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What do people think about wobbly bits?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet.

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

I think the consensus is that lots of people don't mind, a connection with the person is more important.

For those that do mind that's absolutely fine, don't worry about it and find someone else.

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Katie....you have a beautiful body.

The kinda figure that would have my attention if you walked past me in the street. Would totally worship every inch of your body in the bedroom.

I find curvy women appealing...others dont. My brother and my best mate wont date anyone over size 10. Each to their own...

Folks who want to play with you will find you. Folks who want to be morons and try degrade you will find you...you just need to ignore them and think about me thinking about you...(the boys watch the girls as the girls watch the boys)

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By *ikscMan over a year ago

ABERDEEN

I love curvy women in fact I love all sizes lol be proud and if you've got it flaunt it doesn't bother me at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Katie....you have a beautiful body.

The kinda figure that would have my attention if you walked past me in the street. Would totally worship every inch of your body in the bedroom.

I find curvy women appealing...others dont. My brother and my best mate wont date anyone over size 10. Each to their own...

I concur with this concurrence.....curves are yummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thankyou. I was wondering about women's attitudes too. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Katie....you have a beautiful body.

The kinda figure that would have my attention if you walked past me in the street. Would totally worship every inch of your body in the bedroom.

I find curvy women appealing...others dont. My brother and my best mate wont date anyone over size 10. Each to their own...

How nice

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By *hat The CuckCouple over a year ago

South London

"Just curious as to a general consensus on female jiggly bits? I'm sure I'm not the only woman on here who feels a little intimated by fit slender bods, whether that be male or female. I'm nearly at the point of embracing my mummy tummy and thinking "fuck it, I am this and it doesn't seem to be changing" but not quite there yet.

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

We’re exactly the same.

It’s come to the point where I’ve lost confidence and the feeling of being sexy and currently avoid gym fit guys or even if that have only met stunning body perfect females and totally not ready to meet any couples especially where the female is body perfect. Silly we know but having wobbly bits knocks your confidence and no matter how much I try to tone these areas nothing seems to work

One day we’ll embrace and say sod it but not there yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Alice has them and I love them, very womanly, very sexy

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

It's up to you really, i think that in life you shouldn't set your own self worth relative to other people. That applies to anything from body shape, to income to cars. It's a recipe for unhappiness until you set yourself an absolute standard. So the fact you are allowing other women to make you feel initimated is a personal flaw that you should probably fix.

I think that people saying 'wobbly bits are sexy' are generally full of shit. I understand that if one has a 'dad bod' then one might feel more comfortable with a woman with a mummy tummy, but in reality most people would rather look like the broadly accepted definition of attractive.

Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a parallel to another thread that went off topic.

I am a bi guy. My preference is for my men to to be lean hard and toned and my women to be soft curvy and have all those aspects that make women the lovely beings that they are. This includes wobbly bits, those bit affected by gravity, stretch marks, enivitable scars etc. I am not generally attracted to women with the bodies of teenage boys.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

You give have to be. Most men don't notice them as they are preoccupied with your boobs and bum. And then some men will love you wobbly bits. Mentioning no names, ahem.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"You dont have to be. Most men don't notice them as they are preoccupied with your boobs and bum. And then some men will love you wobbly bits. Mentioning no names, ahem.

Fixed

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

I've had some realisation lately that while most show the best of themselves in photos on here, its not always the reality.

I hate my wobbly bits and tend to hide them behind angles and pretty underwear. However yesterday I sat in a genetics clinic and was given all sorts of information should I have this family gene. Including the removal of my breasts and reconstruction with said wobbly bits.

Last night I thought no more hiding, they can't be taken for granted. So I took a very brave pic for me. No denying the wobbly bits now.

I felt quite liberated.

My point is things you dislike about yourself are unlikely as obvious to other people. Don't let it ruin your experiences xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have alot of wobbly bits, 3 kids later and the tiger stripes to match. It is what it is now, i normally stay covered up on a meet top half wise. Some guys love it but some hate it thats their choice of course. We wont meet anyone that has a super slim female, thats my own insecurities i guess that i will feel like an elephant next to.

Mrs s x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

We’re exactly the same.

One day we’ll embrace and say sod it but not there yet! "

This post resonates with me. Obviously, I look at your pictures and think wow! She's stunning. But this doesn't help someone who has lost confidence in their sex appeal. It goes much deeper than this to a level where you and only you can help yourself. I'm at that point now. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's so easy to put weight on, I'm still paying the price for going on the injection pill in 2014, I only had 2 injections over 6 months but within a year I had put on 3 stone.

I was 31 and had had my daughter 5 years prior to that and was cruising between size 6-8. That injection pill fucked me over and it's got to the point now where I refuse to buy clothes in bigger sizes so just live in joggers and leggings, have loads of nice clothes that I want to fit back into so I'm doing something about it (again) but this time I'm going hard. I'm being super strict with what I eat and going to the gym 5 days a week plus classes. I'm not embracing this belly and flabby upper arms, they can all get to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like mens wobbly bits too.

Fit toned bods are intimidating. I've been pleasantly surprised by some of the guys on here that are fit and toned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Morning Katie, I just want to say that your beautiful. Everyone has their insecurities, their “wobbly bits” etc but you have to own it! Rock what your mama gave you. Everyone is unique and you should wear your stripes with pride girl!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

for some people a connection is more important than the physical perfection

for others they’re not fussed about a connection as long as the body’s perfect

I wouldn’t worry too much about the latter type person if I were you, and I’d be surprised if you are.

The thing about Fab is people can pick & choose what they want to be and others can pick and choose if they want to chat/meet that person

No right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Yes!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way. "

According to the annual health survey for england, 96% of women do not do the recommended amount of exercise to keep them healthy and 57% are overweight or obese. So it is unlikely you would be the only person feeling this way. The figures are 94% and 66% respectively for men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh

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By *anchester_gentMan over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

"I've had some realisation lately that while most show the best of themselves in photos on here, its not always the reality.

Last night I thought no more hiding, they can't be taken for granted. So I took a very brave pic for me. No denying the wobbly bits now.

I felt quite liberated.

My point is things you dislike about yourself are unlikely as obvious to other people. Don't let it ruin your experiences xx"

What a super post - well done! And it's a lovely sexy picture too!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh"

What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh

What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs? "

You had me at visible abs

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

"I've had some realisation lately that while most show the best of themselves in photos on here, its not always the reality.

Last night I thought no more hiding, they can't be taken for granted. So I took a very brave pic for me. No denying the wobbly bits now.

I felt quite liberated.

My point is things you dislike about yourself are unlikely as obvious to other people. Don't let it ruin your experiences xx

What a super post - well done! And it's a lovely sexy picture too!!

xx "

Thank you. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh

What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs? "

You don’t get that often!!! My personal preference is big boobs, big bum, wide hips and a waist.

If the wobbly boobed size packed woman had curvy hips and arse then that would be ok with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh

What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs?

You don’t get that often!!! My personal preference is big boobs, big bum, wide hips and a waist.

If the wobbly boobed size packed woman had curvy hips and arse then that would be ok with me

That should be six pack obviously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Prefer wobbly bits, slim hardbodies don’t do much for me tbh

What about slim bodies with visible abs but big wobbly boobs?

You had me at visible abs"

Haha well mine are still hiding at the moment! But they're there, they've popped I can feel them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The thing to remember OP, is that you are far more aware of your wobbly bits than others are. When we look in the mirror we focus on our insecurities which overtime over emphasises them in our mind's eye.

That's what I tell myself when I eat cake and chocolate anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way.

Thanks for pointing this out. Although, statistics are not half as useful as hearing people's experiences and making connections through words to help us see that we are not alone in how we are feeling. We are relational beings after all and live in a social world. Plus I'm a psychologist so statistics do nothing for me lolol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally what I find hottest is someone who is comfortable and at ease in their body ... whether skinny, toned, or wobbly bits aplenty ... someone willing to share all of themselves with you unashamedly with you returning the pleasure is the best of all for me ...

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I think that every single human on the planet has or will have wobbly bits, they are utterly normal.

I think that we are taught we are not supposed to have wobbly bits by people wanting to make profit out of people with wobbly bits.

I think every human has preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But the other side is if something is bothering you so much then make changes. If you're carrying weight you don't want to have and continue to eat the same you'll just maintain that weight or put more on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a mummy tummy too but now I’m at the ripe old age of 53 I’ve finally accepted that it doesn’t matter.

There are plenty of lovely sexy men on here who won’t be bothered. If you are unlucky enough to meet one that does, well there will be loads more men to take their place

Be happy with who you are, I’m a mum and a nan and proud of it ! X

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way.

As a psychologist, i would assume you understand the problems of allowing your happiness and confidence to be determined by relative standards?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh let's not... I really appreciate your comments.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way.

As a psychologist, i would assume you understand the problems of allowing your happiness and confidence to be determined by relative standards? "

I have to admit I have become cynical about surveys and "scientific studies"...

Like the discovery that chocolate is actually good for you... sponsored by Mars and Nestle... that smoking is good for you funded by the tobacco corp of america etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

I always laugh when it says not into overweight people then they fab my.wobbly belly pics!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Thankyou everyone for being so honest! It's nice to know I'm not the only woman feeling this way.

As a psychologist, i would assume you understand the problems of allowing your happiness and confidence to be determined by relative standards?

I have to admit I have become cynical about surveys and "scientific studies"...

Like the discovery that chocolate is actually good for you... sponsored by Mars and Nestle... that smoking is good for you funded by the tobacco corp of america etc etc"

It's just logic really. 10 women in a room, objectively all 10 can have a healthy body fat % but only between 1 can be the slimmest woman in the room.

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By *agnumBeltranMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Love women of all shapes and sizes. Curvy is good. And I'm a little 'curvy' myself

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By *lmostthereMan over a year ago

Southampton

OP you look fantabulous

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It never ceases to amaze me how many of us have 'body confidence issues' and it's not just the women . I myself have a thing about my increasing gut. But personally , when I look at others , there wobbly bits just look sexy and feminine ( on the lady's obviously ) and my wife agrees .

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By *heekybarstewardMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I'd rather have a mental connection with someone and move on from there over a physical connection only if that makes sense .

I tend to find those who are only interested in looks only tend to come across as shallow

But that's just my opinion

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have noticed on more than one occasions at clubs . The 'body perfect' people are still perfect at the end of the night . They've obviously spent all night looking good rather than having fun . Ofcourse for them that could be how they have fun , who am I to judge .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have noticed on more than one occasions at clubs . The 'body perfect' people are still perfect at the end of the night . They've obviously spent all night looking good rather than having fun . Ofcourse for them that could be how they have fun , who am I to judge .

You don't get that just fucked look from spending the night looking at yourself in the mirror!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

Wow, such a lovely refreshing thread. We both understand where you’re coming from. Lou is body conscious of her wobbly bits and I would love to be built a little bit bigger. We both love each other to bits and it does make us both a little shy when it comes to meets. But we are slowly coming round to the fact that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What we lack in body perfection, we certainly make up for in other areas. A great sense of humour, morality and respect goes a long way in our book.

Mr x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Thankyou. I was wondering about women's attitudes too. X"

I’m not attracted to skinny people. I like curves so like ladies with boobs and bums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personally I'm into it i like a woman with a few curves that i can really get hold of!

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By *ister-mischiefMan over a year ago

Trafford

love wobbly bits & mum Tums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

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people take me as I am. I'm quite happy at a club or party to be naked and with wobbly fat bits on show. Yes had a few instances that if I had been more delicate could have knocked me...

( being in an open room.. 2 couples playing. Both open to single guys and not one came near me

) but that is a very rare instance...

Some people don't like bigger ladies/men.. Others prefer.. some arent bothered.

If someone else is appalled by me naked. That is there issue not mine.. as long as its not in Tescos obviously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My body is terrible , wobbly stretch marks and I also have guaatte psoriasis which can look horrible , however if you embrace what you have and walk with confidence us bbw can be much series than the slim ladies , my advice shake the bits you hate act sexy and the men will love it ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wobbly bits are more than just wobbly bits aha. But im actively trying to change this. I know how you feel tho.. i see some amazing figures on this thread and on fab and think they wouldnt like to be with me. But this site has actually boosted my confidence a bit and that you can still be beautiful with wobbly bits. Your all beautiful ladies

embrace it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Katie there is nothing wrong with your lovely sexy body so just enjoy all the nice comments and ignore any derogatory remarks.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Hi lovely.

Not read all the other comments so am at risk of repeating what others have said!

Firstly - most women who’ve had kids will have ‘jelly belly’ to some extent - I certainly do - just as most women who’ve had kids/breastfed have boobs that aren’t as firm as those who haven’t!

Men living in the real world (ie non porn fantasists) will accept that many women over 30 (and some younger) will have imperfect tummies and boobs! From my experience it seems to bother them less than it bothers us!

Re overweight. Everyone has their own perspective on what they consider to be overweight. According to the scales I’m officially overweight - but most on here wouldn’t consider me as such.

Ergo ‘officially’ I suspect you’re overweight - but when it comes to desirability - you have larger boobs than waist etc and are in good proportion (I think most people on here are more into ‘good proportion’ than they are bothered about specific dress sizes - but that’s simply my opinion and I could be wrong!)

So what I’m saying is - to most chaps on here you’d still be an attractive prospect!

Relax and have fun my lovely!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

I have a mum tum, stretch marks, few scars, birth marks...

But they're a result of a life lived, not sat on the side lines.

I'm not to everyone's taste nor is everyone to mine, but I too have had my confidence boosted on here by people that really like how I look and have enjoyed my wobbles and curves, some people have a real 'thing' for mum tums and stretch marks.

Embrace who you are and take compliments at face value

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even slim women have wobbly bits,, you look great from what i've seen, being slimmer does not make you attractive-- your personality does. Don't let others make you concious of who you are,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have wobbly bits and irritatingly saggy bits, but I’m nearly 43. I wish they weren’t there and I was as pert as I was in my twenties, but I’m not. Heh Ho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People come in all shapes and sizes perfect doesnt exist but give me a warm hearted outgoing human with a personality every time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have wobbly bits and irritatingly saggy bits, but I’m nearly 43. I wish they weren’t there and I was as pert as I was in my twenties, but I’m not. Heh Ho. "

Trust me you have no worries

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By *ancastermanMan over a year ago

carnforth

If someone is happy with my belly it would be churlish of me to think bad of theirs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a bit of flab to be honest,I think Katie is very attractive bodywise.

A bit of fat is fine, by overweight I think many members may mean very obese people not members like yourself XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have more than a few wobbly bits and if guys can't see past them then quite frankly they arnt worth a second thought

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By *lceeWoman over a year ago

Leeds

For the last five years I’ve been overweight and haven’t found much difference to be perfectly honest. Some guys like tall girls and some short, some like lithe and some curvy, some like gym toned while others prefer the wobbles. It’s all much of a muchness.

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By *ancastermanMan over a year ago

carnforth

"For the last five years I’ve been overweight and haven’t found much difference to be perfectly honest. Some guys like tall girls and some short, some like lithe and some curvy, some like gym toned while others prefer the wobbles. It’s all much of a muchness."

I think my height is more an issue for some. 5'9"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In reality, lots and lots of people have wobbly bits. We're our own worst critics, but generally, most aren't put off by these flaws. Of course, you'll get those who like super-toned bodies, but I've found these to be few and far between.

Loving yourself can be tough, but this site helps. Purely because you'll see people of all shapes and sizes rocking what they've got!

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple over a year ago

luton

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

We’re exactly the same.

One day we’ll embrace and say sod it but not there yet! "

Mrs is like this and because of such, we find it harder to meet couples. It is silly because being overly body conscious about wobbly bits that every woman/man has prevents potentially great meets/friendships!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm the exact same as the op! I have my mom bod with a lot of extra jiggly bits I'm so embarrassed by them especially when I see all these beautiful slim perk bodies

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Many of the ladies on here have a mum tum, even the slim gym fit ones. Me included. Not that I'm slim or gym fit.

I've learned to accept my mum and embrace my curves. We go to clubs and there are people of all shapes and sizes.

As long as you have at least one photo that shows your body as it is, you know that meets are fully aware of your body shape and find you sexy.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely adore wobbly bits. Its long been my view that skinny women are like a play park with no swings. You can have fun, but nothing like the fun you will have with something to play with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a bigger girl an lack body confidence! I’m more than happy naked in the presence of a small few! I actually love the feeling of being naked.

I would love to go to the Townhouse but really worry about my wobbly bits as there will be so many more people there!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would rather sleep with a woman who is a size 38 than a size 8. Some guys like a woman who wobbles, some guys don't. As long as everyone is respectful though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would rather sleep with a woman who is a size 38 than a size 8. Some guys like a woman who wobbles, some guys don't. As long as everyone is respectful though"

really? That would be morbidly obese and probably around 28 to 30 stone in weight!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m a bigger girl an lack body confidence! I’m more than happy naked in the presence of a small few! I actually love the feeling of being naked.

I would love to go to the Townhouse but really worry about my wobbly bits as there will be so many more people there!!

I wouldn't worry, once you're there nobody takes notice of shapes and sizes, and if they do they don't say anything because that's not what clubs are about ^_^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a big girl, some like bugger girls some don’t like everything in life.

Personally I love girls with wobbly bits, when I’m playing with a girl and she has a soft tummy it drives me wild X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have a beautiful sexy body .most of the skinny minis haven’t had any children.so embrace it I say x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm both a confirmed cuddle-slut and a 'big guy,' so I've always prefered snuggling up to ladies and gents who can boast a bit of jiggle and wobble...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m a big girl, some like bugger girls some don’t like everything in life.

Personally I love girls with wobbly bits, when I’m playing with a girl and she has a soft tummy it drives me wild X"

*bugger girls*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even slim people can have wobbly bits (take it from a size 8 female who knows

)

I think it's more about you being comfortable in your own body and not letting the haters get inside your head that is key....even people you assume are "gym fit" and "perfect" have insecurities

There will be those who love any shape woman and those who have a preference but for us personally it's all about the overall person/people and whether we click

Jane x

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

All down to personal preference but I'd say that wobbly women will get loads more action than a wobbly man would

Just be happy and enjoy what figure you've got, confidence goes a long way

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

Im more comfortable with my body now (older & 2 x grown up kids later) than when I was wobble free size 8 in my 30s. In clubs you see all sizes, some awesome curves - if your sexy and fun then thats attractive end of - Fi xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... I think that people saying 'wobbly bits are sexy' are generally full of shit. I understand that if one has a 'dad bod' then one might feel more comfortable with a woman with a mummy tummy, but in reality most people would rather look like the broadly accepted definition of attractive.

Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs."

Wow! Just wow.

Really an unnecessarily unkind response. Not to mention misguided: the idea that people that say “wobbly bits are sexy” are lying (because you disagree) is nothing short of ludicrous.

What about the people that say a hairy snatch is sexy? Are they liars too? Evidently you think not as you’re sporting a tangled bush

As for the “broadly accepted definition of attractive” - just remember: beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs.

Wow! Just wow.

Really an unnecessarily unkind response. Not to mention misguided: the idea that people that say “wobbly bits are sexy” are lying (because you disagree) is nothing short of ludicrous.

What about the people that say a hairy snatch is sexy? Are they liars too? Evidently you think not as you’re sporting a tangled bush

As for the “broadly accepted definition of attractive” - just remember: beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really you should decide whether you are going to do anything about it or not. If not, then stop comparing yourself to other people and enjoy the carbs.

Wow! Just wow.

Really an unnecessarily unkind response. Not to mention misguided: the idea that people that say “wobbly bits are sexy” are lying (because you disagree) is nothing short of ludicrous.

What about the people that say a hairy snatch is sexy? Are they liars too? Evidently you think not as you’re sporting a tangled bush

As for the “broadly accepted definition of attractive” - just remember: beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone."

Very well said!! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a curvy figure, as long as its all in proportion. I dont find skinny attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Like you I have all the wobbly bits too. Stretch marks cellulite and even a c-section scar and boobs are definitely not what they used to be lol. But all these flaws make up who I am and I love who I am. Other people may not but that’s their problem not mine. I do hope you feel better about yourself soon you have an amazing body. Embrace it

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By *oxic1998Woman over a year ago

Belfast

Its all down to body confidence. Love my curves but hate my wobbly bits if that makes sense. And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I was a kid I loved jelly.

Now when I see things that wobble I want to put them in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Katie....you have a beautiful body.

The kinda figure that would have my attention if you walked past me in the street. Would totally worship every inch of your body in the bedroom.

I find curvy women appealing...others dont. My brother and my best mate wont date anyone over size 10. Each to their own...

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I feel more comfortable with curvy women, it may be because I'm a not skinny bloke myself, but I do think over time I've become accustomed to liking women with curves and wobbly bits through my personal interactions.

In the end though, it's not all about body size, personality plays a much bigger part for me than physical attractiveness as a sapiophile - I've been out with "beautiful" people before that have had a great personality, and I've turned down "beautiful" people that have been duller than dishwater, or our personalities just haven't married up. Same with non-"beautiful" people.

I say "beautiful" like that, because of the Westernised notion that certain body types are beautiful and attractive and others aren't. Personally I don't believe that rubbish, and wish girls would stop obsessing over celeb mags that push this idealised notion of beauty. Real beauty comes from how you are as a person.

*waits for the first arse to come up and say that I'm only saying that because I can't get laid*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its all down to body confidence. Love my curves but hate my wobbly bits if that makes sense. And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond."

Same here

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By *r C Miss CCouple over a year ago

llanelli

Some people carry their weight better than others.

Myself. I find taller 5'11+ bigger women very sexy. Miss c doesn't. Miss c likes her lady "friends" to be a similar size to herself. That being said, We wouldn't disrespect anyone because of their size. I'm a big bloke 18st+ I was 20st+ and I have wobbly bits I dislike them on myself and I'm working on getting rid of them. I was massive. Im still "big" now, but a change in my diet and some exercise has gone along way.

I suppose as long as you're happy in your own skin, then nothing else matters

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

So last week we went to a popular pub in town for my wife to go on the pull . As soon as we went to the beer garden we saw two extremely fit and attractive twenty something blondes sat at the main table , wearing tiny denim shorts and very skimpy tops . Size 6 , big boobs , tight butts , and not an ounce of excess weight anywhere . Was my wife intimidated ? Hell yeah ... she didn’t want to sit anywhere near them !

Anyway , to cut a long story short , she sat a couple of tables away , messaged me to say she was wasting her time as no one would want to join her with them there . I told her not to be so daft , and to crack on as normal . Twenty minutes later she was sitting at a table with four gym fit guys , laughing and flirting , with the blondes still sat on their own .

Later in the evening she copped off with the hottest guy , and the blondes left the pub , one complaining that a weird goth girl had pulled the guy she were after . I laughed to myself , and my wife later told me the guy was cool with spending the evening with her as the blondes were in his words ‘ so far up their own arses ‘ , that he wouldn’t want to go anywhere near them .

He knew I was about and that she was married , but we all had a great night and she felt so much better about herself at the end of the night .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Katie you are gorgeous, I'm curvy and confident. I also prefer women curvy as I like something to grab hold of xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's up to you really, i think that in life you shouldn't set your own self worth relative to other people."

I think that's an excellent idea...consequently, I shall set myself the following 'absolute standard':

Rule:

I will not waste time asking to meet people who assume that I must be 'full of shit' because I make no secret of the fact that I think that 'wobbly bits are sexy.'

Likewise, I will not ask to meet people who assume that those of us who eschew 'the broadly accepted definition of attractive' are an insignificant minority.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A good friend of mine says he loves my bits that jiggle and says it's sexy .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have wobbly bits and stretched skin thanks to 2 kids. I'm confident dressed but naked the insecurities come out. I feel the need to point my bad points out to potential meets. Roll on the day I can afford a tummy tuck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's up to you really, i think that in life you shouldn't set your own self worth relative to other people.

I think that's an excellent idea...consequently, I shall set myself the following 'absolute standard':

Rule:

I will not waste time asking to meet people who assume that I must be 'full of shit' because I make no secret of the fact that I think that 'wobbly bits are sexy.'

Likewise, I will not ask to meet people who assume that those of us who eschew 'the broadly accepted definition of attractive' are an insignificant minority."

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By *ightboy69Man over a year ago

Torquay

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Your curves look amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm struggling with confidence. Especially today. Seem to have leaky eyes lol.

I know I won't change the way I look, my weight tends to yo yo and I find my confidence isn't affected. It's always rubbish.

I don't see myself as curvy I see myself as fat. Maybe that's where I'm going wrong.

I worry if I hit the gym that I'll look even more male. I tend to put on muscle very easily.

Ah I dunno just write it off as a bad few days I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate my wobbles and I've declared war on them. I don't really care what anyone else thinks of them though. This is a personal battle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love my wobbly bits but hate my legs Juliexxxx

Also like men with wobbly bits lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have wobbly bits and stretched skin thanks to 2 kids. I'm confident dressed but naked the insecurities come out. I feel the need to point my bad points out to potential meets. Roll on the day I can afford a tummy tuck x"

Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me.

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love my wobbly bits but hate my legs Juliexxxx

Also like men with wobbly bits lol xx"

My belly is the bit I'm trying to reduce, but as I get older I'm finding it harder to lose it _ so I guess I just have to larn to love my spare tyre and find women who love it too!

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By *ightboy69Man over a year ago

Torquay

Curvy girls are the sexiest ! End of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm struggling with confidence. Especially today. Seem to have leaky eyes lol.

I know I won't change the way I look, my weight tends to yo yo and I find my confidence isn't affected. It's always rubbish.

I don't see myself as curvy I see myself as fat. Maybe that's where I'm going wrong.

I worry if I hit the gym that I'll look even more male. I tend to put on muscle very easily.

Ah I dunno just write it off as a bad few days I guess. "

I know exactly how you feel - and having other people say "Well I LOVE your curves" does nothing to help, as it's a confidence issue rather than an attention issue.

The bad days are often for me, so much so that I stopped bothering even to try and find women for dating because I'm finding it difficult to believe that people do like chubbier men - again, that Western idealised notion of beauty, I guess, affects men as well it seems haha!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

It means they don't like overweight people? Surely that doesn't need clarity does it?

I can't say I'm a fan of wobbly bits. I find out of shape bodies a turn off I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who doesn't have wobbly bits and who cares

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By *sThunderThighsWoman over a year ago

Toy Land

"When I was a kid I loved jelly.

Now when I see things that wobble I want to put them in my mouth

That's one of the reasons why we luv you so much C

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

It means they don't like overweight people? Surely that doesn't need clarity does it?

I can't say I'm a fan of wobbly bits. I find out of shape bodies a turn off I'm afraid"

I felt I needed clarity on this so yes, please clarify. From the perspective of someone who isn't a fan a wobble, what would you class as overweight? Technically, on a bmi scale, I'm overweight, but I don't think of myself as overweight. Would you use the nationally agreed medical definition of overweight to decide who you play with? Or do you think curvy is overweight?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP. Our friends was telling us recently how they went to a local club not knowing it was a bbw event. They said people were queing to get in and the place was pack

They played with some very attractive curvy ladies of all shapes and sizes and said they would defiantly go again.

Clubs events aren't for everyone but would such an event boost your confidence?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I was a kid I loved jelly.

Now when I see things that wobble I want to put them in my mouth

That's one of the reasons why we luv you so much C

xxx "

Awwww

That means so much coming from such an amazingly sexy lady! Doing the happy dance here...

Mwah!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP. Our friends was telling us recently how they went to a local club not knowing it was a bbw event. They said people were queing to get in and the place was pack

They played with some very attractive curvy ladies of all shapes and sizes and said they would defiantly go again.

Clubs events aren't for everyone but would such an event boost your confidence?"

That's really interesting, thankyou. We have been to a club but just to watch and see what happens. I think we'd be happy to go again to A different one. I think this thread has helped enormously though already and helped me see that we all have insecurities, but most of us have good hearts and kind souls and would not intentionally set out to hurt someone's feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am fat and wobbly....I don't love my body, but I'm certainly the hung up about it. My OH loves every inch, roll and wobble

I love being different to the majority and have never struggled to find people interested. Confidence goes a long way!

Concentrate on those that do think you're gorgeous and pass the others by...

For the record...you have a fabulous figure! Wear that mum tum with pride cos it's fucking beautiful and so is the rest of you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

You are in no way shape or form overweight

I have to confess I'm not into men who are overweight but mostly because they are more likely to die on me

I'm small (size 8) but I still have wobbly bits that I've never been able to banish after the kids despite loosing 3 stone and doing Ariel yoga but I don't care I'm physically fit and your health at the end of the day is more important than having a flat stomach x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am fat and wobbly....I don't love my body, but I'm certainly the hung up about it. My OH loves every inch, roll and wobble

I love being different to the majority and have never struggled to find people interested. Confidence goes a long way!

Concentrate on those that do think you're gorgeous and pass the others by...

For the record...you have a fabulous figure! Wear that mum tum with pride cos it's fucking beautiful and so is the rest of you!

Don't worry there's plenty of us who love your body! Your OH obviously has good taste (also one of the best looking men on fab)

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By *arry monk40Man over a year ago

Telford

Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies

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By *otwifeforyou1978Couple over a year ago

Telford

I really don't think you have anything to worry about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies"

I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x

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By *arry monk40Man over a year ago

Telford

nice image

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am fat and wobbly....I don't love my body, but I'm certainly the hung up about it. My OH loves every inch, roll and wobble

I love being different to the majority and have never struggled to find people interested. Confidence goes a long way!

Concentrate on those that do think you're gorgeous and pass the others by...

For the record...you have a fabulous figure! Wear that mum tum with pride cos it's fucking beautiful and so is the rest of you!

Don't worry there's plenty of us who love your body! Your OH obviously has good taste (also one of the best looking men on fab)"

blusharama!

Fanks....and you're right, he is a fucking hottie!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would rather sleep with a woman who is a size 38 than a size 8. Some guys like a woman who wobbles, some guys don't. As long as everyone is respectful though

really? That would be morbidly obese and probably around 28 to 30 stone in weight!"

Different strokes and all that. I mean, the right woman at a size 8 will do it for me too. My girlfriend is a size 8 and I still find her sexy as hell. I wouldn't trade her for a bigger woman, just because of that alone. But, I do prefer large women. I'm not into women who detest their body because of their size though; I think a woman should have the right to want her body how she wants, regardless of my preferences

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies"

You do know you don't have to insult one kind of woman to compliment another right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies

I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x "

That's really good for clearing up the sinus passages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they say they don't want overweight people that's what it means. It means they don't want me. I'm not in the slightest bit offended by it. They fancy slimmer people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies

I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x

That's really good for clearing up the sinus passages

Plus all the bogeys smell of tea for weeks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP. Our friends was telling us recently how they went to a local club not knowing it was a bbw event. They said people were queing to get in and the place was pack

They played with some very attractive curvy ladies of all shapes and sizes and said they would defiantly go again.

Clubs events aren't for everyone but would such an event boost your confidence?

Definitely go to a BBW event even if it's just to watch. It will give you a massive boost. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies

I just snorted tea out my nose laughing at this. Thank you x

That's really good for clearing up the sinus passages

Plus all the bogeys smell of tea for weeks

Yeah it isn't so great when it all goes back into the cup. Well... depends what you're into really...

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By *osweet69Couple over a year ago

portsmouth

"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies

You do know you don't have to insult one kind of woman to compliment another right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural "

I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot.

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By *lceeWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"...And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond."

Yeah, I do this too but only because if they have six veris and all of their meets have been with those that class themselves as ‘slim’ or ‘athletic’, then it seems to suggest that they are their preferred type. I’ll still respond if interested but I’ll highlight my body type to ensure that they are going into it with eyes wide open.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It doesn't matter what size we are, we all have a hangup about one thing or another and yes, I'm not keen on my own stomach area either.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural

I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot."

Quite right too, all humans are natural. Not every slim woman without wobbly bits is some sort of fitness freak on a strict diet.

We are what we are.

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By *osexyCouple over a year ago

ST AUSTELL

Never quite sure what category I should be in , have changed to curvy

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Love um slap my balls with anything that wobbles you have more fun than all skinny bitches they spend all there lives in bathroom taking stupid selfies"

What a vile thing to say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...And yes i always look at who they have met before and if their meets are fit and slim then i tend to not respond.

I have a petite lady on my verifications list. I met her for coffee because she blew me away with some amazing banter and after a couple of meets couldn't resist her because because of the person she is. Despite being petite she has never been in a gym which dispells a certain stereotype.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural

I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot.

Quite right too, all humans are natural. Not every slim woman without wobbly bits is some sort of fitness freak on a strict diet.

We are what we are."

Today humans eat a lot of things that are anything but natural. That leads to health issues that are not natural. One micro example is that if you see a documentary on Amazon tribes, it's surprising how good their teeth are considering the lack of tooth paste etc. But that's because they don't eat sugary sweets that rot them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Definitely go to a BBW event even if it's just to watch. It will give you a massive boost. x"

A BBW swingers event? I would love to go to one of these, but I don't know of any in the west Yorkshire area. Closest know of one is in the Midlands somewhere.

As for the BBW social club nights (big girls paradise in particular); I went to one, and it was the worst night ever. A guy who was about school disco level DJ, and women with horrible attitudes. Never looked so looked down on in my life for just being somewhere, and I used to dye my hair and spike it, and wear a lot of gendercrossing clothes twenty years ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me.

Thank you!

Thank me for what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

I can only speak for myself, but I don't mind jiggly bits in a woman at all.

With that said, you really don't have an overly jiggly body, even if you are not 'ripped'.

Katie, as I am sure you have been told many times in this thread and in real life: you have a spectacular body. One that should be touched and licked and played with for hours, every single day.

Your mister is a very lucky man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural

I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot."

That's because it's nonsense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me.

Thank you!

Thank me for what?

Fabbing my pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a woman with wobbly bits ,i think it's more natural

I said that on another thread. I just about got put up against a wall and shot.

That's because it's nonsense "

Yes you're right. There's nothing more natural looking on a woman than a rippling 6 pack.

That's why I've stopped doing crunches. They made me look more feminine

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By *rzambiqueMan over a year ago

Edmonton

I love wobbles esp as i have them and also the marks are what makes a person unique so I love everything from wobbles and marks to a flat belly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think club f do bbw events. Not sure.

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By *ork10Man over a year ago

York

You have a gorgeous body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Its funny as i am usually very self concious and do my best to hide my mummy tummy and wobbly bits.

Mr is very complimentory but he kinda has to be haha.

However being on here as helped boost my confidence as a size 14/16 with wobbly bits and tiger stripes i am embracing theseba little more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi. I wanted to thank you but your filters blocked me.

Thank you!

Thank me for what?

Fabbing my pic

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been told before that a woman didn't want to meet me because she would feel self conscious about her wobly bits, genuinely your body doesn't have to be perfect to be sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have wobbly bits, some more than others.

But half of it is down to self confidence.

Maybe a down night tonight, but my wobbly bits make me feel

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By *tothetMan over a year ago

Maidstone

Nowt wrong with wobbly bits for me, my preference would be for curve over cocktail stick every day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has things they dont like about themselves but until i meet an absolute perfect adonis of a man, im not going to worry too much about my flabby bits!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all have wobbly bits, some more than others.

But half of it is down to self confidence.

Maybe a down night tonight, but my wobbly bits make me feel

Looking over your pics you have no wobbly bits that people woukdnt enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all have wobbly bits, some more than others.

But half of it is down to self confidence.

Maybe a down night tonight, but my wobbly bits make me feel

Looking over your pics you have no wobbly bits that people woukdnt enjoy!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nowt wrong with wobbly bits for me, my preference would be for curve over cocktail stick every day"

Cocktail stick?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love em !!! When your fucking a beautiful natural women and her wobbly bits clap together like they giving your technique a round of applause. .....nothing sexier than that !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've found that men seem to prefer a bit of confidence. So apologising for your tiger stripes or wobbly bits isn't good.

I'm at the fuck it point. While I'd like to lose the gut I'm comfortable as I am at the moment mostly.

Be you. You're a beautiful attractive woman OP. Don't apologise for yourself and let your confidence shine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

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for me it’s depends on the person and it’s all about the click and chemistry,of course the physical attraction has to be there too x

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By *naquest321Man over a year ago

Carlisle

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Love that little pouch above the honey pot. Mmm x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shake it baby. Shake it

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like women to have curves. I don’t mind if bits wobble - in fact, i like it when their tits wobble in my face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always worry about my middle, wobbly bits but in all honesty it’s never been an issue with any meets.. although I still do look at profiles and think ‘nope - they wouldn’t fancy me’..

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By *4tCouple over a year ago

warrington

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By *4tCouple over a year ago

warrington

So, would it put you off if a woman's tummy was more than jiggly and was home to a few tigeress stripes?

Also, I've seen on people's profiles, "were not into overweight people" what does that mean?

Please debate and help me to understand what people think about this.

Katie

Mwah!

Thought you were gorgeous from the moment we met you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Big or small I love them all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some guys will like wobbly bits some won't

so concentrate on those who do op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m currently lay on my bed naked with my big belly on display and sent a photo (no filters) to an absolute hunk.... and he loved it.

Plenty of people love wobbly girls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All people I find are beautiful sexual. Be proud of your body sister. Own it X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wobbly bits make the curves which I like. I like the look and feel of curves.

Women who have wobbly bits probably have better mid-fuck snacks too, so wins all round.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wobbly bits make the curves which I like. I like the look and feel of curves.

Women who have wobbly bits probably have better mid-fuck snacks too, so wins all round."

Gin and crisps

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By *anmansanMan over a year ago

London

I prefer it!

Less self importance or stroppyness.

I find the ones with tight bodies are tight lovers... I’m a fine one to talk though

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