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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's been pointed out a few times in the forum that people look at verifications to determine our choices wether to meet someone or not. But do we go further than that?
My question is, would you stop yourself from meeting someone you fancy based on who they are friends with, who they flirt with or even talk to on here?
Do you think you've posibly been rejected because of something similar?
]It's just a thought from something someone said yesterday. ] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been pointed out a few times in the forum that people look at verifications to determine our choices wether to meet someone or not. But do we go further than that?
My question is, would you stop yourself from meeting someone you fancy based on who they are friends with, who they flirt with or even talk to on here?
Do you think you've posibly been rejected because of something similar?
]It's just a thought from something someone said yesterday. ]"
Good lord no! I think that's a forum related issue or maybe with those that attend clubs, but my interactions with someone are on a personal level. How would I know or why should I care who else they talk/ flirt with/ meet? Its part of the reason I don't see the forum as somewhere to find meets. There are too many sticky beaks and people concerned with what others do. |
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"It's been pointed out a few times in the forum that people look at verifications to determine our choices wether to meet someone or not. But do we go further than that?
My question is, would you stop yourself from meeting someone you fancy based on who they are friends with, who they flirt with or even talk to on here?
Do you think you've posibly been rejected because of something similar?
]It's just a thought from something someone said yesterday. ]"
Who their previous meets have been with is a big yes from us.
We have said “no thank you” on many ocassions after reading people’s Veri’s. |
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"It wouldn’t stop me meeting them based on who they are friends with or talk to but it would it they had met certain people sexually. "
This is what made me think how far that step would go.
We know how easy we can assume, if someone talks to someone, have they had sex?
Above someone said it could be a forum thing, people have mentioned to me how it feels like wierd' when you find out who has met who. and some don't show verifications because of that. So it's all a guessing game.
Are we using people who are friendly to make a better guess? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It wouldn’t stop me meeting them based on who they are friends with or talk to but it would it they had met certain people sexually.
This is what made me think how far that step would go.
We know how easy we can assume, if someone talks to someone, have they had sex?
Above someone said it could be a forum thing, people have mentioned to me how it feels like wierd' when you find out who has met who. and some don't show verifications because of that. So it's all a guessing game.
Are we using people who are friendly to make a better guess? "
For me it would be if I knew they’d met certain people sexually, then I wouldn’t meet them. Anything else would be fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's been pointed out a few times in the forum that people look at verifications to determine our choices wether to meet someone or not. But do we go further than that?
My question is, would you stop yourself from meeting someone you fancy based on who they are friends with, who they flirt with or even talk to on here?
Do you think you've posibly been rejected because of something similar?
]It's just a thought from something someone said yesterday. ]"
Only if a person they had met send a very graphic verrie |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"It's been pointed out a few times in the forum that people look at verifications to determine our choices wether to meet someone or not. But do we go further than that?
My question is, would you stop yourself from meeting someone you fancy based on who they are friends with, who they flirt with or even talk to on here?
Do you think you've posibly been rejected because of something similar?
]It's just a thought from something someone said yesterday. ]"
I wouldn't let who someone is friends with or interact with affect my judgement.
The other way round I simply don't know.
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