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By *ntnCleo OP Couple
over a year ago
Dortmund (Germany) might travel! |
Ok, rather uncomfortable thread for me here as I have vowed never to have so much as a finger up the prison purse!
Cleo keeps wanting to stick things in there though! She tells me I’ll enjoy it and the prostate is the male g spot blah blah.
I’ve heard all that but for me it’s just a no. Can’t say why. Just seems wrong. I figured that was all propaganda or wishful thinking about the prostate anyway.
But - I envy how women can have various types of orgasms - clitoral, penetrative, g spot, and now that I think of it - from anal sex although I’m not sure how that would be classified, either another type or is it penetrative.
Then in another thread a bloke mentioned an anal/ prostate orgasm from being fucked. ?? Is that real?
So that’s my question; are prostate orgasms real? And how do they compare to ejaculatory?
Have we straight guys been missing a trick?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes mate it's real,it's very real.Takes a lot of practice to relax as you feel like "no way shouldn't be doing this"..but once you get over it you cum like a train.And as it happens last year I was out on an all day session with the lads.And I'm talking straight as a dye lads..and once we had a few (quite a few ) somebody brought up the term "cheeky bum wank" as in getting sucked off from your missus while she has a cpl of fingers up your bum...a good 80 percent of us "admitted" to doing it more than once lol..you would be surprised how many of your mates is already in the know lol.Personally I'd say that's the best way to start,No one else needs to know,plus women in my experience tend to find it a massive turn on so it's win win  |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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As the guy from three other thread I'll copy my answer here as well.
For me at least the sensations are very different, the conventional male orgasm is very penile centred, relatively short, very intense and followed by a refractory period where normally sexual drive drops right off. I find prostate orgasm to be far less centred so pleasurable sensations are felt over a much wider part of the body. They tend to last much longer typically in the range of a few minutes but are also less overwhelming. The other major difference is that as mine are not accompanied by cumming, but some people are apparently, I get no refractory period so my level of hornyness remains high and therefore in a good session I can role from one to another without needing to pause between. It also allows me to go on to a final expulsory orgasm by adding penile stimulation at the end of the session, which is typically accompanied by a larger cum volume. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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I should probably also added that the best online resource I have come across discussing this is the forum section of the Aneros website which is packed full of discussions of this. From reading alot of the experiences on there the range of sensations experienced is far more diverse than from the conventionsl penile orgasm. |
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By *ntnCleo OP Couple
over a year ago
Dortmund (Germany) might travel! |
Right, I better delete this thread before Cleo sees it! There will be no stopping her.
The penetration is one thing. That just seems wrong. But maybe I can get over that. We’ve done lots of other things we never thought we would.
But the hygiene bit...
We have anal sex far less often than we’d like because the prep is such a drag. Especially when there is a perfectly prepared pussy right next door! But rarely Cleo is dying for anal penetration and it’s great. With a woman there isn’t so much of the penetration issue, just the hygiene one to sort.
But I grew up with the joke - God must be a civil servant because only they would put a sewer next to a playground.
Now I’m trying to get my head around them both being playgrounds! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, rather uncomfortable thread for me here as I have vowed never to have so much as a finger up the prison purse!
Cleo keeps wanting to stick things in there though! She tells me I’ll enjoy it and the prostate is the male g spot blah blah.
I’ve heard all that but for me it’s just a no. Can’t say why. Just seems wrong. I figured that was all propaganda or wishful thinking about the prostate anyway.
But - I envy how women can have various types of orgasms - clitoral, penetrative, g spot, and now that I think of it - from anal sex although I’m not sure how that would be classified, either another type or is it penetrative.
Then in another thread a bloke mentioned an anal/ prostate orgasm from being fucked. ?? Is that real?
So that’s my question; are prostate orgasms real? And how do they compare to ejaculatory?
Have we straight guys been missing a trick??"
You sound very nieve. Straight guys can enjoy anal penetration and prostate massage from a willing fem. You just need to open your mind to the possibilities a little more. You won't catch the ghey from having things inserted up your bum bum.  |
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By *ntnCleo OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I should probably also added that the best online resource I have come across discussing this is the forum section of the Aneros website which is packed full of discussions of this. From reading alot of the experiences on there the range of sensations experienced is far more diverse than from the conventionsl penile orgasm."
Ok that’s a good start. We have got into a lot of things by reading about them first. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whats the harm in trying it?
Try it once at least, then at least you’ll know one way or the other if it’s for you.
You should only regret the things you didn’t try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a purely prostrate orgasm but a combination of fingers or but plug with other fun makes everything much more intense. Go on, try it OP. Then write us one of your fab stories |
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By *ntnCleo OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I've never had a purely prostrate orgasm but a combination of fingers or but plug with other fun makes everything much more intense. Go on, try it OP. Then write us one of your fab stories "
Well it would definitely have a chapter in the Journey book that’s for sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love guys arse holes. I wouldn't peg a guy cos I'd feel a bit masculine and I prefer to be fucked, but I love fingering a guys arse hole and sticking my tongue up there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried to locate my prostate in order to give it a little massage but I've been unable to find that little sweet spot. Any female assistance would be welcome |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I had your exact same mindset until very recently. I'm hetero and the thought of anything up my ass was akin to heresy! :D I suppose people you meet through fab can make you gradually open your horizons to other possibilities.
I experienced this very recently with a lady who was both willing and experienced. Hard to put into words the cacophony of sensations this can generate. I will say that if it's done appropriately you will enjoy it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love guys arse holes. I wouldn't peg a guy cos I'd feel a bit masculine and I prefer to be fucked, but I love fingering a guys arse hole and sticking my tongue up there. "
Perfect! Where were you when I came to Swansea on Monday?! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I have a stronger orgasm through anal than I do through normal sex. The orgasm is no intense my legs go to jelly. "
If the lady enjoys anal and she is clean then I enjoy rimming her then slowly inserting a finger while another one fingers her vagina and clit. Ideally use thumb in anus, indicator in vagina and middle finger on clit. I've found if the right rhythm is maintained by the three fingers, the lady will have an amazing time. It's also such a turn on to see the reaction
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"Ok, rather uncomfortable thread for me here as I have vowed never to have so much as a finger up the prison purse!
Cleo keeps wanting to stick things in there though! She tells me I’ll enjoy it and the prostate is the male g spot blah blah.
I’ve heard all that but for me it’s just a no. Can’t say why. Just seems wrong. I figured that was all propaganda or wishful thinking about the prostate anyway.
But - I envy how women can have various types of orgasms - clitoral, penetrative, g spot, and now that I think of it - from anal sex although I’m not sure how that would be classified, either another type or is it penetrative.
Then in another thread a bloke mentioned an anal/ prostate orgasm from being fucked. ?? Is that real?
So that’s my question; are prostate orgasms real? And how do they compare to ejaculatory?
Have we straight guys been missing a trick??"
One small step for us gaylords, one giant leap for mankind.  |
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By *ntnCleo OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I had your exact same mindset until very recently. I'm hetero and the thought of anything up my ass was akin to heresy! :D I suppose people you meet through fab can make you gradually open your horizons to other possibilities.
I experienced this very recently with a lady who was both willing and experienced. Hard to put into words the cacophony of sensations this can generate. I will say that if it's done appropriately you will enjoy it "
Thanks for sharing. Dubious about ever opening so far but...
It’s all this Victorian stoic Christian values - anything up your butt is akin to the invasions of genghis khan! Wrong on so many levels!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A prostate toy is next on our shopping list, as I have been reading up about it Id love to experience it. Her always has intense orgasms during anal too. Putting stuff up your arse doesnt make you gay, I've taken Her dildo before as dare and i can assure you I have no attraction men.
You mentioned catholic views, look at it like this, if you believe in creationism, the almighty would not have put your G-sport up your jacksie if he didnt want you to enter from the rear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, rather uncomfortable thread for me here as I have vowed never to have so much as a finger up the prison purse!
Cleo keeps wanting to stick things in there though! She tells me I’ll enjoy it and the prostate is the male g spot blah blah.
I’ve heard all that but for me it’s just a no. Can’t say why. Just seems wrong. I figured that was all propaganda or wishful thinking about the prostate anyway.
But - I envy how women can have various types of orgasms - clitoral, penetrative, g spot, and now that I think of it - from anal sex although I’m not sure how that would be classified, either another type or is it penetrative.
Then in another thread a bloke mentioned an anal/ prostate orgasm from being fucked. ?? Is that real?
So that’s my question; are prostate orgasms real? And how do they compare to ejaculatory?
Have we straight guys been missing a trick??"
Yep. An orgasm via your cock is pretty good.
One via your prostate make it seem like a tickle once you let go and really enjoy them. |
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By *ntnCleo OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Although not as easy, you can still stimulate the prostate externally. Just search on Google and you'll find plenty of detail.
Cal"
Nah I don't believe that. Must be perineum only. I've done prostate exams on appropriately positioned men and even that is a stretch! There's no way you're applying any pressure on that from the outside! |
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"Although not as easy, you can still stimulate the prostate externally. Just search on Google and you'll find plenty of detail.
Cal
Nah I don't believe that. Must be perineum only. I've done prostate exams on appropriately positioned men and even that is a stretch! There's no way you're applying any pressure on that from the outside!"
It can definitely be felt... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had your exact same mindset until very recently. I'm hetero and the thought of anything up my ass was akin to heresy! :D I suppose people you meet through fab can make you gradually open your horizons to other possibilities.
I experienced this very recently with a lady who was both willing and experienced. Hard to put into words the cacophony of sensations this can generate. I will say that if it's done appropriately you will enjoy it
Thanks for sharing. Dubious about ever opening so far but...
It’s all this Victorian stoic Christian values - anything up your butt is akin to the invasions of genghis khan! Wrong on so many levels!
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You are on a swinging site and talk about stoic christian values? That horse has bolted, lie back and think of England (or the Fatherland) and let Cleo have a play, it'll 20-30 minutes trying something new but likely to be less shorter if she hits the right spot |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"I love guys arse holes. I wouldn't peg a guy cos I'd feel a bit masculine and I prefer to be fucked, but I love fingering a guys arse hole and sticking my tongue up there. "
Ooh id bear up for u anytime. .mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are worried about hygiene you can put down a puppy training pad and used disposable medical type gloves and put condoms on any toys that would be used for the pussy too.
A good firm massage while she sucks your cock on the bit between the balls and the bumhole and be a good starting place. |
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Yes it's all true. I was introduced to prostate massage and receiving anal play by a particularly adventurous partner I had in university...and I have never looked back.
Really the fear surrounding it for me is entirely a cultural construct. It doesn't make you gay or bi or anything. Any man with a healthy prostate will likely enjoy a finger up there, if not more.
That said, your partner should also respect your wishes and not force you into anything.
If you try it, the first time you will feel like you're doing a poo. That is the biggest thing to get around. Once you get over that and enjoy it, it's amazing. There are so many things you can do...a finger, two fingers...toys (ooooh inflating toys are amazing). Something up there while wanking or receiving a hand job, or blow job....a butt plug while you fuck someone...pegging....and if the mood takes you a bit of stretching. The anus is amazing and closes back within a short time.
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By *30FetMan
over a year ago
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"I love guys arse holes. I wouldn't peg a guy cos I'd feel a bit masculine and I prefer to be fucked, but I love fingering a guys arse hole and sticking my tongue up there. "
Xx ... love it |
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