If you were offered a meeting but could not make it would you ever recommend that they try to contact someone else you may know on Fab? Obviously if you thought they would get on!
If someone did recommend you would you think that was helpful or making assumptons?
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"If you were offered a meeting but could not make it would you ever recommend that they try to contact someone else you may know on Fab? Obviously if you thought they would get on!
If someone did recommend you would you think that was helpful or making assumptons?
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hmmm, i have a fem friend on here that will message me if someone contacts her that she isnt keen on but thinks i might like.... so i go have a peek n check em out. dont think id like her to tell them to contact me instead tho ? hmmm, got me thinking..... |
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hmmm, i have a fem friend on here that will message me if someone contacts her that she isnt keen on but thinks i might like.... so i go have a peek n check em out. dont think id like her to tell them to contact me instead tho ? hmmm, got me thinking....."
So to play devils advocate, her recommending them to you is ok, but her recommending you to them is not?
I was thinking about this myself, if someone suggested us would we be put out, but then having someone suggested to us maybe quite helpful . Especially given our general last minute meets. |
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When we first started swinging, our first meet recommended that we contact some other couples who they played with.
They all turned us down, lol, so it was a bit of a knock to our confidence.
So no, we wouldn't recommend anyone to anyone  |
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hmmm, i have a fem friend on here that will message me if someone contacts her that she isnt keen on but thinks i might like.... so i go have a peek n check em out. dont think id like her to tell them to contact me instead tho ? hmmm, got me thinking.....
So to play devils advocate, her recommending them to you is ok, but her recommending you to them is not?
I was thinking about this myself, if someone suggested us would we be put out, but then having someone suggested to us maybe quite helpful . Especially given our general last minute meets."
yeh, its made me think.... i wouldnt be comfortable being discussed by a group of guys.. not that its likely to happen! but for a fem friend to say, go check him out seems ok to me but no, i wouldnt like her to say no thanks not for me but try my mate Joanne, she might!  |
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I have been to parties and suggested others I thought would be great guests to invite in the future.
Worked well so far but I guess it depends on how well you know people and if people trust you and your judgement.
Have also had friends recommend others to me in the same manner and met some lovely people. |
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"I tend not to discuss who has contacted me and don't see myself as a pimp...so no I wouldn't."
and thats the way it should be..once had the experience of a nasty twisted cow who would recommend guys she claimed she didn't like to me and recommend me to guys also as though she was doing me a favour.
It got to the point where she was causing so much trouble for me and my meets that i had to start hiding veris from people she knew i had met and still have to now as although she is blocked she has created a fake account so still has access.
People should let people be and realise this is an adult site, we are all grown ups and are more Than capable of making our own choices.
Sorry, probably veered off the subject slightly there but rant over 
jelliiiee xx |
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"Guys ask me all the time if ihave friends that would like them, really pissed me off at times - I am not a fab pump "
hahahahaha my bloody typos are excellent this weekend - stpid new phone!!
fab PIMP  |
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"Guys ask me all the time if ihave friends that would like them, really pissed me off at times - I am not a fab pump
hahahahaha my bloody typos are excellent this weekend - stpid new phone!!
fab PIMP "
Your typos have kept me amused and I empathise as I've a HTC Desire that's driving me nuts with its predictive text! |
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I have met people before who have asked if they could get friends to contact me, for either parties or to see if they are interested as well. Must admit I do love that when it does happen, I take it as a real compliment that they evidently think highly enough of me to recommend me to their friends.
Have also had others recommended to me as well. And i also recommend others if they don't object.
But then some like to keep it all for themselves! hehe
Will point out though that it is only ever with the others permission or if we have discussed it. And its not something that is regularly discussed.
I think like with lots of things within the scene, if people are comfy with it then its ok, if it offends then it won't happen  |
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i hate it when you say "thanks but im not attracted etc" and they come back and say
have you got any friends who are interested in me you think?
bugs the hell out of me |
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"No I don't and wouldn't - these are people, not the same as recommending a pizza topping "
You beat me to it... I was about to say I'd gladly recommend a brand of washing powder but never a person! |
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"No I don't and wouldn't - these are people, not the same as recommending a pizza topping
You beat me to it... I was about to say I'd gladly recommend a brand of washing powder but never a person! "
why not? its only recommending.
on the flip side then, would you tell folk you know about a bad meet or rude meet? |
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"If you were offered a meeting but could not make it would you ever recommend that they try to contact someone else you may know on Fab? Obviously if you thought they would get on!
If someone did recommend you would you think that was helpful or making assumptons? sounds like a great idea if it is ok with everyone,you can recommend a couple of bi girl's for us lol.xx
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"No I don't and wouldn't - these are people, not the same as recommending a pizza topping
You beat me to it... I was about to say I'd gladly recommend a brand of washing powder but never a person! "
Or you could look at it as helping someone widen their social network. |
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I often introduce new friends to existing friends, if I feel they won`t dissapoint me or let down long standing pals..
Its nice to see people click..
Seems perfectly normal to me... |
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"If you were offered a meeting but could not make it would you ever recommend that they try to contact someone else you may know on Fab? Obviously if you thought they would get on!
If someone did recommend you would you think that was helpful or making assumptons?
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Its easy, ask the second party if they would mind and you can act or not on what they say. |
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"No I don't and wouldn't - these are people, not the same as recommending a pizza topping
You beat me to it... I was about to say I'd gladly recommend a brand of washing powder but never a person!
why not? its only recommending.
on the flip side then, would you tell folk you know about a bad meet or rude meet? "
Hmmm... I'm a 'do as you would be done by' person and I wouldn't like someone to recommend me because it would make me feel like a peice of meat so I'd extend the same courtesy to others. As to the flip side,I really don't know what I'd do until I'm in that situation. |
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"No I don't and wouldn't - these are people, not the same as recommending a pizza topping
You beat me to it... I was about to say I'd gladly recommend a brand of washing powder but never a person!
why not? its only recommending.
on the flip side then, would you tell folk you know about a bad meet or rude meet?
Hmmm... I'm a 'do as you would be done by' person and I wouldn't like someone to recommend me because it would make me feel like a peice of meat so I'd extend the same courtesy to others. As to the flip side,I really don't know what I'd do until I'm in that situation. "
I'm never made to feel like a piece of meet, maybe it's the friends I keep?
I actually think this it's far safer way of getting to know people too rather than meeting a stranger |
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over a year ago
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"I have introduced people to others , i see nothing wrong in that, especially if it a single male who want to attend parties etc.....never sent anyone on a meet instead though "
Good point - a 'recommendation; doesnt sit too well, but an 'introduction' sounds perfectly reasonable..... |
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"Nope. We are discrete.
Mistress x"
does that mean you leave friends the names in plain envelope on their doorstep in the dead of night so they don't know who left them? |
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"I have introduced people to others , i see nothing wrong in that, especially if it a single male who want to attend parties etc.....never sent anyone on a meet instead though
Good point - a 'recommendation; doesnt sit too well, but an 'introduction' sounds perfectly reasonable....."
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