I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.
So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge? |
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"You sound as if you don't believe your friend.
I can orgasm in a short time with certain toys but I much prefer longer foreplay."
I don't lol. I'm not sure she even knows what an orgasm is. She's not exactly enthusiastic when she's talking about it lol |
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"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.
So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?"
This is kind of my area of interest even though I am not a woman I hope I can be of help. The way women cum is not all that different to men, it depends on whether you are sensitive, turned on and relaxed. I find many girls need a few meeets to relax and then they cum their hearts out. Strong vibrators tend to desensitize so if you are looking to be more sensitive I would cut that down. A good pelvic floor exercise generally increases libido and sensitivity. But by far the most important thing is to be in the right frame of mind. Consciously, subconsciously and unconsciously. |
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"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.
So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?
This is kind of my area of interest even though I am not a woman I hope I can be of help. The way women cum is not all that different to men, it depends on whether you are sensitive, turned on and relaxed. I find many girls need a few meeets to relax and then they cum their hearts out. Strong vibrators tend to desensitize so if you are looking to be more sensitive I would cut that down. A good pelvic floor exercise generally increases libido and sensitivity. But by far the most important thing is to be in the right frame of mind. Consciously, subconsciously and unconsciously. "
Your area of interest...personally or professionally lol |
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"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.
So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?
This is kind of my area of interest even though I am not a woman I hope I can be of help. The way women cum is not all that different to men, it depends on whether you are sensitive, turned on and relaxed. I find many girls need a few meeets to relax and then they cum their hearts out. Strong vibrators tend to desensitize so if you are looking to be more sensitive I would cut that down. A good pelvic floor exercise generally increases libido and sensitivity. But by far the most important thing is to be in the right frame of mind. Consciously, subconsciously and unconsciously. "
You’ve answered a question that wasn’t even asked! |
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Same as has already been said, porn and a toy and it's over in minutes. With a man, never during penetration only clit play. Even then it can take ages and most of the time never. Doesn't mean I've not had a good time tho.
Think I have an over active mind and I find it hard to get in the zone?
I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone 
As for the poster above... Unconscious??  really?? Is that how you like your women? |
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"So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?"
Yes, I *can* cum in under 10 minutes, but its not something I usually do. In order to make it happen, the situation has to be turning me on so much that I'm in the right mindset. Otherwise, I have to put a lot of extra work into it.
More often, it takes around 15-20 minutes of stimulation. That's with a vibrator or without. I can on average cum faster with a vibrator, but they (quick vibrator orgasms) don't tend to be as satisfying or as intense than those with another person. |
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I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone
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I need someone to be in absolute control for me to lose control in the way I need to  |
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I can orgasm from my fwb just pushing his cock in me slowly enough, I think because I have been waiting for him all day and really need it by the time we get to that point! Penetration is definitely what does it for me, but with the added connection I have with him I can orgasm much easier than with anyone else...and it can be pretty quick then too! My wand, when flying solo, is usually pretty quick but not always |
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"Same as has already been said, porn and a toy and it's over in minutes. With a man, never during penetration only clit play. Even then it can take ages and most of the time never. Doesn't mean I've not had a good time tho.
Think I have an over active mind and I find it hard to get in the zone?
I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone
As for the poster above... Unconscious?? really?? Is that how you like your women? "
Psychologically there are 3 distinct areas of consciousness. Conscious, Subconscious ( where you behavior patterns lay ) and Unconscious ( Pulse, guts, emotion) |
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I actually find reaching orgasm with someone quite an emotional experience so in my subconscious I hold back so not to unleash my emotions and frighten the shit out of someone
I need someone to be in absolute control for me to lose control in the way I need to "
Yeah that is the whole BDSM aspect of it. But I think a lot of women are worried about either surrendering control or expressing themselves. Which shouldn't really be the case. We are not perfect and people usually like us for our imperfections . |
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"I have a friend who tells me that from foreplay to sex with her husband lasts no more than 10 minutes generally. She claims she cums every time. For me it takes longer than that. A lot of stimulation of my body and clit and you'll have me cumming but it does take time. I dont always orgasm but still enjoy sex either ways.
So my question is can any of us ladies orgasm / cum that quickly ? What does it take to send you over the edge?"
Mine seems to vary with the phases of the moon. |
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I can orgasm very quickly with toys or person. I also have very varied intensities and love every type of orgasm. My husband knows just how to touch and play with my body to make me orgasm again and again. |
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With long term partners I cum very quickly from oral, within a couple of minutes then multiple times through sex, I have found with fab meets it can take quite a bit longer but think that's due to not being relaxed and comfortable with someone |
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I personally can cum in seconds.im overly sensitive ,and my orgasm is extremely intense which can be quite debilitating as it leaves me with no energy to carry on for a little while and after a really heavy play session it takes a good day or so to recover. |
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I've Cum in seconds before now! We are all different! When Im so excited and want the guy so bad!. As soon as his cock goes in I'd start Cumming... plus I like to cum in double figures, not just a few times! I'm very demanding |
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I find it hard to cum nowadays but my Mrs can cum within a few minutes with the right type of play. She can cum n cum again (until she cried once). I don’t know if it’s a coincidence but I find ladies that squirt seem to cum quicker  |
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