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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone explain why Fab allows women to have a profile in the single women category but when yoy read the profile it says that they ONLY ever meet with there hubby/BF/FB etc? Surely these profiles should be in the Couples category?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know if I fall under that.. as I meet mostly with my Master watching.. However I have a single profile more because it enables us both to go on chat.. 
But I do meet and play as in me and another guy... Master will be involved but this can be watching via webcam or watching the video later on..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thew profiles I am on about are single women profiles where it states they ONLY meet with their partner. This makes them a couple and if searching for single women you get all these COUPLES profiles! |
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"Thew profiles I am on about are single women profiles where it states they ONLY meet with their partner. This makes them a couple and if searching for single women you get all these COUPLES profiles!"
ooo I see!is there a way of filtering them?is there really that many for it to be a real problem? xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ooo I see!is there a way of filtering them?is there really that many for it to be a real problem? xx"
Yes you can filter them using BROWSE, search for Woman and see how many are actually couples, if you are a COUPLE advertise as a COUPLE !! |
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You can have more than 1 couples profile so people who wish to talk to each other should have 2 couples profiles. No one who never plays as a single (male or female) should have a single profile there is no need for it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can have more than 1 couples profile so people who wish to talk to each other should have 2 couples profiles. No one who never plays as a single (male or female) should have a single profile there is no need for it."
I agree totally and that was my point, if you are part of a couple but play as a single then fine, have a single profile. But if you say you are single but are actually part of a couple dont advertise as a single. Another swinging site encourages you to report singles that are actually couples and removes those misleading profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could it be that it's for only the first meet, where it's just a drink & chat?
We have talked to a few women that are in committed relationships, where the man isn't interested in swinging but will go with his girlfriend/wife on her first meets to a pub/cafe etc for safety reasons.
It's better to be safe than sorry, & we don't have a problem with having a drink with a couple even though we will only play with a fem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think mine falls into an odd place..
I play as a single.. Ie.. just me and whoever is invited.. but they are watched on cam or its videoed..
If we are playing and master will be there.. we normally look via the couples profile..
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I thought this was a chat thing. I am sure if the hubs also had a single profile then it would say the same. I don't think there is a rule against this sort of thing."
People can have a single female, single male and a couples account if they wish.
As you say, lots of people have multiple profiles to use in chat, even two couples profiles...this is all allowed.
If however a person is on a single persons profile but says they only play together then they should really have a joint one as they will come up in the wrong searches.
If however a single profile says they only play with their hubby on blah blah profile and they are using the single profile to chat/ use forums etc, that is fine too.
Oh my....sounds a mine field  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was a guy looking for single women it would piss me off too if the searches had loads of couples coming up under the heading of single women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a lot of couples using the chatrooms have a separate single profile so both of them can chat at same time"
If they are a couple have 2 couples profiles, its not difficult! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh my....sounds a mine field "
Exactly, which is why I don't let it bother me. If I chat to a guy and he says 'oh I can only play with my other half', if I don't fancy her then its bye bye, because I prefer to pick my own playmates. I can understand it can be frustrating but there are a fair few really single women to message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone explain why Fab allows women to have a profile in the single women category but when yoy read the profile it says that they ONLY ever meet with there hubby/BF/FB etc? Surely these profiles should be in the Couples category??"
Life is full of mysteries. Like when you click on a couples cam in chat, only to find a bloke on his own yanking his todger |
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Life is full of mysteries. Like when you click on a couples cam in chat, only to find a bloke on his own yanking his todger "
That happens waaaaaaay too much on chat.....when we go on cam we always do it as a couple even if only one of us is getting pleasure (although we usually return the favor) . If we go on alone we won't have our cam active. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way I see it is- you can't dictate how other people choose to use the site unless they are breaking site rules.
If they are, report to admin.
But remember not to get stressed about it- if you stop banging your head against a brick wall, it stops hurting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a lot of couples using the chatrooms have a separate single profile so both of them can chat at same time
If they are a couple have 2 couples profiles, its not difficult!"
most couples who aren't doing the single fem thing do -- the other ones are norty and should be a couples profile Annoys me too if I'm looking for single fems to find half of them aren't single at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get loads of mail from couples profiles who are single men, single womens profiles that are couples and single guys profiles who want to meet with a partner, i think at the end of the day people cant be arsed to do a profile for every veriation of meet they do
I have a bi mail friend that i meet other bi guys with but i dont have a couples profile for when im looking to meet with him i just mail guys off this one or he contacts guys off his single profile
If you read someones profile or get a message and you dont like whats on there just move onto the next
i think women in couples have female profiles because they are women so they just set up a female account, they dont have the sence to think.....well im meeting as a couple so best to a couples one, or maybe they think they will get more attention as a single woman? |
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"The way I see it is- you can't dictate how other people choose to use the site unless they are breaking site rules.
If they are, report to admin.
But remember not to get stressed about it- if you stop banging your head against a brick wall, it stops hurting"
+1
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or are people getting themselves into a tiswas over nothing? 
on Fab... in the forums never"
I think a lot get up each moring and think....what group of people can we moan about today |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Report the profile.
i dont see that it needs to be reported really, how many couples are on here yet use single profiles to go in chat or on the forums??"
If it is obviously a couple and they are not using the profile for the reasons you say, they come up in the wrong searches...people then complain.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can anyone explain why Fab allows women to have a profile in the single women category but when yoy read the profile it says that they ONLY ever meet with there hubby/BF/FB etc? Surely these profiles should be in the Couples category??"
If they say they don't meet alone on their profile I wouldn't have a problem with it. They have to play safe after all.
If they say before meeting he wants to join in then that's different though. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Is it me or are people getting themselves into a tiswas over nothing?
on Fab... in the forums never
I think a lot get up each moring and think....what group of people can we moan about today "
and I think it is cool for the posts on the subject... as new people join and post...
but a serious question.. and probably worthy of a seperate thread.
does it act as some kind of therapy, reassurance to have expressions of similar angst from others.. I see some people post the same stuff about guys in swinging.. and you think ' you were told that on your other threads.. do you not get it'.
a serious question
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it me or are people getting themselves into a tiswas over nothing?
on Fab... in the forums never
I think a lot get up each moring and think....what group of people can we moan about today
and I think it is cool for the posts on the subject... as new people join and post...
but a serious question.. and probably worthy of a seperate thread.
does it act as some kind of therapy, reassurance to have expressions of similar angst from others.. I see some people post the same stuff about guys in swinging.. and you think ' you were told that on your other threads.. do you not get it'.
a serious question
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what, like 'Swingers Anonymous'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was a guy looking for single women it would piss me off too if the searches had loads of couples coming up under the heading of single women"
yes me too ... i am married but meet alone and have couples profile ... as do both , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest with you i can understand why a lot get frustrated over this
After all the search facilities are there to make what your looking for easier and its not really working if couples are making up single females profiles, that just means you have to search thro your search lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This used to piss us off when we were looking to meet single women too.
We couldn't believe the amount of times we'd contact a "single" woman, only to be informed that her hitherto unmentioned partner would have to tag along too.
This would probably happen in 3 out of 5 contacts.
We gave up in the end, it seemed they were just couples advertising as a single woman to get more hits.
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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago
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Same reason Fab allows 98% of men to have a single male profile that says they are married but the wife doesn't know, they can only meet during the day, and discretion is important.
What's the difference?
Anyway 'single girls with hubbies' are usually looking for girls to play with hubby not single guys!
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Same reason Fab allows 98% of men to have a single male profile that says they are married but the wife doesn't know, they can only meet during the day, and discretion is important.
What's the difference?
Anyway 'single girls with hubbies' are usually looking for girls to play with hubby not single guys!
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I suppose the difference is the single/ married men are not planning to bring their spouse along. |
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I have a single profile as well as this one, but it is only for when we are both on new chat, unlike the old chat where we could both go in under the same profile. It also states very clearly on the single profile why it is there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same reason Fab allows 98% of men to have a single male profile that says they are married but the wife doesn't know, they can only meet during the day, and discretion is important.
What's the difference?
Anyway 'single girls with hubbies' are usually looking for girls to play with hubby not single guys!
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i think the difference is if a guys playing away so far as swinging goes hes a single guy, hes not meeting with the mrs there for hes not a 'couple'
If your meeting as a couple have a couples profile if your meeting alone your single so far as swinging goes no matter who you have hid away at home |
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