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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone

It’s quite amazing how many men on here state they’re single on their profiles then post in the forums or on their statuses about their wife. Particularly about wanting to share pics of her or wanting advice on how to get her into swinging.

One poor bloke is single but has a wife and is currently bragging about his girlfriend ... poor thing seems ever so confused.

Then there are the men who think they have a wife and set up a couples profile.

It’s a minefield!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Constantly amazes us as well ! !

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By *appy squirrelWoman  over a year ago

Norwich

oh dont be harsh, there is a lot to remember you know... like are you straight or bi...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s quite amazing how many men on here state they’re single on their profiles then post in the forums or on their statuses about their wife. Particularly about wanting to share pics of her or wanting advice on how to get her into swinging.

One poor bloke is single but has a wife and is currently bragging about his girlfriend ... poor thing seems ever so confused.

Then there are the men who think they have a wife and set up a couples profile.

It’s a minefield!

Mrs x "

I forgot what this forum was about

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"It’s quite amazing how many men on here state they’re single on their profiles then post in the forums or on their statuses about their wife. Particularly about wanting to share pics of her or wanting advice on how to get her into swinging.

One poor bloke is single but has a wife and is currently bragging about his girlfriend ... poor thing seems ever so confused.

Then there are the men who think they have a wife and set up a couples profile.

It’s a minefield!

Mrs x

I forgot what this forum was about "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've never hidden or trtedvto avoid tge fact I'm married because I cant lie about anyting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

its when they say "was just a white lie"

that they said they was single

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dont forget the stright ones who will suck your cock

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone

It kinda ruins faith in the site and we can’t help but sometimes think everybody’s a fraud until proven otherwise. We tend to go with a gut reaction and playing detective from time to time is also quite fun lol.

Now where’s my deerstalker and pipe?

Mr x

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By *inky KatzCouple  over a year ago

Scotland

We come across so many 'couples' profiles and yes you guessed it..... it's a single guy that his Mrs is unwell or out of town blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?"

personally for me, i like honesty and openness and meets thats arent quick or in the day

so singles work for me

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?"

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point."

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them.

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By *tace 309TV/TS  over a year ago

durham

How can you get amnesia if there's nowt up there in the first place

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone

Just to reiterate that the thread was a sarcastic dig at the fake ‘single’ men out there. And the ones masquerading as a couple, just to get their kicks. Sadly, they seem to multiplying in numbers these days

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. "

I agree, it is about NSA sex but in our opinion, we would rather play with genuine people and not frauds.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple  over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Had a very nasty experience last year before I met Sir with a guy who I see is back on here and playing away again.

He encouraged me into a relationship rather than the NSA that I was after. My first dabbling back into sex / dating after I was widowed, which he knew. I discovered after four months he was married.

But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them.

I agree, it is about NSA sex but in our opinion, we would rather play with genuine people and not frauds."

my point i tried to make

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Had a very nasty experience last year before I met Sir with a guy who I see is back on here and playing away again.

He encouraged me into a relationship rather than the NSA that I was after. My first dabbling back into sex / dating after I was widowed, which he knew. I discovered after four months he was married.

But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard. "

Definitely, some people are just twisted. Glad you had a happy ending

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them.

I agree, it is about NSA sex but in our opinion, we would rather play with genuine people and not frauds.

my point i tried to make "

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple  over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Had a very nasty experience last year before I met Sir with a guy who I see is back on here and playing away again.

He encouraged me into a relationship rather than the NSA that I was after. My first dabbling back into sex / dating after I was widowed, which he knew. I discovered after four months he was married.

But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard.

Definitely, some people are just twisted. Glad you had a happy ending "

Thank you. Sir said his mum had a saying for bad people that seems appropriate. “Leave them to God”

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. "

Does a man playing away make him a dishonest person?

Maybe that is an issue to some?

A question that is played out a lot of times on here also. Is cheating the same as swinging?

After all there is a difference between a swinging site and a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dont forget the stright ones who will suck your cock"

I never forget anyone who will do that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a very nasty experience last year before I met Sir with a guy who I see is back on here and playing away again.

He encouraged me into a relationship rather than the NSA that I was after. My first dabbling back into sex / dating after I was widowed, which he knew. I discovered after four months he was married.

But always one to be positive - now couldn’t be happier. But what a nasty bastard.

Definitely, some people are just twisted. Glad you had a happy ending

Thank you. Sir said his mum had a saying for bad people that seems appropriate. “Leave them to God” "

what a twunt though. and yeah what goes around comes around, glad you are happy now x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them.

Does a man playing away make him a dishonest person?

Maybe that is an issue to some?

A question that is played out a lot of times on here also. Is cheating the same as swinging?

After all there is a difference between a swinging site and a sex site."

swinging to me is honest and not cheating, id rather know from the off is the person is attached and then i can make a formed decision

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s quite amazing how many men on here state they’re single on their profiles then post in the forums or on their statuses about their wife. Particularly about wanting to share pics of her or wanting advice on how to get her into swinging.

One poor bloke is single but has a wife and is currently bragging about his girlfriend ... poor thing seems ever so confused.

Then there are the men who think they have a wife and set up a couples profile.

It’s a minefield!

Mrs x "

Yes it is indeed a minefield

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them. "

I'd like to know why it's always aimed at single men. They're couples on here, married but not to each other and I've played with single females who, it turns out aren't single.

We all have our moral compass but they are all here for their own reasons. Live and let live. A part of society that isn't judged favourably by many is in itself very judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It isn't always aimed at single men although it may seem so on here.

We think it is because those men who aren't single bring themselves into everyone's attention on here, most of the time moaning because they cannot get meets!

Just get on with it quietly if you have to is what we think.

Oh, and the other thing you see on here a lot. Married people cheating on here then describing themselves as honest.

It will always be a hotly debated topic.

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone

Yeah, married people cheating is a no no for us. Albeit very hard to detect sometimes. We have a conscience and would hate to hurt any unknowing party. We may be in the minority here but we let our hearts and minds rule, not our genitals. Desperation is soooo not sexy.

Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah, married people cheating is a no no for us. Albeit very hard to detect sometimes. We have a conscience and would hate to hurt any unknowing party. We may be in the minority here but we let our hearts and minds rule, not our genitals. Desperation is soooo not sexy.

Mr x"

Nope.

You aren't in the minority at all.

There are still lots of people on here that hold honesty and respect highly.

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Yeah, married people cheating is a no no for us. Albeit very hard to detect sometimes. We have a conscience and would hate to hurt any unknowing party. We may be in the minority here but we let our hearts and minds rule, not our genitals. Desperation is soooo not sexy.

Mr x

Nope.

You aren't in the minority at all.

There are still lots of people on here that hold honesty and respect highly."

Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"oh dont be harsh, there is a lot to remember you know... like are you straight or bi..."

Oh and the passwords for the single straight profile on here and the Bi one on other sites must be a nightmare to manage! Lol

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By *uzz And Woody OP   Couple  over a year ago

Maidstone


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them.

I'd like to know why it's always aimed at single men. They're couples on here, married but not to each other and I've played with single females who, it turns out aren't single.

We all have our moral compass but they are all here for their own reasons. Live and let live. A part of society that isn't judged favourably by many is in itself very judgemental."

If they’re open and honest about their relationship status then at least those playing with them can make informed decisions. Otherwise that person is deceiving us and their partner, not a trait we’re fond of and we don’t want to contribute to their partners hurt when/if they find out.

I aimed my original post at men as they are predominately the ones who are daft enough to contradict their profile on their status or in the forum, that shows they’re not only liars but also a bit dim. Of course there are women and couples doing the same but the men are usually the ones drawing attention to themselves with their posts/statuses.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why exactly does a mans marital status have any bearing on his ability as a swinger? Why is it relevant?

Huh? You’ve missed the point.

No. I havent. In the context of this site, they are single men. They play as single men. There was an exact thread on this yesterday and comments in this same thread further solidifying said point. A lot of men dubiously claim they're part of a couple, knowing very well that there partner is not in any way involved with the lifestyle, many even go on to share intimate pictures with said partner too.

In the context of swinging, a man who plays away is a single male. Unless, you have a problem with the infidelity. In which case, I cant really come at anyone elses moral gauge...though I do find it amusing when people want to pretend they're about NSA sex whilst things like that bother them.

I'd like to know why it's always aimed at single men. They're couples on here, married but not to each other and I've played with single females who, it turns out aren't single.

We all have our moral compass but they are all here for their own reasons. Live and let live. A part of society that isn't judged favourably by many is in itself very judgemental.

If they’re open and honest about their relationship status then at least those playing with them can make informed decisions. Otherwise that person is deceiving us and their partner, not a trait we’re fond of and we don’t want to contribute to their partners hurt when/if they find out.

I aimed my original post at men as they are predominately the ones who are daft enough to contradict their profile on their status or in the forum, that shows they’re not only liars but also a bit dim. Of course there are women and couples doing the same but the men are usually the ones drawing attention to themselves with their posts/statuses.

Mrs x "

Fair point.

I don't ever look at the guys or their status, although I do read what they have to say in the forums. I can only see from my perspective.

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