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I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? |
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
has been known some couples but if i didnt get consent i wouldnt |
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
I think this is perhaps where having a social first would have cleared things up. She could have given her consent but then not known when you were gonna come over, so the shock factor would still be there. But you don't do socials. |
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One of the first couples I spoke to on here had a similar scenario for me. Although, he said she would be waiting for us, after he picked me up and had a drink.
Being Mrs Cynical I bailed, as I wasn't 100% sure there was a wife, and didn't fancy being driven around by him.
With these situations you won't know unless you go. That's taking a risk.
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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
If it was the scene it should have been discussed in advance, not dropped on you as a surprise at the door. If it doesn't feel right it usually isn't. |
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
It does happen, but there is no way I'd go along with it if it was sprung on me at the last moment
I think you did the right thing |
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I think you did the right thing. Those types of scenarios can be so hot but should be discussed in advance with all parties, not just sprung on you at the last minute. Shows a complete disregard for what you wanted from the meet too in my opinion. |
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We do something similar, we like to surprise eachother and a few times il wait until maybe 30 mins before the guy arrives to tell L, we have both spoken about it and i have her full consent, just one of our/her turn ons |
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"I’d have done exactly the same, report and block, maybe next time ask to speak to both parties on the phone? So confirmation they are both on the same page as you "
Report them for what exactly? Having a fantasy they wanted to fulfil? |
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"I think you did the right thing. Those types of scenarios can be so hot but should be discussed in advance with all parties, not just sprung on you at the last minute. Shows a complete disregard for what you wanted from the meet too in my opinion. "
 You matter too OP. It was very rude of them not to ask you first. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"We do something similar, we like to surprise eachother and a few times il wait until maybe 30 mins before the guy arrives to tell L, we have both spoken about it and i have her full consent, just one of our/her turn ons"
...and the consent of the third party? Because you know, their feelings matter too...  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
Bro, I'm sorry this happened to you but I did have to laugh as I've also experienced the old bait and switch!
The best thing to learn from this is that socials are NOT just a waste of time and NOT just to keep women safe. In fact, they're extremely beneficial in more ways than one!
I'll give you some proper stories and tips next time I see you.   |
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ?
Bro, I'm sorry this happened to you but I did have to laugh as I've also experienced the old bait and switch!
The best thing to learn from this is that socials are NOT just a waste of time and NOT just to keep women safe. In fact, they're extremely beneficial in more ways than one!
I'll give you some proper stories and tips next time I see you. "
Share with us all.  |
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"We do something similar, we like to surprise eachother and a few times il wait until maybe 30 mins before the guy arrives to tell L, we have both spoken about it and i have her full consent, just one of our/her turn ons
...and the consent of the third party? Because you know, their feelings matter too... "
I probably should have mentioned that i tell the guy as well! If they're not happy to continue we understand |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
OMG !! Glad you ran what nonsense. They'd have you by the bollocks for attempting to ra pe her extortion etc. |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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"I’d have done exactly the same, report and block, maybe next time ask to speak to both parties on the phone? So confirmation they are both on the same page as you
Report them for what exactly? Having a fantasy they wanted to fulfil?"
Being fake about what they want by not being upfront....... |
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
In this scenario if it’s their kink then really they would be best both talking to you before either on the phone or socially and areabfdxthat maybe she doesn’t know when the ‘date’ will be but at least she knows it’s in the pipeline and more importantly you know that she is happy about it
You did the right thing walking away .. their kink does not want to land you in the clink !
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you definitely did the right thing bailing out. If that is their thing it should have been discussed with her as well in advance to confirm it was something she wanted, but at an undetermined date so the surprise element was still there. |
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I think you definitely did the right thing bailing out. If that is their thing it should have been discussed with her as well in advance to confirm it was something she wanted, but at an undetermined date so the surprise element was still there. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ?
Bro, I'm sorry this happened to you but I did have to laugh as I've also experienced the old bait and switch!
The best thing to learn from this is that socials are NOT just a waste of time and NOT just to keep women safe. In fact, they're extremely beneficial in more ways than one!
I'll give you some proper stories and tips next time I see you.
Share with us all. "
Maybe I should have sent this in a DM... |
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"I've been in an awkward situation and was wondering if anyone else could relate. So I was talking to this couple in my area and they invited me over. Mr came to meet me when I got close to the house. So here's me thinking the Mrs is at home waiting in some sexy lingerie. So we jumped out the car and we're walking to the door then the guy says his wife doesn't know I'm coming. He wants me to undress and get in bed with her and start making love to her. I stopped walking instantly. Says they've done it before... but all I could see was her screaming down the place when she sees a naked stranger and me going to prison. So I turned back around and went back home. Was I over reacting or do couples actually do this here ? "
Fucking hell that's dodgy ground! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'd have probably got in the bed and then he'd tell you that the wife was out till later.
That would be the real nightmare scenario  "
No, I'm pretty sure a r*pe accusation and explaining it to the police is the nightmare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thought I made the right decision! It just didn't feel right."
You was brave but daft to of gone in the first place. It may not of been a women waiting for you in the bed..... don't trust that sort of situation as you never no what waiting for you the other end |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"You'd have probably got in the bed and then he'd tell you that the wife was out till later.
That would be the real nightmare scenario "
Pretty sure that not illegal to shag another bloke these days.
Shagging a woman without her consent on the other hand...er...what's that called again? |
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It's only a fuck at the end of the day, which might not happen anyway, so not worth the possible drama, awkwardness, embarrassment, arrest, custodial sentence, sex offender's register, shame, lost job, ostracism, etc, etc |
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