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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was a good friend then yes I would. Of course that would mean telling them i was on here too. Thats my yardstick. If they are a good enough friend to be told i am on here then i would want to give them the truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally wouldn't mention it. The dynamics are complex, who knows what goes on behind closed doors... she may well already know.
And it's their marriage, their business. No good ever come of trying to do the right thing, it's doubtful you'd get thanked and you'd find yourself stuck in their drama.
Tell yourself, not my circus, not my monkeys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Steer clear, you don’t know their situation, you may think you do but people don’t always tell others everything. "
Agree with this... maybe the friend knows and would rather others didn’t. Maybe it’s an arrangement they have, maybe it’s a kink of theirs. |
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I would be upfront and say... do they know you are on here...and also state... seeing as it is a good friend of mine... if you don't tell them.... then I will!!.... I will not tolerate people cheating in those I hold dear...  |
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I ask myself what would I want if I was that person. If I didn’t know, I’d want to know. If I did know I’d respect my friend for trying to help. Often the messenger gets shot but I’d rather know so would tell them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you spotted the partner of a good friend of yours on here would you tell your friend or is there a kind of unwritten rule about it? "
Why would you? Nothing to do with you or anyone else fir that matter. |
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"I personally wouldn't mention it. The dynamics are complex, who knows what goes on behind closed doors... she may well already know.
And it's their marriage, their business. No good ever come of trying to do the right thing, it's doubtful you'd get thanked and you'd find yourself stuck in their drama.
Tell yourself, not my circus, not my monkeys."
Yes, don't tell.  |
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If a good friend of mine knew my partner was cheating and didn't tell me I'd be pretty pissed off at them. I'd want to know and would tell a good friend of their partner was on here and meeting people. |
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"If a good friend of mine knew my partner was cheating and didn't tell me I'd be pretty pissed off at them. I'd want to know and would tell a good friend of their partner was on here and meeting people."
In this situation the good friend doesn't know the partner is cheating. They only know they're on fab.
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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Block the person and stay out of it.
I've seen and been contacted by a few men I know in the outside world or from the past. While I don't personally know their wives/girlfriends I do know they exist. I avoid. Drama is something no one needs |
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