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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know!!! Its ridiculous!
There was a guy last time I was at a club who didnt have any, and asked a guy to share the one he was using!!! He was told quite clearly he would NOT be going anywhere near me!
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how hard is it to bring some? we are a soft swing couple that hasn't ruled out maybe one day doing full swing, so we take condoms with us to clubs and normal meets just on the very small chance we decided to try full swing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know!!! Its ridiculous!
There was a guy last time I was at a club who didnt have any, and asked a guy to share the one he was using!!! He was told quite clearly he would NOT be going anywhere near me!
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Sharing the condom that was being used??? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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They are easy to forget though. I carry a little cigarette case that fits two or three and some lube (if needed) and on a trip to my local club got it out and there was only one left!! Luckily the guy I was with had one, but I made sure to stock up before I went again.
Its the 21st century ladies. We can carry them ourselves just in case the men 'forget'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always carry my own as I have preferred types and I gave up on relying on men to bring them. Funny how they always remember to shave, shower buy wine and dress nicely but more often than not forget to get condoms. Silly creatures lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep my condoms in my bra. And yes I stock up on free condoms when I visit clubs. Chameleons also has a regular sexual health clinic too so no excuses to get checked |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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its my biggest bugbear in a club that guys go to try and play without condoms...
when women go to play and answer and they give that blank look... or try to chance there arm!!
no excuses at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thought it was standard practice for cpls and single males to ensure they have their own condoms if they are expecting to play. Or am i missing something. |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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have some in every bag i own lol just in case i forget to swap them over. hell even got some at college freshers day yesterday then had to explain to the rest of the class what a dental dam was . this from the generation that keeps harping on how they get all the fun and auld fogeys like me not meant to have sex at all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know!!! Its ridiculous!
There was a guy last time I was at a club who didnt have any, and asked a guy to share the one he was using!!! He was told quite clearly he would NOT be going anywhere near me!
x"
Disgusting! Haven't they heard of rinsing them out? lol
It's the same when we have seen the blokes dogging, they all come out for some action and very few even think about bringing any condoms and any seen playing without are definitely not coming anywhere near us!
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"I know!!! Its ridiculous!
There was a guy last time I was at a club who didnt have any, and asked a guy to share the one he was using!!! He was told quite clearly he would NOT be going anywhere near me!
x"
Sorry, but having read this I now HAVE to know.
Were they going to put both their cocks in the same condom at the same time, or was one going to use it, then give it to the other guy?
Who was going first, presumably the condom owner, who would then hand it over to his 'tag-team' buddy?
What is, indeed is there, etiquette in terms of condom sharing? Is it for example frowned upon to ejaculate into the condom and hand it over without having a) emptied or b) rinsed it?
Or would each guy expect to have a couple of goes with the condom, on the strict understanding that to ejaculate into a 'tag-team' condom would be regarded as ungentlemanly conduct?
Are both users using the same condom on the same girl? If not are the two girls in at least close proximity to each other? Have these girls been consulted about a condom which has been in shagee #1's fanny is being put into shagee #2? (to be fair, depending on the rinsing policy mentioned above, it may be part of the deal that the condom is rinsed inside AND out before handover)
Presumably in the, somewhat esoteric, world of condom sharing there will be those who in fact get off on a policy of non-rinsing/emptying and actually find the prospect of sheathing themselves with a prophylactic full of ejaculate something which will add further stimulus to the occasion.
On this basis I would imagine that sheather #1 would not necessarily (as previously thought) be the owner of the condom. If he was the guy who gets off on having someone else's semen swishing about in his condom as he's shagging (either shagee #1 or shagee #2 - do keep up) then he may want, nay even insist on being sheather #2.
I can only imagine that in this scenario it would probably be best not to have two guys who like to wear the 'full' condom as this may lead to a bit of an argument as to who was going to be spunker No1.
It would seem reasonable under these circumstances that the owner of the condom should take precedence in stating his preference for the order of use and that the borrower of the condom would be expected to be acquiescent to the condom owners preferred running order.
Given the above, I would regard is as essential that all parties (including shagee #1 and shagee #2) agreed what the running order was going to be and who exactly was going to be responsible for rinsing/spunking etc otherwise a fracas could quickly ensure were there to be any misunderstanding or god forbid early and unintentional ejaculation by either party.
Given that the above outlines only a very few of the possible combinations between shaggers, shagees, running order and spunk v non-spunk situations, one cannot help thinking that, on balance, the person looking to borrow the condom wouldn’t be far better of by getting his hand in his pocket and forking out for a packet of three rather than being the kind of cunt who is so tight he’d seriously consider sharing a condom in a club to save himself a couple of quid.
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over a year ago
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"y do singles turn up at clubs without condoms and think they can play "
couples do it as well
some men, woman and couples are all prepaired to play bare back you cant just single out one group
I was plaing with one guy in a club and when i turned over so he could carry on doggy he took the condom off and tried to carry on, luckly a guy i know saw him and tapped me on the shoulder and warned me, the guy i was playing with was part of a couple so its not just single men
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By (user no longer on site)
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"y do singles turn up at clubs without condoms and think they can play
couples do it as well
some men, woman and couples are all prepaired to play bare back you cant just single out one group
I was plaing with one guy in a club and when i turned over so he could carry on doggy he took the condom off and tried to carry on, luckly a guy i know saw him and tapped me on the shoulder and warned me, the guy i was playing with was part of a couple so its not just single men
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Yep, we've had a similar experience. When challenged he said, 'ooh sorry, forgot'. Yeah, right. You've got to have eyes in the back of your head in this game  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" You've got to have eyes in the back of your head in this game
That would be a bit freaky.
I'm not saying I wouldn't.
just that it would be a bit freaky."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my pet hate,,ggrrr
when i meet a guy alone and hes "forgot" them or thot id have some? comon,,,i mean if im inviting you to my house sure fire im looking to have sex 
no condom,,no play
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By *anny.Man
over a year ago
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In a condom share situation it is always wise to work out the order of use to the size of the penis.
So the smallest would go first and then work up in order to the largest. because once the condom has been stretched to is very difficult for it to regain its elasticity.
Now if you were to work the other way from large to small then you run the risk of the condom slipping off the penis altogether and into the woman's vagina. this can be a total nightmare because then someone has to go in and retrieve the precious condom. Then you would have to go and wash it and restart the order from the very beginning and this can sometimes upset the mood.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as a modern sexual being... i am soooo very surprised at the sheer number of ppl who actually wear them... well done u lot.. although one thinks there might be some noses growing... and if not well ... im so proud of u all..  |
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"In a condom share situation it is always wise to work out the order of use to the size of the penis.
So the smallest would go first and then work up in order to the largest. because once the condom has been stretched to is very difficult for it to regain its elasticity.
Now if you were to work the other way from large to small then you run the risk of the condom slipping off the penis altogether and into the woman's vagina. this can be a total nightmare because then someone has to go in and retrieve the precious condom. Then you would have to go and wash it and restart the order from the very beginning and this can sometimes upset the mood.
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At last, the voice of reason! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know!!! Its ridiculous!
There was a guy last time I was at a club who didnt have any, and asked a guy to share the one he was using!!! He was told quite clearly he would NOT be going anywhere near me!
x"
he asked another man if he could borrow the one he was using yuk. condom's are cheep women are not some men just dont have a fooking clue. |
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"In a condom share situation it is always wise to work out the order of use to the size of the penis.
So the smallest would go first and then work up in order to the largest. because once the condom has been stretched to is very difficult for it to regain its elasticity.
Now if you were to work the other way from large to small then you run the risk of the condom slipping off the penis altogether and into the woman's vagina. this can be a total nightmare because then someone has to go in and retrieve the precious condom. Then you would have to go and wash it and restart the order from the very beginning and this can sometimes upset the mood.
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and dangerous if you dont happen to have a plank, length or rope and a miners helmet with you...in order to fish out said used condom! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had the same thing happen to me naughtynymphos while meeting a guy. He whipped off the condom when I was on all fours and couldn't see. But I had my suspicions and turned round and he said it must have fallen off!! I got dressed and marched out of his flat. I was furious. Got home and blocked him, but sadly you can't warn other woman about this guys antics. |
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