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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys,
Just wondering what your take on tis scenario is. When me n my other half were having sex we were talkin dirty about future meets, im all up for meeting other couples, infact cant wait to do so, but when he was talkin bout me doin 69 with another fem n him fuckin her it turned me on at the time, but thts not something i would actually do, ive told him prevously tht he can play but not fuck other fems, as im ot ready for that yet. Grrr Im confused now!! xxxx |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Just wondering what your take on tis scenario is. When me n my other half were having sex we were talkin dirty about future meets, im all up for meeting other couples, infact cant wait to do so, but when he was talkin bout me doin 69 with another fem n him fuckin her it turned me on at the time, but thts not something i would actually do, ive told him prevously tht he can play but not fuck other fems, as im ot ready for that yet. Grrr Im confused now!! xxxx"
I would suggest that you make rules that you stick to BEFORE you start meeting other couples, that way you know boundaries before you start xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we already have our boundaries, i just fund it weird that it turned me on at the time thinking about it but wen it comes down to it with another couple i dont think i could do it :-/ |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"we already have our boundaries, i just fund it weird that it turned me on at the time thinking about it but wen it comes down to it with another couple i dont think i could do it :-/"
Maybe its something you will want to do in time? Dont rule anything out in this scene, but take it at your pace  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest you never till you get there. You really need to make sure that you are BOTH ok with whats going on as this can be a make or break on relationships. xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we know what we want, but ur right, i might feel differently in the moment, however i very much doubt it as im greedy, prefer the woman to myself hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes fantasy is best left as fantasy, a bit of dirty talk for private moments, possibly this is one of those times.
You also may feel different in time, take your time adjusting in each scenario and I'm sure you'll be fine. |
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when the time is right you will know. Maybe you should discuss with your partner some sort of signal for when you feel ready and want to let each other know without just going ahead and perhaps upsetting each other.
Take you time and good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we already have our boundaries, i just fund it weird that it turned me on at the time thinking about it but wen it comes down to it with another couple i dont think i could do it :-/"
we had loads of rules that 18 months ago just were not moveable... now well.. all gone out the window..
Funny as I prefer Master to fuck other girls rather than play with them sensually lol
I get possessive over his cum though
its mine.. but then so is other mens when I play with them.. erm.. yes.. hence I dont share well with other women.
Its all about what works for you.. in my mind.. having 12 guys fill me is a fantastic turn on.. the reality is well.. lol
Just go at your own pace... and talk, talk and talk some more.. and remember that sometimes what seemed right last play time.. may not work with the next one.. but talk about how you felt after..
I write my Master a report on every play time.. including ours together.. it gives a very detailed insite to things..and has led to us developing our play style..
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The great thing about swinging is as your confidence grows the bounderies move many start of soft swing only and progress. Its whatever you feel comfortable with. And its great to explore each others fantasies. |
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