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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I see alot of posts on here about male time wasters, but recently I have had my time wasted twice by two different women. Have any other guys had there time wasted when arranged meet doesn’t turn up? Also what are your opinions on this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had meet arranged with one lady, went to we’re we were supposed to be meeting, in the wet and servear windy conditions, was messaged to say she was 2 mins away but she never showed up despite me waiting 40 mins after arranged time
Other lady supposed to be on holiday in Scarborough, went to hotel were she was supposed to be staying and waited outside, she never showed up either  |
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Presumably you saw face pics, ran them through a reverse image search, then spoke on the phone?
Did they contact you afterwards?
Were you aware that 'she' had set up other people to meet at the same time?
On a positive note you still got a meet verification from the other guy that was stood up.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Presumably you saw face pics, ran them through a reverse image search, then spoke on the phone?
Did they contact you afterwards?
Were you aware that 'she' had set up other people to meet at the same time?
On a positive note you still got a meet verification from the other guy that was stood up.
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Yes I ran the images through Google reverse image search and the other guy I knew about but as we were both stood up we decided to verify each other and put we were stood up.
They haven't contacted me since no
Its still a noting but I will get over it |
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Been let down loads of times by men and couples. Biggest waste of time on here is from messages sent from people who are too busy to read my profile before contacting me. Then complaining when I'm polite enough to reply and say no thanks. Or begging messages trying to convince me to meet them. Never works.
The fact people don't turn up is just part and parcel of swinging. Can't accept that then maybe this site isn't for you. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Been let down loads of times by men and couples. Biggest waste of time on here is from messages sent from people who are too busy to read my profile before contacting me. Then complaining when I'm polite enough to reply and say no thanks. Or begging messages trying to convince me to meet them. Never works.
The fact people don't turn up is just part and parcel of swinging. Can't accept that then maybe this site isn't for you. "
Nonsence.
No one likes being stood up. Off fab or otherwise. Being pissed off for a few hours about it is perfectly normal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I see alot of posts on here about male time wasters, but recently I have had my time wasted twice by two different women. Have any other guys had there time wasted when arranged meet doesn’t turn up? Also what are your opinions on this?"
i dont time waste. Ave found out that i coudnt send u a message because of my age
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I see alot of posts on here about male time wasters, but recently I have had my time wasted twice by two different women. Have any other guys had there time wasted when arranged meet doesn’t turn up? Also what are your opinions on this?i dont time waste. Ave found out that i coudnt send u a message because of my age"
that's cool you won't be wasting his time  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I see alot of posts on here about male time wasters, but recently I have had my time wasted twice by two different women. Have any other guys had there time wasted when arranged meet doesn’t turn up? Also what are your opinions on this?i dont time waste. Ave found out that i coudnt send u a message because of my age"
Hi. I haven't messaged u about a meet, though I do like the your pics and would happily meet u if u wanted to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women are, by far, the worst offenders when it comes to timewasting on here. You're not going to have much luck getting sympathy on here OP. The forum is highly sycophantic and no one wants to really upset the geese that lay the golden eggs. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Women are, by far, the worst offenders when it comes to timewasting on here. You're not going to have much luck getting sympathy on here OP. The forum is highly sycophantic and no one wants to really upset the geese that lay the golden eggs. "
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"Women are, by far, the worst offenders when it comes to timewasting on here. You're not going to have much luck getting sympathy on here OP. The forum is highly sycophantic and no one wants to really upset the geese that lay the golden eggs. "
If the goose isn't laying the golden egg then presumably the sycophancy is misguided...the boys do protest too much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In over 5 years, I've never been stood up. Had a couple of cancellations and I've cancelled a couple of meets, but always gave plenty of notice and then rearranged. |
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Unfortunately, there are a lot of timewasters about. I think you will find its either a case of, a genuine female who wants to step into the world, but becomes unsure for whatever reason and get's cold feet. Or the strangest one of all, its a lone male in a fake woman's profile. And this is exactly why we make sure we get them on webcam before any meeting. This helps some of them out, especially the fake one. The fake ones instantly say they haven't got a webcam or the webcam broke. No excuses in this day in age. We all have webcams on our phones, laptops, tablets etc with various apps etc to webcam on.
We've had our time wasted several times by females. Out of over 20 females, we have been in talks with on here, we've met just 2. We're kind of use to it now an can roughly spot who will follow through with a meet now though. So it doesn't overly disappoint us now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been let down loads of times by men and couples. Biggest waste of time on here is from messages sent from people who are too busy to read my profile before contacting me. Then complaining when I'm polite enough to reply and say no thanks. Or begging messages trying to convince me to meet them. Never works.
The fact people don't turn up is just part and parcel of swinging. Can't accept that then maybe this site isn't for you.
Nonsence.
No one likes being stood up. Off fab or otherwise. Being pissed off for a few hours about it is perfectly normal."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Including this, we are on 3 sites. The time wasting from males, females and couples is exactly in the same measure and on all 3 sites.
As time passes, you get more wise. Simply report, block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all, i have just leaned how to report profiles so will ow report the 2 women who arranged to meet me and never turned up
Hopefully admin deal with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women are, by far, the worst offenders when it comes to timewasting on here. You're not going to have much luck getting sympathy on here OP. The forum is highly sycophantic and no one wants to really upset the geese that lay the golden eggs. "
How many men, women and couples have you arranged to meet and been stood up or cancelled on???
I've arranged meets with men, women and couples AND I can say the highest percentage of let downs has by far been MEN .......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks all, i have just leaned how to report profiles so will ow report the 2 women who arranged to meet me and never turned up
Hopefully admin deal with them "
Just what do you expect admin to do...
Tarred and feathered?
Send a strongly worded memo??
Force Someone to meet you???
Like all moany threads on here I can't see this ending well.
I think if you ask you will find Every one on here who meets has had no shows.
The answer is in your own hands change the way you use the site...
Wanders back to the man cave...
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