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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What’s the longest fellow fabsters have had fuck buddies for ? Kinda been 18 months for me and my FB just wondering if I should stop before things get messy and feelings develop ??  |
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had a friend with whom I had some fun when both were single for a couple of years... but we were friends before and after and didn't see each other a lot so feelings were never on the cards. properbly and it when you feel that things are changing for either of you? unless you want something to change... |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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5-6 years for me.
We have a lot of things we both enjoy and sex is great. I really enjoy spending time with him.
I really like him, but no more than a friend. I've never felt anything more for him. I don't know if that is because I knew from the start we would never be more than that or if it's just because the feelings have never developed. We are just good friends who fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my fuck buddy been friends and fucking for about 2 yrs. Not regular, might go months not hearing or seeing her...then she will turn up and want the world. Funny it never works the other way round, never around when I demand it lol  |
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"What is the difference between a fuck buddy and friends with benefits please?"
For us the focus of the "friends with benefits" scenario is the friendship (which could appear almost 'vanilla' or 'dating') whereas a fuck buddy to us is more focussed on sex.
So, friendship with sex as opposed to sex with friendship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that. "
I can’t, need some sort of connection, mmm.
Him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that.
I can’t, need some sort of connection, mmm.
Him."
You too? |
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"What’s the longest fellow fabsters have had fuck buddies for ? Kinda been 18 months for me and my FB just wondering if I should stop before things get messy and feelings develop ?? "
Depends what you want out of it?. Long as you both communicate can't see why feelings would be a problem and get messy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Longest is 18 months
I had one that turned into a relationship in the end but sadly it ended
I'm on the look out for a new fb now but it's not that easy to find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My longest was 5 years. Are feelings a bad thing? Depends on how you deal with them. I can't fuck someone more than a couple of times if I don't have some kind of connection with them. I just don't tell them that. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been seeing one guy fairly regularly for about 5-6 years. We've become really good friends, and the sex just gets better and better. Getting to know people and building a genuine connection/friendship with a view to long term fun, is the ideal scenario for us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tend to only last about 2 months with me then they get a new one. Dont bother me though. Currently on the look out for someone new myself so ladies get intouch! |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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12yrs for me. Not seen him for a gud few years now but stil in touch and he wants to see me again. It only stopped cuz I met sumone I fel for but I am single now so who knows wot wil happen if bump into each other again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last fuck buddie kasted about a year
Always best to have at least two fuck buddies I think just incase one is unavailable lol "
Or three works well ha ha but yes...people you can trust, relax and know there is a connection...and will also always have your back like any other good friend x |
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Think he was starting to get feelings so he vanished 