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By *jr123 OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi everyone
I hope someone can answer this for me.
I have been a single male then a couple then a single again.
The friends that I made as a couple are fine me now being single but if I try making new friends it's like I have some incurable disease.
I still have the same respect, manners and morals.
What can a decent single male do to get rid of the stigma of being labelled "A SINGLE MALE".
I hope one of you lovely people out there can help
Cheers
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By *jr123 OP Man
over a year ago
oldham |
"Get a new lady  "
It's not that eady Sammie
Maybe I just want to be treated the same as the ladies.
I have a list of things I want and don't want. Just like females do. That's why I'm single.
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By *jr123 OP Man
over a year ago
oldham |
I agree Sammy.
Not all of the 100000000 are arseholes.
Some should just pay the money at a brothel and get it out of their system.
But
Some are decent who have the same needs and wants as single females.
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It must be really disheartening.
But run a local search for women every day, then pretend the results page is actually your inbox. Women’s inboxes look like that most days. In some ways it’s lovely that people are interested but you couldn’t begin a conversation with everyone because there aren’t enough hours in the day.
You’d have to be selective and that’s what the women are doing. Your message has to stand out in a list that’s being rapidly deleted just to keep up.
Sorry to hear it’s proving hard. |
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"It must be really disheartening.
But run a local search for women every day, then pretend the results page is actually your inbox. Women’s inboxes look like that most days. In some ways it’s lovely that people are interested but you couldn’t begin a conversation with everyone because there aren’t enough hours in the day.
You’d have to be selective and that’s what the women are doing. Your message has to stand out in a list that’s being rapidly deleted just to keep up.
Sorry to hear it’s proving hard. "
This as well  |
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By *jr123 OP Man
over a year ago
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"It must be really disheartening.
But run a local search for women every day, then pretend the results page is actually your inbox. Women’s inboxes look like that most days. In some ways it’s lovely that people are interested but you couldn’t begin a conversation with everyone because there aren’t enough hours in the day.
You’d have to be selective and that’s what the women are doing. Your message has to stand out in a list that’s being rapidly deleted just to keep up.
Sorry to hear it’s proving hard. "
Thanks for you reply Mrs Trellis.
I completely understand what you are saying. When I was part of a couple I couldn't believe the amount of messages and invites we got. (Most from desperate single blokes).
Luckily I'm not struggling to meet ladies and couples as I have managed to prove that I'm a decent bloke through going to my local club and my brief encounter as half of a couple.
What I would like to know is what can I do to help me and other decent me attend another club as a newbie without being looked down upon. Even if it's only social. (I regularly attend my club just for a drink and chat)
I hope that makes sense
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I would say maybe 10% of single guys are successful enough on here to make it a worthwhile use of their time. For the other 90% of single guys it's not worth being on here tbh and best to try somewhere else. |
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"I agree Sammy.
Not all of the 100000000 are arseholes.
Some should just pay the money at a brothel and get it out of their system.
But
Some are decent who have the same needs and wants as single females.
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Where did anyone say anything about them being arseholes  |
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