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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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I had a thought about the fact I have no plans for Christmas. I'm a solo swinger with lots of swinging friends, but they will all be with children/family, whereas I'm unlikely to be.
That got me thinking. Are there any other Swingers, nearish me, that are also alone over Christmas? If so why don't we all get together and do something?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi
Yes I'm a single swinger and will also be spending Christmas on my own more than likely.
Though tbh it doesn't bother me that much anymore.
But it would be nice to share a Christmas drink with someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got loads of friends and family, and would love to spend Christmas alone. I'm not really into forced fun, and would rather abstain.
That said, I might volunteer at the homeless shelter in Brum for the day, and do something useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got loads of friends and family, and would love to spend Christmas alone. I'm not really into forced fun, and would rather abstain.
That said, I might volunteer at the homeless shelter in Brum for the day, and do something useful."
You would probably need to register your interest with the homeless shelter now
As they plan way ahead
And have to do dbs checks etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, I've had a Christmas alone recently and I have to say it was a lovely, stress free day and one of the best I've had in years! I wish I'd done it years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair, I've had a Christmas alone recently and I have to say it was a lovely, stress free day and one of the best I've had in years! I wish I'd done it years ago "
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"I've got loads of friends and family, and would love to spend Christmas alone. I'm not really into forced fun, and would rather abstain.
That said, I might volunteer at the homeless shelter in Brum for the day, and do something useful."
Something I do every year. Makes going home to family more special. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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os this just another case of wanting what you can't have? Letting down family to be alone or on the flip side, craving human contact when there is non? I can see the draw of both however I think one is easier to overcome than the other. I'm any case. I hope you all find what you're looking for |
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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ah I'd love to spend christmas day with a man, just eating fucking and watching shitty christmas films.
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Exactly my point. Not about being content alone. More about what you could be doing ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll be alone this Xmas as I'm usually with my mum but she passed away in August.
So it'll be Christmas morning down the gym for me "
Sorry for your loss.
My mum also died this year in September, dreading the first Christmas with out her- I don’t want to celebrate it but I have children so I have to face it for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll be alone this Xmas as I'm usually with my mum but she passed away in August.
So it'll be Christmas morning down the gym for me
Sorry for your loss.
My mum also died this year in September, dreading the first Christmas with out her- I don’t want to celebrate it but I have children so I have to face it for them "
I feel your pain, I went through it when my mum passed away and then a couple of years later when my dad went. I was in my 20's at the time. Its bloody difficult but it does get easier with time, I promise you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll be alone this Xmas as I'm usually with my mum but she passed away in August.
So it'll be Christmas morning down the gym for me "
Sorry for your loss pal, I've been there myself with both my parents and its difficult but as ive said to someone else on here, it DOES get easier over time. Not easy when theres so many reminders about xmas umpteen weeks in advance. |
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My youngest 2 children spend alternate Christmasses with their dad.
The first few years it happened, I was inundated with invites from friends who 'couldn't stand the thought of me alone'
The thought of Christmas day with another family, watching their children etc.. Really wasn't what I needed.
I volunteered at a local homeless shelter, and had the most amazing days.
I'm on my own again this year.
My Christmas day, is now the day my kids come home
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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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"My youngest 2 children spend alternate Christmasses with their dad.
The first few years it happened, I was inundated with invites from friends who 'couldn't stand the thought of me alone'
The thought of Christmas day with another family, watching their children etc.. Really wasn't what I needed.
I volunteered at a local homeless shelter, and had the most amazing days.
I'm on my own again this year.
My Christmas day, is now the day my kids come home
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That is lovely.
I was almost thinking..not make it a Christmas Day....make it a Swingers Social...as you are right Christmas Day is the day we get to do the traditional things with people...if on the 25th, people are free...why not do a social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair, I've had a Christmas alone recently and I have to say it was a lovely, stress free day and one of the best I've had in years! I wish I'd done it years ago "
I’ve done this a few times. Have been to mns as a treat and bought a few bits to eat. I kind of love it but also do miss company after a few days on my own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair, I've had a Christmas alone recently and I have to say it was a lovely, stress free day and one of the best I've had in years! I wish I'd done it years ago "
God I would love to spend Christmas alone with you!!
The perfect gift;) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My youngest 2 children spend alternate Christmasses with their dad.
The first few years it happened, I was inundated with invites from friends who 'couldn't stand the thought of me alone'
The thought of Christmas day with another family, watching their children etc.. Really wasn't what I needed.
I volunteered at a local homeless shelter, and had the most amazing days.
I'm on my own again this year.
My Christmas day, is now the day my kids come home
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So lovely to read this;) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair, I've had a Christmas alone recently and I have to say it was a lovely, stress free day and one of the best I've had in years! I wish I'd done it years ago
God I would love to spend Christmas alone with you!!
The perfect gift;) "
Then we wouldn't be alone would we? I suppose i could compromise on the level of alone-mess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair, I've had a Christmas alone recently and I have to say it was a lovely, stress free day and one of the best I've had in years! I wish I'd done it years ago
God I would love to spend Christmas alone with you!!
The perfect gift;)
Then we wouldn't be alone would we? I suppose i could compromise on the level of alone-mess "
Ha oh glad to hear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This will be my first christmas on my own since my split with ex hubby so i hope to meet some one befor then "
Same here. First one without the kids waking up with me in the morning to see if Santa's been. Not bothered about her ex wife not waking up with me though. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any wee elf lady wanting to keep our Hemmel company over Christmas can i just say you will be full of Christmas Cheer. One of the true good ones girls. Sound fun and genuine. Know him well. "
There’s still plenty of time. The question is does he have a hot tub? Lol  |
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Boxing day is my alone time over Christmas . My kids go to their dads. I could go to extended family but I decline as it's a little force .. I would love to spend the day with one of my good friends from here but unfortunately like you said op most people are busy with there families .. so I will be vegging on the sofa lurking the forums and having a few Bailey's alone  |
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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Any wee elf lady wanting to keep our Hemmel company over Christmas can i just say you will be full of Christmas Cheer. One of the true good ones girls. Sound fun and genuine. Know him well.
There’s still plenty of time. The question is does he have a hot tub? Lol "
Lol no but kestrels does and it's only closed Christmas Day |
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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Boxing day is my alone time over Christmas . My kids go to their dads. I could go to extended family but I decline as it's a little force .. I would love to spend the day with one of my good friends from here but unfortunately like you said op most people are busy with there families .. so I will be vegging on the sofa lurking the forums and having a few Bailey's alone "
Sounding more and more like boxing day at kestrels lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah I'd love to spend christmas day with a man, just eating fucking and watching shitty christmas films.
feel free to join me Tess xx"
I'm pretty sure my parents would mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my son's home for Christmas and my daughter but I would love to have my on off FWB over with his son too. He's such good fun and a great laugh XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This will be my first christmas on my own since my split with ex hubby so i hope to meet some one befor then
Same here. First one without the kids waking up with me in the morning to see if Santa's been. Not bothered about her ex wife not waking up with me though. Lol"
Done that one. Let me tell ya it's a little heart and gut wrenching  |
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I'm not a big fan of Xmas and am quite happy I usually have to work it anyway, often chip in an extra shift or two if possible to cover colleagues who have kids. Family is just me and retired parents so we can get together anytime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This will be my first christmas on my own since my split with ex hubby so i hope to meet some one befor then
Christmas i can cope with but i hate New Year alone."
Do what I do work every new year |
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"This will be my first christmas on my own since my split with ex hubby so i hope to meet some one befor then
Christmas i can cope with but i hate New Year alone.
Do what I do work every new year "
Did for 15 years in hotels but not in current job. |
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"I've got loads of friends and family, and would love to spend Christmas alone. I'm not really into forced fun, and would rather abstain.
That said, I might volunteer at the homeless shelter in Brum for the day, and do something useful."
they will likely decline your offer, so many people volunteer for Christmas day to make themselves feel better, but don't help out any other day, the shelter will make this very clear to you I'm sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the OP is hoping to arrange something with people interested. If you’re not bothered or busy why post as it doesn’t help him out lol
 thé forums! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always alone at Christmas, all my family live 100's of miles away so a 1000 mile round trip is not really an option. Sometimes it would be nice to spend the day with a nice lady though, to have someone to pamper and spoil for the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got loads of friends and family, and would love to spend Christmas alone. I'm not really into forced fun, and would rather abstain.
That said, I might volunteer at the homeless shelter in Brum for the day, and do something useful.
You would probably need to register your interest with the homeless shelter now
As they plan way ahead
And have to do dbs checks etc"
Check out local churches....
Community centres....etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually dont find xmas as lonely as new year eves.....always people around at xmas but new year eve is totally different for me
I’m hoping to be at chameleons NYE"
I’ve thought about this |
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Someone done this last year an I believe a few spent some of Christmas together.
Last Christmas, I had a female friend I met on here over, spent it with me and my family. Year before I went to a couples and spent it with them. So it can and does happen. |
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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Someone done this last year an I believe a few spent some of Christmas together.
Last Christmas, I had a female friend I met on here over, spent it with me and my family. Year before I went to a couples and spent it with them. So it can and does happen. "
That's good to know..you're a lucky girl then. |
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