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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Women in couples / singles that profile says bi/ bi curious are happy to receive oral from the fem but refuse to give it !!! What’s that all about ?? Seems selfish to me and not bi at all ! |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Women in couples / singles that profile says bi/ bi curious are happy to receive oral from the fem but refuse to give it !!! What’s that all about ?? Seems selfish to me and not bi at all ! "
They're doing it because their fella has a fantasy about them being with a woman, and they don't regard female/female interactions as being real/serious? |
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"Women in couples / singles that profile says bi/ bi curious are happy to receive oral from the fem but refuse to give it !!! What’s that all about ?? Seems selfish to me and not bi at all ! "
It is selfish but then plenty of men out there happy to get a blow job but not so great when it comes to licking pussy
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"Women in couples / singles that profile says bi/ bi curious are happy to receive oral from the fem but refuse to give it !!! What’s that all about ?? Seems selfish to me and not bi at all ! "
very selfish!
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
North Oxfordshire |
"Perhaps just curious and taking things at a pace that suits them so they are not feeling overwhelmed or compelled to have to give just because they received.
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I never feel compelled to give a sex act in return just because I received. But I'd look weird if I wrote 'I won't touch people' on my profile just in case I didn't fancy touching the person I had met. |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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I know many people that have said that when they were new to the scene and were still finding their feet, that they felt obliged to play if they agreed to meets or received certain activities regardless of their partners / meets lack of expectations to have anything in return.
Its easy to say when your experienced what you are prepared to do and what your not prepared to do without feeling obliged or guilty. but we all start somewhere and sometimes people have to build their confidence up over time and by gaining real life experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s something I have thought about but I know I’m not bi at all so the thought of giving oral does absolutely nothing for me and I know I wouldn’t want to do it. However I have bi friends who have joked about giving me oral and eating me alive so if they want to and the situation arises then I’d try it
Does that really make me selfish? |
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I would think so too but from reading some of these responses that's apparently not the case lol next time just clarify it with the couple or female and that should save any future misunderstanding on that topic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women in couples / singles that profile says bi/ bi curious are happy to receive oral from the fem but refuse to give it !!! What’s that all about ?? Seems selfish to me and not bi at all ! "
They are allowed to be selfish. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Otherwise known as 'bi-selfish' or a 'pillow princess'.
At least they had it on their profile so people are warned before they meet."
A lot of couples don’t state it on their profiles so you waste time chatting to someone who you’re not really interested in . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's selfish really, I would be happy to lick a females pussy but not have mine licked in return as long as I,m going to some cock, it's called setting boundaries. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women in couples / singles that profile says bi/ bi curious are happy to receive oral from the fem but refuse to give it !!! What’s that all about ?? Seems selfish to me and not bi at all ! "
pillow princesses |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Women in couples / singles that profile says bi/ bi curious are happy to receive oral from the fem but refuse to give it !!! What’s that all about ?? Seems selfish to me and not bi at all ! "
Yeah, Gets our goat too, I'm the one on the forum but H is messenger admin, doesn't take her long to figure them out. Bi-Selfish is the correct term I believe.
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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago
Stevenage |
I'm very Bi and love the company of a lady but have found that a lot of women are happy to receive but reluctant to return the favour. And tend to move to full swap after I've done my bit. But fortunately not all ladies are like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people are honest and upfront and explain to people before they meet how they are happy to play, then it shouldn't be a problem.
Lots of people have lots of different ways how they play, it's not selfish, it's just personal choice. |
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"I’d say I’m bi playful I’d much prefer to give than receive I love seeing and hear a woman loosing control xxx  "
I'm the same - not really bi, more bi playful. I don't want oral from a woman but happy to give it (on the rare occasions that situation comes up).
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"If people are honest and upfront and explain to people before they meet how they are happy to play, then it shouldn't be a problem.
Lots of people have lots of different ways how they play, it's not selfish, it's just personal choice."
How would you tell someone that you would reciprocate provided their pussy didn't smell? Can you see how that might lead to some awkward moments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I suppose I’m biselfish. But I’m not really fussed about receiving oral either. If someone, male or female, wants to go down on me for their pleasure thats cool, but they soon get bored of my lukewarm reaction. But I cannot bring myself to lick a pussy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well my fella will suck wamt I tell him to or I won't lick owt ...works both ways I get off he gets off ... selfish isn't excepted we are in together or not at all ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just read the thread. A lot of people stating it should be on the profile. That hadn’t occurred to me. Partly because we don’t itemise on our profile all the sexual acts we do and don’t do. Secondly we have never met a couple privately, it’s only ever been group play at parties that’s basically just happened. But also I didn’t realise that it might be expected from someone who is bicurious. I mean some guys don’t like given ladies oral either.
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