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Please stop sending me friends invite so you can get off on my pics!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm getting plenty of friends invites daily from - usually guys - sending me friends invites when I have never even chatted to them!
I can easily imagine why.
Is this common to other ladies on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here. |
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it's constant! I wish there was a way to stop it, I think it's rude for someone you have never conversed with to ask to see private pictures, would they walk up to you in the street and ask if you had any pics in your purse that they could see? ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I'm getting plenty of friends invites daily from - usually guys - sending me friends invites when I have never even chatted to them!
I can easily imagine why.
Is this common to other ladies on here?"
We get that a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it does wind me up when a couple from some island off Scotland sends a friends request. Quite clearly it's a perv session. My usual trick is to wait till much later accept request look at their private photos then block them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here."
Exactly I was wondering this. I think it's more likely people being nosy than actually getting off over pics of me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here.
Exactly I was wondering this. I think it's more likely people being nosy than actually getting off over pics of me... "
I think so. Its a sex site after all. You're displaying teasing pics for public view, if they like what they see its only natural they want to see more. After all isn't that why we display public ones... To draw attention?
If you don't like it the don't display teasing pics... Maybe just a face PIC. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm getting plenty of friends invites daily from - usually guys - sending me friends invites when I have never even chatted to them!
I can easily imagine why.
Is this common to other ladies on here?" its what happens when your a hottie.... just block n delete ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Yes, I just leave them and don't delete, then they can't resend them
Thanks
Didn't know they can't send again if you keep them"
I only found this out the other day too.
Clearly states in my profile, won't accept requests unless we've chatted.
And if people judt want to be friends, thinking they'll get to look at my other pics, they'd be very disappointed.
I swap my public, friends pics round, there's nothing in there that hasn't been public at some point |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here."
Me either. I would assume it's because they like the look of a profile but may be attracted to faces more than bodies so send a friends request in the hope they then have more visual information to make that attraction decision on. |
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I either ignore them or wait until they are off line, accept, perv their friend only pics, maybe fab 1 or 2 to show I was there, then unfriend.
If I'm feeling particularly evil I will send them a message thanking them for allowing me to view their pics...... it passes the time ![](/icons/s/2/angel.gif) |
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We get them too.
Bet those that we have accepted expected to find nude pics.
They would have been sadly disappointed as we prefer class not trash.
Will continue to delete as it says in our profile, not that most read it as we still get the obligatory cock pics ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here.
Exactly I was wondering this. I think it's more likely people being nosy than actually getting off over pics of me...
I think so. Its a sex site after all. You're displaying teasing pics for public view, if they like what they see its only natural they want to see more. After all isn't that why we display public ones... To draw attention?
If you don't like it the don't display teasing pics... Maybe just a face PIC. "
A public face pic??? Er ..no thanks |
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Used to think the constant friends requests on a previous couples account was because of having private pics. But still got them when we only had public pics. Suspect there are a number of different reasons for the requests including vanity, association and a commonly stated one of being able to see when on-line and posting updates etc. |
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It's very common your a woman
I have a paticular guy who sends them alot,I delete on purpose,bemused by it I write in private notes dates he sends them,he has never messaged me,
I introduced myself to him once at a party,he said yes I know who you are,and looked away,was very offish,well why is he sending me friends requests I haven't a clue ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here.
Exactly I was wondering this. I think it's more likely people being nosy than actually getting off over pics of me...
I think so. Its a sex site after all. You're displaying teasing pics for public view, if they like what they see its only natural they want to see more. After all isn't that why we display public ones... To draw attention?
If you don't like it the don't display teasing pics... Maybe just a face PIC. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to get friend requests before I started telling people I actually want to be friends before friending people lol... I've got a public wall of photos as a buffer zone for those who want to use organic produced pornography as wanking material... which is what I direct people towards if they get insistent with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to chat to women before sending a request. Have occasionally sent a friend request without chatting but its just with the intention of finding them easily so we can chat another day. I dont do it to access friends only pictures although i do tend to have a quick browse when someone accepts my request to make sure there is nothing weird they are in to. Im more interested in the profile to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I either ignore them or wait until they are off line, accept, perv their friend only pics, maybe fab 1 or 2 to show I was there, then unfriend.
If I'm feeling particularly evil I will send them a message thanking them for allowing me to view their pics...... it passes the time "
Hahahaha...cheeky. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here.
Exactly I was wondering this. I think it's more likely people being nosy than actually getting off over pics of me...
I think so. Its a sex site after all. You're displaying teasing pics for public view, if they like what they see its only natural they want to see more. After all isn't that why we display public ones... To draw attention?
If you don't like it the don't display teasing pics... Maybe just a face PIC.
A public face pic??? Er ..no thanks"
Then a black siloette. That me reduce the peeves and allow you more time to look at your own perousal without the hassel. Its,actually a very simple solution to your annoyance. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ignore the request and if they persist, then use the handy block button.
Sadly, it’s gonna be a common problem, as they’re plenty of guys on here who think with their second brain and forget that there’s an actual person the other end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm getting plenty of friends invites daily from - usually guys - sending me friends invites when I have never even chatted to them!
I can easily imagine why.
Is this common to other ladies on here?" just a bit lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so tempted to send one to everyone on the thread
Won't bother me, I don't look "
I don't believe when women say that .
The curiosity is too strong gor anyone ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm getting plenty of friends invites daily from - usually guys - sending me friends invites when I have never even chatted to them!
I can easily imagine why.
Is this common to other ladies on here?"
It's not only you ladies ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I either ignore them or wait until they are off line, accept, perv their friend only pics, maybe fab 1 or 2 to show I was there, then unfriend.
If I'm feeling particularly evil I will send them a message thanking them for allowing me to view their pics...... it passes the time " lol this made me giggle xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP
with 11 pics almost all the same, maybe people want to see a bit more of you before chatting, so mix up your pics a bit more with some variation, drop the friend only pics down and you'll probably get left
Friend request sent BTW ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I either ignore them or wait until they are off line, accept, perv their friend only pics, maybe fab 1 or 2 to show I was there, then unfriend.
If I'm feeling particularly evil I will send them a message thanking them for allowing me to view their pics...... it passes the time " oh I like this ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I'm getting plenty of friends invites daily from - usually guys - sending me friends invites when I have never even chatted to them!
I can easily imagine why.
Is this common to other ladies on here?"
There are zillions of naked pictures on the web and free porn sites in abundance. Do you honestly think someone is asking to see your tame pics to get off on considering what's readily available?!! |
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"I'm not sure why or if anyone here uses Fab pics to get off when there is free vide. Maybe im wrong on this but i wouldnt have thought that was the reason for friending someone on here."
My point exactly. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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