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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tinder! No varies on here =no play
And I have varies...and still no play..  "
Just because your on here doesn't mean everyone has to play with you or me. We are on here to meet people for sex. If that doesn't happen then so be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
Lol neither is tinder apparently
Never used Tinder so can't comment xx"
I did use it
I left fab for my ex who i met on tinder...the reason im on here and not there is i dont want her messaging me if she sees me on there lol |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
Lol neither is tinder apparently
Never used Tinder so can't comment xx
I did use it
I left fab for my ex who i met on tinder...the reason im on here and not there is i dont want her messaging me if she sees me on there lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on Tinder as well, and newbie on this site but honestly both work fine for me. Only one girl into meet with other singles/couples from Tinder, so in my opinion Tinder is more good if you looking for regular play partner, fwb. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally Tinder.
I was meeting people regularly for social / fun on there. Although fab is more sex orientated I think average joes like me get swallowed up (excuse the pun) in the sheer amount of numbers of males on here. It's hard (sorry!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!"
This.
Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
This.
Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed."
Yeah, I'm continually disappointed
I really need to make more effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been on Tinder for over 4 years and have yet to have a meet. In that time I've only ever had 4 matches of which none have continued to conversation.
Very much Like this site, people wink at you but never reply to a message.
Both sites are just as frustrating as each other but at least i have had a few meets and made some friends on Fab.
Pete xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been on Tinder for over 4 years and have yet to have a meet. In that time I've only ever had 4 matches of which none have continued to conversation.
Very much Like this site, people wink at you but never reply to a message.
Both sites are just as frustrating as each other but at least i have had a few meets and made some friends on Fab.
Pete xx"
I agree I can't understand why someone would start a conversation then just ignore or block you. It's really annoying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of interest. Have people had more success getting dates from Fabs or Tinder.. "
We haven't tried Tinder. Didnt think couples were allowed on a Tinder profile |
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Yeah, there is no basis for comparing both websites, tinder has vanilla people, you cannot compare vanilla people to swingers.
To vanilla people everything sexual must go through a relationship of some sort and there is always feelings involved.
With swingers there is no need for any relationship and those feelings are under control for the most part.
This is the core difference between swingers and vanilla people because humans are not safe investments in the presence of emotions and this is why swingers like me don't even look at vanilla girls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pof, Tinder etc makes me uncomfortable and we spend to much time on the net and oh I have had my fingers burnt so if you don't mind I would rather stay a swingleton  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
This.
Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed."
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tinder I do alright for dates (although I haven’t been on it for a long while).
Here I do alright for nsa sex.
Win, win
Got to admit...so many here want more than NSA  "
Which is permissible . Shocking isn't it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, there is no basis for comparing both websites, tinder has vanilla people, you cannot compare vanilla people to swingers.
To vanilla people everything sexual must go through a relationship of some sort and there is always feelings involved."
utter bollocks otherwise there wouldn't be one night stands.
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"Out of interest. Have people had more success getting dates from Fabs or Tinder..
We haven't tried Tinder. Didnt think couples were allowed on a Tinder profile "
Couples are on the increase on tinder. Prefer fab though, met some amazing people through here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of interest. Have people had more success getting dates from Fabs or Tinder..
We haven't tried Tinder. Didnt think couples were allowed on a Tinder profile
Couples are on the increase on tinder. Prefer fab though, met some amazing people through here x"
You mean my husband and I could get a couples profile on Tinder? |
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"Out of interest. Have people had more success getting dates from Fabs or Tinder..
We haven't tried Tinder. Didnt think couples were allowed on a Tinder profile
Couples are on the increase on tinder. Prefer fab though, met some amazing people through here x
You mean my husband and I could get a couples profile on Tinder?"
Being single I'm not sure how you'd set it up, but seen quite a few couples on there. Don't think they've got a couples option yet, might set it up at some point. But if you're looking for females set up male profile and vice versa x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
This.
Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules. "
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs |
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"Out of interest. Have people had more success getting dates from Fabs or Tinder..
We haven't tried Tinder. Didnt think couples were allowed on a Tinder profile
Couples are on the increase on tinder. Prefer fab though, met some amazing people through here x
You mean my husband and I could get a couples profile on Tinder?
Being single I'm not sure how you'd set it up, but seen quite a few couples on there. Don't think they've got a couples option yet, might set it up at some point. But if you're looking for females set up male profile and vice versa x"
And they're open to suggestions. The more people ask for a couples option, the more likely they'll set it up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, there is no basis for comparing both websites, tinder has vanilla people, you cannot compare vanilla people to swingers.
To vanilla people everything sexual must go through a relationship of some sort and there is always feelings involved.
With swingers there is no need for any relationship and those feelings are under control for the most part.
This is the core difference between swingers and vanilla people because humans are not safe investments in the presence of emotions and this is why swingers like me don't even look at vanilla girls."
There are a hell of a lot of people with a vanilla mentality on Fab though, even though they’ve come here for nsa sex. Identifying the non-vanilla isn’t always easy. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
This.
Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs"
Entirely logical for me .... the people I have dated that I have met on fab most certainly meet my needs emotionally and physically.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
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Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs
Entirely logical for me .... the people I have dated that I have met on fab most certainly meet my needs emotionally and physically.
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That’s true, I’m probably a bit simplistic. In the same way my starting point would be that it is illogical for my husband and I to look for threesomes and sex parties on a dating site. But sure, if I were to find out that a dating site meets our needs better than a swinging site, then I would go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
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Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs
Entirely logical for me .... the people I have dated that I have met on fab most certainly meet my needs emotionally and physically.
That’s true, I’m probably a bit simplistic. In the same way my starting point would be that it is illogical for my husband and I to look for threesomes and sex parties on a dating site. But sure, if I were to find out that a dating site meets our needs better than a swinging site, then I would go for it. "
However I think dates can take place within swinging. I guess that’s what others on this site call a ‘meet’. |
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The fact that vanilla girls have one night stands does not bring them anywhere near female swingers, you cannot compare diamonds to copper , the female swingers are diamonds and the vanilla girls are just copper in my opinion.
First of all ,the one night stands with most vanilla girls are always as a result of heavy intake of alcohol, you never find female swingers d*unk out of their faces for the most part before they decide to play. A vanilla girl will always be very heavily knocked from alcohol for the most part, before scrambling for cock at the end of the club.
Then behind every vanilla girls mind is how to start a relationship or family of some sort, this is the engine behind every step she takes for the most part ,if she doesn't already have a relationship of some sort, 100 times out of 100 when a vanilla girl meets you this is always at the back of her mind , nothing with the vanilla girls is for the fun of it .If a relationship is not in the vanilla girls mind then she will be relatively d*unk. If it is niether and she just wants cock for the fun of it , she will run away from vanilla and become a female swinger. All the Female swingers I know came from vanilla and there is a reason why they did not stay in vanilla niether are they looking back, why go for one guy when you can have 10 guys at the same time if you choose.
Cross over to female swingers and you find a different story, no excessive alcohol intake, no required unwanted relationships down the line , no manipulations and clinical calculations, no games . This applies to both single female swingers and the ones in relationships. Female swingers are the definition of real women who are truthful and honest with you and themselves. So for me I maintain there is no basis for comparing swingers to vanilla people. Niether is there any basis for comparing a swingers website to a vanilla website. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Tinder I do alright for dates (although I haven’t been on it for a long while).
Here I do alright for nsa sex.
Win, win
Got to admit...so many here want more than NSA "
Yes I guess so, but if they’re clear about their intentions, why not? If they like the lifestyle, chances are they are more likely to find someone here with a similar outlook. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact that vanilla girls have one night stands does not bring them anywhere near female swingers, you cannot compare diamonds to copper , the female swingers are diamonds and the vanilla girls are just copper in my opinion.
First of all ,the one night stands with most vanilla girls are always as a result of heavy intake of alcohol, you never find female swingers d*unk out of their faces for the most part before they decide to play. A vanilla girl will always be very heavily knocked from alcohol for the most part, before scrambling for cock at the end of the club.
Then behind every vanilla girls mind is how to start a relationship or family of some sort, this is the engine behind every step she takes for the most part ,if she doesn't already have a relationship of some sort, 100 times out of 100 when a vanilla girl meets you this is always at the back of her mind , nothing with the vanilla girls is for the fun of it .If a relationship is not in the vanilla girls mind then she will be relatively d*unk. If it is niether and she just wants cock for the fun of it , she will run away from vanilla and become a female swinger. All the Female swingers I know came from vanilla and there is a reason why they did not stay in vanilla niether are they looking back, why go for one guy when you can have 10 guys at the same time if you choose.
Cross over to female swingers and you find a different story, no excessive alcohol intake, no required unwanted relationships down the line , no manipulations and clinical calculations, no games . This applies to both single female swingers and the ones in relationships. Female swingers are the definition of real women who are truthful and honest with you and themselves. So for me I maintain there is no basis for comparing swingers to vanilla people. Niether is there any basis for comparing a swingers website to a vanilla website."
The comparisons tends to come from single guys wanting an easy shag, and have discovered to their surprise that it is easier to get casual sex from a casual dating site than a swingers site. A single man who is a swinger probably would not make that comparison.
Yes, with regards to your comments about vanilla versus swinging ladies, I realised I was different a very very long time ago, long before I knew what swinging was. Though I used dating sites to satisfy my need for multiple partners. Controlling emotion was something I had to learn if I was to have mutiple partners.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!"
Tinder is NOT a dating site either...well not for a lot of people.
Over the years I've met LOADS of people from Tinder, here, and various other means/site that's we're not allowed to mention - how come we're allowed to mention Tinder anyway?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
Tinder is NOT a dating site either...well not for a lot of people.
Over the years I've met LOADS of people from Tinder, here, and various other means/site that's we're not allowed to mention - how come we're allowed to mention Tinder anyway??"
Perhaps all these sites are becoming the same, and people can just use them as they wish. I’m certainly surprised that as a couple we can use Tinder in a similar way we use Fab. It’s a bit like in the old days there used to be separate high street shops, and now it’s all amalgamated into all-in-one hypermarkets. I guess it’s getting to that point with dating, sex and swinging sites - nothing is specialised to a particular genre any more.
Yes Fab allows us to mention any site that markets itself as a dating site eg Tinder, POF, Match etc, but the mentioning any site that markets itself as a sex, swinging or fetish site is not allowed on Fab. That distinction that Fab makes though is probably becoming irrevevant if there is now no longer significant differences in the uses of the different sites. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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The complexity of human nature right? The sites are worth nothing without us... and we use them in unique ways to achieve our goals.
Who cares what the site thinks they are.... it’s what it is to the individual that’s important.
V x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, there is no basis for comparing both websites, tinder has vanilla people, you cannot compare vanilla people to swingers.
To vanilla people everything sexual must go through a relationship of some sort and there is always feelings involved.
With swingers there is no need for any relationship and those feelings are under control for the most part.
This is the core difference between swingers and vanilla people because humans are not safe investments in the presence of emotions and this is why swingers like me don't even look at vanilla girls.
There are a hell of a lot of people with a vanilla mentality on Fab though, even though they’ve come here for nsa sex. Identifying the non-vanilla isn’t always easy."
Some weirdos have it in their name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
This.
Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs"
That's an opinion rather than fact. Try the dating sites and you'll discover that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact that vanilla girls have one night stands does not bring them anywhere near female swingers, you cannot compare diamonds to copper , the female swingers are diamonds and the vanilla girls are just copper in my opinion.
First of all ,the one night stands with most vanilla girls are always as a result of heavy intake of alcohol, you never find female swingers d*unk out of their faces for the most part before they decide to play. A vanilla girl will always be very heavily knocked from alcohol for the most part, before scrambling for cock at the end of the club.
Then behind every vanilla girls mind is how to start a relationship or family of some sort, this is the engine behind every step she takes for the most part ,if she doesn't already have a relationship of some sort, 100 times out of 100 when a vanilla girl meets you this is always at the back of her mind , nothing with the vanilla girls is for the fun of it .If a relationship is not in the vanilla girls mind then she will be relatively d*unk. If it is niether and she just wants cock for the fun of it , she will run away from vanilla and become a female swinger. All the Female swingers I know came from vanilla and there is a reason why they did not stay in vanilla niether are they looking back, why go for one guy when you can have 10 guys at the same time if you choose.
Cross over to female swingers and you find a different story, no excessive alcohol intake, no required unwanted relationships down the line , no manipulations and clinical calculations, no games . This applies to both single female swingers and the ones in relationships. Female swingers are the definition of real women who are truthful and honest with you and themselves. So for me I maintain there is no basis for comparing swingers to vanilla people. Niether is there any basis for comparing a swingers website to a vanilla website."
Huge generalisations. Besides when i mentioned one night stands is wasn't gender specific. If we have to be gender specific, i can assure you the vanilla man hasn't a relationship thought at the back of his mind. Now I've made a generalisation back at ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
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Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs
That's an opinion rather than fact. Try the dating sites and you'll discover that."
Horridly composed response on my part since you stated arguably illogical, but hopefully you get my drift |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
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Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs
That's an opinion rather than fact. Try the dating sites and you'll discover that.
Horridly composed response on my part since you stated arguably illogical, but hopefully you get my drift "
I have no issues with singles on Fab. We’re not one of these couples who only plays with couples, and we much prefer playing with singles, male or female. I’m just curious as to how these sites will all look if they become all the same with no specialising. Especially now that dating sites are starting to welcome couples. |
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
tamworth |
"This isn't a dating site!!!!!!!
This.
Comparing fab to tinder is redundant. It's not a dating site and should not be treated as such. Fab is a place you go looking for like-minded people into exploring their sexuality...tinder is about casual dating with the prospect of finding something better. If you go into it thinking you'll get away putting minimal effort (like people do on tinder) then you'll only end up being dissapointed.
If people want to use fab as a dating site, go right ahead. It's absolutely fine and not against fab rules.
Not against the rules, but arguably an illogical move, given that there are sites better able to meet the needs of those interested in dating.
Mrs
That's an opinion rather than fact. Try the dating sites and you'll discover that.
Horridly composed response on my part since you stated arguably illogical, but hopefully you get my drift
I have no issues with singles on Fab. We’re not one of these couples who only plays with couples, and we much prefer playing with singles, male or female. I’m just curious as to how these sites will all look if they become all the same with no specialising. Especially now that dating sites are starting to welcome couples. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would a couple fair on Tinder if looking for a female friend with benefits? "
I do know a female friend was contacted by a couple through tinder looking for exactly that. She wasn't into the scene at all but was considering it!
So, i guess it's a possibility |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have never used tinder. However before we discovered fab, we where on an app called feeld which is same dynamic as tinder but is for three somes and more really! Didnt have much luck due to there not being enough people on it from our area. Spoke to a lot of people and felt used by most. I was nieve when we started out and was sending photos/videos out and then they would block and delete me after they had asked for them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tinder is much easier tbh
surprisingly the women on tinder are more up for casual sex than the women on a swingers site who knew "
Exactly how I've found it. It's the way it's set up is easier to match and fuck! |
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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"Personally Tinder.
I was meeting people regularly for social / fun on there. Although fab is more sex orientated I think average joes like me get swallowed up (excuse the pun) in the sheer amount of numbers of males on here. It's hard (sorry!) "
Fad is TOTALLY sex orientanted
That's because Fab is a swinging site. People meet people for sex not relationships.
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By *ustme6 OP Man
over a year ago
tamworth |
"Personally Tinder.
I was meeting people regularly for social / fun on there. Although fab is more sex orientated I think average joes like me get swallowed up (excuse the pun) in the sheer amount of numbers of males on here. It's hard (sorry!)
Tinder same forsome...
Fad is TOTALLY sex orientanted
That's because Fab is a swinging site. People meet people for sex not relationships.
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The vanilla men are not the problem and have never been the problem, the vanilla men are like sheep being led by a sherperd.
The vanilla men think they are in charge but they don't realize they don't know anything.
A vanilla man never meets a vanilla woman with the plan of any relationship or signing a long term contract with her, he just wants sex initially ,it is the vanilla woman that induces the relationship and the signing of the long term contract using her pussy.
It's simple, if you want this pussy constantly and you don't want any other guy to bang this pussy, sign that lifetime contract.
It is the vanilla women you have to watch closely, she is the one with the plan and system to achieve her desired product.
I took one of my vanilla female friends to a swingers party and she confessed to me that she was confused and blind because she was taught to use her pussy to control guys and get them to do what she wants but in this kind of swingers setting all that is gone out the window and she feels very insignificant .
In a normal club with vanilla women and cock blockers she is queen but in a swingers club with real women and real men ,she feels insignificant because the moment she told any guy in the swingers club she didn't want to play he just walked away from her as if she was not there plus she didn't have my undivided attention cause I was playing with my other friends in the swingers club, a vanilla guy will stick around till the end of the club hoping she will take him home ,a genuine male swinger will just move on to the next lady, this is exactly my point.
I told her you have to be real and discover yourself and your strength beyond your pussy. |
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over a year ago
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Never been on tinder as a couple not sure if it’s even an option for us, Fab will do for what we want to see what events and parties are going on, not sure how tinder would work for us. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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can i ask a question.....
since fab and tinder (and pof for that matter) are fundermentally aimed at different people.... if you are looking for the same thing on the different sites then are you not at some point misleading people along the way with your intentions |
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"can i ask a question.....
since fab and tinder (and pof for that matter) are fundermentally aimed at different people.... if you are looking for the same thing on the different sites then are you not at some point misleading people along the way with your intentions"
Horses for courses.
Totally agree with you, which is why I don't use other sites.
However many people keep their real and fab lives seperate, work and home lives etc etc. Would it not just be another aspect of your personality for each site? |
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Totally agree - proper swingers have sexual expertise I’d never encountered before. I got sucked into fucking a non swinger a while back and the first fuck was terrible - I had to teach him to be more exciting.
I never want to go back to vanilla after that experience. The Tinder sorts on here are easy to spot from their messages! |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"can i ask a question.....
since fab and tinder (and pof for that matter) are fundermentally aimed at different people.... if you are looking for the same thing on the different sites then are you not at some point misleading people along the way with your intentions"
I’m not. And I only use Fab. I’ve found love, friendship, laughter and fucking awesome sex along the way. Someone going to tell me I’m not supposed to do that?
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Don't understand people saying they aren't comparable, both are ways of finding people of the other sex that you like the look of yet the one that isn't meant to be about sex is actually more about sex than the one that is a swingers site  tinder wins every day of the week for meeting people for casual NSA fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tinder I do alright for dates (although I haven’t been on it for a long while).
Here I do alright for nsa sex.
Win, win"
You can’t compare fab with tinder surely!? I always thought this was a nice way of life away from the vanilla people out to lead shallow meaningless trivial lives, perpetuating the need for dating sites by constantly thinking they deserve something better! I agree with this comment about tinder for dates, fab for sex!! Or at least finding people that you can have titivating conversation without the threat of arrest!!! |
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"Tinder I do alright for dates (although I haven’t been on it for a long while).
Here I do alright for nsa sex.
Win, win
You can’t compare fab with tinder surely!? I always thought this was a nice way of life away from the vanilla people out to lead shallow meaningless trivial lives, perpetuating the need for dating sites by constantly thinking they deserve something better! I agree with this comment about tinder for dates, fab for sex!! Or at least finding people that you can have titivating conversation without the threat of arrest!!! "
So which site should one use if dates and sex is wanted. Or does it have to be one or the other?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tinder pro: You match with people where there is a mutual attraction. Plus you can send a simple hello in a message, get a hello back and build a conversation without people whining that you haven't written a personalised sonet in your ice breaking message ....
Fab pro: The women are generally naked in their pictures.
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I've definitely had many more 'likes' and 'matches' on Tinder, but as many have pointed out already, Fab and Tinder are different sites offering a different level/style of interaction. On Tinder I can post a face pic which helps, plus I don't have to be so discreet with my profile information. Horses for courses I guess? |
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