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By *immy444 OP Man
over a year ago
bristol |
Why are so many women on here and some couples for that matter from what I have read of their profiles ...so up themselves ..they think they are gods gift, have so many exclusions and so damn picky ...i will put my tin hat on ...ready for replies like they are in the minority and its a buyers market etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well as the female half of this couple,i should point out that we have a very good sex life...we are on this site to merely enhance it....meaning...we dont want to shag our way through FAB but any meets we have we want it to at least be enjoyable and memorable, if not, whats the point.
So we need to have people meet our requirements in order for us to enjoy the experience.
Hope that helps.  |
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By *immy444 OP Man
over a year ago
bristol |
Gods gift weird woman i bet you are and you have plenty of verification sfrom your lovers no doubt
Always makes me laugh those who put on profile must see pics and have not got any of them on their profile double standards but they have their reasons I guess ...good jobs and dont wanna be caught """ |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Gods gift weird woman i bet you are and you have plenty of verification sfrom your lovers no doubt"
Oh yes, I have strings of lovers awaiting my languid beckoning when I feel the urge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always makes me laugh those who put on profile must see pics and have not got any of them on their profile double standards but they have their reasons I guess ...good jobs and dont wanna be caught """"
Maybe they hide them for the time being we have lots of pics dont mean everyone gets to see them all as you can set them all to private.... now if we did that would that make us guilty of having double standards ? no it wouldnt as we would send one back if one was asked for.... or like ours having a request for a picture when first making contact with us....im guessing that just makes us plain rude and so up themselves...  |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
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Always makes me laugh those who put on profile must see pics and have not got any of them on their profile double standards but they have their reasons I guess ...good jobs and dont wanna be caught """
Maybe they hide them for the time being we have lots of pics dont mean everyone gets to see them all as you can set them all to private.... now if we did that would that make us guilty of having double standards ? no it wouldnt as we would send one back if one was asked for.... or like ours having a request for a picture when first making contact with us....im guessing that just makes us plain rude and so up themselves... "
we ask the same, and if we make first contact we will always send a picture of us both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always makes me laugh those who put on profile must see pics and have not got any of them on their profile double standards but they have their reasons I guess ...good jobs and dont wanna be caught """
Maybe they hide them for the time being we have lots of pics dont mean everyone gets to see them all as you can set them all to private.... now if we did that would that make us guilty of having double standards ? no it wouldnt as we would send one back if one was asked for.... or like ours having a request for a picture when first making contact with us....im guessing that just makes us plain rude and so up themselves...
we ask the same, and if we make first contact we will always send a picture of us both. "
How dare you!!! thats what we do lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are so many women on here and some couples for that matter from what I have read of their profiles ...so up themselves ..they think they are gods gift, have so many exclusions and so damn picky ...i will put my tin hat on ...ready for replies like they are in the minority and its a buyers market etc"
Simple......Because we can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think its people being stuck up or anything like that yeah some people do think the are gods gift. but it's just you may not be there type just don't take it personal xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are so many women on here and some couples for that matter from what I have read of their profiles ...so up themselves ..they think they are gods gift, have so many exclusions and so damn picky ...i will put my tin hat on ...ready for replies like they are in the minority and its a buyers market etc"
I think it comes from lots and lots of - especially single guys - messaging but they don't meet your criteria of what you are looking for.
You just try to filter out the ones you dont want to meet by putting it on your profile and that what might make it look like you are arrogant or full of yourself. But at the end you only want to find what you are looking for...
It is difficult finding the right match going by pictures or messages people sent. Also there are so many timewasters on here. Just today I found a guy with pics stolen from another guys profile on here..... people come up with all sorts of ideas just to get a meet with someone.... no wonder some people profiles sound arrogant....
Sandra xxx  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Why are so many women on here and some couples for that matter from what I have read of their profiles ...so up themselves ..they think they are gods gift, have so many exclusions and so damn picky ...i will put my tin hat on ...ready for replies like they are in the minority and its a buyers market etc"
I would ask yourself if you get so pent up over rejection why put yourself thru this.... if you were expecting insta-shag then you are not in the right place.. and i would suggest swinging is not for you if the result is giving yourself an ulcer just because people don't reply... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Obsession can be a dangerous trait weird woman ...I can provide one to one counselling when you next venture to Bristol !!!"
Thats OK, I have plenty of guys who are willing to let me lie down and tell them my secrets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't understand the obsession with what is wrong with everyone else...
Nor me. I'm becoming obsessed with the trend  
I might be obsessed with your obsession! "
Now you have me obsessed with your obsession about me obsessing about the trend about folk getting obsessed about others obsessing with what other folks do 
*self implodes*  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I can't understand the obsession with what is wrong with everyone else...
Nor me. I'm becoming obsessed with the trend
I might be obsessed with your obsession!
Now you have me obsessed with your obsession about me obsessing about the trend about folk getting obsessed about others obsessing with what other folks do
*self implodes* "
You're obsessed you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obsession can be a dangerous trait weird woman ...I can provide one to one counselling when you next venture to Bristol !!!
Thats OK, I have plenty of guys who are willing to let me lie down and tell them my secrets."
Lol good answer |
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"I can't understand the obsession with what is wrong with everyone else...
Nor me. I'm becoming obsessed with the trend
I might be obsessed with your obsession!
Now you have me obsessed with your obsession about me obsessing about the trend about folk getting obsessed about others obsessing with what other folks do
*self implodes* "
sweeps frock up with dust pan and brush lol x |
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By *YLINDERCouple
over a year ago
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"well as the female half of this couple,i should point out that we have a very good sex life...we are on this site to merely enhance it....meaning...we dont want to shag our way through FAB but any meets we have we want it to at least be enjoyable and memorable, if not, whats the point.
So we need to have people meet our requirements in order for us to enjoy the experience.
Hope that helps. "
fully agree here |
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"I can't understand the obsession with what is wrong with everyone else...
Nor me. I'm becoming obsessed with the trend
I might be obsessed with your obsession!
Now you have me obsessed with your obsession about me obsessing about the trend about folk getting obsessed about others obsessing with what other folks do
*self implodes* "
Frock are you OCD about obsessive obsessions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why complain? Live with it. Supply and demand innit? Plain and simple fact, if you are looking for an easy shag, this aint the place to be. Besides if it was easy you wouldn't value the friends you do make would you?
As to photos, I have a few on display, I have a few more in private. I have never had a problem asking for a face pic and anyone who won't give them doesn't get persevered with....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am picky as I won't just shag anyone that asks there has to be an attraction and I state my preferences, by no means do I think I am Gods gift and have even said this on my profile |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You're wasting your time writing about it here. These forums are so clicky. People just wanna chat in here. Dont think the site is for that"
This is true, and I have met many lovely people (and not so lovely) using this site. However I come on the forums to chat with people. Its not mutually exclusive. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"You're wasting your time writing about it here. These forums are so clicky. People just wanna chat in here. Dont think the site is for that"
pssst Youre in the Swingers Chat Forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're wasting your time writing about it here. These forums are so clicky. People just wanna chat in here. Dont think the site is for that
pssst Youre in the Swingers Chat Forum "
He's just upset because of how his own post went |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You're wasting your time writing about it here. These forums are so clicky. People just wanna chat in here. Dont think the site is for that
pssst Youre in the Swingers Chat Forum
He's just upset because of how his own post went"
To be honest I wonder why this post was posted if one so similar was already up. Must be lots of grumpy single guys on here. I do hope they aren't all going to post about how horrible the rest of us are. |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
I agree, there are too many damn picky people with so many exclusions who think they're god's gift!
Even though I meet all their requirements, erm ... as a protest, I'm going to boycott them.
From now on, I'm looking for people who'll do anybody!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whats hard to understand, everyone should be picky who they sleep with.
just because they wouldnt sleep with you isnt a reason to have a go, this is not a free for all.
couples are always going to be hard to get into, they are 2 people who have to say yes, rather than just the one. they might of expierenced some poor meets so thats why they say no to this, no to that etc.
end of the day if they in a proper relationship they need to be picky as one wrong meet could fuck things up for them both if they are not carefull, plus they obviousily want someone whos going to enhance their sex life, if they not being picky they wont get this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree, there are too many damn picky people with so many exclusions who think they're god's gift!
Even though I meet all their requirements, erm ... as a protest, I'm going to boycott them.
From now on, I'm looking for people who'll do anybody! "
see op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my likes and dislikes and my spare time is precious.
I would rather be on my own with my toys than just with any man with a dick and no brain.
If peeps do not like it, then tough!
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"whats hard to understand, everyone should be picky who they sleep with.
just because they wouldnt sleep with you isnt a reason to have a go, this is not a free for all.
couples are always going to be hard to get into, they are 2 people who have to say yes, rather than just the one. they might of expierenced some poor meets so thats why they say no to this, no to that etc.
end of the day if they in a proper relationship they need to be picky as one wrong meet could fuck things up for them both if they are not carefull, plus they obviousily want someone whos going to enhance their sex life, if they not being picky they wont get this.
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This is a very good answer. |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
"I agree, there are too many damn picky people with so many exclusions who think they're god's gift!
Even though I meet all their requirements, erm ... as a protest, I'm going to boycott them.
From now on, I'm looking for people who'll do anybody!
see op "
Let me revise that ...
From now on, I'm looking for people who are not wearing tin hats who'll do anybody! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have my likes and dislikes and my spare time is precious.
I would rather be on my own with my toys than just with any man with a dick and no brain.
If peeps do not like it, then tough!
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and oh how i go through my toys and batteries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We personally have our preferences and exclusions to ensure everyone involved in the meet is happy, content and satisfied. How does seeking people with particular qualities make you up yourself? As mentioned before, alot of the people on this site (including us) have a good sex life and are swinging for enhancement etc and thus should be able to find someone who suits our desires as well as their own.
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RE:OP'S THREAD XX
Being 6weeks "newbies" to this FAB SITE
We obviously needed to state clearly what we needed & why we were wanted to join this Gr8site x
To us ~ A certain amount of totally understandable rules would "automatically apply!!" (without qwestion !!)
EG: safe sex,prefered age range,N/S's etc etc ...
so you automatically mention these in your initial profile.
Then ~ (lol) as the days progress ,you have dozens of silly young members asking ~ "do ya do MSN?? CAMSEX ?? FONESEX?? when ya dont even know their name??? WTF?? pmaol xx
SO ~ obviously ,you then "ADD" these "ALSO" lol~ to your "EVER INCREASING................!!!!!!!" EVER IN C R E A S I N G ..... list of dont do's / or dont Want's BUT ??(surely that's normal proceedure NO? not that ppl take any notice of what you "actually" write in your profiles
(ooops sorry OP !! YOU DO ~OBVIOUSLY)
pmaol~Grrrrrrrr ~"why bother in the 1stplace ????? !!!
AS FOR PPL BEING "UP THEIR OWN ARSES!!??
OMFG!! ~ i can suddenly 'smell' a little green fabmonster lurking round swingers U bend LOL;-);-) OP: ONLY PULLING YA WOODEN LEG M8!!;-)
"what that saying ~tha cant please ALL a t'ppl ALL o'the time,but Ya can please SUM o'the ppl ,sum o'the time xx
or better still ~ ppl r brought into our lives 4 a reason,a season,or a LIFETIME !! & little green monsters arent 1 of em sorry m8!!!
SO HERE'S TO ALL THE "1783" FABSTER'S THAT HAVE WROTE TO CARL & I IN JUST 6 WEEKS !!! ~ & the other 582 fab dog lovers that have ALL sent their best wishes & prayers 4 our little Beau Beau ,that has been fighting 4 his life ~ for the past 12 days now with Parvo !!!
(upD8: he's off his drips and been bathed & not been sick 4 ova 48hrs ! we are gonna be bringing the little fighter home ppl) thank god !!!! xx
& to conclude Re:OP;-);-) answer: Move on to the next page,its a simple as that really !! I personally do not intend to move MY GOALPOST 4 "ANYONE" ~not even if they "beg" ....mmmmmm??? then agen??? think that be another site though (sum how);-)
OP: you really did set ya sen up 4 that 1 m8 dintya xx you take care Mwah Alex x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't understand the obsession with what is wrong with everyone else..."
The irony is it's those that are up themselves who think they're God's gift that start these whining threads as they can't believe people turn them down.
Us lesser mortals know we're not everyone's cup of tea and look to those whose boat we float. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have my likes and dislikes and my spare time is precious.
I would rather be on my own with my toys than just with any man with a dick and no brain.
If peeps do not like it, then tough!
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+100
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Everyone has a choice to be picky about they sleep with. Surely you aren't the type that is willing to stick his pecker into any mobile hole that you find...
How would feel if a girl who not particularly attractive beckoned you to sleep with her and you said no thank and she turns round and call you up ur own arse and picky? Are you will to just use a brown paper bag and tell you urself a hole's a hole, at least I got some tonite... NO... I am sure you have your own standards..
Personally, I wouldn't bother. I have my likes and dislikes. I have my personality and my traits. If someone is after something particular and I fall short of it, you think I would be worried.... I just dust the dirt off my shoulder and move on.... Simples... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are so many women on here and some couples for that matter from what I have read of their profiles ...so up themselves ..they think they are gods gift, have so many exclusions and so damn picky ...i will put my tin hat on ...ready for replies like they are in the minority and its a buyers market etc"
People can choose you know just because they are swingers there is no must play involved. It sounds like you don't measure up to requirements for many so you just need to move on and find ones who will meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has a choice to be picky about they sleep with. Surely you aren't the type that is willing to stick his pecker into any mobile hole that you find...
How would feel if a girl who not particularly attractive beckoned you to sleep with her and you said no thank and she turns round and call you up ur own arse and picky? Are you will to just use a brown paper bag and tell you urself a hole's a hole, at least I got some tonite... NO... I am sure you have your own standards..
Personally, I wouldn't bother. I have my likes and dislikes. I have my personality and my traits. If someone is after something particular and I fall short of it, you think I would be worried.... I just dust the dirt off my shoulder and move on.... Simples..."
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"whats hard to understand, everyone should be picky who they sleep with.
just because they wouldnt sleep with you isnt a reason to have a go, this is not a free for all.
couples are always going to be hard to get into, they are 2 people who have to say yes, rather than just the one. they might of expierenced some poor meets so thats why they say no to this, no to that etc.
end of the day if they in a proper relationship they need to be picky as one wrong meet could fuck things up for them both if they are not carefull, plus they obviousily want someone whos going to enhance their sex life, if they not being picky they wont get this.
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Very well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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+2............Single guys are always in demmand............all single guys have the same chance with a couple..............All depends on what kind of guy they require........we like submissive guys...sorry Hubby likes sub guys ......we do we dont we do we dont.....Andi adores vwe black guys and picks them every time....her choice get it.....Loose the attitude it is a buyers market and it all depends what your profile is offering.....Whining on here wont help your cause.......We get called the most stuck up our own arse couple on here..but some just some single guys live for a meet with us.....so yep we stuck up..lol and so are they... |
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"Everyone has a choice to be picky about they sleep with. Surely you aren't the type that is willing to stick his pecker into any mobile hole that you find...
How would feel if a girl who not particularly attractive beckoned you to sleep with her and you said no thank and she turns round and call you up ur own arse and picky? Are you will to just use a brown paper bag and tell you urself a hole's a hole, at least I got some tonite... NO... I am sure you have your own standards..
Personally, I wouldn't bother. I have my likes and dislikes. I have my personality and my traits. If someone is after something particular and I fall short of it, you think I would be worried.... I just dust the dirt off my shoulder and move on.... Simples...
+1"
Damn, 3 things will need to happen here. Either I replace the keyboard or type slower pressing hard on the keys or I make sure I pre_iew my messages before posting cos my last post, though it made sense, makes me feel like I am fresh off the banana boat.... |
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"well as the female half of this couple,i should point out that we have a very good sex life...we are on this site to merely enhance it....meaning...we dont want to shag our way through FAB but any meets we have we want it to at least be enjoyable and memorable, if not, whats the point.
So we need to have people meet our requirements in order for us to enjoy the experience.
Hope that helps. fully agree here "
Yup...we are picky cos if we didnt have swinging we wud still have each other, this is the dessert not the main course.
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"Oh we ain't fussy. We are no gift to anyone.... we don't care who you are or what you look like...you're in. Oh yes, we will take you all.
Attractive eh? Interested now eh? "
Nobody? . God you lot are hard to please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was Gods gift but he took me back after Christmas and swapped me for a DVD box set 
Tut, men! Never satisfied! "
I'm sure God has a woman's sense of humour though...why else would she come up with the idea of males reaching their sexual peak when they didn't have the first clue about women, and females reaching it when they were confident in themselves and had reached an age where they had sex on tap? Strong evidence I believe.... |
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"I was Gods gift but he took me back after Christmas and swapped me for a DVD box set
Tut, men! Never satisfied!
I'm sure God has a woman's sense of humour though...why else would she come up with the idea of males reaching their sexual peak when they didn't have the first clue about women, and females reaching it when they were confident in themselves and had reached an age where they had sex on tap? Strong evidence I believe.... "
Ohhh yes.... so true..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"+2............Single guys are always in demmand............all single guys have the same chance with a couple..............All depends on what kind of guy they require........we like submissive guys...sorry Hubby likes sub guys ......we do we dont we do we dont.....Andi adores vwe black guys and picks them every time....her choice get it.....Loose the attitude it is a buyers market and it all depends what your profile is offering.....Whining on here wont help your cause.......We get called the most stuck up our own arse couple on here..but some just some single guys live for a meet with us.....so yep we stuck up..lol and so are they..."
I feel like an object (sniff), I demand sexual equality, I feel violated..... (please?)
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"I was Gods gift but he took me back after Christmas and swapped me for a DVD box set
Tut, men! Never satisfied!
I'm sure God has a woman's sense of humour though...why else would she come up with the idea of males reaching their sexual peak when they didn't have the first clue about women, and females reaching it when they were confident in themselves and had reached an age where they had sex on tap? Strong evidence I believe.... "
Of course she does |
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