Reasonably nice looking, friendly. Obviously clean, smelling nice and (for us) non-smoker.
Confident enough to be able to play in a group (not everyone can!).
Laid back enough to enjoy play with us. Not too pushy, and not arrogant.
Ultimately we want to get the sense that they're OK with being part of our enjoyment as well as getting their own pleasure. It's that balance between giving and taking.
It took us a few tries to get the hang of playing in threes.
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"Reasonably nice looking, friendly. Obviously clean, smelling nice and (for us) non-smoker.
Confident enough to be able to play in a group (not everyone can!).
Laid back enough to enjoy play with us. Not too pushy, and not arrogant.
Ultimately we want to get the sense that they're OK with being part of our enjoyment as well as getting their own pleasure. It's that balance between giving and taking
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Same goes for us, though we also insist on a reasonable standard of dress too - guys who arrive in track suits/jogging bottoms/overalls get nowhere |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Same as what we look for in a single female more or less (except the bi part).
Reasonably good looking
Reasonable body
Genital size unimportant
Good craic and friendly to us both and generally a nice person.
Understanding of what it takes to join a couple in play situations
Non pushy and no expectations own entitlement to play
Unselfishness |
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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago
Medway |
You need to have a great profile to start with to get the couples to notice you!!
Three or four public pics and not just cock pics.
More than a sentence telling people about yourself and what your into.
Face pic smiling. Not with a trout pout!!
Being able to accommodate helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The big factor for us (and often a forgotten one) is whether the guy understands, and more importantly, enjoys the dynamics of playing with an MF couple.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We do have abit of a rule that anyone with a cock pic as their profile picture tends to not get a reply.
But then anyone who has clearly read our profile and reacted to it correctly is usually in the 1% of guys on here anyway. So maybe read profiles and if they are asking a specific question to show you've read it, definitely answer that part. |
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"The big factor for us (and often a forgotten one) is whether the guy understands, and more importantly, enjoys the dynamics of playing with an MF couple.
Mrs "
Totally agree it makes a big difference to the meet. When a guy enjoys that dynamic the meet is on fire, we have always had repeat meets with this type of guy. |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"We do have abit of a rule that anyone with a cock pic as their profile picture tends to not get a reply.
But then anyone who has clearly read our profile and reacted to it correctly is usually in the 1% of guys on here anyway. So maybe read profiles and if they are asking a specific question to show you've read it, definitely answer that part."
This sums up our initial criteria, too few get past this stage to mention the rest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (fem) usually talk to the single guys.
I am looking for someone able to hold conversation.
On the same wavelength as us.
That I think will be a laugh.
Someone that I dont think will become stalkery after the event.
That understands the dynamics involved.
That has few boundaries and rules.
That is interested in similar things to us relating to sex.
That I am attracted to, and he is attracted to me without being overly enthusiastic about it.
Think thats about it! Very few guys get more than a few messages before I rule them out. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"The big factor for us (and often a forgotten one) is whether the guy understands, and more importantly, enjoys the dynamics of playing with an MF couple.
Mrs "
Most don’t understand or even think of asking.
For me it’s about the couple enjoying themselves as much as me because hell I am having fun as I am in the middle of it lol |
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