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My first request last night was about to just do it and he was like hang on put one of these on
Not the same but not as bad as I thought though missed the taste of precum!
So should I be using something on me for oral and does latex free exist? Ladies does anyone bother |
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I wouldn’t want a blow job with a condom on , and my wife wouldn’t give one with a condom on either . I certainly think the op should have got some cling film for the fella that insisted on putting one in when he went down in her  |
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over a year ago
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I prefer to use a condom for oral. I use latex free, there's no taste.
Dental dams do exist, unfortunately the latex free ones are expensive and hard to come by. |
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"I always use one you certainly don’t know where that cock has been and you certainly don’t trust him to tell you he’s had 100% protected sex  "
Same as me you never know.  |
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over a year ago
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As the recipient I really don't think it's that much different. Might be a bit odd for the lady but it is safer.
As much as we might think we're invincible, a women is as likely a carrier as a man so no reason to be complacent. |
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"He may well be thinking about your health and not just his own gratification!
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Yep, that was my first thought. I’m all my years I’ve never once had a man suggest that...that would have rung alarm bells for me... |
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"I wouldn’t want a blow job with a condom on , and my wife wouldn’t give one with a condom on either . I certainly think the op should have got some cling film for the fella that insisted on putting one in when he went down in her "
ha we didn’t get to that, I was too keen to ‘get it in’ as they say on Jersey Shore |
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"And to answer your question, no idea if dental dams still exist. Like a sheet of condom you place over your foof."
They do, I gave a guy a bj the other week at a club, he then went to give me oral and used a dam!! Complete waste of time as he was licking the inside of my thigh pretty much and double standards in my eyes. If it happens again I won't bother |
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"I prefer to use a condom for oral. I use latex free, there's no taste.
Dental dams do exist, unfortunately the latex free ones are expensive and hard to come by. "
Ah I need latex free - very allergic!! It’s ok I’m a take it or leave it girl when it comes to receiving so.. |
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"He may well be thinking about your health and not just his own gratification!
Yep, that was my first thought. I’m all my years I’ve never once had a man suggest that...that would have rung alarm bells for me..."
he’s only 20 maybe that’s what they are being taught these days? X |
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"And to answer your question, no idea if dental dams still exist. Like a sheet of condom you place over your foof.
They do, I gave a guy a bj the other week at a club, he then went to give me oral and used a dam!! Complete waste of time as he was licking the inside of my thigh pretty much and double standards in my eyes. If it happens again I won't bother "
I have some dental dams in my club bag but I’ve never used them. When faced with a pretty sweet smelling pussy I want to just want to get in there. If I’m faced with a not pretty sweet smelling pussy....well I just don’t even go there! |
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"He may well be thinking about your health and not just his own gratification!
Yep, that was my first thought. I’m all my years I’ve never once had a man suggest that...that would have rung alarm bells for me... he’s only 20 maybe that’s what they are being taught these days? X "
Oh... maybe?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This us absolutely stupid. Over 30 years and thousands of blowjobs neither me nor my wife ever got an sti. Next thing get an IV drip with antibiotics on both giver and receiver to be super safe...
Scientifically the odds to get HIV from oral is below 0,5% |
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Whatever anyone says, STIs from oral are a possibility. When I went to be tested a few weeks back, the nurse told me that they have been seeing a lot of people with gonorrhea in the throat. And some strains have become resistant to antibiotics... so it is a potential risk.
But we are all adults, and we can decide what is an acceptable risk for us. I have given blowjobs and not used condoms in the past, but I won't ever let them come in my mouth. That's the risk I'm comfortable with. |
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"Bit like eating an ice lolly without taking the wrapper off"
I've only ever used flavoured that way, even then the woman/women didn't like it.
I'd be happy to let a woman enjoy my my cock bare this way, because I'm going to enjoy oral with her and I'm not cling filming it.  |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"Bit like eating an ice lolly without taking the wrapper off
I've only ever used flavoured that way, even then the woman/women didn't like it.
I'd be happy to let a woman enjoy my my cock bare this way, because I'm going to enjoy oral with her and I'm not cling filming it. "
I knew cling film had more uses than for just wrapping my sarnies |
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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago
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"I prefer to use a condom for oral. I use latex free, there's no taste.
Dental dams do exist, unfortunately the latex free ones are expensive and hard to come by. "
Am i the only one who laughed? I assume pun not intended, but does make a point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unless he knowingly had something. I’ve never had a condom when giving oral "
If he knowingly had something I wouldn’t be sucking it with or without a condom.  |
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"I prefer to use a condom for oral. I use latex free, there's no taste.
Dental dams do exist, unfortunately the latex free ones are expensive and hard to come by. "
Cracking pun! |
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H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.Blank
Welcome to the STD forum. Responding first to the title you chose for your question: STDs are not transmitted by kissing. Some STDs, but not others, are possible through oral sex. Still, oral sex -- even if unprotected -- is a lot less likely to result in STDs than vaginal or anal sex.
Now I have read the question itself. First, don't feel unusual or embarrassed by not using condoms or other barriers for oral sex. Very few people do that. And although the STD risk aren't zero, they are low enought that for the most part it doesn't much matter. Oral sex, even unprotected, generally is in the safe sex category. Having said that, people who are nervous about it and want 100% protection should consider condoms for fellatio (oral-penile contact) and dental dams or a sheet of food wrap for cunnilingus (oral-vaginal).
To your specific questions:
1) Kissing carries no STD risk. Nobody can say it is zero, and rare cases of syphilis have been transmitted by kissing. And oral herpes can and usually is transmitted by kissing, but that's not considered an STD.
2) Unprotected fellatio can result basically in 3 STDs in men: Herpes due to HSV-1, if the oral partner has an active case of oral herpes; gonorrhea, which is uncommon but certainly happens; nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), which sometimes may be due not to an STD per se but to entirely normal oral bacteria. Of these, NGU is probably the most common; herpes and gonorrhea are rare. Chlamydia, HSV-2, and HPV are rarely if ever transmitted by oral sex. And syphilis is so rare anyway that it's not a serious consideration. There probably have been zero syphilis cases transmitted by kissing in the past few years (in the US).
3) Vaginal to oral STD transmission is really rare. There are theoretical risks for gonorrhea, herpes (HSV-2), oral HPV infection, and perhaps others -- but in my busy STD clinic (15,000 patient visits per year) we rarely if ever see such a case. |
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H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.Blank
Welcome to the STD forum. Responding first to the title you chose for your question: STDs are not transmitted by kissing. Some STDs, but not others, are possible through oral sex. Still, oral sex -- even if unprotected -- is a lot less likely to result in STDs than vaginal or anal sex.
Now I have read the question itself. First, don't feel unusual or embarrassed by not using condoms or other barriers for oral sex. Very few people do that. And although the STD risk aren't zero, they are low enought that for the most part it doesn't much matter. Oral sex, even unprotected, generally is in the safe sex category. Having said that, people who are nervous about it and want 100% protection should consider condoms for fellatio (oral-penile contact) and dental dams or a sheet of food wrap for cunnilingus (oral-vaginal).
To your specific questions:
1) Kissing carries no STD risk. Nobody can say it is zero, and rare cases of syphilis have been transmitted by kissing. And oral herpes can and usually is transmitted by kissing, but that's not considered an STD.
2) Unprotected fellatio can result basically in 3 STDs in men: Herpes due to HSV-1, if the oral partner has an active case of oral herpes; gonorrhea, which is uncommon but certainly happens; nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), which sometimes may be due not to an STD per se but to entirely normal oral bacteria. Of these, NGU is probably the most common; herpes and gonorrhea are rare. Chlamydia, HSV-2, and HPV are rarely if ever transmitted by oral sex. And syphilis is so rare anyway that it's not a serious consideration. There probably have been zero syphilis cases transmitted by kissing in the past few years (in the US).
3) Vaginal to oral STD transmission is really rare. There are theoretical risks for gonorrhea, herpes (HSV-2), oral HPV infection, and perhaps others -- but in my busy STD clinic (15,000 patient visits per year) we rarely if ever see such a case. "
Thank you for this informative post  |
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