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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I fully expect the

"I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this.

However moral high ground aside.

We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym.

Problem is.

Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others.

However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users.

Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar.

Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym?

Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment?

But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number?

Asking if he wants to Go for a drink.

Or flat out ask for a fuck?

Would guy's be put off by the direct approach?

Maybe I should say something?

Any tips?

Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire

Oh yes please.

I am jools btw.

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By *ieman300Man  over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Have you a particular guy in mind? Or is it just anyone from the gym?

If it's the latter I think it's crass.

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Have you a particular guy in mind? Or is it just anyone from the gym?

If it's the latter I think it's crass."

There are a couple of guys.

Most are pretty grim tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

LOL, the "I'm only here to workout" brigade are amusing. Always strikes me a placeholder for "I am too afraid to strike up conversation with random strangers I am attracted to". Which, to be fair, makes sense. The UK is not exactly known for cultural openness or sexual forwardness.

OP I would suggest you keep it natural. I would say upwards of 90% of people at the gym are either single or looking/considering...hence why they're in the gym. Especially if we're talking your standard issue commercial gym...of course specialists workout facilities will be more for serious competitors/athletes/bodybuilders.

I've met plenty of women outside the gym after striking up conversation. Keep it natural, laid back and make the intentions somewhat clear from the get go.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would love it if a woman approached me. There is a redhead at my gym I would like to talk to. But I am going to the gym to get fit so I can compete with the other people probably trying to talk to her.

I suppose it depends on the guy. Some take it very seriously and would be in the zone. Others may take it as a massive compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just start a conversation, (probably the mrs) with him, bit of flirting, ask for advice and see what's what.

You'll probably find most guys are very approachable, at least I find that. You'll always have the exception though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Shouldn’t be a problem talking to guys just as long as they are finished with their set lol

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Cheers guy's

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I fully expect the

"I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this.

However moral high ground aside.

We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym.

Problem is.

Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others.

However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users.

Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar.

Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym?

Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment?

But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number?

Asking if he wants to Go for a drink.

Or flat out ask for a fuck?

Would guy's be put off by the direct approach?

Maybe I should say something?

Any tips?

Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please.

"

Most bguys would be okay. I was recently asked to give a lady a spot when she was doing squats on the free standing equipment. Very hard to concentrate to say the least ha. Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. If he's interested he should say something back in response in a good way. Say simething witty like. Maybe we can get a orotien shake sometime and leave it there for a few days

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I fully expect the

"I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this.

However moral high ground aside.

We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym.

Problem is.

Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others.

However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users.

Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar.

Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym?

Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment?

But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number?

Asking if he wants to Go for a drink.

Or flat out ask for a fuck?

Would guy's be put off by the direct approach?

Maybe I should say something?

Any tips?

Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please.

Most bguys would be okay. I was recently asked to give a lady a spot when she was doing squats on the free standing equipment. Very hard to concentrate to say the least ha. Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. If he's interested he should say something back in response in a good way. Say simething witty like. Maybe we can get a orotien shake sometime and leave it there for a few days "

AHH like it.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I fully expect the

"I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this.

However moral high ground aside.

We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym.

Problem is.

Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others.

However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users.

Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar.

Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym?

Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment?

But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number?

Asking if he wants to Go for a drink.

Or flat out ask for a fuck?

Would guy's be put off by the direct approach?

Maybe I should say something?

Any tips?

Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please.

Most bguys would be okay. I was recently asked to give a lady a spot when she was doing squats on the free standing equipment. Very hard to concentrate to say the least ha. Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. If he's interested he should say something back in response in a good way. Say simething witty like. Maybe we can get a orotien shake sometime and leave it there for a few days

AHH like it. "

Nice one. Always happy to help. Let me/us know how it went

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Does your gym have a pool/spa area? Most people working out are too busy to talk. But when they’re relaxing you’ll probably find most people are happy to chat a little bit.

Since it’s a woman talking to a guy I’m sure there will be no issue unless the man really takes himself seriously.

I’ve been approached a few times and I’ve never minded it. Even took things a little further on a few occasions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The lady should just go up and ask him if he would like to have a drink/social/visit them.I am sure he would jump at the chance.

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man  over a year ago

woodhall spa


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?"

No...quite the opposite actually. Just make sure the approach is quite innocent and subtle

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke

Wear something revealing, ask for a spot, if he gets a semi then comment on it.

Unless you manage to pick a priest working out, then no red blooded male is going to mind this scenario.

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By *m3232Man  over a year ago

maidenhead


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?"

I had this a while ago a lady got on the bike next to me just as I was ready to get off and said hello 1hour later we was still talking I was fucked and was hoping she would give me a sign as all I was thinking I would fuck her sensless lol but she didn’t and I have not managed to get back there at the right time.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?

I had this a while ago a lady got on the bike next to me just as I was ready to get off and said hello 1hour later we was still talking I was fucked and was hoping she would give me a sign as all I was thinking I would fuck her sensless lol but she didn’t and I have not managed to get back there at the right time. "

What a prick tease

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By *appy_hedonistMan  over a year ago

Islington


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?"

The guys in the gym are probably already checking out your wife, so they would be delighted if she breaks the ice. We are talking about men here...

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By *m3232Man  over a year ago

maidenhead


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?

I had this a while ago a lady got on the bike next to me just as I was ready to get off and said hello 1hour later we was still talking I was fucked and was hoping she would give me a sign as all I was thinking I would fuck her sensless lol but she didn’t and I have not managed to get back there at the right time.

What a prick tease"

Her body was amazing. Not sure if it was a hint but she did say she could put her feet behind her head easily. But she was telling me about her bad back at the time saying she was hyper flexible I thought mmmmm please

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

The guys in my gym won't even spar me, let alone ask me out!

Suits me, well apart from the sparring bit!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?

The guys in the gym are probably already checking out your wife, so they would be delighted if she breaks the ice. We are talking about men here... "

Yes men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally I'd say approach causally at 1st and then if the signs seem right ask him out for a drink sometime. Like someone said he's probably already been checking her out and might have similar thoughts. I certainly would

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By *atureBoySouthMan  over a year ago

Fareham

Most gyms are a hotbed of sexual activity!

A friendly smile and a brief chat can open up a whole lot of things.

Think I've met more swingers in the sauna at the pool than I have on these sites recently!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I fully expect the

"I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this.

However moral high ground aside.

We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym.

Problem is.

Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others.

However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users.

Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar.

Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym?

Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment?

But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number?

Asking if he wants to Go for a drink.

Or flat out ask for a fuck?

Would guy's be put off by the direct approach?

Maybe I should say something?

Any tips?

Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please.

"

I’m not going to lie, there are a few women in my gym who I fantasise would work out next to me then straight out ask me to fuck them

I take my gym time very seriously, respect others and keep myself to myself but that would definitely be an offer I couldn’t refuse

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By *adyJayneWoman  over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

90% are single. A bit like 98% of stats are fabricated.

Pretty much everyone I know who goes to my gym, is in a relationship. Myself included.

I go to the gym to work out. I don't go to the gym to find someone. I don't go to the gym to make myself look better for someone else, I do it for myself. I wouldn't appreciate anyone chatting me up while I'm trying to work out.

On a night out however. That is different. As well as someone from my gum knows

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By *appy_hedonistMan  over a year ago

Islington


"I’m not going to lie, there are a few women in my gym who I fantasise would work out next to me then straight out ask me to fuck them

I take my gym time very seriously, respect others and keep myself to myself but that would definitely be an offer I couldn’t refuse "

Exactly, if you're a man, you've already had the fantasy about the female gym members. You don't have to be Harvey Weinstein to have such thoughts. If one of these came on to you, it would make your night.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"I fully expect the

"I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this.

However moral high ground aside.

We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym.

Problem is.

Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others.

However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users.

Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar.

Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym?

Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment?

But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number?

Asking if he wants to Go for a drink.

Or flat out ask for a fuck?

Would guy's be put off by the direct approach?

Maybe I should say something?

Any tips?

Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please.

"

Would make gym far more intresting and sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"90% are single. A bit like 98% of stats are fabricated.

Pretty much everyone I know who goes to my gym, is in a relationship. Myself included.

I go to the gym to work out. I don't go to the gym to find someone. I don't go to the gym to make myself look better for someone else, I do it for myself. I wouldn't appreciate anyone chatting me up while I'm trying to work out.

On a night out however. That is different. As well as someone from my gum knows "

I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after.

Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Unless you manage to pick a priest working out, then no red blooded male is going to mind this scenario. "

This is my thinking on it...But then, I haven't been in a gym in years. You could always time it so you catch him on his way out, too, if you think he'll be bothered by his workout being interrupted. Guys used to chat me up on my way out of the gym (a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away...)

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By *adyJayneWoman  over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"

I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after.

Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does. "

The 'weekend warrior' and 'looking like they don't exercise much' was aimed at me I guess?

You are one for snap judgements aren't you.

You have no idea how often I'm at the gym, or what my diet consists of.

Now I'm making an assumption. I'm assuming you are the kind of guy that makes people feel uncomfortable in the gym because you are so much better then they are, you are part of the reason there are 'weekend warriors' because people with a holier the thou attitude put them off.

I know it put me off. But a decent PT, a great few friends to run with and I'm fitter then I've been in years. A change in my medication and I've finally started to loose weight.

To anyone put off going to the gym by his rant. Don't be. Find a decent gym, get a PT and you'll never look back.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after.

Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does.

The 'weekend warrior' and 'looking like they don't exercise much' was aimed at me I guess?

You are one for snap judgements aren't you.

You have no idea how often I'm at the gym, or what my diet consists of.

Now I'm making an assumption. I'm assuming you are the kind of guy that makes people feel uncomfortable in the gym because you are so much better then they are, you are part of the reason there are 'weekend warriors' because people with a holier the thou attitude put them off.

I know it put me off. But a decent PT, a great few friends to run with and I'm fitter then I've been in years. A change in my medication and I've finally started to loose weight.

To anyone put off going to the gym by his rant. Don't be. Find a decent gym, get a PT and you'll never look back. "

This is the point though, no one who is serious about attending the gym would be put off by my "rant".

And, keeping on topic, I would also say that anyone who actually frequents places like gyms/training centres regularly knows very well that plenty of people (most even) are single and even more so meet significant others there too. It actually makes sense considering people like to date those with similar interests. Once again I would not be relying on the types who only show up when they want to lose weight to tell me what its like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I go to the gym just to keep reasonably fit, but of course I'm well aware of the many attractive ladies around me. Thank goodness for lycra! I don't approach anyone there because I don't want to be that creepy guy at the gym!I would not be at all bothered if a lady struck up a conversation with me. I tried spin class for a while and a few did then, but I hated spin and dropped it.

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By *ornyandwellhungMan  over a year ago

belfast


"Oh yes please.

I am jools btw."

Nice tits jools, wish you were beside me on the treadmill

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"

I'm talking about people who go the gym seriously...not weekend warriors who like to brag about a workout and then stuff themselves with maccas after.

Really annoying seeing people who really dont look like they exercise much at all trying to tell me the makeup of everyone who does.

The 'weekend warrior' and 'looking like they don't exercise much' was aimed at me I guess?

You are one for snap judgements aren't you.

You have no idea how often I'm at the gym, or what my diet consists of.

Now I'm making an assumption. I'm assuming you are the kind of guy that makes people feel uncomfortable in the gym because you are so much better then they are, you are part of the reason there are 'weekend warriors' because people with a holier the thou attitude put them off.

I know it put me off. But a decent PT, a great few friends to run with and I'm fitter then I've been in years. A change in my medication and I've finally started to loose weight.

To anyone put off going to the gym by his rant. Don't be. Find a decent gym, get a PT and you'll never look back.

This is the point though, no one who is serious about attending the gym would be put off by my "rant".

And, keeping on topic, I would also say that anyone who actually frequents places like gyms/training centres regularly knows very well that plenty of people (most even) are single and even more so meet significant others there too. It actually makes sense considering people like to date those with similar interests. Once again I would not be relying on the types who only show up when they want to lose weight to tell me what its like. "

Utter shite!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are a rew women in my age group at the gym I would love them to start chatting.

But when I look at my own body I realise I'm still a long way off my target.

Did have a younger women who we accidently touched hands while on the bikes, a nice smile and that was it.

Must at gym have their headphones on in our own worlds.

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By *reenleavesCouple  over a year ago

North Wales

When I'm (Rob) at the gym I'm usually in my own bubble so tend to be pretty oblivious to those around me. If you want to catch someone's attention, make it obvious but not over the top.

Catch their eye, either directly or in the mirror, and smile before looking away. Check back to see if they're looking back at you. If they are then you may have an opening. If they're doing weight sets then you could make a move during their rest time. You could ask how long they have left or if you can get past them to grab a weight. You can then build on that if you 'bump into' them again later.

Anything more than a 5min chat would probably start to annoy me as I'd be cooling down or would be eating into my session time. So try and be brief and gauge their interest and back off if they're clearly not into you.

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By *ewBurtonMan  over a year ago

Derby

Just start chatting you will soon know if he is interested xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... ask for a spot "

I don't get this gym term, what is this 'asking for a spot', a few of you are referring to?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I would say upwards of 90% of people at the gym are either single or looking/considering...hence why they're in the gym."

Ooh, this is really, really great news to me!

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By *ye SeMan  over a year ago

london


"Wear something revealing, ask for a spot, if he gets a semi then comment on it.

Unless you manage to pick a priest working out, then no red blooded male is going to mind this scenario. "

Why are there never women like you at my gym

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there. "

I've made a note of this too! Not very subtle but perhaps quite efficient.

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By *ye SeMan  over a year ago

london

London gyms need more ladies like this

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

It's a woman chatting up a man so there wouldn't be any kind of issue.

If it was the other way around, all hell would be breaking loose!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a woman chatting up a man so there wouldn't be any kind of issue.

If it was the other way around, all hell would be breaking loose! "

Sounds like I can knock myself out then?

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By *arry_UkMan  over a year ago

birmingham

This would be such an erotic thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would absolutely encourage an approach in the gym

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan  over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Life is too short.

Just do it.

Male or female.

I know if a lady approached me, I'd be well chuffed, regardless of whether I liked her.

In these days of equality, women should be open to making the first move.

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By *od ThrusterMan  over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

The gym is no different to other public places (OK so there may be a membership but you get my point) - people interact with each other.

If its specific men, strike up a casual conversation and see where it takes you - the same as you would in a pub or café.

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By *ye SeMan  over a year ago

london

Just of to the GYM now, if any ladies see me please say hi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It would be a good cardio or warm down I'd be game

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?"

I would. I don't go to the gym to socialise . I'd politely ask how long are you training for today,and talk after

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


" Next step for you guys would be for her to ask. What days he trains and does his partner train too(sneaky). No partner then it's plain sailing from there.

I've made a note of this too! Not very subtle but perhaps quite efficient."

I think it's very subtle. If he's that nice then surely most would think he'd have a partner too. So asking that question is just a simple conversation starter imo

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"... ask for a spot

I don't get this gym term, what is this 'asking for a spot', a few of you are referring to?"

Getting some assistant on your set bcz you're doing a heavy weight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It didnt bother me- only trouble was she tried to make conversation after a class and I could barely stand up let alone make conversation!

Go for it just be sure to post it under stories in here afterwards xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have never been approached in the gym, however I would love it if a gorgeous sexy woman started the chat asking for a spot is probably the easiest way to get it started without seeming too forward but I doubt many guys would complain with a direct approach

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ive had a few encounters with men from my gym... both from being approached/approaching. Must admit it gave me a massive buzz to be the one to approach and pull it off (no pun ), im not usually that bold.

Id go with the majority here and ask for a spot.. or throw a compliment their way. Guys love gainz so point them out Just be tactful about his calves

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... ask for a spot

I don't get this gym term, what is this 'asking for a spot', a few of you are referring to?

Getting some assistant on your set bcz you're doing a heavy weight"

Heavy weights? Well that's me well and truly out of the picture then.

But thanks for enlightening me!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman  over a year ago

stourbridge area

Id just smile and say hi ...

Then the same the next time you see them

See where it leads

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By *lackMetalMan  over a year ago

Centre


"Id just smile and say hi ...

Then the same the next time you see them

See where it leads "

Not sure if most guys would think anything more than a hi if you say that.

There has to be a glint in your eye for most men to take notice that you want something more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Id just smile and say hi ...

Then the same the next time you see them

See where it leads "

Something heavy dropped on me foot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It doesn't bother me in the slightest if a woman strikes up a conversation at the gym, but it's only ever been ones quite a bit younger, which freaks me out a bit, but I will always chat. I don't chat first because I don't want to be that creepy guy at the gym!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I absolutely hate when men try and speak to me in the gym lol. I tend to just ignore them and walk away. But I'm no avid gym goer in case you couldn't tell so it might just be me like that lol

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm making it my goal this year to shag a hot younger guy from my gym.

Fit and toned with lots of cum.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm making it my goal this year to shag a hot younger guy from my gym.

Fit and toned with lots of cum. "

Think I need to move to a new gym

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I fully expect the

"I'm only in the gym to workout"brigade to jump on this.

However moral high ground aside.

We both have this huge desire for Mrs to fuck one of the guy's in our local gym.

Problem is.

Firstly we both take the gym seriously and don't want to detract from that also we respect others.

However there must be a point where it's OK to interact with other gym users.

Our gym doesn't have a coffee shop or juice bar.

Would guy's on here be OK if a woman started talking to you in the gym?

Initially about working out maybe asked for a spot on the equipment?

But from there we don't know where to start, giving him her number?

Asking if he wants to Go for a drink.

Or flat out ask for a fuck?

Would guy's be put off by the direct approach?

Maybe I should say something?

Any tips?

Tbh this will probably never happen however would be interested in serious non judgemental responses please.

"

Simple answer.

Depends on how fit she is, being it's a gym so there would be a higher expecting for the woman making the forward approach to have high sexual market place value as I'm sure you would not approach the fat guys trying to get into shape and focus on the well toned men instead.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go for it, at a gym I used to train there was a female member of staff, she was on her own first thing and always came up back when I arrived early, well one thing came to another and I was invited back for special sessions after hours, yes I got to train naked, yes we ducked in every possible machine!

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By *ast_jjMan  over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I'm making it my goal this year to shag a hot younger guy from my gym.

Fit and toned with lots of cum. "

Good for you. I'd try the subtle approach first, try chatting and maybe ask to be spotted. If that does work, wear seethrough legging and a sexy thong and keep bending over in front of him..he'll soon get the invitation....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm making it my goal this year to shag a hot younger guy from my gym.

Fit and toned with lots of cum. "

Im switching gyms!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s a huge thing made of men hitting on women in the gym, so much so I daren’t even look at female members Incase they feel like they’re getting gorped at... okay, so every now and again I do position myself where I can look through numerous mirrors at a hot woman’s deadlifting/squatting ass.

Anyway, a hot woman coming onto a guy - go for it!

Ask for a spot on something then get chatting... before you know it you’ll be in bed with them!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Erm yes please....

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex

I’m spotted all the time from guys off here at my gym

Never had any approach me actually there but message me on here instead and I cringe at knowing they saw the sweaty mess that I was haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m spotted all the time from guys off here at my gym

Never had any approach me actually there but message me on here instead and I cringe at knowing they saw the sweaty mess that I was haha

"

Obviously they didn't think so if they have messaged you

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By *kylar95jack83Couple  over a year ago

coventry

We met a girl from our gym on a night out. Took her back to ours. She ended up telling newt wnough the whole gym

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"I’m spotted all the time from guys off here at my gym

Never had any approach me actually there but message me on here instead and I cringe at knowing they saw the sweaty mess that I was haha

Obviously they didn't think so if they have messaged you "

Perhaps they take their glasses off when working out

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By *atureBoySouthMan  over a year ago

Fareham

Shame I'm not younger!

One gym I used to frequent, everyone was fucking everyone else! And everyone knew!

Been a few interesting swimsuits in the pool and sauna recently. The centre had to put up a new sign recently pointing out appropriate swimwear! I was all in favour of the thongs, but apparently some weren't!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a bloke in the gym it would be great to have some fun with another female member

As another poster said I think some people might not want a guy chatting them up in the gym and who knows could even complain about it.

You'd have to be mad not to want Jools to chat to you though she is stunning from what I can see

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire


"As a bloke in the gym it would be great to have some fun with another female member

As another poster said I think some people might not want a guy chatting them up in the gym and who knows could even complain about it.

You'd have to be mad not to want Jools to chat to you though she is stunning from what I can see "

Awwwwww thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a bloke in the gym it would be great to have some fun with another female member

As another poster said I think some people might not want a guy chatting them up in the gym and who knows could even complain about it.

You'd have to be mad not to want Jools to chat to you though she is stunning from what I can see

Awwwwww thanks "

Yes she is. We can confirm that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Gym is for working and work is for work in my eyes *Mr the rest can wait there's a time and place for everything

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan  over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"There’s a huge thing made of men hitting on women in the gym, so much so I daren’t even look at female members Incase they feel like they’re getting gorped at... okay, so every now and again I do position myself where I can look through numerous mirrors at a hot woman’s deadlifting/squatting ass.

Anyway, a hot woman coming onto a guy - go for it!

Ask for a spot on something then get chatting... before you know it you’ll be in bed with them!"

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By *ydrewMan  over a year ago

forest


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?"

If it was jools i dont think anyone would mind

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By *arkliverpoolMan  over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

There's a couple of ladies in my gym that I'd like to fuck

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire

You are too kind mr naughty

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire


"So guy's if a lady started talking to you in the gym you wouldn't mind?

If it was jools i dont think anyone would mind "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am a gym perv- I give the eye and get the eye back but I am very concerned if I smell etc etc as I go to the gym to work out not look pretty while doing it! I wouldn’t do it,

Firstly my wife would kill me and secondly it may make it awkward for either of you in future.

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham


"We met a girl from our gym on a night out. Took her back to ours. She ended up telling newt wnough the whole gym "

Nah, no way you two go to the gym!

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By *imiUKMan  over a year ago

Hereford

Id find it odd if I was talked to at the gym - I have my headphones in and I have never had a conversation there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The last time i went to a gym (few years ago now!) the men in the weights section were obviously all very friendly with each other. They guys on the machines looked in the zone and very serious. What if you approach someone and, regardless of if they say yay or nay, they go on to blab to their gym buddies? Could potentially make future innocent gym attendance a bit awkward.

Or it may be a turn on? Dunno. But think carefully i'd say.

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