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"Am I the only one who is frustrated at the lack of male pictures in couples profiles? (And I don’t mean dick pics!)
Btw this is the female half of the couple asking  "
I appear on our pics, but to be fair... Nita is much nicer to look at.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seeing as the topic comes up at least twice a week I would imagine you're not the only one asking this OP.
However, perhaps you might like to have a 50/50 split of photos on yours?
For us, it's the profile that suits and is reasonably successful, so we are happy with our photos. |
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OP it may seem to some that you are being a little hippocritical seeing as your photos are mostly of the female. Perhaps you could start a new trend for having an even mix of pictures of both of you |
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Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50  we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That doesn't bother me at all, it's the ones that only have pictures of groups of people that confuse me, how am I supposed to know which ones are actually the couple?  "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50 we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for ! "
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
Yeah we think that sometimes, I need to know that I like the look of both people so it’s annoying when there’s nothing of the guy. We’ve clearly got more of me, but there’s enough of SSS to get the idea.
I guess it’s different if only the F plays or some other similar dynamic but generally we like to see both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no need to display my ugly old carcass as we only meet at clubs or parties. D is photogenic enough for both of us. But I'm on the private gallery."
But you'd still expect us girls to shag "your ugly old carcass"
False advertising in my opinion!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we’ve got a decent mix of photos.
Don’t even bother replying to couples with no photos of the guy on show. "
I don't get the profiles with no pics of the guy!! What are they thinking? "Oh we will shag this couple cos the fem is hot"! Sorry if you both want to be involved then all parties want to see what each other looks like!! |
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By *elen321Woman
over a year ago
Shaftesbury |
I don't like a couples profile that only has pics of the lady, if I'm going to join you as a couple and play with both of you then I want to known what you both look like. Even if the lady is better looking than the bloke I'm interested in both of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one who is frustrated at the lack of male pictures in couples profiles? (And I don’t mean dick pics!)
Btw this is the female half of the couple asking "
We have the normal pics in private and send on request. However we are going to add some public without face shots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to add some of myself again, initially uploaded too many of the wife but when I'm looking for fun I barely get a reply due to no pics of me. Think maybe I should start my own profile and leave this one for our mmf meets |
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We like to see couple profiles with pics of them together, and not just action shots.
We tend to keep our pics to the sort that we like to see on other profiles. Our gallery only tends to be female heavy if we’ve had a photo session and hubby has uploaded new pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trouble is some men just aren't photogenic.
Spot on, and let’s face it we don’t have the same curves as the ladies."
But you still expect other couples to meet you! I don't understand your logic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeh ive noticed majority of couples profiles don't show the male in pics , just assumed it was swinging couple etiquette , but if ur both looking to play it seems silly both not being on displayed pics |
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We’ve tried to balance ours out but when Sally’s form is that bloody fine and you can only add a finite number of pictures, I feel a bit of a fraudster taking up the space that she can much more elegantly and sexily fill xx |
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"Trouble is some men just aren't photogenic.
Spot on, and let’s face it we don’t have the same curves as the ladies."
However.... i would suggest the male half can usually look good in clothed photos. |
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By *elen321Woman
over a year ago
Shaftesbury |
"Our profile and run it as we see fit. We don’t meet couples and the male doesn’t play, only present; so it makes perfect sense to us."
I think it's different for a hot wife couple, if the male half isn't playing then there is no need for photo's. it's the ones who expect you to play with both of them but don't have any male photo's that are frustrating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50 we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for ! "
Intersting mix of pics now. You have added cock shots, but no pussy shots, why one but not the other? |
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We've tried to have a real mix, and there are more of us together in our private pics. We could probably do with some more of us together...but we tend to get carried away and forget! That said, based on fabs from cpls and women, we probably only just need Hers pics up!
What we do find strange are those people who, when we get to the point of exchanging face pics, just send us non-face pics from their public photos?! |
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We have recently hidden a fair few of our photos and i uploaded a few of myself.
To be honest though the process of posing makes me cringe as does looking at the pictures afterwards..i have no body issues i just hate photos, no idea why |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"Our profile and run it as we see fit. We don’t meet couples and the male doesn’t play, only present; so it makes perfect sense to us.
I think it's different for a hot wife couple, if the male half isn't playing then there is no need for photo's. it's the ones who expect you to play with both of them but don't have any male photo's that are frustrating."
Ah! Point taken. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"No one's interested in me so there's no point in posting pictures of myself. "
I guess that's OK if you aren't playing, but does it not occur to you that no one is interested because its unclear on the profile whether you do or don't play?
If you do play why would a female looking to play with couples with plenty of other profiles to choose from showing pics then go & pick yours to contact when the first thing they have to do is ask?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one's interested in me so there's no point in posting pictures of myself.
I guess that's OK if you aren't playing, but does it not occur to you that no one is interested because its unclear on the profile whether you do or don't play?
If you do play why would a female looking to play with couples with plenty of other profiles to choose from showing pics then go & pick yours to contact when the first thing they have to do is ask?
S
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I want to play. But every time we've got to that point and I've come to join in everything stopped and I've been rejected so don't see the point in trying now tbh. Happy for Mrs to play with women and I'll join if I'm allowed. |
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"Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50 we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for ! "
Is this STILL the female half speaking? |
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As the straight female (who is slightly bi flexible in the right circumstances) half of a couple, I would never consider us meeting a couple who’s profile was dominated by pics of the lady. I would be interested in playing with the male, if you don’t show me what you look like then how am I meant to know if I’m attracted to you?
We are all free to run our profiles to please ourselves and if you’re happy with what you show and the results it gives you then you’re doing it right for you.
One thing that we do dislike however is hypocrisy. For example, people who say “must have pics of both of you” and then don’t have them on their own profile. Or people who say “must send face pic” but will not reciprocate. These types of people are clearly not singing from the same hymn sheet as us, we obviously have different opinions and will not get on. We would not only move on to other people more suited to ourselves, we would probably block them too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our couples has equal amounts of us both. It irritates me to only see just the lady of a couple, so we try and make sure there's plenty of us both so everyone knows what they're getting when messaging us. |
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Depends what you're looking for. Our pics are just of the wife as we are looking for men for MMF. Not really any point in advertising the husband in our case.
However, we have pics of both of us in our private gallery that we happily share with candidates we like. |
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I've been thinking about this and i think i can see a fair reason why a lot of guys wouldn't upload pictures of themselves.
A lot of profiles that contact us are lopsided in that the focus is usually on the female half of us, add to that the amount of single guys and girls who seem to try to brush me off to one side with there opening message it could quickly demoralise the male half of a couple.
Now i'm not saying i'm of a nature to be bothered by this and i have zero confidence issues in making my presence known(a flick on the ear tends to work)but i can empathise with a man who may feel this way.
We are often percieved as the albatross around the neck as a male. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50 we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for ! "
How about the two of you together?
That’s what I like to see on a couples profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50 we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for ! "
Tbh, your profile would look a lot sexier without the male pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50 we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for !
Tbh, your profile would look a lot sexier without the male pictures. "
Kinda defeats the point in it being a couples profile, dontcha think?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well there’s even more confusion with our pics. Anybody who is interested in what Mr looks like would have to guess which guy is him, as I think there are about 6 different guys in our pics! Is all very clear in our friends pics what he looks like though.
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"Male commenting.
Fair comment to those that have said we aren’t 50:50 we will get the camera out tonight and even things out
But at least we have some of me, some profiles don’t have any of the man.
Anyway watch this space, but be careful what you wish for !
Tbh, your profile would look a lot sexier without the male pictures. "
Prooves my point i think |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
True, as with most couples there's a definite heavy bias towards the sexy half on our profile too lol
To be fair though,
I can't imagine who would be wanting to look at two many pics on me anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have pictures of both of us on the Couple Profile; possibly more of Number One Chap when I think about it (but then, he is terribly scrummy). We’d be wishing to play equally with people we meet through that profile (put the wolves back, I meet other ladies solo through this profile). It would seem silly to not show perspective play chums both of the people they may like to meet with. I certainly wouldn’t “go in blind”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one who is frustrated at the lack of male pictures in couples profiles? (And I don’t mean dick pics!)
Btw this is the female half of the couple asking "
It’s a fair point - I suppose it’s because on our couples profile, Monkey gets a million Fabs for every one I get. This is normal I assume due to the high number of men to women on here, but it does make you disinclined to put up pictures you assume no one wants to see. But then, I might be talking bollox. It’s hard to tell. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Obviously up to the couple how they manage their profile but as a lady looking at couples, if the profile doesn’t have an even mix of both of them then I would bypass that profile. "
Yup. This |
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"Obviously up to the couple how they manage their profile but as a lady looking at couples, if the profile doesn’t have an even mix of both of them then I would bypass that profile.
Yup. This "
Who says all couples are looking for a lady? |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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"Obviously up to the couple how they manage their profile but as a lady looking at couples, if the profile doesn’t have an even mix of both of them then I would bypass that profile.
Yup. This
Who says all couples are looking for a lady?"
Re-read think you misread it |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Obviously up to the couple how they manage their profile but as a lady looking at couples, if the profile doesn’t have an even mix of both of them then I would bypass that profile.
Yup. This
Who says all couples are looking for a lady?"
Some couples looking for women have predominantly female half photos or none of the male half.
You guys are fine obviously as you're looking for men, so this thread doesn't affect you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we’ve got a decent mix of photos.
Don’t even bother replying to couples with no photos of the guy on show. "
Ditto..
that being said, we've taken couples off our profile atm.
Adam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trouble is some men just aren't photogenic.
More than just some if Fab profiles are anything to go by.....
Ooooo. Cutting. "
I'm taking no prisoners tonight Rach... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When your lady is straight and girl on girl is of no interest it's absolutely crucial she's attracted to the guy. People are free to run there profile how they like but we dismiss anyone without pics of the male half, it just makes you question why they don't have them. |
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"When your lady is straight and girl on girl is of no interest it's absolutely crucial she's attracted to the guy. People are free to run there profile how they like but we dismiss anyone without pics of the male half, it just makes you question why they don't have them."
"We" on a single male profile?? 
Confused?
Is there more than one of you |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
sadly this is still a mainly .dominated male site .so female pics will get more attention .even couples are mainly the male that looks most [in our case defo]same reason that females our more popular models in the straight world |
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"When your lady is straight and girl on girl is of no interest it's absolutely crucial she's attracted to the guy. People are free to run there profile how they like but we dismiss anyone without pics of the male half, it just makes you question why they don't have them.
"We" on a single male profile??
Confused?
Is there more than one of you "
Yeah I have a couples profile too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have pics of G but yes, there are more of me. G isn't a fan of having his taken and as we're mainly looking for single guys oon here it's not a big issue.
If and when we are looking at a couple's profile we don't really care about there being an even number of pics of each as long as we can get an idea of what both look like. I'd rather one good body pics than the ones where there are just cock shots or group pics where you can't figure out which guy is in the couple. Tx |
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"Am I the only one who is frustrated at the lack of male pictures in couples profiles? (And I don’t mean dick pics!)
Btw this is the female half of the couple asking "
we get frustrated by this as we'll obviously only be meeting couples if we're both keen.
We do have a majority of pics of Mrs on public but have an even mix for friends and private face pics. Some mf profiles dont even have a pic of the male half which is frustrating |
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over a year ago
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"Am I the only one who is frustrated at the lack of male pictures in couples profiles? (And I don’t mean dick pics!)
Btw this is the female half of the couple asking "
We posted a similar thread awhile ago. But have photos of both of us on there, individually, and together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trouble is some men just aren't photogenic.
Spot on, and let’s face it we don’t have the same curves as the ladies."
I (male) agree with this as I am not very photogenic however it is frustrating when chatting to couples and they have no pictures of the male.
Even had lots of friends requests and in private pics no male shots
At least have a couple if male is playing as well |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
If you find a profile that's frustrating because it doesn't have enough pictures of the guy just move onto the next one - there are plenty to choose from. People put up profiles that work for THEM. They shouldn't change them for you or for anyone else. It's up to YOU to find ones that work for you. |
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"Am I the only one who is frustrated at the lack of male pictures in couples profiles? (And I don’t mean dick pics!)
Btw this is the female half of the couple asking "
We have pics, tho face pics are for ftiends only |
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"Am I the only one who is frustrated at the lack of male pictures in couples profiles? (And I don’t mean dick pics!)
Btw this is the female half of the couple asking "
You're not alone at all OP. Frustrating us an understatement  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every good seller knows you put the saleable stock up front and pretty up your shop window with it in the hope someone might want to take some of the naffer stock once they're inside |
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