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How do people meet fellow single swingers? I’ve been on here on and off for a few years now and all guys ever want is ‘fuck and go’ or fwb. So many are already married or in relationships.
The guys I meet always just want vanilla, so I find myself coming back to this site to get the best sex.
Any advice on where the best guys can be found?  |
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"I feel your pain.
This is exactly it. "
It’s so annoying isn’t it? Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy what I get on here. But would be nice to be in a relationship with someone on my wavelength, who wants to go to clubs etc. My sex drive is always so much higher than my partners and my mind is filthy. Surely I’m every guy’s dream. Lol |
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"How do people meet fellow single swingers? I’ve been on here on and off for a few years now and all guys ever want is ‘fuck and go’ or fwb. So many are already married or in relationships.
The guys I meet always just want vanilla, so I find myself coming back to this site to get the best sex.
Any advice on where the best guys can be found? "
my advice... do not look for it. Neither of us was looking.. in fact we were both adamant that neither wanted a relationship but it happened.. And 5 years on we are still going strong  |
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I was having this conversation with an ex FWB the other day.
I think once you’ve been on the swinging scene you are less inclined to accept a “vanilla” sex life so it’s difficult to sustain a “normal” relationship if the sex isn’t as exciting or good as when you’ve met swingers.
I struggle with this particularly as i’m just a dirty bastard I can’t find myself a filth bitch that I’d like to have a relationship with   |
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You’ve hit the nail on the head - a ‘vanilla’ relationship just doesn’t meet my needs. I like vanilla occasionally, don’t get me wrong, but being a dirty bitch myself I need a guy who’s not scared to push my boundaries and wants to play with other people without getting jealous.
Think I’ve got more chance of winning the lottery than finding a guy on here haha |
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"You’ve hit the nail on the head - a ‘vanilla’ relationship just doesn’t meet my needs. I like vanilla occasionally, don’t get me wrong, but being a dirty bitch myself I need a guy who’s not scared to push my boundaries and wants to play with other people without getting jealous.
Think I’ve got more chance of winning the lottery than finding a guy on here haha "
Yep. You have, |
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"How do people meet fellow single swingers? I’ve been on here on and off for a few years now and all guys ever want is ‘fuck and go’ or fwb. So many are already married or in relationships.
The guys I meet always just want vanilla, so I find myself coming back to this site to get the best sex.
Any advice on where the best guys can be found? "
Hi. Having read your profile I have to say it does give the impression you are looking for FWB. Definitely would be noticed and contacted by the single men who are in relationships and wanting to play away without risk, or to frank, making the effort in the vanilla world.
Large percentage of the “singles” on the site are in vanilla relationships and those who are not are very possibly not interested in a relationship of any type at all even regular FWB so maybe not a place to meet a man for long term |
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"How do people meet fellow single swingers? I’ve been on here on and off for a few years now and all guys ever want is ‘fuck and go’ or fwb. So many are already married or in relationships.
The guys I meet always just want vanilla, so I find myself coming back to this site to get the best sex.
Any advice on where the best guys can be found? my advice... do not look for it. Neither of us was looking.. in fact we were both adamant that neither wanted a relationship but it happened.. And 5 years on we are still going strong "
Totally this. One year in now. |
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It can happen and it is great when it does. Just be open and honest with each other. Like any other relationship I guess. Compromise when needed. Needs change he when you play as a couple.
I've been in a relationship with someone from here and it was great for the most part. We aren't together anymore sadly. I miss him a lot but I hope he is happy. |
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"I feel your pain.
This is exactly it.
It’s so annoying isn’t it? Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy what I get on here. But would be nice to be in a relationship with someone on my wavelength, who wants to go to clubs etc. My sex drive is always so much higher than my partners and my mind is filthy. Surely I’m every guy’s dream. Lol "
I thought the same. Sadly many many men seemed to be programmed to say what they think you want to hear.  |
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We both were on here as singles and weren't looking for anything more, yet here we are!
I think it helps that we also both like to get to know people first so we knew we clicked there. And then add sexual compatibility in terms of drives, likes, etc - as they say, the rest is history!
It also helps with swinging I think- we can have a much more and open frank conversation about sex, and both agree on our desire for a woman to join us as we were both looking for that before we met. |
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I get it could be a good place to find a partner who is into the same things as you. I just dont think id openly tell people thats what i want. One thing ive learnt of here boys suck....and lie alot lol so youll get all the guys leading u on saying this is what they want to get in a knickers....to break ya heart when their done with you.... This i have experience of lol. Hope you find someone genuine whos after the same as you. |
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Same for me, want a man all to myself but a highly sexed kinky one.
Dating sites are full of vanilla men so I stay here. My profile has been re written to show what my needs are.
I live in hope |
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Not all men are bad and some women lie and are judgemental. If I said they same about women than I would be crucified lol women are exactly the same has men. if not worse in some cases. They get what they want and leave. |
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"Think you just have to strike it lucky
I met my partner on here we were both singles and hit it off so it can happen 
Same with us and I deffo struck it lucky
Tits  "
Same here!! All because of a thread about prosecco!!! Probably would never have met in real life. We get married next Xmas xx
B x |
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"Think you just have to strike it lucky
I met my partner on here we were both singles and hit it off so it can happen
Same with us and I deffo struck it lucky
Tits
Same here!! All because of a thread about prosecco!!! Probably would never have met in real life. We get married next Xmas xx
That's great news congrats
B x"
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"How do people meet fellow single swingers? I’ve been on here on and off for a few years now and all guys ever want is ‘fuck and go’ or fwb. So many are already married or in relationships.
The guys I meet always just want vanilla, so I find myself coming back to this site to get the best sex.
Any advice on where the best guys can be found? "
Well plainly they can be found on here.. |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"Think you just have to strike it lucky
I met my partner on here we were both singles and hit it off so it can happen "
I hope I strike it lucky !
Be nice to meet a guy for more than a fwb that enjoys the clubs scene
It’s not always good going as the Singleton |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"How do people meet fellow single swingers? I’ve been on here on and off for a few years now and all guys ever want is ‘fuck and go’ or fwb. So many are already married or in relationships.
The guys I meet always just want vanilla, so I find myself coming back to this site to get the best sex.
Any advice on where the best guys can be found? my advice... do not look for it. Neither of us was looking.. in fact we were both adamant that neither wanted a relationship but it happened.. And 5 years on we are still going strong "
That’s still hope for fussy me then !  |
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I’ve found a great FWB but hes miles away wish I could find someone closer. A guy wanting a relationship would be even better but I’ve learnt loads from this site so I’m very wary now (like others have said above)
Good luck op hope you find it x |
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"How do people meet fellow single swingers? I’ve been on here on and off for a few years now and all guys ever want is ‘fuck and go’ or fwb. So many are already married or in relationships.
The guys I meet always just want vanilla, so I find myself coming back to this site to get the best sex.
Any advice on where the best guys can be found?
Hi. Having read your profile I have to say it does give the impression you are looking for FWB. Definitely would be noticed and contacted by the single men who are in relationships and wanting to play away without risk, or to frank, making the effort in the vanilla world.
Large percentage of the “singles” on the site are in vanilla relationships and those who are not are very possibly not interested in a relationship of any type at all even regular FWB so maybe not a place to meet a man for long term "
I agree with you about my profile, tried the ‘open to a relationship’ side before and it gets guys on here running for the hills.
Glad to see some people in here have struck it lucky though. Think lots of guys on here are cheating, wanting their cake and eating it. If you even hint that you’d ever want a relationship they run for the hills. Haha |
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"I get it could be a good place to find a partner who is into the same things as you. I just dont think id openly tell people thats what i want. One thing ive learnt of here boys suck....and lie alot lol so youll get all the guys leading u on saying this is what they want to get in a knickers....to break ya heart when their done with you.... This i have experience of lol. Hope you find someone genuine whos after the same as you."
Thank you. I’m sure they exist on here somewhere - totally agree with you about not openly telling them that I’d be up for a relationship - most wouldn’t stick around for long if I did.
Some nice stories on here of people who have met someone tho, so I’m secretly hoping that one day.
Good luck on here |
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