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Single guys - are you really interested in MF couples?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some I'm sure they are. I'd prefer an ongoing liaison with a single lady but I'm open to the right couple. I do find however it's an entirely different dynamic and often more difficult to make a thing of |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For some I'm sure they are. I'd prefer an ongoing liaison with a single lady but I'm open to the right couple. I do find however it's an entirely different dynamic and often more difficult to make a thing of"
Would that mean if you found the 'right' couple you would want the husband present? Or would you secretly want him to disappear? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For some I'm sure they are. I'd prefer an ongoing liaison with a single lady but I'm open to the right couple. I do find however it's an entirely different dynamic and often more difficult to make a thing of
Would that mean if you found the 'right' couple you would want the husband present? Or would you secretly want him to disappear?"
been seeing a couple for 3 years now and the dynamic has only got better. we have all evolved together. ALways like have the husband present as we all get on so well. I am also lucky asi get to see the lady on her own too...but love both |
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I play as a single and prefer to meet couples as I find a lot of the single females on here teases at best. Not all I hasten to add I have met some very nice single women. With couples there isn't the added complication of getting involved as I am not seeking a relationship, just some fun. If the guy is bi or bi curious that's a bonus but am happy to play straight and you wouldn't know I wasn't unless invited to play with the male too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some I'm sure they are. I'd prefer an ongoing liaison with a single lady but I'm open to the right couple. I do find however it's an entirely different dynamic and often more difficult to make a thing of
Would that mean if you found the 'right' couple you would want the husband present? Or would you secretly want him to disappear?"
Either or or both! I've had ongoing relationships with the female half of couples previously however more often than not I've found this to be them playing away and now I'd most likely at the very least appreciate meeting the husband and ensuring he's happy with everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a bi male I think couples are the ultimate in sensual fun if the couple like bi guys. You can satisfy both cock and pussy if truly bi. Having had a couple of fantastic bi couple meets I would say true bi guys are worth a place in the bedroom.  |
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By *aveywMan
over a year ago
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I find the dynamic of playing with a couple is way better for me than just a one on one. Just a personal preference but I love seeing a lady getting and giving pleasure at the same time. Nothing as sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For some I'm sure they are. I'd prefer an ongoing liaison with a single lady but I'm open to the right couple. I do find however it's an entirely different dynamic and often more difficult to make a thing of
Would that mean if you found the 'right' couple you would want the husband present? Or would you secretly want him to disappear?
Either or or both! I've had ongoing relationships with the female half of couples previously however more often than not I've found this to be them playing away and now I'd most likely at the very least appreciate meeting the husband and ensuring he's happy with everything. "
At least you're honest in your profile and don't check the MF couples box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some I'm sure they are. I'd prefer an ongoing liaison with a single lady but I'm open to the right couple. I do find however it's an entirely different dynamic and often more difficult to make a thing of
Would that mean if you found the 'right' couple you would want the husband present? Or would you secretly want him to disappear?
Either or or both! I've had ongoing relationships with the female half of couples previously however more often than not I've found this to be them playing away and now I'd most likely at the very least appreciate meeting the husband and ensuring he's happy with everything.
At least you're honest in your profile and don't check the MF couples box. "
Dont see the point in telling porkies. You'll get found out eventually |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
I've ticked couples as i'm genuinely interested in trying this and have stated as much on my profile and given a description as to what i'm after.
No luck so far, but have been quite successful with single ladies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs
I've ticked couples as i'm genuinely interested in trying this and have stated as much on my profile and given a description as to what i'm after.
No luck so far, but have been quite successful with single ladies "
Yep you'd probably have to find a couple who is comfortable with being a man's first couple experience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer couples,yes. Purely as there is less drama involved and everybody there knows what they are there for. No pretending what the whole thing is. "
Do you enjoy the guy being there as well. Or is it purely because it's drama free? |
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By *ug247Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer couples,yes. Purely as there is less drama involved and everybody there knows what they are there for. No pretending what the whole thing is.
Do you enjoy the guy being there as well. Or is it purely because it's drama free?"
It depends on the dynamic. If he enjoys the fact of another male pleasing his partner/wife then that’s good as it will undoubtedly be more enjoyable to her. But like I said it will be agreed prior so I’ll know what’s going on.
Plus there is something hot about a women enjoy two men. |
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"I prefer couples,yes. Purely as there is less drama involved and everybody there knows what they are there for. No pretending what the whole thing is.
Do you enjoy the guy being there as well. Or is it purely because it's drama free?"
Having only been with one couple my experience is quite limited but I ticked that box on purpose, firstly because of the obvious, both dick and pussy are present to play with and, being a bi-curious guy it takes a lot of the pressure to perform off of me alone, and if it's done right everyone can be having fun at the same time! Also it opens up a lot of dynamics I'm interested in, I like to watch for instance, and I like to engage in fantasies and light role play, so the more the merrier definitely applies there and with a couple, there's already the trust in each other to really get into whatever happens on the night. I also find it incredibly attractive for a man to essentially share his lady with me, which is something I'd imagine is rare to find in a fuck buddy situation! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Great to see some guys who love the couple dynamic. We actually have very good experiences as we are very astute at identifying the guys who genuinely like couples. Ironically when I see our love by term playmate a couple of times onmy own, he's always chomping at the bit for Mr to join us next time. I think he finds 1 on 1 a bit mundane lol. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Yes. I am genuinely interested in MF couples. I had a bad experience off another site which i have brought up on these forums previously. That put me off meeting couples for a while. Back on as an option now though. Interestingly I have had messages over the last 2 weekends from couples. In both cases I was offered a meet with just the lady. Not quite what I expected in fairness. I've not had a chance for the full monty experience as yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes. I am genuinely interested in MF couples. I had a bad experience off another site which i have brought up on these forums previously. That put me off meeting couples for a while. Back on as an option now though. Interestingly I have had messages over the last 2 weekends from couples. In both cases I was offered a meet with just the lady. Not quite what I expected in fairness. I've not had a chance for the full monty experience as yet."
Arh I see you have now added MF couples back to your profile. I don't think that was there before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, a couple to play with on a regular basis would probably be the most ideal situation. My wife has lung disease and a few years ago had a stroke. Up till then we had a great sex life but now, it's non existent.
I'm happy to meet with single ladies but feel that the potential for complications is much more prevalent. I am also sure there are a lot of ladies posing as single that aren't being honest about their relationship situation. I am not here with consent but am at least up front about my situation.
I think with a couple we would all be getting what we want from the intimacy we share without any unwanted attention or attachments. There are something's I'd like to try that just aren't possible with a single female. These things wouldn't be possible for a couple to explore without a single male.
So I guess for me, rather than it being a way to up my chances of having sex it's a way of having sex without the risk of someone becoming overly attached to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
I love couples and would love to jump in with both partner |
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By *ossauMan
over a year ago
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
Well I like couple play, especially if the guy is bi or curious at least, the atmosphere is charged and the options many! Imagine linking lips round hubby's cock as you both look at him? Or, husband and wife round mine, mind blowing. And although most straights seem to think impossible, I can play straight |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Yes. I am genuinely interested in MF couples. I had a bad experience off another site which i have brought up on these forums previously. That put me off meeting couples for a while. Back on as an option now though. Interestingly I have had messages over the last 2 weekends from couples. In both cases I was offered a meet with just the lady. Not quite what I expected in fairness. I've not had a chance for the full monty experience as yet.
Arh I see you have now added MF couples back to your profile. I don't think that was there before "
Yup i did say that lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found it an exhilarating and thrilling experience. It is certainly a dynamic I would be keen to explore more. For me joining a loving couple with a connection was amazing. It's an honour to be invited into the most intimate moments a couple share and a real thrill to take part in the fireworks they create. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
Short answer is yes we are looking for couples together, or at least I am |
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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago
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Interesting contributions here.
What we look for from a single guy is someone as keen as I am to see a woman being taken to higher levels of erotic, sensual enjoyment than one man alone can achieve. Obviously there are other aspects - her feeling of empowerment 'controlling' 2 men, the naughtiness and so on, but it is mainly about the focus on her. Men after a easy shag cos they cannot get a meet with single ladies invariably give away their real motives in the style and content their initial messages.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting contributions here.
What we look for from a single guy is someone as keen as I am to see a woman being taken to higher levels of erotic, sensual enjoyment than one man alone can achieve. Obviously there are other aspects - her feeling of empowerment 'controlling' 2 men, the naughtiness and so on, but it is mainly about the focus on her. Men after a easy shag cos they cannot get a meet with single ladies invariably give away their real motives in the style and content their initial messages.
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I think it's often quite obvious from a profile text. A lot will say they are looking for a woman or a FWB with no mention of any interest in a couple. Which is fine, but makes me wonder why they check the 'couple' box. Sometimes profiles will add on 'couples' as an afterthought in their text. Something like 'Looking for a sexy lady, but might try a couple'. Try!! I wonder how many couples want to be tried out like one might try out sky diving or sushi! But there are some guys who love a threeesome, so all fine. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Interesting contributions here.
What we look for from a single guy is someone as keen as I am to see a woman being taken to higher levels of erotic, sensual enjoyment than one man alone can achieve. Obviously there are other aspects - her feeling of empowerment 'controlling' 2 men, the naughtiness and so on, but it is mainly about the focus on her. Men after a easy shag cos they cannot get a meet with single ladies invariably give away their real motives in the style and content their initial messages.
I think it's often quite obvious from a profile text. A lot will say they are looking for a woman or a FWB with no mention of any interest in a couple. Which is fine, but makes me wonder why they check the 'couple' box. Sometimes profiles will add on 'couples' as an afterthought in their text. Something like 'Looking for a sexy lady, but might try a couple'. Try!! I wonder how many couples want to be tried out like one might try out sky diving or sushi! But there are some guys who love a threeesome, so all fine."
I think that's over thinking it or at worst just a bad way of putting it. There's a thread elsewhere about bucket lists. Not unreasonable for someone to have a threesome on there in my opinion. Everyone has at some point not had a threesome. Until you have it is a case of trying it to see if it's for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting contributions here.
What we look for from a single guy is someone as keen as I am to see a woman being taken to higher levels of erotic, sensual enjoyment than one man alone can achieve. Obviously there are other aspects - her feeling of empowerment 'controlling' 2 men, the naughtiness and so on, but it is mainly about the focus on her. Men after a easy shag cos they cannot get a meet with single ladies invariably give away their real motives in the style and content their initial messages.
I think it's often quite obvious from a profile text. A lot will say they are looking for a woman or a FWB with no mention of any interest in a couple. Which is fine, but makes me wonder why they check the 'couple' box. Sometimes profiles will add on 'couples' as an afterthought in their text. Something like 'Looking for a sexy lady, but might try a couple'. Try!! I wonder how many couples want to be tried out like one might try out sky diving or sushi! But there are some guys who love a threeesome, so all fine.
I think that's over thinking it or at worst just a bad way of putting it. There's a thread elsewhere about bucket lists. Not unreasonable for someone to have a threesome on there in my opinion. Everyone has at some point not had a threesome. Until you have it is a case of trying it to see if it's for you."
Maybe, but I do think that our obsession with looking for guys who are genuinely interested in couples, is one of the reasons we don't get the bullshit that I read about so on the forums. |
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By dreamreader Man
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I'm guilty of this. I am still trying to find my feet to be honest.
When I do meet a couple it will probably be with my partner, but we don't have a couples profile on this site. Originally she didn't want to be online, but she has probably changed her mind now as we are online as a couple elsewhere.
I think I need to be a bit more confident before I consider meeting a couple on my own, but I'm not averse to it. We shall see!
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"We have yet to meet a guy who hadn't wanted to play (straight) with us as a couple, fortunately for me.
Just to clatify. This is Mr replying?"
Not sure I understand. I (the female half) replied. Why would you think it was my partner? |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"We have yet to meet a guy who hadn't wanted to play (straight) with us as a couple, fortunately for me.
Just to clatify. This is Mr replying?
Not sure I understand. I (the female half) replied. Why would you think it was my partner?"
I didn't know either way. I just picked a salutation to use.
So why put for me as opposed to for us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
Because i 100% would love to meet up with a MF couple, as for it being the 'next best thing' i dont agree, its equally as hard to get a couple meet, but i hope to meet a couple soon... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
At my age a little help comes in handy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
Ultimately I want to become a couple on here and have fun. I do enjoy meeting couples too. I think part of it might be the taboo of being with another mans gf or partner which is a big turn on for me. Plus for me I love watching a woman enjoy themselves and those couples I've met where I've been the second guy the lady has loved 2x hands, mouths, cocks. It's a huge turn on to watch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I find it a turn on to know that the husband either knows and wants it to happen or is watching it happen and enjoying it. Would also like to try MMF where both guys just pleasure the woman and some couple might be into that. More for the Hotwife part though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find playing with couples with the lady as the center of attention truly wonderful. I enjoy the dynamic of working together to fulfill the lady's and couple's fantasies and the possibilities for different MFM positions.
My ideal situation would be to be close friends with the couple, sharing common non-sexual as well as sexual interests. An ideal day would be hiking with the couple or going to a musical performance and then returning to play sexually together.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MFM meets can be a lot of fun. I'm happy to meet and play with couples, providing all 3 of us get along well.
I don't mind whether they want a same-room 3sum, or for separate-room play, with the lady.
It can be hard enough, finding a single woman you get along with - but twice as hard, to find an affable, compatible couple.
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"I find playing with couples with the lady as the center of attention truly wonderful. I enjoy the dynamic of working together to fulfill the lady's and couple's fantasies and the possibilities for different MFM positions.
My ideal situation would be to be close friends with the couple, sharing common non-sexual as well as sexual interests. An ideal day would be hiking with the couple or going to a musical performance and then returning to play sexually together. "
Preach!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We’ve had a few guys message us who quickly get to asking can they play with me alone as they don’t want to play with both.
While I do play alone on occasion, that’s not mentioned on our profile so we don’t entertain those who ask. When I do want to play with someone on my own I’ll approach them, that way they’ve shown they’re interested in what we’re looking for rather than appearing to be something they’re not.
But I do think there are those who tick the box purely to get the meets with the ladies only, which is a bit dishonest imo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy mfm, as I have said in previous posts.
I have been lucky enough to experience this many times from this site and previously.
One couple I played with, for over eight years, others for a couple of years each, longer and shorter. I am happy to play with single females, but it is a different type of play.
I have also had experience of playing with the wife on her own with husband's full consent. We used to take photos for them, for when he got home. |
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
Couples offer something else to a single lady. For one the banter is entirely different as you and the man of the couple have someone to "bounce the craic off" if that makes sense. The social aspect is usually brilliant, providing the couple don't have underlying issues.
Also women of couples who enjoy multi-cocked fun generally lose it more and become groaning wild little hellcats much more under the ministrations of two or more men at once. Who wouldn't want to bear witness to a lady in such a beautiful state? |
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"I'm just a bit cynical on this matter. Single guys check the 'couples' box as one of the demographics they would like to meet, but when we read their profile they say they want to meet ladies and make no reference to any interest in couples. Are couples just an alternative way of getting sex because it's hard to find a single lady - you know a couple is the next best thing and the guy will put up with hubby hanging around? Single guys - what is the reason you checked the 'couples' box?
Mrs"
The erotic dynamic of a couple/hotwife is so much more intense - the fact that a lady is married and you are having sex with her while her hubby watches is just so damn horny. Or he can jon in - its the fact that this prim married lady is acting the hotwife behind closed doors.. |
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honestly i can't remember the last time i had a 1on1 meet with a female
