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Gangbangs..worth the wait?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so I’ve been contemplating the idea of going to gang bangs as I’ve been invited to a few ‘greedy girls’ nights now on fab but always duck out after careful thorght. I think it’s the idea of waiting in a line of naked men with there hard dicks bumping into me eager for there turn whilst a woman lays down and lets who ever fuck her. Now I’m not homophobic one bit but I certainly am straight,so the idea of being around strange horny blokes would just kill my boner straight away regardless of how fit the woman was. Am I just overthinking this or does it take a certain person to enjoy it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to find it’s not like that, the ones I’ve been too there have been 3/4 people playing with the lady at the same time. Really enjoyed when I’ve had them. Does take some nerve though but just bury it down and crack on pal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"gangbangs require confident men or its hopeless it sounds to me that u may just kill the moment , stay away if ur not upto it pal "
Yer I feel like if I’m having to force myself to enjoy it it’s not worth it just for the sake of sex. I’ve always enjoyed taking my time and having hours of fun. Not rushing so the next guy can have his turn. Think that I should go with my gut on this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've partaken in a few GB's and whether it's in a club or private house, part of the whole thing is the social part; the flirting, the banter the social foreplay before anything moves on.
You shouldn't just stand in a line, there plenty you can do; and if you have chatted with the lady before hand you should know what she wants from the GB |
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I’ve arranged and tried to arrange many over the years. The suggestion you offer see to over invite due to dropouts is correct. I could be talking to say 15-20 guys and actually get 4 guys show. These sorts of numbers wouldn’t be unusual as time gets nearer and the messages begin, dogs died, cars broke, got to work start to flood in as the guys drop out.
Its so time consuming talking to all these guys though so I implore you OP if you aren’t sure don’t say you’re going. If it’s a fantasy leave it there and indulge in porn not wasting people’s time. Or perhaps go to a club to watch from a distance what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The "line" you speak of is usually very short. Most GB I've been to most of the guys are limp; they talk big but when it comes to it they can't perform. If the girl is wanting fucked and you've got a hard dick, chances are she's thinking "thank god someone wants to". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve arranged and tried to arrange many over the years. The suggestion you offer see to over invite due to dropouts is correct. I could be talking to say 15-20 guys and actually get 4 guys show. These sorts of numbers wouldn’t be unusual as time gets nearer and the messages begin, dogs died, cars broke, got to work start to flood in as the guys drop out.
Its so time consuming talking to all these guys though so I implore you OP if you aren’t sure don’t say you’re going. If it’s a fantasy leave it there and indulge in porn not wasting people’s time. Or perhaps go to a club to watch from a distance what happens. "
I do house parties quite often and I can verify theses problems with men dropping out , cancellation messages flooding in last minute , guys if ur ambition exceeds ur abilities then plz don't waste our time , a lot goes into arranging these events , if u ask to come and ur invited then make the effort to attend , or these kind of events may just shrivel out  |
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"The "line" you speak of is usually very short. Most GB I've been to most of the guys are limp; they talk big but when it comes to it they can't perform. If the girl is wanting fucked and you've got a hard dick, chances are she's thinking "thank god someone wants to"."
The lines are only usually short due to dropouts!! I’d love a line of ten guys. Then again they’d be bi so they wouldn’t be bored at all.
The other scenario that happens is among the group is a VWE Guy. Say 9” +. For some reason the other guys then seem to let him do all the work  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk "
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/"
I over invite cos I know most will drop out , you may well end up with a cosy group of 4 anyway |
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/"
Which tells me gangbangs aren’t for you. The guys that fit in well go to play but also happy to watch the visual stimulation too. That’s no criticism to you OP, I think most guys share your views. I suggest you like the idea / fantasy and that’s as far as it goes. |
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/I over invite cos I know most will drop out , you may well end up with a cosy group of 4 anyway "
Maybe we should team up to get a good attendance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been to a few and yes they are. The keys are:
1. Take a gift for the lady
2. Be relaxed and sociable so the atmosphere is good
3. Savour the event
4. Respect all rules
5. Enjoy yourself..
They're not like what you see on porn vids |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/
Which tells me gangbangs aren’t for you. The guys that fit in well go to play but also happy to watch the visual stimulation too. That’s no criticism to you OP, I think most guys share your views. I suggest you like the idea / fantasy and that’s as far as it goes. "
Yer I think your right. I don’t accept invites as I understand how hard it must be for the party planners and don’t want to let them down or give them a bull shit excuse to why I didn’t show. I wanted to see if my ideas of them were true or weather I was worrying for nothing. But I suppose it’s just one of those things were ill never know unless I try it for myself but the appeal of it just doesn’t overcome the reality of the fact that if no body did drop out and the 15 to 20 guys all did turn up from over invitation I’ll probably feel uncomfortable as fuck. Then I’ve waisted MY time which is probably even more anoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/I over invite cos I know most will drop out , you may well end up with a cosy group of 4 anyway
Maybe we should team up to get a good attendance "
ive got a party planned for this coming Saturday night , 7 tgirls , looking for hot confident men , ive been doing parties for 5 years and I'm often asked how many men are coming ? I don't know until they turn up , ive had ones with 4 men and others 25 , u just cant call it , its how it is and we just go with the flow ide say about 25% actually turn up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Start with MMF if your worried about a gangbang scenario. Other things is sometime your dick might touch another dick. Especially if your looking to do double vaginal or double anal if the girl is up for it. Or even 2 cocks in her mouth at once.
I am straight but seeing another bloke fuck the same woman I’m fucking is a massive turn on.
You need to get over the other blokes being naked if you actually want to enjoy it. Otherwise just stick to the vanilla |
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"I've been to a few and yes they are. The keys are:
1. Take a gift for the lady
2. Be relaxed and sociable so the atmosphere is good
3. Savour the event
4. Respect all rules
5. Enjoy yourself..
They're not like what you see on porn vids"
why do you feel the need to take a gift for the lady ?
I actually really wouldn’t like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/I over invite cos I know most will drop out , you may well end up with a cosy group of 4 anyway
Maybe we should team up to get a good attendance "
Well I’d certainly consider the idea if it was a small group and more than one female   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We like..and always deliver as we are a group..tag team of 3..sometimes 4 guys.
Always on the look for hot wives. .greedy girls..our photos and verifications talk
That’s more what I’m looking for. A roughly equal amount of male and female but it seems when ever a woman advertises one it’s for as many guys as poss which to me just seems like it’s all for there pleasure and not much for me :/I over invite cos I know most will drop out , you may well end up with a cosy group of 4 anyway
Maybe we should team up to get a good attendance
Well I’d certainly consider the idea if it was a small group and more than one female "
have you thought about hosting one ? |
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"I live with friends so that would be very arkward to. And no they wouldn’t join in or appreciate it in the house before you ask lol. "
How do you feel about mmf? I see your verifications are all from ladies so just wondering if you would be comfortable in that scenario ? |
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"I live with friends so that would be very arkward to. And no they wouldn’t join in or appreciate it in the house before you ask lol. "
what about a hotel room ? these are used frequently for such events , if you hosted it then you can control the numbers but be prepared for the over eager men who will let down ,
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Try an mmf before you even consider a gang bang. Get used to other naked males. Work your way up as it where. Also if you get stage fright remember you have other ways to stimulate a lady. Being relaxed is the key and it does sound like you are not about the whole thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I live with friends so that would be very arkward to. And no they wouldn’t join in or appreciate it in the house before you ask lol. what about a hotel room ? these are used frequently for such events , if you hosted it then you can control the numbers but be prepared for the over eager men who will let down , "
I wouldn’t consider setting one up before going to one. I feel the ppl would sense my inexperience and decline. And I doubt 3 women would want to just meet 3/4 guys. They like to be smothered I’m men by all the group profile I read
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"I live with friends so that would be very arkward to. And no they wouldn’t join in or appreciate it in the house before you ask lol.
How do you feel about mmf? I see your verifications are all from ladies so just wondering if you would be comfortable in that scenario ?"
Yes I think that’s probably where I need to start. Or a one on one with another guy watching then joining in after a while once I’ve got comfortable. But I know that’s a big ask as that’s not how these kind of meets usually go. |
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"I live with friends so that would be very arkward to. And no they wouldn’t join in or appreciate it in the house before you ask lol. what about a hotel room ? these are used frequently for such events , if you hosted it then you can control the numbers but be prepared for the over eager men who will let down ,
I wouldn’t consider setting one up before going to one. I feel the ppl would sense my inexperience and decline. And I doubt 3 women would want to just meet 3/4 guys. They like to be smothered I’m men by all the group profile I read
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That would be an orgy not a gangbang. Greedy girls don’t usually want to be sharing with lots of others!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been to a few and yes they are. The keys are:
1. Take a gift for the lady
2. Be relaxed and sociable so the atmosphere is good
3. Savour the event
4. Respect all rules
5. Enjoy yourself..
They're not like what you see on porn vids
why do you feel the need to take a gift for the lady ?
I actually really wouldn’t like that."
Bottle of wine..i always ask beforehand...what wine do you like? If they say..its ok..no problem.. it's courtesy I think and a signal your going |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I live with friends so that would be very arkward to. And no they wouldn’t join in or appreciate it in the house before you ask lol. what about a hotel room ? these are used frequently for such events , if you hosted it then you can control the numbers but be prepared for the over eager men who will let down ,
I wouldn’t consider setting one up before going to one. I feel the ppl would sense my inexperience and decline. And I doubt 3 women would want to just meet 3/4 guys. They like to be smothered I’m men by all the group profile I read
That would be an orgy not a gangbang. Greedy girls don’t usually want to be sharing with lots of others!!"
Orgy sounds more what I’m looking for then  |
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"I live with friends so that would be very arkward to. And no they wouldn’t join in or appreciate it in the house before you ask lol.
How do you feel about mmf? I see your verifications are all from ladies so just wondering if you would be comfortable in that scenario ?
Yes I think that’s probably where I need to start. Or a one on one with another guy watching then joining in after a while once I’ve got comfortable. But I know that’s a big ask as that’s not how these kind of meets usually go. "
I think you could do worse than go to a club and just watch. Plenty of guys do this. There’s no pressure to play and you could view different scenarios from a comfortable distance. Then I think you’d understand how you feel with other naked guys around. The scene is full of people with different levels of experience, you’re not unusual and not everyone is experienced and hard core so don’t be intimidated. |
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