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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right now we may sound a little thick, but what happens at a bi party....does everyone there all join in with each other or do certain people play with select others. We would like to try one but want to no what were getting in to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you just didn't want to go into something blind not knowing. "
It's best to ask them. Some have no pressure and it's just a party to meet similar people where you know they are bi. Some infer that *everyone* has to play or they're frowned on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No one should be frowned upon for not playing, it should be up to the individual.
We want to have our own party where everyone can have a drink and a chat then if they want to play can do and if not then that's fine too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem we all have here (Well mostly us men) is that being bi gives us a label, we are dirty for what we do etc...
This is 2017, it's about time people realised that just because we like to play with a cock, it doesn't mean we play without protection.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forgot to add, it's ok for 2 females to play with each other, but stick 2 males in the same situation.... you get looks of disgust and also people being rude about it too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To be honest I used to think it was disgusting 2 women together and two men together, until I talked about it and tried it for myself and saw my hubby with a man. Now I love it and can't get enough lol not that we get much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'd like to think that in the swingers world nothing is frowned upon, if you attend a bi party then as a real swinger you would expect to see bi fun being had. If it's not your thing then you attend something that suits your sexuality and what you're comfortable with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great thread as wondered this ourselves. We do prefer a social connection with who we play with and wondered if parties might be too full on"
I guess parties vary, some may be full on, some not. If the hosts of the party know your new to the whole party scene then I'm sure they'd not push you, and let you go at your own pace. |
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We’ve only really been to bi club parties but can only second what someone above has already said. Much like a normal club, play with the ones you want to or don’t with the ones you don’t.
No pressure and tbh found bi nights to be far more relaxed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right now we may sound a little thick, but what happens at a bi party....does everyone there all join in with each other or do certain people play with select others. We would like to try one but want to no what were getting in to.
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As with any party, the choice is yours guys.. don’t be badgered into doing something that you’re not comfortable with. However, conversely if you are a tad curious, then it may be the place to experiment...  |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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I’ve attended a few Houseparties, & although they weren’t specifically Bi I soon sussed who was attracted to me, & who I was attracted to. (One night it was a hot lady. On another a really nice couple).
As others say don’t feel pressured at a party. You’ll know yourself if things are heading in that direction. If you don’t fancy someone you’ll probably move onto chatting with folk whose company you will enjoy.
The plus side of attending someone else’s party is that you can leave when you want to.
Good luck all. |
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"You'd like to think that in the swingers world nothing is frowned upon, if you attend a bi party then as a real swinger you would expect to see bi fun being had. If it's not your thing then you attend something that suits your sexuality and what you're comfortable with "
Absolutely bang on! |
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Been to a few bi partys and many str8 partys,they are generally very relaxed and fun. Again you play with who you want. Its the same as other partys,the big differance is that both the men and women or openminded enough to enjoy both sexs. mmmm |
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