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By *igJ9 OP Man
over a year ago
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Ladies (and ofc gents), that age old question, how much does size really mean to you? Of course there are far more important things when it comes to connections and a spark etc, but when it comes down to it, does it actually affect your sex? intrigued to hear experiences good and bad! |
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over a year ago
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for me size doesn't matter , I'm no size queen , I find its more about the man its attached to and his personality rather than the length and girth of his cock |
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By *igJ9 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yup it does to me - too much or too little will not work for me.  "
whats your idea of both, what does it affect? say you found someone you were majorly attracted to and ir got to it and he was hung like a horse or a pinky, would it out you off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was once at a party, and a friend of mine got real d*unk, like depressed d*unk on wine. He started to talk about how his dick is ten inches, and tried to get it out in front of us. After that, he said that he didn't like having a dick so big, because when he was getting hot with a girl, and the obvious reveal happened, they would always have the same look on their face. This wasn't a look of excitement, but a look of complete horror. It really got to him, that every woman he may have sex with for the rest of his life would see his dick and be terrified by it.
So yes, size does matter, in the sense that it generally does not want to be too big or too little.
Also, everyone is different, so what is too big for one woman is too small for another.
Tableau of life and all that shit |
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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago
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Overall size matters yes. A combination of length and girth.
No good having an 11inch dick if it's like a stick of spaghetti. And conversely a 3inch dick like a can isn't much use either.
So something in between is usually enough for most unless you've a fanny or an arse like a bucket.
So average dick and the ability to fuck for a while without cumming, but also knowing when to cum before we get bored and sore, that's the ideal.  |
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"for me size doesn't matter , I'm no size queen , I find its more about the man its attached to and his personality rather than the length and girth of his cock
agreed!"
Exactly this, altough if its a micro penis or a massive trouser snake they are more awkward for two very different reasons! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was once at a party, and a friend of mine got real d*unk, like depressed d*unk on wine. He started to talk about how his dick is ten inches, and tried to get it out in front of us. After that, he said that he didn't like having a dick so big, because when he was getting hot with a girl, and the obvious reveal happened, they would always have the same look on their face. This wasn't a look of excitement, but a look of complete horror. It really got to him, that every woman he may have sex with for the rest of his life would see his dick and be terrified by it.
So yes, size does matter, in the sense that it generally does not want to be too big or too little.
Also, everyone is different, so what is too big for one woman is too small for another.
Tableau of life and all that shit"
I really do pity how naive so many of you are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive. The men know it, the women know it, everybody knows it.
The endless, ENDLESS threads on the subject are only proof of such. Continuously coddling your ego by asking the same redundant question wont make size queens like large cocks any less. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was once at a party, and a friend of mine got real d*unk, like depressed d*unk on wine. He started to talk about how his dick is ten inches, and tried to get it out in front of us. After that, he said that he didn't like having a dick so big, because when he was getting hot with a girl, and the obvious reveal happened, they would always have the same look on their face. This wasn't a look of excitement, but a look of complete horror. It really got to him, that every woman he may have sex with for the rest of his life would see his dick and be terrified by it.
So yes, size does matter, in the sense that it generally does not want to be too big or too little.
Also, everyone is different, so what is too big for one woman is too small for another.
Tableau of life and all that shit
I really do pity how naive so many of you are "
Alright there, wombraider, chill your beans |
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"Ladies (and ofc gents), that age old question, how much does size really mean to you? Of course there are far more important things when it comes to connections and a spark etc, but when it comes down to it, does it actually affect your sex? intrigued to hear experiences good and bad!"
Yes, cannot abide small hands on a fella. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive.
Only up to a point.  "
uncomfortably large penises are so rare that they're simply not going to be a factor. Its like claiming height is not an attractive quality because there are 7' people suffering from gigantism. The likelihood of coming across a stupendously large penis is rare as it is.
And even then, its not like large endowed men are not aware of which positions are better to accommodate smaller vaginas. This idea that all men with large cocks are bad at sex is an amusing bit of rationalization. |
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive.
Only up to a point.
uncomfortably large penises are so rare that they're simply not going to be a factor. Its like claiming height is not an attractive quality because there are 7' people suffering from gigantism. The likelihood of coming across a stupendously large penis is rare as it is.
And even then, its not like large endowed men are not aware of which positions are better to accommodate smaller vaginas. This idea that all men with large cocks are bad at sex is an amusing bit of rationalization. "
I never said that - I have had several fabulous well-endowed lovers. And I have turned down men on here for being too large.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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some people like length!
some people prefer girth!
the 2 don't necessarily go hand and hand.....
those who think they are big probably overplay it a lot more than those who have girth........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive. The men know it, the women know it, everybody knows it.
The endless, ENDLESS threads on the subject are only proof of such. Continuously coddling your ego by asking the same redundant question wont make size queens like large cocks any less. "
Hallelujah way i see it if the woman or man is a champion in bed and loves the dick (there is alot of us out there) yes she will like a big dick. Ive never heard of a bloke with a big dick not getting a root quiet the opposite actually. Porn!!!! why do the men usually have big cocks? cause to the people watching this is what they crave or envy. And better to watch.i get sent pics of naked men all the time from girlfriends and i share them also. the ones my circle of friends get turned on by are the big ones. I could go on for ever but yeah size definitely matters in my experience |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive. The men know it, the women know it, everybody knows it.
The endless, ENDLESS threads on the subject are only proof of such. Continuously coddling your ego by asking the same redundant question wont make size queens like large cocks any less. Hallelujah way i see it if the woman or man is a champion in bed and loves the dick (there is alot of us out there) yes she will like a big dick. Ive never heard of a bloke with a big dick not getting a root quiet the opposite actually. Porn!!!! why do the men usually have big cocks? cause to the people watching this is what they crave or envy. And better to watch.i get sent pics of naked men all the time from girlfriends and i share them also. the ones my circle of friends get turned on by are the big ones. I could go on for ever but yeah size definitely matters in my experience "
I turned down a bloke today, for being too big, and he didn't take it very well.  |
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Well it's not the most important thing, there's a lot more to good sex than the size of a cock, but when everything else has fallen into place a lovely big cock is the icing on a big fat sex cake!  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I was once at a party, and a friend of mine got real d*unk, like depressed d*unk on wine. He started to talk about how his dick is ten inches, and tried to get it out in front of us. After that, he said that he didn't like having a dick so big, because when he was getting hot with a girl, and the obvious reveal happened, they would always have the same look on their face. This wasn't a look of excitement, but a look of complete horror. It really got to him, that every woman he may have sex with for the rest of his life would see his dick and be terrified by it.
So yes, size does matter, in the sense that it generally does not want to be too big or too little.
Also, everyone is different, so what is too big for one woman is too small for another.
Tableau of life and all that shit
I really do pity how naive so many of you are
Alright there, wombraider, chill your beans"
Wombraider! Blooming brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a meet once with someone who forgot to mention they had a micro penis. No longer than my thumb nail. Absolutely nothing I could do with it.so yes size matters |
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Fao mines perfectly average in my opinion but gets hard as hell and always works for me, and been well received with out any length or girth complaints. We are all different peps, if you need them big there may be a reason for that ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fao mines perfectly average in my opinion but gets hard as hell and always works for me, and been well received with out any length or girth complaints. We are all different peps, if you need them big there may be a reason for that ?"
Yours looks bigger than average. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Micro-dicks and mammoth cocks aside, I'm not too sure it does matter. If you're within 4" to 8" then it should suffice. Remember, chaps, you've 10 digits on the end of your arms, a mouth and tongue, and a brain. The cock, while being the go-to weapon of choice, is merely part of the larger arsenal at your disposal.
I'm mainly aiming this at guys with below average size. It don't matter, lads imo. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive.
Only up to a point.
uncomfortably large penises are so rare that they're simply not going to be a factor. Its like claiming height is not an attractive quality because there are 7' people suffering from gigantism. The likelihood of coming across a stupendously large penis is rare as it is.
And even then, its not like large endowed men are not aware of which positions are better to accommodate smaller vaginas. This idea that all men with large cocks are bad at sex is an amusing bit of rationalization. "
You really do seem to have a problem with these threads - and a deep misunderstanding of female psyche and anatomy. I have come across several 9" plus cocks. I love the look and feel, but cannot take them however gentle the guys are, or whatever position we adopt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have a big cock go for taller women. It’s that simple they can accommodate more. Jesus Christ these threads are so annoying with the same old it’s more about his personality. Nope it’s about his cock ! if it wasn’t I’d be back getting 2-4 inches on pof.
Bigger is better an I’ve never had a crap sex from a big cock. As I fuck it how I want it. Love a big cock size queen
Go big or go home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive. The men know it, the women know it, everybody knows it.
The endless, ENDLESS threads on the subject are only proof of such. Continuously coddling your ego by asking the same redundant question wont make size queens like large cocks any less. "
is this the voice of rational logic ???? |
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"If you have a big cock go for taller women. It’s that simple they can accommodate more. Jesus Christ these threads are so annoying with the same old it’s more about his personality. Nope it’s about his cock ! if it wasn’t I’d be back getting 2-4 inches on pof.
Bigger is better an I’ve never had a crap sex from a big cock. As I fuck it how I want it. Love a big cock size queen
Go big or go home "
Now I agree with most of what you've said, apart from the fuck tall women bit, short women like big cocks too! |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I don't personally cum through penetration alone so really cock size isn't going to matter as long as it's comfortable, and for it to be comfortable I need to feel relaxed and turned on.
I've had guys with big dicks assume that their cock because it's so big will do the work for them so they just pound away. I tell them they are hurting me (because they are so oblivious they need telling) and they slow for a bit and then forget  This means we only meet once because I don't like being left sore and bleeding.
As long as the cock is big enough to feel inside me and the attitude of the man with either a small or large cock is that they realise that they have to do more than just thrust, I'm happy |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Size hasn’t ever really bothered me as long as I can feel it (though not too much - a bruised cervix is painful!). There’s a vast array of sizes in between the two extremes though, at which point it comes down to how good the guy is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bigger the better personally, really hard to get aroused when he’s small, can still have fun with other stuff but nothing beats a fucking from a hung guy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for me size doesn't matter , I'm no size queen , I find its more about the man its attached to and his personality rather than the length and girth of his cock "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive. The men know it, the women know it, everybody knows it.
The endless, ENDLESS threads on the subject are only proof of such. Continuously coddling your ego by asking the same redundant question wont make size queens like large cocks any less. "
Have to agree
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"Fao mines perfectly average in my opinion but gets hard as hell and always works for me, and been well received with out any length or girth complaints. We are all different peps, if you need them big there may be a reason for that ?
Yours looks bigger than average."
 no matter how big a cock is, if it doesn’t touch the sides neither party will enjoy it |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Don't understood those who say it doesn't matter "
For me personally it doesn't matter because it's clitoral stimulation that makes me orgasm. I can cum without penetration but I can't cum without clitoral stimulation. Penetration just adds to the pleasure so as long as it's big enough to feel or the guy is not too rough when it's big, size doesn't matter. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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I actually googled this out of curiosity.
There are a number of corraborating sources showing that 3-4 inches is the average depth of a vagina. It can expand to 200% during arousal. Thus 6-8 inches. In line with what is inside her. Same principal applies in child birth. Same goes for girth.
Make of that what you will. |
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"Women say no until they get a really small dic lol"
Tbf I know I've said I love a big one but I've had really, really good sex with a guy who had a small one, so size is not the be all and end all, it's just a fucking lovely bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't understood those who say it doesn't matter
For me personally it doesn't matter because it's clitoral stimulation that makes me orgasm. I can cum without penetration but I can't cum without clitoral stimulation. Penetration just adds to the pleasure so as long as it's big enough to feel or the guy is not too rough when it's big, size doesn't matter."
I never orgasm from penetration whatever size the guy is, but a fat one feels much nicer inside. Also I just can't get super aroused if its not big and meaty to look at, fondle and suck. |
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"Also, men need to accept that dick size is currency here.
A bigger dick is more attractive. The men know it, the women know it, everybody knows it.
The endless, ENDLESS threads on the subject are only proof of such. Continuously coddling your ego by asking the same redundant question wont make size queens like large cocks any less. "
Mmm....???????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it matters, not that my opinion does. I've never had any complaints at 7-7.5" and pretty girthy. I have heard and seen a lot of woman complain about vwe guys though saying they don't have a clue how to fuck because they think they can just pound away and they are sex gods because the cock does the work, it doesn't. Way I see it is if you can't deep threat it to the hilt don't fucking moan :p just kidding |
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