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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Talking to a male friend.
According to him, men prefer good girls/women as girlfriends, but like to know a few "sluts", to have as a go to when they just need a fuck.
True?? Or bull??
Have no idea.
Open for discussion.
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By *an123Man
over a year ago
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Define a slut or so called good girl? One person's sex drive is not always going to be the same as someone else. A girl who enjoys sex a lot is not a slut just a person who knows what they want and how to get it. Just as an aside, do women want a male slut or a strong and steady type? ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Define a slut or so called good girl? One person's sex drive is not always going to be the same as someone else. A girl who enjoys sex a lot is not a slut just a person who knows what they want and how to get it. Just as an aside, do women want a male slut or a strong and steady type? "
I want a strong and steady type who enjoys sexual variety. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Define a slut or so called good girl? One person's sex drive is not always going to be the same as someone else. A girl who enjoys sex a lot is not a slut just a person who knows what they want and how to get it. Just as an aside, do women want a male slut or a strong and steady type? "
That's exactly what I said to him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Labels, labels....
The need for people to feel better about themselves by applying derogatory labels to others saddens me.
If you choose to apply a label to yourself, that is of your own choosing.
I like people, not the label attached to them by others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking to a male friend.
According to him, men prefer good girls/women as girlfriends, but like to know a few "sluts", to have as a go to when they just need a fuck.
True?? Or bull??
Have no idea.
Open for discussion.
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If you're a decent man and a decent lover your "good girl" will give you all the "slutty" action you need. 12 years of marriage to a good girl and never had as much sex as I did back then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very true....which type are you Donna?"
I am neither.
I am a woman who embraces her sexuality.I have experienced sexual fantasies I wanted to try out.
Does that make me a slut?? No I don't believe so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definition will Be different from person to person. Personally, I like a good girl who is filthy in the bedroom. Maybe it’s me who wants her to have a mind of a slut. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talking to a male friend.
According to him, men prefer good girls/women as girlfriends, but like to know a few "sluts", to have as a go to when they just need a fuck.
True?? Or bull??
Have no idea.
Open for discussion.
If you're a decent man and a decent lover your "good girl" will give you all the "slutty" action you need. 12 years of marriage to a good girl and never had as much sex as I did back then "
Very true. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's a distinct double standard here. I posted earlier today that Fidel Castro is thought to have had sex with 35 000 women. If a woman on fab had 35 000 verifications..... do you think she'd be famous for smoking cigars? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think women need to be classed as anything.
How can anyone tell who's a 'good girl' or a 'slut' anyway.
Nothing wrong with being confident and enjoying your sexual desires x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got called a good girl during a group mastorbatory session the other day, it made me laugh and nearly gag on the cock I was paying attention to... Men are real funny sometimes imo ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's a distinct double standard here. I posted earlier today that Fidel Castro is thought to have had sex with 35 000 women. If a woman on fab had 35 000 verifications..... do you think she'd be famous for smoking cigars?"
How on earth could he have had sex with over 35000.... come on that's bull |
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"There's a distinct double standard here. I posted earlier today that Fidel Castro is thought to have had sex with 35 000 women. If a woman on fab had 35 000 verifications..... do you think she'd be famous for smoking cigars?
How on earth could he have had sex with over 35000.... come on that's bull "
Apparrently he had sex with one woman before lunch and another before dinner every day. |
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"There's a distinct double standard here. I posted earlier today that Fidel Castro is thought to have had sex with 35 000 women. If a woman on fab had 35 000 verifications..... do you think she'd be famous for smoking cigars?
How on earth could he have had sex with over 35000.... come on that's bull
Apparrently he had sex with one woman before lunch and another before dinner every day."
That's 730 women a year... ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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"There's a distinct double standard here. I posted earlier today that Fidel Castro is thought to have had sex with 35 000 women. If a woman on fab had 35 000 verifications..... do you think she'd be famous for smoking cigars?
How on earth could he have had sex with over 35000.... come on that's bull
Apparrently he had sex with one woman before lunch and another before dinner every day.
That's 730 women a year... "
And died at 90...
I just say grace. But each to their own... ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking to a male friend.
According to him, men prefer good girls/women as girlfriends, but like to know a few "sluts", to have as a go to when they just need a fuck.
True?? Or bull??
Have no idea.
Open for discussion.
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WAIT a second....did you used to have a different name on here OP? Something involving unicorns? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the term slut is somewhat derogatory. Like many of us I find myself here looking for casual encounters, often with strangers. Accordingly I don't judge people on their sexual preferences or the number of people they sleep with as I think that would be hypocritical.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think the term slut is somewhat derogatory. Like many of us I find myself here looking for casual encounters, often with strangers. Accordingly I don't judge people on their sexual preferences or the number of people they sleep with as I think that would be hypocritical.
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I want a soul-mate, a best friend, a mother to my kids, a wife, a sounding board, a lover, a shoulder to cry on, and yes, a slut.... and Jayne is all of those, and more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I want a soul-mate, a best friend, a mother to my kids, a wife, a sounding board, a lover, a shoulder to cry on, and yes, a slut.... and Jayne is all of those, and more."
Then you are one lucky man ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You just want a good girl who has slut tendencies when the time is right...best of both worlds...it's like the good stuff with the naughty stuff win win..
If you have a few sluts in the side lord knows what you could catch lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You just want a good girl who has slut tendencies when the time is right...best of both worlds...it's like the good stuff with the naughty stuff win win..
If you have a few sluts in the side lord knows what you could catch lol "
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"I want a soul-mate, a best friend, a mother to my kids, a wife, a sounding board, a lover, a shoulder to cry on, and yes, a slut.... and Jayne is all of those, and more.
Then you are one lucky man "
I am the luckiest man in the world, and have been for 30 years! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd think that's true of a lot of people, including men.
Sometimes the type you like to fuck isn't necessarily the ones you want to introduce to yer mum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors. |
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From my experience with guys its very true- I guess there must be lots of good girls as being a slut is very popular it seems lol.
I can be both, and have been with some guys but usually I get bored of being good ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Spot on. I think the risk of being judged can hold some (by no means all) women back from really letting go and trying new things sexually. Which is a shame, we're only here for a blink of an eye when you think about it. I'm trying more each day to give less of a fuck about what others think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors."
this. I think a lot more women would enjoy themselves more if they didnt feel judged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Spot on. I think the risk of being judged can hold some (by no means all) women back from really letting go and trying new things sexually. Which is a shame, we're only here for a blink of an eye when you think about it. I'm trying more each day to give less of a fuck about what others think. "
Amen!
There's one life. No second chances to live a full life. Why deprive yourself or spend your life being ashamed of who you are? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Men usually prefer slut and dirty girls to bang and good girls for girl friends and if they are super good and caring as wife's that's ugly truth cant help![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Men usually prefer slut and dirty girls to bang and good girls for girl friends and if they are super good and caring as wife's that's ugly truth cant help "
So it is true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men usually prefer slut and dirty girls to bang and good girls for girl friends and if they are super good and caring as wife's that's ugly truth cant help "
So...welcome to 2017! The cryosleep you entered in 1922 was successful and we've woken you up now that we've discovered the cure for ignorance! Step right this way..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men usually prefer slut and dirty girls to bang and good girls for girl friends and if they are super good and caring as wife's that's ugly truth cant help
So it is true "
There are soooo many comments on this thread, so many to believe..not this one..pls ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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Your friend is a sexist idiot who needs therapy for his Madonna whore complex! Sod that!
Men who are truly confident in themselves understand that women are people with different aspects to their personalities same as men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your friend is a sexist idiot who needs therapy for his Madonna whore complex! Sod that!
Men who are truly confident in themselves understand that women are people with different aspects to their personalities same as men. "
My friend is slightly ignorant but by all means not a sexist idiot. Luckily for him, I will open his mind about women. One cannot be born with all the knowledge. Surely we can forgive a man who is willing to listen and learn.
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By (user no longer on site)
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The whole virgin- slut dichotomy is patriarchal bullshit, which unfortunately many women also buy into.
Okay men how many men have the " madonna whore complex" ... i bet a few too many
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now I'm confused, I married a "good girl " a total slut in the bedroom, try calling her a slut outside the bedroom and one would get a hard slapping.
There are no good and bad girls. There are only women that are right or wrong for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking to a male friend.
According to him, men prefer good girls/women as girlfriends, but like to know a few "sluts", to have as a go to when they just need a fuck.
True?? Or bull??
Have no idea.
Open for discussion.
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I like someone who’s as naughty outside the bedroom in a cheeky way as she is in the bedroom too, because nice is boring lol someone to keep you on your toes is healthy
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can a single guy be a cuckold?"
As far as I’m aware cuckold is to be humiliated by the act of your significant other performing sex acts on other people so from that I’d say no |
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"Your friend is a sexist idiot who needs therapy for his Madonna whore complex! Sod that!
Men who are truly confident in themselves understand that women are people with different aspects to their personalities same as men.
My friend is slightly ignorant but by all means not a sexist idiot. Luckily for him, I will open his mind about women. One cannot be born with all the knowledge. Surely we can forgive a man who is willing to listen and learn.
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Well he wouldn't be a friend of mine with that attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The whole virgin- slut dichotomy is patriarchal bullshit, which unfortunately many women also buy into.
Okay men how many men have the " madonna whore complex" ... i bet a few too many
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After googling a few times to find out what those big words meant... I agree with this young lady ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Knowing that everything is subjective, I am supremely attracted to women who are classy, and like myself, confident and assertive, both in and out of the bedroom. Period
Labels are often unfair and misleading, to be honest. |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors."
Most women are judged most harshly by other women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men usually prefer slut and dirty girls to bang and good girls for girl friends and if they are super good and caring as wife's that's ugly truth cant help
So it is true "
It IS true. And you know it. Hence why this thread exists. I do find it comical when women create threads on here asking the forum about the patriarchal expectations of our society...its like they both want the inaccurate reassurance which comes from the replies from a group whose sexual activities differ greatly from the rest of the population and yet will still only focus on the answers which differ from these and confirm the very standards they dont want to accept.
Most men in this world are not swingers. They dont approach women or sexuality the way swingers do...even then, the vast majority of people on this site are men, not couples. These same men will be on here searching for an easy lay, not a partner. Even they will hold the same "madonna-whore" complex that you speak of. Even those who do have wives/partners/girlfriends who play with others...one must ask themselves. Are they doing it because they merely enjoy the mutual benefit of polyamory or do they simply get a sexual kick off having power over their partners sexuality? So much so that they can even dictate the nature of their "inevitable" infidelity?? Most of the experiences I have had on here involved couples where the man was very much in charge of proceedings.
Of course, I can continue telling you fluffy rationalizations that men who think like the one mentioned in the OP are just big bad backwards misogynists...but then, I must say that if you genuinely think like that then you have a fundamental misunderstanding of the nature of masculinity, something which will only hurt you going forward. |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women. "
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up) |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women.
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up)"
True story. That's why I have always preferred the company of men on the whole! |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women.
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up)
True story. That's why I have always preferred the company of men on the whole!"
I agree with you ladies.
No need for dishonesty or being two faced.
Plenty to go round.
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women.
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up)
True story. That's why I have always preferred the company of men on the whole!
I agree with you ladies.
No need for dishonesty or being two faced.
Plenty to go round.
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Not really. |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women.
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up)
True story. That's why I have always preferred the company of men on the whole!
I agree with you ladies.
No need for dishonesty or being two faced.
Plenty to go round.
Not really. "
No ?? ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women.
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up)
True story. That's why I have always preferred the company of men on the whole!
I agree with you ladies.
No need for dishonesty or being two faced.
Plenty to go round.
Not really.
No ?? "
Nah. There's probably only five guys here that are really desirable judging by the flirting and snide remarks to other women if they're seen to be engaging with them. |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women.
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up)
True story. That's why I have always preferred the company of men on the whole!
I agree with you ladies.
No need for dishonesty or being two faced.
Plenty to go round.
Not really.
No ??
Nah. There's probably only five guys here that are really desirable judging by the flirting and snide remarks to other women if they're seen to be engaging with them."
Back in the days of bumper stickers I had a girlfriend whose car had a bumper sticker that read "So many males. So few men". It was great until my car went in for repairs and I was driving her car on my own for a week ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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"I just wish that we lived in a world where women could be free sexual beings without being judged for their sexuality by society. She should be able to be the same person in public that she is behind closed doors.
Most women are judged most harshly by other women.
Ain't that the truth.
The competitiveness of some of the women here is breathtaking in its dishonesty and two-facedness (yes, I made that word up)
True story. That's why I have always preferred the company of men on the whole!
I agree with you ladies.
No need for dishonesty or being two faced.
Plenty to go round.
Not really.
No ??
Nah. There's probably only five guys here that are really desirable judging by the flirting and snide remarks to other women if they're seen to be engaging with them.
Back in the days of bumper stickers I had a girlfriend whose car had a bumper sticker that read "So many males. So few men". It was great until my car went in for repairs and I was driving her car on my own for a week "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your friend sounds like an arsehole and definitely doesnt speak for all men.
Sounds like a get out excuse forbl cheaters"
My friend just needs educated.
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We are now in the 21st century and its the woman's choice who she gives her body too. We need to get away from the super stud and slut terminology. If in a secure relationship then fidelity should be the modus operandi . Just have a good time without question |
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Ladies / women should be able to express themselves as they want to. Men behave as sluts - and are praised - Values are changing and women should be able to enjoy sex. Lots of it without any come back so long as its legal and consentual.
Yes we - men - all like a sexy lady on our arm but we also like someone that compliments our sex drive too. That being said both men and women seek variety.
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. In equal measures
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My wife is a delightful person, very caring, attractive, sexy, intelligent and posh. She does however have a very promiscuous attitude towards sex which I absolutely love. Does that make her a slut, I don’t know but it certainly makes me a very lucky man !! |
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I did have a dabble with normal dating sites and had a go at dating good upstanding wholesome women. I got bored really quickly and quickly realised that most would run a mile if they knew about my swinging past.
I needed to be with a woman who accepted me as I am and who felt free enough to embrace her own sexuality guilt free.
I am with a good woman who just happens to be a slut. I'm her slut just as much as she's mine. |
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Had plenty of attached men that call me a slut, and do things with me that they'd never do with their partner because in many cases, they are the mother of their children.
I really struggle to find a guy who's proud to be seen out with me because apparently the bedroom is where I should stay. grrr! |
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These things co-exist, my wife a respectable suit wearing professional by day and an exciting sexy deviant by night!! I cuddle and love her and get to cain her ass.... all things!! Keep looking my friend ?? |
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"Had plenty of attached men that call me a slut, and do things with me that they'd never do with their partner because in many cases, they are the mother of their children.
I really struggle to find a guy who's proud to be seen out with me because apparently the bedroom is where I should stay. grrr!"
I hate that double standard too. |
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"Had plenty of attached men that call me a slut, and do things with me that they'd never do with their partner because in many cases, they are the mother of their children.
I really struggle to find a guy who's proud to be seen out with me because apparently the bedroom is where I should stay. grrr!"
Don't meet attached men then. |
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"Had plenty of attached men that call me a slut, and do things with me that they'd never do with their partner because in many cases, they are the mother of their children.
I really struggle to find a guy who's proud to be seen out with me because apparently the bedroom is where I should stay. grrr!"
Strange thing to say! |
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Just out of interest, do "sluts" exist? They're laballed as one for following their sexual desires/needs but, are defended by the definition of a man/woman who are simply doing as described?
I'm confused? ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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"Talking to a male friend.
According to him, men prefer good girls/women as girlfriends, but like to know a few "sluts", to have as a go to when they just need a fuck.
True?? Or bull??
Have no idea.
Open for discussion.
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Pure shite |
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Floppsy is an independent smart sexy woman but I have trained her so that when I say “slave” to her she immediately drops to her kneees silently and is then my slut to use as I like ie classy woman most of the time but my sub slut when she is told to be - we both love that and I like to sometimes control her and use her and she then likes to be controlled- perfect situation |
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"Talking to a male friend.
According to him, men prefer good girls/women as girlfriends, but like to know a few "sluts", to have as a go to when they just need a fuck.
True?? Or bull??
Have no idea.
Open for discussion.
Pure shite"
Elequntely put ... |
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"Floppsy is an independent smart sexy woman but I have trained her so that when I say “slave” to her she immediately drops to her kneees silently and is then my slut to use as I like ie classy woman most of the time but my sub slut when she is told to be - we both love that and I like to sometimes control her and use her and she then likes to be controlled- perfect situation "
Dom and sub role play then |
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