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Genuine single women.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Can someone please tell us if there are any real single women who want to play with couples,OR at least that is what they tell you , when they make the first contact.

So then why is that even though they make the first contact, knowing it is a couple they have got in touch with.Knowing it is for a threesome.Then just as it is all arranged and you ask what time they will be with us, they suddenly ask "CAN MY PARTNER PLAY AS WELL"

What partner, their profile states a single woman, no mention of a partner at all.But then it gets worse as when we agree to "Ok not really what you had asked in the first message but we are a couple and do full swop as well".

They then moan when you point out that we prefer seperate room full swop,then you have to explain what this means and SURPRISE they decide to say no or worse just stop chatting ".

Now surely this is wrong on a couple of points 1/they came on to us as a SINGLE woman and even their profile states single.

2/our profile states seperate rooms.

Do they not know or care that, people on here do have feelings.That it is not right to mess people around and well basically that they are a liar.

This has happened so far 3 times, so please all you SINGLE ladies who do this , THINK about how nasty you are being, you are playing with peoples feelings and you are a liar, when you ask for a threesome it means a threesome, not to then add someone else.

Sorry for the long moan but we are fed up with certain ladies doing this and wonder how many others they have done this to, bet they would not like it if it was the other way round and they were the ones being lied to and messed around.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Can someone please tell us if there are any real single women who want to play with couples,OR at least that is what they tell you , when they make the first contact.

They then moan when you point out that we prefer seperate room full swop,then you have to explain what this means and SURPRISE they decide to say no or worse just stop chatting ".

Now surely this is wrong on a couple of points 1/they came on to us as a SINGLE woman and even their profile states single.

2/our profile states seperate rooms.

Do they not know or care that, people on here do have feelings.That it is not right to mess people around and well basically that they are a liar.

Hm. sympathise that it can be annoying but why take it so personally you find it hurtful. You cant be so sensitive on here or some will make mincemeat of you. Also, although sep room fun is listed as an interest it does not mean to most people that this is exclusively all you are interested in so if essential why not put it in the main body of your profile? Just a suggestion. You also list that you are looking for couples also so perhaps thats why the woman with the single profile contacted you anyway? Your profile so up to you of course... but may make things clearer for those you are looking for. Dont forget this is meant to be fun!

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

The post from secret couple pretty much sums it up for me too.

I wouldnt say that asking is them/her being 'nasty'. If folks want to suggest something to you they can ask (as long as they are not rude of course). If you dont want to then you just say no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course there are, for me though, you are too far for me to travel to and I couldn't afford to share hotel cost either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you make a fair point

....I don't commit into anything unless I know I will meet the couple and will meet them alone if that's what has been discussed. As has been said before there are genuine women and there are others who might get scared etc...

It's a pretty daunting experience as a single fem travelling to meet a couple. At the end of the day the couple have eachother and you are solo lol. I have travelled and have met couples and have had a great time but I can see why some girls would like to have a male there....it's prob a safety thing

I think to meet girls you have to build trust with them...talk on the phone and prob meet socially first....Well that's how I am anyway.

Don't give up and happy swinging.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

You have had single females making the first contact with you on 3 occasions? Wow don't think we ever have lol

On a serious note, I agree with what secret couple wrote.

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By *rummiePartyManMan over a year ago

birmingham

I once read, "welcome to the internet, where men are men, and so are most of the women".

In answer to your question, YES there are genuine single women on here. I've met some, and hope to meet some more. If an ugly ol' git like me can, then there's hope for everyone!

However, bear in mind the above quote and apply a healthy degree of caution else you'll be upset again. There are a lot of female profiles that were penned by men on some fantasy trip. There are some couples who think that conning people is the best way of getting into bed with them...there are all sorts. But amongst them there are also the genuine ones. Give it a bit of time, and you'll develop an eye for them. Street-wisdom is an acquired skill.

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