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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know woman don’t like seeing a guy on here who has a single profile and is in a relationship and on without the knowledge of there wife or girlfriend.
Not that I am judging you dudes for doing it. Dosent bother me if you do or not
But I love seeing a single woman’s profile on here and saying that she is married and her husband Dosent know
Such a turn on. Just makes her more naughty. The fact she promised herself to another man makes her like the forbidden fruit.
Anyone else feel the same or any woman feel like that about attached guy so |
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"I know woman don’t like seeing a guy on here who has a single profile and is in a relationship and on without the knowledge of there wife or girlfriend.
Not that I am judging you dudes for doing it. Dosent bother me if you do or not
But I love seeing a single woman’s profile on here and saying that she is married and her husband Dosent know
Such a turn on. Just makes her more naughty. The fact she promised herself to another man makes her like the forbidden fruit.
Anyone else feel the same or any woman feel like that about attached guy so "
I abhor cheats whether male or female. Of course cheats will always be, and that is their cross to bear but IMO an instant turn off. Knowing someone can be that deceitful, conniving and disrespectful to who they say they love or care for.... nahhh, no thanks. |
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I think men tend to see it as getting 1 over on the hubby,judging by comments i've seen in past.
I wouldnt meet a cheat ,as a shag is not worth causing somebody pain when it comes to light.
I admire those who are upfront as i know they get grief for it.I detest people who lie about it,had one who messaged me recently and thought i was born yesterday.
Miss
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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amusing how judge mental people are, yes I am a despicable cheat who is married, but they are circumstances where every body jumps on high horse without considering, my wife has been celibate 5 yrs after illness, well father ted I have decided to be a monk, don't think so! |
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"amusing how judge mental people are, yes I am a despicable cheat who is married, but they are circumstances where every body jumps on high horse without considering, my wife has been celibate 5 yrs after illness, well father ted I have decided to be a monk, don't think so!"
If you’re cheating, then this tells me she isn’t aware that you’re on here searching for sex. If that’s the case, you’ll get no sympathy from anyone. Judgemental? Most definitely. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Oh, I couldn’t care less. Everyone’s business is their business - my partner knows and will always know. To go back to the original point, I don’t find potential partners being married to someone unaware of what they’re doing a turn on though...I just prefer to know so I can take precautions to limit the possible drama. |
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"amusing how judge mental people are, yes I am a despicable cheat who is married, but they are circumstances where every body jumps on high horse without considering, my wife has been celibate 5 yrs after illness, well father ted I have decided to be a monk, don't think so!"
The only thing i judge you for is signing a legally binding agreement that you clearly didn't think through. You're far from alone though, at least 30% of the middle aged 'single' men on here are married ones claiming they didn't realise marriage covered sickness and health. |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"I know woman don’t like seeing a guy on here who has a single profile and is in a relationship and on without the knowledge of there wife or girlfriend.
Not that I am judging you dudes for doing it. Dosent bother me if you do or not
But I love seeing a single woman’s profile on here and saying that she is married and her husband Dosent know
Such a turn on. Just makes her more naughty. The fact she promised herself to another man makes her like the forbidden fruit.
Anyone else feel the same or any woman feel like that about attached guy so
I abhor cheats whether male or female. Of course cheats will always be, and that is their cross to bear but IMO an instant turn off. Knowing someone can be that deceitful, conniving and disrespectful to who they say they love or care for.... nahhh, no thanks."
Totally agree! If you're not happy leave and let them find happiness with someone else
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex and love are two totally different things. Sex with others isn’t cheating. Especially if it has no impact whatsoever on your relationship.
My gf doesn’t know I’m on here. I don’t think she would even care tbh. She has encouraged me to sleep with other people before. I keep it secret for my own reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Society and sex is bizarre. A bloke sleeping around is a stud, the woman doing the same is a slag. A married bloke sleeping around is a cheater but a married a woman doing it, is horny and a turn on!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Society and sex is bizarre. A bloke sleeping around is a stud, the woman doing the same is a slag. A married bloke sleeping around is a cheater but a married a woman doing it, is horny and a turn on!!"
Ahhh the straight forward society in which we live!  |
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"Society and sex is bizarre. A bloke sleeping around is a stud, the woman doing the same is a slag. A married bloke sleeping around is a cheater but a married a woman doing it, is horny and a turn on!!
Ahhh the straight forward society in which we live! "
It's almost like men and women are... different... |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Society and sex is bizarre. A bloke sleeping around is a stud, the woman doing the same is a slag. A married bloke sleeping around is a cheater but a married a woman doing it, is horny and a turn on!!
Ahhh the straight forward society in which we live!
It's almost like men and women are... different... "
Yes that's true. Well in some ways they are different in how they view certain aspects of life. |
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"Society and sex is bizarre. A bloke sleeping around is a stud, the woman doing the same is a slag. A married bloke sleeping around is a cheater but a married a woman doing it, is horny and a turn on!!
Ahhh the straight forward society in which we live!
It's almost like men and women are... different...
Yes that's true. Well in some ways they are different in how they view certain aspects of life. "
Our biology gives us different incentives. Those incentives manifest themselves in culture. What many people call 'double standards' are perfectly rational survival strategies in historic terms. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I know woman don’t like seeing a guy on here who has a single profile and is in a relationship and on without the knowledge of there wife or girlfriend.
Not that I am judging you dudes for doing it. Dosent bother me if you do or not
But I love seeing a single woman’s profile on here and saying that she is married and her husband Dosent know
Such a turn on. Just makes her more naughty. The fact she promised herself to another man makes her like the forbidden fruit.
Anyone else feel the same or any woman feel like that about attached guy so
I abhor cheats whether male or female. Of course cheats will always be, and that is their cross to bear but IMO an instant turn off. Knowing someone can be that deceitful, conniving and disrespectful to who they say they love or care for.... nahhh, no thanks."
This  just hope there partners do the same to them.
Treat people how you would like to be treated thats my moto  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The impact of a cheating spouse/partner for a loving partner is soul destroying and leaves a mental scar that will in time heal but teaches the individual a lesson to never trust and love fully for fear of being hurt again.
The feeling of having someone punch a hole in your chest and rip out a piece of your heart.
The feeling of not being able to breath and then the grief like you’ve lost a loved one, looking at your spouse/partner and not knowing the person standing in front of you like they are a total stranger.
The pain of knowing YOU invested precious years of your life, being there for them supporting them giving them a family a home a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/partner sacrificing YOUR life to invest yourself in them for them do disrespect you and your devotion your love for the sake of a shag/fuck/sex!
No can’t say I know the feeling!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impact of a cheating spouse/partner for a loving partner is soul destroying and leaves a mental scar that will in time heal but teaches the individual a lesson to never trust and love fully for fear of being hurt again.
The feeling of having someone punch a hole in your chest and rip out a piece of your heart.
The feeling of not being able to breath and then the grief like you’ve lost a loved one, looking at your spouse/partner and not knowing the person standing in front of you like they are a total stranger.
The pain of knowing YOU invested precious years of your life, being there for them supporting them giving them a family a home a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/partner sacrificing YOUR life to invest yourself in them for them do disrespect you and your devotion your love for the sake of a shag/fuck/sex!
No can’t say I know the feeling!!!"
But not all relationships are like that
Some people are used, abused, starved of affection, treated badly, given no support at all
There are men and women out there being abused as I type
Not all relationships are good ones
Life isnt black and white |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impact of a cheating spouse/partner for a loving partner is soul destroying and leaves a mental scar that will in time heal but teaches the individual a lesson to never trust and love fully for fear of being hurt again.
The feeling of having someone punch a hole in your chest and rip out a piece of your heart.
The feeling of not being able to breath and then the grief like you’ve lost a loved one, looking at your spouse/partner and not knowing the person standing in front of you like they are a total stranger.
The pain of knowing YOU invested precious years of your life, being there for them supporting them giving them a family a home a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/partner sacrificing YOUR life to invest yourself in them for them do disrespect you and your devotion your love for the sake of a shag/fuck/sex!
No can’t say I know the feeling!!!
But not all relationships are like that
Some people are used, abused, starved of affection, treated badly, given no support at all
There are men and women out there being abused as I type
Not all relationships are good ones
Life isnt black and white"
Life isn’t black and white no!
In an abusive relationship...starved of love and affection....being treated badly
Then grab your what’s left of what self respect you have and leave!
But this specific post is about cheating!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a lot of evidence of blokes loving that and get a lot of messages asking if hubby ‘knows I’m on here’ (he does btw)... there’s a definite appeal for some men for cheating women (and I’m sure vice versa with cheating men) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impact of a cheating spouse/partner for a loving partner is soul destroying and leaves a mental scar that will in time heal but teaches the individual a lesson to never trust and love fully for fear of being hurt again.
The feeling of having someone punch a hole in your chest and rip out a piece of your heart.
The feeling of not being able to breath and then the grief like you’ve lost a loved one, looking at your spouse/partner and not knowing the person standing in front of you like they are a total stranger.
The pain of knowing YOU invested precious years of your life, being there for them supporting them giving them a family a home a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/partner sacrificing YOUR life to invest yourself in them for them do disrespect you and your devotion your love for the sake of a shag/fuck/sex!
No can’t say I know the feeling!!!
But not all relationships are like that
Some people are used, abused, starved of affection, treated badly, given no support at all
There are men and women out there being abused as I type
Not all relationships are good ones
Life isnt black and white
Life isn’t black and white no!
In an abusive relationship...starved of love and affection....being treated badly
Then grab your what’s left of what self respect you have and leave!
But this specific post is about cheating!
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I appreciate what the thread is about
I was just trying to illustrate that some relationships arent like the pretty picture you painted, of a loving, mutually supportive couple
And 'getting out' may not be that easy. For a start, there is a massive housing crisis in this country.
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"Sex and love are two totally different things. Sex with others isn’t cheating. Especially if it has no impact whatsoever on your relationship.
My gf doesn’t know I’m on here. I don’t think she would even care tbh. She has encouraged me to sleep with other people before. I keep it secret for my own reasons."
Sex with others without your partner’s knowledge/consent isn’t cheating? What is it then?
I agree about sex and love being different things but if you love someone and you’re having sex with someone else behind her back I’m sure it would make her question your love for her.
Mrs x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impact of a cheating spouse/partner for a loving partner is soul destroying and leaves a mental scar that will in time heal but teaches the individual a lesson to never trust and love fully for fear of being hurt again.
The feeling of having someone punch a hole in your chest and rip out a piece of your heart.
The feeling of not being able to breath and then the grief like you’ve lost a loved one, looking at your spouse/partner and not knowing the person standing in front of you like they are a total stranger.
The pain of knowing YOU invested precious years of your life, being there for them supporting them giving them a family a home a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/partner sacrificing YOUR life to invest yourself in them for them do disrespect you and your devotion your love for the sake of a shag/fuck/sex!
No can’t say I know the feeling!!!"
EXACTLY this ive known the pain took me 6 years to trust again and after letting somone in, have it happen again no ty would never inflict that much pain on anyone no matter the circumstances because there is none no matter how much you lie to yourself no situation can make up for cheating and knocking somones confidence it has a rippling effect most will never know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The impact of a cheating spouse/partner for a loving partner is soul destroying and leaves a mental scar that will in time heal but teaches the individual a lesson to never trust and love fully for fear of being hurt again.
The feeling of having someone punch a hole in your chest and rip out a piece of your heart.
The feeling of not being able to breath and then the grief like you’ve lost a loved one, looking at your spouse/partner and not knowing the person standing in front of you like they are a total stranger.
The pain of knowing YOU invested precious years of your life, being there for them supporting them giving them a family a home a wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/partner sacrificing YOUR life to invest yourself in them for them do disrespect you and your devotion your love for the sake of a shag/fuck/sex!
No can’t say I know the feeling!!!
But not all relationships are like that
Some people are used, abused, starved of affection, treated badly, given no support at all
There are men and women out there being abused as I type
Not all relationships are good ones
Life isnt black and white
Life isn’t black and white no!
In an abusive relationship...starved of love and affection....being treated badly
Then grab your what’s left of what self respect you have and leave!
But this specific post is about cheating!
I appreciate what the thread is about
I was just trying to illustrate that some relationships arent like the pretty picture you painted, of a loving, mutually supportive couple
And 'getting out' may not be that easy. For a start, there is a massive housing crisis in this country.
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I wouldn’t say what was described as a “ pretty picture of a mutual supportive couple “ I’d call it smoke and mirrors!
A cheating spouse/partner is the product of selfishness and disregard of someone they claim to love feelings and trust!
In essence “ wanting ones cake and eating it! “
As for abusing relationships there is always a way out.
It’s facing your fears and taking that step and maybe for the first time in that persons life thinking about themselves, there are a multitude of support avenues available at anyone’s disposal.
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