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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So you've arranged a social meet at a local coffee shop for 10am, you arrive at 950am go in and order your drink and sit down. 10am comes and passes, how long do you then wait before giving up on the other person turning up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if they've been in touch or not. If they've been silent I'll give them 20 mins maybe, but if they've let me know they're running late then I'd wait longer |
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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
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"So you've arranged a social meet at a local coffee shop for 10am, you arrive at 950am go in and order your drink and sit down. 10am comes and passes, how long do you then wait before giving up on the other person turning up.
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. I'm sorry I let you down,,,, I will turn up next time.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying."
aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
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I don't get the point of people doing that, what do they gain from it really. Losers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you've arranged a social meet at a local coffee shop for 10am, you arrive at 950am go in and order your drink and sit down. 10am comes and passes, how long do you then wait before giving up on the other person turning up.
Discuss. I'm sorry I let you down,,,, I will turn up next time. "
You could never let me down |
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
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There could be a number of reasons for that person to stand you up.
But the thing is none of them reflect on you, this person is a timewaster, nothing else, don't let it get to you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s difficult I once met a sub Babygirl and she was 20 mins late. But on the plus side she asked me to punish her.
It’s difficult. I’d say once 30 mins are up, they ain’t coming. |
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
There could be a number of reasons for that person to stand you up.
But the thing is none of them reflect on you, this person is a timewaster, nothing else, don't let it get to you. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
There could be a number of reasons for that person to stand you up.
But the thing is none of them reflect on you, this person is a timewaster, nothing else, don't let it get to you. "
It got to me but not that I am going to rant, but I was curious in other peoples timescales |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they'd text to say they were going to be late due to traffic id drink my coffee slowly!Otherwise id give it ten mins after agreed time,bugger off and report them as no shows(Not that that seems to have any effect in my experience!)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
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Some people are just bloody cruel.
I would have asked for a number to stay I touch if I was meeting not just rely on fab for messages.
When I'd realised they had gone unlos I'd have bought cake |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
Some people are just bloody cruel.
I would have asked for a number to stay I touch if I was meeting not just rely on fab for messages.
When I'd realised they had gone unlos I'd have bought cake "
I went and upgraded my phone instead  |
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Terrible to stand anyone up but unfortunately more and more Fake / messers on here
Reminds me of an incident about a year ago .. I had arranged an MFM both myself and Mr Inked were at the hotel
The ‘extra cock’ was on contact messaging away on Kik (yes that’s when we stupidly used it) and said he was leaving , in the car , driving etc ... pulling into hotel then nothing !!!
Luckily a very nice guy that had wanted to meet us jumped in to save the day
Never know what happened to the other loser but the giy that replaced him was a happy man haha  |
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"So you've arranged a social meet at a local coffee shop for 10am, you arrive at 950am go in and order your drink and sit down. 10am comes and passes, how long do you then wait before giving up on the other person turning up.
Discuss"
You know time is a relative thing...
And I don't mean a family fling
Like dear Einstein said
If you must be in bed
It depends how much you want to swing...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are reluctant to give their number out till they've met you and worked out if you're OK or not.
I knew there was a small cafe on the edge of a town that was roughly a half way point. She said she knew it, all was cool. I sat there for 40 minutes before leaving. On my way out of the town I noticed another cafe, same name, same graphics, same owners. I realized what had happened and went in but she'd gone. Got home to a rather shity email. Understandable. I tried to explain what had happened but never got a reply. Until 3 weeks later, she'd been back to the town for some reason and spotted the other cafe. She did email me to apologize which was nice. But I'd lost interest by then. I won't meet with anyone if they won't exchange numbers. And I'll only wait half an hour unless they contact with a good reason as to why they're running late.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I would wait until my coffee has gone.Then I would walk,hunt them down like Liam neeson in taken and murder them to death with a rusty spoon...my wife thinks I may be a tad over the top though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I would wait until my coffee has gone.Then I would walk,hunt them down like Liam neeson in taken and murder them to death with a rusty spoon...my wife thinks I may be a tad over the top though "
I think the murdering is ok...but to death! That really is a little over the top  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"30 minutes and if I haven't heard anything would bugger off
long enough to drink my coffee or drink"
Yep, I’ll go along with this consensus.
Sorry you’ve been messed about x |
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Like many others we would leave once our coffee was finished.
We made the mistake once of ordering food and a man who felt it ok to turn up an hour late found us still there finishing our lunch.
Mind you we reckon he had access to a time machine that had a fault because not only was he one hour late but 15 years older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drink my drink , try and make contact then that’s their loss, I do wish some people would be honest and just say, gives us decent ones a bad name , and of course the other party reluctant to trust again , makes me angry 
By the way I wouldn’t leave you waiting either xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Drink my drink , try and make contact then that’s their loss, I do wish some people would be honest and just say, gives us decent ones a bad name , and of course the other party reluctant to trust again , makes me angry
By the way I wouldn’t leave you waiting either xx"
Aw thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless there some sort of communication but as other have said till my tea and biscuit are gone
People can be late but only good manners to make the other person aware of this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drink my drink , try and make contact then that’s their loss, I do wish some people would be honest and just say, gives us decent ones a bad name , and of course the other party reluctant to trust again , makes me angry
By the way I wouldn’t leave you waiting either xx
Aw thank you x"
Your welcome xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I would wait until my coffee has gone.Then I would walk,hunt them down like Liam neeson in taken and murder them to death with a rusty spoon...my wife thinks I may be a tad over the top though
I think the murdering is ok...but to death! That really is a little over the top "
Well that what my wife says too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually ask to meet outside the coffee shop, and I would only wait 10 minutes past the arranged time, unless they messaged to say they would be late. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you've arranged a social meet at a local coffee shop for 10am, you arrive at 950am go in and order your drink and sit down. 10am comes and passes, how long do you then wait before giving up on the other person turning up.
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I'd have another coffee and maybe an empire biscuit..pointless just rushing away.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I hadn't heard anything like a reasonable explanation to why they were late
I'd finish my coffee
Order a proper breakfast and a milkshake and see if they turned up to be my dessert |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An hour - to be fair, I’ve waited an hour for a really good male friend in a completely non-sexual context, he wasn’t answering his phone and indeed became a ‘no show’.
Had a good reason as it turned out. People can have genuine reasons for ‘no shows’. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I think this is one where I'd have to say it depends - I personally wouldn'T be meeting until I felt a level of connection and chemistry with someone and part of that would be trust, so would hope not to be in the situation in the first place, or at least if I was that I'd be confident the person would have a good reason such as stuck in traffic and unable to call to let me know they were running late.
However if by chance it was someone I didn't know that well then they'd get till I'd finished my coffee, or no more than 30 mins. |
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"An hour - to be fair, I’ve waited an hour for a really good male friend in a completely non-sexual context, he wasn’t answering his phone and indeed became a ‘no show’.
Had a good reason as it turned out. People can have genuine reasons for ‘no shows’."
They can indeed but it's less common on fab than the people who get cold feet or never intended to turn up in the first place.
If I arranged to meet a good friend I'd wait ages for them, but a stranger from the net?...No. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This has been great for me to know that me leaving after my coffee is what most would have done too. I guess the thought of meeting a real woman was just too much for him to bare |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"This has been great for me to know that me leaving after my coffee is what most would have done too. I guess the thought of meeting a real woman was just too much for him to bare "
Being late is rude especially on the first meet 10min early and wait round corner is what I would do and walk in shop 1min early is what I would do. |
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"Terrible to stand anyone up but unfortunately more and more Fake / messers on here
Reminds me of an incident about a year ago .. I had arranged an MFM both myself and Mr Inked were at the hotel
The ‘extra cock’ was on contact messaging away on Kik (yes that’s when we stupidly used it) and said he was leaving , in the car , driving etc ... pulling into hotel then nothing !!!
Luckily a very nice guy that had wanted to meet us jumped in to save the day
Never know what happened to the other loser but the giy that replaced him was a happy man haha "
What is the issue with kix please? X
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
Some people are just bloody cruel.
I would have asked for a number to stay I touch if I was meeting not just rely on fab for messages.
When I'd realised they had gone unlos I'd have bought cake
I went and upgraded my phone instead "
Sorry to hear this op.
We never know their motives for doing this.
When i had my single profile,i arranged to meet one night for a social.He pestered me for ages and then left me standing outside the pub 
I messages him and he said he had changed his mind,so i told him that he could have had thw manners to tell me at least.
He too went unos,rejoined a few months later and asked for a meet!!i declined ans reminded him he had blown me out.
Enjoy your phone;)xx
Miss |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"Until I'd finished my coffee.
That's what I did.
Did you have the person's number to keep in touch? Maybe give them a call.
By the way we wouldn't have stood you up, just saying. aw thank you x
All contact had been good up to the point of be there in 5. Then nothing at all. Logged in to fab when finished my drink and he was unlos.
Some people are just bloody cruel.
I would have asked for a number to stay I touch if I was meeting not just rely on fab for messages.
When I'd realised they had gone unlos I'd have bought cake
I went and upgraded my phone instead
Sorry to hear this op.
We never know their motives for doing this.
When i had my single profile,i arranged to meet one night for a social.He pestered me for ages and then left me standing outside the pub
I messages him and he said he had changed his mind,so i told him that he could have had thw manners to tell me at least.
He too went unos,rejoined a few months later and asked for a meet!!i declined ans reminded him he had blown me out.
Enjoy your phone;)xx
Miss"
I don’t understand it either swingers site looking for sex you get a offer then bottle it. Just shows you the clowns out there |
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that's harsh you could choose murder or death not both surely 
