. We've only been on a few weeks but I'd say our approach and profile is different from what you're saying on your profile so maybe take a look at what you're offering to these lovely ladies and think about presenting yourselves in a way that suits that. Still be honest about why you're looking for them but there may be some who are looking to be used the way you're saying, they have a lot of choice though so you need to sell yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a genuine bi female off a happily married couple.We find in our experience that the genuine bisexual lady is very very hard to find.In our opinion a lot off ladies seem to be doing the bisexual thing to please the male half off the couple and not themselves. Sadly we have also come across a lot off jealous guys who spit the "dummy out "when the ladies are having a naughty time..
However I have met a few lovely ladies and still live in hope.
A true genuine bi lady should be happy to meet another bi lady without either off their partners present....
Just my opinion "
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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago
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Oh oh Oh while you guys are doing this how about a review of my profile please peeps? Haha
We too would love to meet a genuine bi lady!
I think it’s hard as part of a couple because it’s always viewed that you want to sleep with another woman to please your man. My man wouldn’t be on Fab if I didn’t drag him on here.
I’m the one who’s hunting for a gorgeous, sexually confident, genuinely bi lady!! His getting to be involved just means he’ll let me |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh oh Oh while you guys are doing this how about a review of my profile please peeps? Haha
We too would love to meet a genuine bi lady!
I think it’s hard as part of a couple because it’s always viewed that you want to sleep with another woman to please your man. My man wouldn’t be on Fab if I didn’t drag him on here.
I’m the one who’s hunting for a gorgeous, sexually confident, genuinely bi lady!! His getting to be involved just means he’ll let me "
and will he be present at your meets with a bi female? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Oh oh Oh while you guys are doing this how about a review of my profile please peeps? Haha
We too would love to meet a genuine bi lady!
I think it’s hard as part of a couple because it’s always viewed that you want to sleep with another woman to please your man. My man wouldn’t be on Fab if I didn’t drag him on here.
I’m the one who’s hunting for a gorgeous, sexually confident, genuinely bi lady!! His getting to be involved just means he’ll let me and will he be present at your meets with a bi female? "
Their profile says she will meet bi females solo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to a social and get verified by a single woman or two and then you are far more likely to be of interest. Fab is wonderful for meeting single women and we have had some wonderful meets with bi fems from fab. If everyone enjoys playing and there is chemistry between all of you it can be mind-blowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh oh Oh while you guys are doing this how about a review of my profile please peeps? Haha
We too would love to meet a genuine bi lady!
I think it’s hard as part of a couple because it’s always viewed that you want to sleep with another woman to please your man. My man wouldn’t be on Fab if I didn’t drag him on here.
I’m the one who’s hunting for a gorgeous, sexually confident, genuinely bi lady!! His getting to be involved just means he’ll let me and will he be present at your meets with a bi female?
Their profile says she will meet bi females solo "
There's no pressure here to do the bi thing for my bf.I was in a full f/f relationship before I met him so I'm not bi to please anyone.Im bi because that's the way I was born.its not a massive issue as it's just I find some other women sexually attractive.its that simple.
I think the problem with most people finding other bi girls is that they expect them to have sex with any female.WRONG.There has to be that sexual and mental attraction.Were not a play thing that you can just use to satisfy your bi fantasy.I know I'm not just speaking for myself when I say we also have standards and theres those we do and don't fancy.
The only person I make sure I please is me as if I don't find someone attractive then no matter who says you must do it I WON'T x
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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago
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"Oh oh Oh while you guys are doing this how about a review of my profile please peeps? Haha
We too would love to meet a genuine bi lady!
I think it’s hard as part of a couple because it’s always viewed that you want to sleep with another woman to please your man. My man wouldn’t be on Fab if I didn’t drag him on here.
I’m the one who’s hunting for a gorgeous, sexually confident, genuinely bi lady!! His getting to be involved just means he’ll let me and will he be present at your meets with a bi female?
Their profile says she will meet bi females solo
There's no pressure here to do the bi thing for my bf.I was in a full f/f relationship before I met him so I'm not bi to please anyone.Im bi because that's the way I was born.its not a massive issue as it's just I find some other women sexually attractive.its that simple.
I think the problem with most people finding other bi girls is that they expect them to have sex with any female.WRONG.There has to be that sexual and mental attraction.Were not a play thing that you can just use to satisfy your bi fantasy.I know I'm not just speaking for myself when I say we also have standards and theres those we do and don't fancy.
The only person I make sure I please is me as if I don't find someone attractive then no matter who says you must do it I WON'T x
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Yes I fully agree I just think that is the perception that the majority have.
I was in a full FF relationship too before my bf. In fact my bf is the first guy I’ve been with for around 10 years. So no not everyone does it to please their mans but it still doesn’t change people’s perception. X |
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