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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just been wondering whether people would rather choose to meet someone locally for convenience. Or would they choose to meet someone from further a field to protect their discretion. "
If someone is worth meeting it doesn't matter how far and wide you go.  |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"I've just been wondering whether people would rather choose to meet someone locally for convenience. Or would they choose to meet someone from further a field to protect their discretion. "
I work 35 miles from home, so tend to meet around work. Can be a bit awkward in Tesco’s otherwise.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just been wondering whether people would rather choose to meet someone locally for convenience. Or would they choose to meet someone from further a field to protect their discretion.
I work 35 miles from home, so tend to meet around work. Can be a bit awkward in Tesco’s otherwise. "
Hahaha, classic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally I always look to meet local first, as it's more convenient with travelling, plus if meeting for a social I know nice bars or restaurants.
Problem i had is that I never find that many local meets ironically, and some of the best meets I've has have been further a field  |
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"I've just been wondering whether people would rather choose to meet someone locally for convenience. Or would they choose to meet someone from further a field to protect their discretion.
I work 35 miles from home, so tend to meet around work. Can be a bit awkward in Tesco’s otherwise. "
I am the opposite- I would never meet where I work, that might be a disaster... I am not that worried about Tesco (go to asda anyway ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to meet about an hour ish away. My town is very much "every one knows everyone " and i grew up here. Whilst i am not embarrassed in the slightest it does giveme a relief that when it fucks up I won't have to see them around town x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Either or tbh
We will have judged they are discreet /similar to us by chatting before a meet.
We meet a couple not far from us and never had any isssues.
.miss"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do meet locally but am wary about discretion after an incident a few years ago. I met a woman in my local pub. She was half cut to start with and proceeded to get steaming d*unk and was asking everyone at the bar "are they on fabs"!!! |
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"Always meet at least 50 miles from home, never local for the discretion you speak of, op."
We've barely that in a coastline, so has to be local for us. Trips to the big island are pretty expensive, so would do club meets if there, or if we are staying somewhere, we'd try and arrange something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to think along the lines of being too close, until I met and played with someone about a mile away. If everyone thinks the same, i.e. discretion I no longer see it as a problem.
While it wasn't Tesco, we did bump into each other at the tills of the local co-op. Apart from a hi, how are you, as you would to a friend, that was it.
Perhaps that depends on how 'adult' the individuals are though.
I have met very local and had about a two hour drive and anything in between. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Not meeting locally for discretion purposes is different depending on how much population density there is where you live. If you live in a large urban area I don't think this is an issue.
In smaller areas, I would agree that not local is perhaps preferable. I certainly have no problems in travelling for a good meet. Personally, I have no qualms meeting someone local, provided they appreciate some measure of discretion just as I do. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Surely it's more important who the person your meeting is... not where they are 
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Yes of course AND where they’re living. No locals please, really don’t want to bump into you when out and about, real life and our ‘fantasy’ life we’d like to keep separate. |
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