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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
There is another thread about older guys but I thought it was worth starting this one. The question is how many guys like to be called 'daddy'? There are men and women who like daddies, but I'm not keen on being called daddy - what do others think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, personally, I would find it extremely disturbing.
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Who ever decided it's a good idea to be having sex and then call someone daddy
it's just wrong on many levels and if someone asked me to it would totally put me off |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
It's more a kink dynamic really isn't it. I'm cool with it as I know what it involves to those who are part of the dynamic. It doesn't necessarily apply to young girls and older men, the gap can be rather small, it's just about the connection. So yeah, I see no harm in it, kinks are kinks \m/ \m/ |
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May if you understood the kink you may be accepting of it.
Ddlg Daddy Dom Little girl, there are a few other name combo's are just words. There is NO WAY that the lifestlye involves peodofile tendancies. Some littles age play most don't.
A Daddy Dom is a more carring Dom both outside and in the bedroom. His goal is to look after cherish and develop his little girl to all that she can be and make her happy. In a way a father would for his child. Daddy's tend not to be sadists, they kink there little primeraly for the little first then pleasure for themselves.
They are a more caring kinda Dom hence the name. It's just a word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"May if you understood the kink you may be accepting of it.
Ddlg Daddy Dom Little girl, there are a few other name combo's are just words. There is NO WAY that the lifestlye involves peodofile tendancies. Some littles age play most don't.
A Daddy Dom is a more carring Dom both outside and in the bedroom. His goal is to look after cherish and develop his little girl to all that she can be and make her happy. In a way a father would for his child. Daddy's tend not to be sadists, they kink there little primeraly for the little first then pleasure for themselves.
They are a more caring kinda Dom hence the name. It's just a word. "
That's in the Dom world. But it's not only Dom men who want to be called daddy. It isn't just a word, a daddy is a daddy.
Whilst I agree that most men wishing to be called daddy are not sinister, there will be others who are more unsavoury in intent. It would be naive to think otherwise. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is another thread about older guys but I thought it was worth starting this one. The question is how many guys like to be called 'daddy'? There are men and women who like daddies, but I'm not keen on being called daddy - what do others think? "
No, the whole daddy/little girl thing isn't for me at all.
Anyone asking me to call them Daddy would swiftly be shown the door. |
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"May if you understood the kink you may be accepting of it.
Ddlg Daddy Dom Little girl, there are a few other name combo's are just words. There is NO WAY that the lifestlye involves peodofile tendancies. Some littles age play most don't.
A Daddy Dom is a more carring Dom both outside and in the bedroom. His goal is to look after cherish and develop his little girl to all that she can be and make her happy. In a way a father would for his child. Daddy's tend not to be sadists, they kink there little primeraly for the little first then pleasure for themselves.
They are a more caring kinda Dom hence the name. It's just a word.
That's in the Dom world. But it's not only Dom men who want to be called daddy. It isn't just a word, a daddy is a daddy.
Whilst I agree that most men wishing to be called daddy are not sinister, there will be others who are more unsavoury in intent. It would be naive to think otherwise. XXX"
? Having had direct contact and being involved directly in the pedofile world I am very much aware and have no naivity about it. I'm not telling my story on open forum. There may be the odd one. But knowing players in the ddlg kink and pedo"s they are like oil and water not the same and don't mix? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it and had a couple of Daddies. I only do it for kink and my daddies have been care givers, protectors and indulged in non sexual activities whilst embracing my inner child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Damn, I thought it was a discussion thread about the merits of brown sauce!
Yes up thought that also, my favourite is brown daddies sauce XXX" on s bacon sandwich yummy |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it |
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it"
Someone who provides an explanation from a position of personal experience is always much more meaningful than the usual likes and dislikes that you get on here.... Thank you for sharing yours |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it
Someone who provides an explanation from a position of personal experience is always much more meaningful than the usual likes and dislikes that you get on here.... Thank you for sharing yours "
No worries, to me that’s the point in a thread like this, ask and someone will answer |
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it
Someone who provides an explanation from a position of personal experience is always much more meaningful than the usual likes and dislikes that you get on here.... Thank you for sharing yours
No worries, to me that’s the point in a thread like this, ask and someone will answer "
True |
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it"
People here are relatively closed minded and ignorant of much. A surprise given the nature of the site. |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it
People here are relatively closed minded and ignorant of much. A surprise given the nature of the site. "
Some are but that’s just like anything anywhere, luckily a lot will take the time to listen too |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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Sorry can someone tell me what Ddlg is?
Personally I/we have no problem with anyone having any kind of kink as long as it is ultimately consensual and nobody is truly getting hurt (emotionally - physical might be their kink).
Naively I used to think when I saw a profile (particularly from a young girl) that it was a "sugar"daddy she wanted...ie. financial security in return for sex. |
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"Sorry can someone tell me what Ddlg is?
Personally I/we have no problem with anyone having any kind of kink as long as it is ultimately consensual and nobody is truly getting hurt (emotionally - physical might be their kink).
Naively I used to think when I saw a profile (particularly from a young girl) that it was a "sugar"daddy she wanted...ie. financial security in return for sex."
Daddy Dom little girl. Nothing to di with sugar Daddy's or pedophiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it
People here are relatively closed minded and ignorant of much. A surprise given the nature of the site.
Some are but that’s just like anything anywhere, luckily a lot will take the time to listen too "
I am finding this too, though less than I thought I may, that is not to say however that they aren't out there, perhaps I just need to turn over the right stones |
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it
People here are relatively closed minded and ignorant of much. A surprise given the nature of the site.
Some are but that’s just like anything anywhere, luckily a lot will take the time to listen too
I am finding this too, though less than I thought I may, that is not to say however that they aren't out there, perhaps I just need to turn over the right stones "
The turning over of stones wasn't a reference to your profile by the way. I just looked at that now after my reply to you! Coincidental wording |
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"May if you understood the kink you may be accepting of it.
Ddlg Daddy Dom Little girl, there are a few other name combo's are just words. There is NO WAY that the lifestlye involves peodofile tendancies. Some littles age play most don't.
A Daddy Dom is a more carring Dom both outside and in the bedroom. His goal is to look after cherish and develop his little girl to all that she can be and make her happy. In a way a father would for his child. Daddy's tend not to be sadists, they kink there little primeraly for the little first then pleasure for themselves.
They are a more caring kinda Dom hence the name. It's just a word. "
This exactly.
Some refer to it as CG/L (care giver/little) it's nothing to do with any biological relationship nor any desire for paedophilia. Honestly it makes me cringe when people use Daddy in the ddlg sense interchangeably with "dad". To me, Daddy is a title, similar to Sir or Master - dad is the man who give yo mamma some baby juice. Completely different things.
Being Little doesn't even necessarily mean age play. And some Littles never get sexual when they're in "Little Space".
It would be nice if people were a bit more open minded.. for a kinky bunch you're not really that kinky are ya. |
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it.
People here are relatively closed minded and ignorant of much. A surprise given the nature of the site. "
I call it hypocrisy.
Though I'm not into the "daddy" thing, but I'm glad that it was finally clearly explained.
Thank you to the 2 posters who enlighten us on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love it with a passion.
When anyone ever said it to me in a sexy situation, the power I feel that's handed over to me is intense. I feel she respects me as much as I respect her.
Did I feel like I was pretending/playing as her father? No, I didn't. I felt like she was letting me be in charge. |
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"I love it with a passion.
When anyone ever said it to me in a sexy situation, the power I feel that's handed over to me is intense. I feel she respects me as much as I respect her.
Did I feel like I was pretending/playing as her father? No, I didn't. I felt like she was letting me be in charge. "
So..it's Daddy Bee then.?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it with a passion.
When anyone ever said it to me in a sexy situation, the power I feel that's handed over to me is intense. I feel she respects me as much as I respect her.
Did I feel like I was pretending/playing as her father? No, I didn't. I felt like she was letting me be in charge.
So..it's Daddy Bee then.?
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I'm not changing my name just yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ddlg is nothing to do with parents and children, instead of ripping apart something you may not understand how about being open to the idea others have kinks you may not? Each to their own, remember. I have been through the bad things that have been insinuated on this thread yet have been known to indulge in ddlg too, usually when emerging from subspace when I have no control over what’s happening or where I’m at, it’s a protective thing, feeling taken care of, looked after, I’ve had daddies that are younger than me, physical age is nothing to do with it.
People here are relatively closed minded and ignorant of much. A surprise given the nature of the site.
I call it hypocrisy.
Though I'm not into the "daddy" thing, but I'm glad that it was finally clearly explained.
Thank you to the 2 posters who enlighten us on this."
Perhaps so, for many of us have sides that are and can be miss understood on not at all understood by others. It would be perhaps nice to harbor a environment of acceptance and interest in others, in life in general and not only here
I am not necessarily into all the things that others are but i enjoy hearing about them and trying to understand them, i know also that many will not share my tastes but hope that some may make the effort to understand them. human nature is very interesting and sexuality is a broad subject |
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Oh and in the same vein as dad....
Daughter. I'm nobody's fucking daughter (well, I am.. but nobody I'd ever even want to see naked ..) so if anyone gets the wrong end of the stick on the Daddy kink and thinks daughter is an acceptable term for their partner probably doesn't understand the kink/lifestyle.
A sugar daddy is different to ddlg.
A daddy/daughter sexual relationship is different to ddlg.
Paedophilia is different to ddlg.
Familial sex is different to ddlg.
Is anyone getting the point yet? |
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"Oh and in the same vein as dad....
Daughter. I'm nobody's fucking daughter (well, I am.. but nobody I'd ever even want to see naked ..) so if anyone gets the wrong end of the stick on the Daddy kink and thinks daughter is an acceptable term for their partner probably doesn't understand the kink/lifestyle.
A sugar daddy is different to ddlg.
A daddy/daughter sexual relationship is different to ddlg.
Paedophilia is different to ddlg.
Familial sex is different to ddlg.
Is anyone getting the point yet?"
Yeah but underneath it all, still twisted shit right? |
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I was introduced to the concept of Dd/lg during the summer and am now the proud Daddy to a very sexy little girl in here. She chose me and after explaining what she gets out of it... being nurtured and encouraged to try new sexual activities in a safe and comfy environment. .. I was more than happy to embrace the concept.
She is only a few years younger than me so it is not an age thing...more a state of mind. |
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did "
Now that's really crossing the line! |
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did "
As convincing as you may well be, surely you don't pass for a 7 year old. |
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did
Now that's really crossing the line! "
He obviously crossed the line and had no idea.... hopefully you just blocked and deleted him
It's nothing to do with underage or tab oo it's about caring and nurturing |
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did
I hope you told the police. " too right I did . I don't mind role play but I did question his behaviour and motives |
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did
As convincing as you may well be, surely you don't pass for a 7 year old. " thats blatently obvious .but I'm not playing a role for some sicko to enjoy |
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did
As convincing as you may well be, surely you don't pass for a 7 year old. thats blatently obvious .but I'm not playing a role for some sicko to enjoy "
Counting one's blessing, at least it wasn't his 7 year old son he wanted you to be.
I'll get me coat.
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I once had a girlfriend who used to call me daddy. We didn’t act out any daddy/daughter role plays I think that’s a bit odd, she just liked calling me daddy. If I’m honest it was kinda hot |
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did
I hope you told the police. "
Why would one. Inc*st roleplay between consenting nonfamilial adults is not a criminal matter. |
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"Oh and in the same vein as dad....
Daughter. I'm nobody's fucking daughter (well, I am.. but nobody I'd ever even want to see naked ..) so if anyone gets the wrong end of the stick on the Daddy kink and thinks daughter is an acceptable term for their partner probably doesn't understand the kink/lifestyle.
A sugar daddy is different to ddlg.
A daddy/daughter sexual relationship is different to ddlg.
Paedophilia is different to ddlg.
Familial sex is different to ddlg.
Is anyone getting the point yet?
Yeah but underneath it all, still twisted shit right? "
How? One consenting adult wants to feel looked after and have few responsibilities and switch off from the adult world. Another consenting adult wants to take care of and nurture the first person.
How is that wrong? |
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"Oh and in the same vein as dad....
Daughter. I'm nobody's fucking daughter (well, I am.. but nobody I'd ever even want to see naked ..) so if anyone gets the wrong end of the stick on the Daddy kink and thinks daughter is an acceptable term for their partner probably doesn't understand the kink/lifestyle.
A sugar daddy is different to ddlg.
A daddy/daughter sexual relationship is different to ddlg.
Paedophilia is different to ddlg.
Familial sex is different to ddlg.
Is anyone getting the point yet?
Yeah but underneath it all, still twisted shit right?
How? One consenting adult wants to feel looked after and have few responsibilities and switch off from the adult world. Another consenting adult wants to take care of and nurture the first person.
How is that wrong? "
Are you suggesting twisted is wrong? |
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"Oh and in the same vein as dad....
Daughter. I'm nobody's fucking daughter (well, I am.. but nobody I'd ever even want to see naked ..) so if anyone gets the wrong end of the stick on the Daddy kink and thinks daughter is an acceptable term for their partner probably doesn't understand the kink/lifestyle.
A sugar daddy is different to ddlg.
A daddy/daughter sexual relationship is different to ddlg.
Paedophilia is different to ddlg.
Familial sex is different to ddlg.
Is anyone getting the point yet?
Yeah but underneath it all, still twisted shit right?
How? One consenting adult wants to feel looked after and have few responsibilities and switch off from the adult world. Another consenting adult wants to take care of and nurture the first person.
How is that wrong?
Are you suggesting twisted is wrong? "
If you're trying to put ddlg on par with paedophilia and biological relationships then yeah twisted is wrong. |
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"Oh and in the same vein as dad....
Daughter. I'm nobody's fucking daughter (well, I am.. but nobody I'd ever even want to see naked ..) so if anyone gets the wrong end of the stick on the Daddy kink and thinks daughter is an acceptable term for their partner probably doesn't understand the kink/lifestyle.
A sugar daddy is different to ddlg.
A daddy/daughter sexual relationship is different to ddlg.
Paedophilia is different to ddlg.
Familial sex is different to ddlg.
Is anyone getting the point yet?
Yeah but underneath it all, still twisted shit right?
How? One consenting adult wants to feel looked after and have few responsibilities and switch off from the adult world. Another consenting adult wants to take care of and nurture the first person.
How is that wrong? "
Not wrong at all |
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"Oh and in the same vein as dad....
Daughter. I'm nobody's fucking daughter (well, I am.. but nobody I'd ever even want to see naked ..) so if anyone gets the wrong end of the stick on the Daddy kink and thinks daughter is an acceptable term for their partner probably doesn't understand the kink/lifestyle.
A sugar daddy is different to ddlg.
A daddy/daughter sexual relationship is different to ddlg.
Paedophilia is different to ddlg.
Familial sex is different to ddlg.
Is anyone getting the point yet?
Yeah but underneath it all, still twisted shit right?
How? One consenting adult wants to feel looked after and have few responsibilities and switch off from the adult world. Another consenting adult wants to take care of and nurture the first person.
How is that wrong?
Are you suggesting twisted is wrong?
If you're trying to put ddlg on par with paedophilia and biological relationships then yeah twisted is wrong. "
On a par, wouldn't dare.
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"State of mind ?
What about the guy who wanted me to play his 7 year old daughter ...some cross the line and go too far . ..he did
I hope you told the police.
Why would one. Inc*st roleplay between consenting nonfamilial adults is not a criminal matter. "
Sorry, I misread. I thought he was suggesting he play with the guys seven year old daughter. |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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Look everyone, at the end of the day as long as it’s consensual, not illegal and not immoral then what’s the problem? I like it, maybe you don’t, others do, so what, I also like being spanked into subspace (there is another way to get there but that word isn’t allowed, it involves a hand around the throat) but that’s my choice and safety measures are in place so there’s no problem, some people like feet, some like to be in control, some like missionary and others like doggy, can’t we all just enjoy what we enjoy without judging?? |
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"Look everyone, at the end of the day as long as it’s consensual, not illegal and not immoral then what’s the problem? I like it, maybe you don’t, others do, so what, I also like being spanked into subspace (there is another way to get there but that word isn’t allowed, it involves a hand around the throat) but that’s my choice and safety measures are in place so there’s no problem, some people like feet, some like to be in control, some like missionary and others like doggy, can’t we all just enjoy what we enjoy without judging?? "
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"Look everyone, at the end of the day as long as it’s consensual, not illegal and not immoral then what’s the problem? I like it, maybe you don’t, others do, so what, I also like being spanked into subspace (there is another way to get there but that word isn’t allowed, it involves a hand around the throat) but that’s my choice and safety measures are in place so there’s no problem, some people like feet, some like to be in control, some like missionary and others like doggy, can’t we all just enjoy what we enjoy without judging?? "
This "not immoral" bit, pray tell.
Within the law should suffice if you genuinely mean not to judge by standards that one might best keep to oneself.
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If a guy wanted me to call him ‘daddy’ I would remind him that being my daddy would involve getting phone calls when my car has broken down to rescue me, occasionally loaning me money, and having to babysit my children when my ex let’s me down !
Oh and that it cringes the fuck out of me |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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"Look everyone, at the end of the day as long as it’s consensual, not illegal and not immoral then what’s the problem? I like it, maybe you don’t, others do, so what, I also like being spanked into subspace (there is another way to get there but that word isn’t allowed, it involves a hand around the throat) but that’s my choice and safety measures are in place so there’s no problem, some people like feet, some like to be in control, some like missionary and others like doggy, can’t we all just enjoy what we enjoy without judging??
This "not immoral" bit, pray tell.
Within the law should suffice if you genuinely mean not to judge by standards that one might best keep to oneself.
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For instance there’s no law to stop me shoving a cactus up a mans ass when he says he wants to meet me and is a submissive ‘with no limits’ but it would be immoral of me to do that, instead I tend to point out he will have limits, everyone does, would he let me tattoo ‘slut’ on his forehead? I’d be immoral to bring someone to the point of allowing that (and yes I have seen the cactus thing happen to someone, it’s not pretty and the tears were very real) |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"If a guy wanted me to call him ‘daddy’ I would remind him that being my daddy would involve getting phone calls when my car has broken down to rescue me, occasionally loaning me money, and having to babysit my children when my ex let’s me down !
Oh and that it cringes the fuck out of me "
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"Look everyone, at the end of the day as long as it’s consensual, not illegal and not immoral then what’s the problem? I like it, maybe you don’t, others do, so what, I also like being spanked into subspace (there is another way to get there but that word isn’t allowed, it involves a hand around the throat) but that’s my choice and safety measures are in place so there’s no problem, some people like feet, some like to be in control, some like missionary and others like doggy, can’t we all just enjoy what we enjoy without judging??
This "not immoral" bit, pray tell.
Within the law should suffice if you genuinely mean not to judge by standards that one might best keep to oneself.
For instance there’s no law to stop me shoving a cactus up a mans ass when he says he wants to meet me and is a submissive ‘with no limits’ but it would be immoral of me to do that, instead I tend to point out he will have limits, everyone does, would he let me tattoo ‘slut’ on his forehead? I’d be immoral to bring someone to the point of allowing that (and yes I have seen the cactus thing happen to someone, it’s not pretty and the tears were very real) "
The cactus: I draw your attention to the Spanner case, even with consent you would in fact be breaking the law. So no need for playing the endlessly dubious immorality card.
As for the tattoo: tattoos of any kind are the devil's handwork, so I say we burn you both.
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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"Look everyone, at the end of the day as long as it’s consensual, not illegal and not immoral then what’s the problem? I like it, maybe you don’t, others do, so what, I also like being spanked into subspace (there is another way to get there but that word isn’t allowed, it involves a hand around the throat) but that’s my choice and safety measures are in place so there’s no problem, some people like feet, some like to be in control, some like missionary and others like doggy, can’t we all just enjoy what we enjoy without judging??
This "not immoral" bit, pray tell.
Within the law should suffice if you genuinely mean not to judge by standards that one might best keep to oneself.
For instance there’s no law to stop me shoving a cactus up a mans ass when he says he wants to meet me and is a submissive ‘with no limits’ but it would be immoral of me to do that, instead I tend to point out he will have limits, everyone does, would he let me tattoo ‘slut’ on his forehead? I’d be immoral to bring someone to the point of allowing that (and yes I have seen the cactus thing happen to someone, it’s not pretty and the tears were very real)
The cactus: I draw your attention to the Spanner case, even with consent you would in fact be breaking the law. So no need for playing the endlessly dubious immorality card.
As for the tattoo: tattoos of any kind are the devil's handwork, so I say we burn you both.
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