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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well how exciting and what a place!!! after a perfect start having found a like minded lady and becoming her unicorn as she describes me, we are now entering the world of couples
So what tips can any couples out there give us to find the real deal... can’t wait to join you all in couples land yay!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find it extremely difficult as a couple meeting another couple we would both like to take things further with ,and meeting single guys that actually show up next to impossible so why we started holding parties |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can imagine it must be difficult especially as we are both picky but surely there must be some success I’d consider holing a party if they work
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"Well for meeting other couples and enjoying fun filled evenings "
My advice is to prepare for the reality that you will probably find it extremely difficult to meet couples where you are both equally into them and vice versa. Mathematically it's an order of magnitude more difficult than the dynamics of 2 people.
How you handle that reality is up to you though. |
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"Well how exciting and what a place!!! after a perfect start having found a like minded lady and becoming her unicorn as she describes me, we are now entering the world of couples
So what tips can any couples out there give us to find the real deal... can’t wait to join you all in couples land yay!!!
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Establish what you both want and where you're prepared to compromise.
Write a couples profile and if you expect full swap both ways have pictures of you both.
Be aware that in some couples you meet one may possibly be less keen than you have been led to believe.
It's much more difficult for couples to meet couples than you'd think bur not impossible.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well for meeting other couples and enjoying fun filled evenings
My advice is to prepare for the reality that you will probably find it extremely difficult to meet couples where you are both equally into them and vice versa. Mathematically it's an order of magnitude more difficult than the dynamics of 2 people.
How you handle that reality is up to you though. "
Completely agree with this as we've been on here on and off for over 2 year's and met several couples socially and for one reason or another it's never gone any further than a social.
Meeting single people seems far easier  |
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"Well for meeting other couples and enjoying fun filled evenings
My advice is to prepare for the reality that you will probably find it extremely difficult to meet couples where you are both equally into them and vice versa. Mathematically it's an order of magnitude more difficult than the dynamics of 2 people.
How you handle that reality is up to you though.
Completely agree with this as we've been on here on and off for over 2 year's and met several couples socially and for one reason or another it's never gone any further than a social.
Meeting single people seems far easier "
When we started swinging, we were adamant that we would only swing as a couple and with other couples. The reality of diary clashes, childcare, mother nature and mutual attraction issues means that we've relaxed this a lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm part of a couple, couples profile etc and all that but we've found it far easier just keeping our old single profiles
Everything seems harder from a couples profile somehow
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
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We have only been swinging for 10 months. So here is our 2p
Agree with all above. Meet with the mind that it’s only a social. Go to clubs and parties greater selection of people.
121 meets are really hard to pull off successfully and most end up as 1 off socials . So expect that and don’t get disappointed lots of couples are serial socializers and never play. So if play is your aim look for naughty couples to begin with. Plenty on here lol.
Good luck
D&K
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We made a decision quite early on to not to actively pursue couples. The main reason is because we thought what are the chances that there with be 4-way attraction? In our opinion someone will usually have to take a hit for the team in couple play, and we'd both rather choose who we play with than have to play with someone because they come as part of a couple. We also find it generally easier meeting singles as singles usually have less rules. The flip side of this is that I play more. So for a while we got round the problem by hosting house parties and inviting a selection of singles and couples and both of us choosing who we play with. This is not to say we haven't had couple swaps- we done that 4 times with 3 different couples and was extremely enjoyable. But on the whole we find sex is more satisfying to choose our own sex partner in a party situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well for meeting other couples and enjoying fun filled evenings
My advice is to prepare for the reality that you will probably find it extremely difficult to meet couples where you are both equally into them and vice versa. Mathematically it's an order of magnitude more difficult than the dynamics of 2 people.
How you handle that reality is up to you though. "
Very much this.
I think a secret signal is a good idea for if either of you don't fancy them when you meet in person.
But if you do find someone then it's worth it.  |
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Hi op
We met here and took a few months away to concentrate on us ,then joined as a couple.
I wouls say ,go to clubs and organised socials,great way to meet others.
Also make sure you have discussed each other's boundaries etc with each other an potential meets.
Good luck
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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Be aware that not all couples are actually couples! A large pinch of salt can sometimes be handy in the early days of messaging!
And we’re still pretty new to the whole couple thing too, you learn on your feet it seems.
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"Well for meeting other couples and enjoying fun filled evenings
My advice is to prepare for the reality that you will probably find it extremely difficult to meet couples where you are both equally into them and vice versa. Mathematically it's an order of magnitude more difficult than the dynamics of 2 people.
How you handle that reality is up to you though.
Very much this.
I think a secret signal is a good idea for if either of you don't fancy them when you meet in person.
But if you do find someone then it's worth it. "
Yup we have our signals all worked out. It also helps that we can both speak a language 99% of people around won't understand. |
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We don't have a secret signal. We do have an agreement whereby either of us just says "we need a minute privately". We haven't needed it yet but if we had to we would just say what needed to be said, return and either continue or explain that proceedings need to stop. |
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"We don't have a secret signal. We do have an agreement whereby either of us just says "we need a minute privately". We haven't needed it yet but if we had to we would just say what needed to be said, return and either continue or explain that proceedings need to stop."
Oh we've needed it |
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"We don't have a secret signal. We do have an agreement whereby either of us just says "we need a minute privately". We haven't needed it yet but if we had to we would just say what needed to be said, return and either continue or explain that proceedings need to stop.
Oh we've needed it"
We needed it before we had the agreement...hence the agreement.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't have a secret signal. We do have an agreement whereby either of us just says "we need a minute privately". We haven't needed it yet but if we had to we would just say what needed to be said, return and either continue or explain that proceedings need to stop.
Oh we've needed it"
I guess that depends how strict the 'playing together' rule is for the OP and his partner. If I want to stop then I would regard that as up to me to deal with that. There's no way I would expect my husband to stop if he were having a nice time!
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"We don't have a secret signal. We do have an agreement whereby either of us just says "we need a minute privately". We haven't needed it yet but if we had to we would just say what needed to be said, return and either continue or explain that proceedings need to stop.
Oh we've needed it
I guess that depends how strict the 'playing together' rule is for the OP and his partner. If I want to stop then I would regard that as up to me to deal with that. There's no way I would expect my husband to stop if he were having a nice time!
Mrs"
I can imagine it wouldn't go down well with a lot of couples if one wife stopped and the other was going to carry on. |
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