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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

what do you prefer to be? i like to do both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dom, always.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sub, love a dom male, instructing me what to do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what do you prefer to be? i like to do both.

Dive dive dive dive (klaxon red lights).

I have just re-enacted a scene from Voyage to the Bottom of the Sea. Thats my preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i love to be sub !! just need to find a master or mistress

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Sub hub and compliant wife

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By *edditchcpl69Couple over a year ago

REDDITCH

sub if with a new guy, but def 100% dom with hubbi

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By *lutandhubbyCouple over a year ago

west midlands

i,m very submissive (slut)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to be a little submissive to my man in bed, but there are limits. I like him to put me into various positions. I couldn't call him Master though. I couldn't ever be submissive to a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there an inbetween area? Being Dom makes me laugh (sorry I can't keep a straight face, medical condition), but I always assumed that sub-men were a bit of a turn off (no reference to the Navy, cracking chaps), so I have never really explored that side.

I guess in my wildest dreams (yes I do have wild dreams), I am a sub.....

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By *LBishCouple over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Im sub all the way. Not into Sub men though. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am not really that submissive..

funny for a slave but I am not..

I do howver chose to submit totally to my Master.. but others get a shock as I am not submissive in nature..

I could never dominate a man though.. a sub man does nothing for me..

I like dominant men but they cant be dominant with me.. make what you will of that lol

cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sub fems. Spank !

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By *illow_femaleWoman over a year ago

Thetford

I too am both.....

Sub till I get going then I have been known to be quite Dom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Domme...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Angel is Domme, devil sub

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Champagne makes me a very naughty Dom lol. I already have a generally high sex drive, but when im tipsy on this stuff i am so demanding, I lose any inhabitions, and not afraid to boss my man about and make him my fuck slut!

Te he, I think my man quite likes it!

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By *eviantDelightsMan over a year ago

London/Cambridgeshire

Best of both for me, but maybe I'm just greedy

It all depends on who I'm with at the time and whether they are more sub/dom.

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By *ub_mids_cdTV/TS over a year ago

Local

Sub

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both for me

Dom only for my gorgeous man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what do you prefer to be? i like to do both."

We like to do both, particularly in a role play of some sort

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By *hiluk1ukMan over a year ago

Prescot

Definitely both for me, depending on who I am with and how strong their personality is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am definitely Dom but not in a master slave way, just enjoy taking charge, being firm, some sort of sexual control outside of the bedroom is good as well but there is a dark side as well which comes out on occasion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi all

I'm submissive, and I just adore a bit of aggression in the bedroom but have occassionally been known to smack back

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Neither...

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By *ensualfire88Man over a year ago

Edinburgh

Liar!

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By *acktilMan over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Dom

with a penchant for Shibari and sensory deprivation rather than inflicting pain.

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By *XXNikkiTV/TS over a year ago

Lancs, Cheshire

"what do you prefer to be? i like to do both.

Dom, but sub with filthy bi cpls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm usually pretty sub with a new partner... but as confidence increases so does the dom side...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

No preference here, i am sub,to the bone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sub.... but i dont always do as im told

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like a bit of both it all depends who i am with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dom all the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Domme: sub men sexually only. Outside the bedroom equal footing.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Submissive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sub

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mostly sub but can occasionally switch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

neither and Doms just make me giggle...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"neither and Doms just make me giggle..."

Neither for me as i dont get it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm going to be either it's usually Dom for me, though it's been a while since I spent time with a woman who wanted to be Domme for me. I'd like to try being sub again, just for a change.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple over a year ago

North Cornwall

Both but mainly dom

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Usually neither but my inclination is towards domme. Would never play sub

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By *XXNikkiTV/TS over a year ago

Lancs, Cheshire

"Usually neither but my inclination is towards domme. Would never play sub"

Would love to be dommed by a sexy women,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"neither and Doms just make me giggle...

Neither for me as i dont get it

It's all the flouncing...i just couldn't keep it up...

I belong to another forum and the lifestylers just make me laugh...all those "rules"...I've never been very good at doing what I'm told, the Monkey can't hurt me and I just find all that stuff a bit boring to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a switch.....Tod can't do sub, he just starts giggling. He can do Dom rather well though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"neither and Doms just make me giggle..."

I have to confess that most dominant men have that effect on me... and I am a slave.. lol Actually I have been known to have the giggles with Master too... but thats normally over something that we both find amusing.

Some men can just say something that is meant to sound dominant and just to me sounds funny...

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

def sub

Any master/mistress need one lol?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im def sub,it turns me on.But i can top from the bottom.

I havent had the chance to domme yet.i have been told id be good at it though.Im not attracted to sub men though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago