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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To the guys on here in relationships, how did you take the plunge and tempt your partner into trying swinging?
When my gf talks about her past sex life I get turned on so I definitely would love to see her swing. But she doesn't like the idea. BUT is tempted by trying with another girl as long as I watch. Which makes me think the feeling is there, she just doesn't want to admit it yet.
Any advice?
P.s. First time I've come on here after having been in a relationship, so I'm not cheating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to her about fantasies, talk openly and honestly with each other and listen carefully to what she says. Talk through any worries or fears she may have about it and reassure her that it is about you both, about the wants and needs of both of you, not you just wanting an opportunity to have sex with other women. Good luck and hope it works out the way you want it to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To the guys on here in relationships, how did you take the plunge and tempt your partner into trying swinging?
When my gf talks about her past sex life I get turned on so I definitely would love to see her swing. But she doesn't like the idea. BUT is tempted by trying with another girl as long as I watch. Which makes me think the feeling is there, she just doesn't want to admit it yet.
Any advice?
P.s. First time I've come on here after having been in a relationship, so I'm not cheating "
just concentrate and enjoy her wish of playing with another women for now, see where things go from there |
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Think many guys on here wouldn’t want there other halves on here I’ve asked a few guys and they are not up for sharing lol but want others too lol,have cake and eat it spring to mind |
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"To the guys on here in relationships, how did you take the plunge and tempt your partner into trying swinging?
When my gf talks about her past sex life I get turned on so I definitely would love to see her swing. But she doesn't like the idea. BUT is tempted by trying with another girl as long as I watch. Which makes me think the feeling is there, she just doesn't want to admit it yet.
Any advice?
P.s. First time I've come on here after having been in a relationship, so I'm not cheating "
You've got to talk to her and sort out what you think you know about what she wants and what she really wants. Communicating with her really is the only way to move it forward. But you need to listen to what she is actually saying not what you think she's saying.
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