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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been speaking to some friends on here and also just into the lifestyle about a “Master & Sub” role
I’m not looking for the BDSM side but more just being someone’s master and them being under my control and jurisdiction.
Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction |
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Go to Fetlife.
There are lots of forums for all permutations of dom/me & sub.
It's not all Bondage, Discipline, Sadism & Masochism.
Though your desire to control probably falls within Discipline.
It's also a good place to learn more about the lifestyle.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been speaking to some friends on here and also just into the lifestyle about a “Master & Sub” role
I’m not looking for the BDSM side but more just being someone’s master and them being under my control and jurisdiction.
Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction "
I'm sorry but did I just read you correctly?
"I’m not looking for the BDSM side but more just being someone’s master and them being under my control and jurisdiction"
 I think you need to re evaluate your knowledge of what bdsm is really about. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Intrigued to understand better what you mean by "control and jurisdiction" OP - especially as your profile gives no indication of any interest of that sort?
Whilst it's possible to be assertive or even dominant in the bedroom without getting into the BDSM side of things, I'm not sure that's quite what you mean. So perhaps if you could clarify further better advice could be given.
One thing's for sure though - please make sure you know exactly what you are looking for, and what it means, if considering any kind of D/s relationship - there's never such a thing as too much knowledge when it comes to that.  |
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction "
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy."
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go |
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy.
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go"
Ouch.....
That is a verbal whip crack if ever there was...
I like it though.
Harsh....
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy.
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go"
I like fluffy handcuffs  |
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy.
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go
I like fluffy handcuffs "
I prefer rope. Or a mans own strength  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sounds like you just want someone to do as they are told
maybe you have issues in past of inadequacy
the dom/sub role is about a connection or chemistry between 2 people it requires trust and usually the couple have a very strong connection
in my experience its like all good relationships it grows in strength with desires and boundaries pushed
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"I’ve been speaking to some friends on here and also just into the lifestyle about a “Master & Sub” role
I’m not looking for the BDSM side but more just being someone’s master and them being under my control and jurisdiction.
Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction "
Long I've met you at abfab. I'd suggest you attend a few Heathrow Dungeon zones and chat to people there and see what goes on. As others have said you won't get a M/s relationship without other elements of BDSM - control includes head play and jurisdiction includes discipline. Women won't be subservient just because you want that. It's a deep hole and Master is well travelled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy.
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go
Ouch.....
That is a verbal whip crack if ever there was...
I like it though.
Harsh....
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Dunno WHAT you mean
I'm a pussycat
Ask any of my exes |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy.
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go
I like fluffy handcuffs
I prefer rope. Or a mans own strength "
Rope, what on earth would you, ah, yes... |
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy.
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go"
This!!
So many guys like the idea of being Dom so they can direct there own porn scenes
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By *i-DottyWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been speaking to some friends on here and also just into the lifestyle about a “Master & Sub” role
I’m not looking for the BDSM side but more just being someone’s master and them being under my control and jurisdiction.
Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction "
Otherwise known as Domestic Abuse!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been speaking to some friends on here and also just into the lifestyle about a “Master & Sub” role
I’m not looking for the BDSM side but more just being someone’s master and them being under my control and jurisdiction.
Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Otherwise known as Domestic Abuse! "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone that could help me find a Sub or lead me in the right direction
Your post appears to show little understanding of a sub/dom relationship.
Would you post on here asking for help to find a girlfriend?
A submissive is a partner, not a disposable sex toy.
Yeah, but he's seen 50 shades and got himself some pink fluffy handcuffs
He's good to go
This!!
So many guys like the idea of being Dom so they can direct there own porn scenes
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Yup
There's alot of it about |
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"Otherwise known as Domestic Abuse! "
And all sex is r@pe?
A D/s relationship should be about trust and consent.
It's not necessarily about sex, sometimes it's drinking a cup of tea you don't want, because you had to give your sub a task.
There is a huge responsibility in being the one in control.
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