I've had sex many times and not orgasmed but that doesn't mean don't enjoy it. My husband gets pissed off If don't orgasm. I try to explain that sex for me is about the act rather than I orgasm. I love the kissing, touching, the feeling of him getting hard for me and most of all I love the feeling of making him cum. It's about so much more than just cumming.
Does this make me weird or do others feel the same, |
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I can understand both sides.
I’d guess there’s an element of you being able to give him something which he can’t return.
I know in ethic it shouldn’t and doesn’t matter if you get your gratification but I’d guess that’s the issue. |
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Sometimes I orgasm, sometimes I don't. Not an issue, for me the orgasm is a very small part of the whole thing. I can can get so engrossed in watching the womans face and body that orgasm is the last thing on my mind.
Definitely not an indicator I haven't had a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It shouldn't matter, but it can be frustrating and sometimes feel that it's the males fault! Questions pop up in your head but if your husband knows how much you enjoy intimate times then it shouldn't be a problem! |
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"I've had sex many times and not orgasmed but that doesn't mean don't enjoy it. My husband gets pissed off If don't orgasm. I try to explain that sex for me is about the act rather than I orgasm. I love the kissing, touching, the feeling of him getting hard for me and most of all I love the feeling of making him cum. It's about so much more than just cumming.
Does this make me weird or do others feel the same,"
No, it most certainly doesn't make you weird in the least.
Tell me to mind my own beeswax if you like, but I am curious to know - are you able to orgasm through masturbation?
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"I've had sex many times and not orgasmed but that doesn't mean don't enjoy it. My husband gets pissed off If don't orgasm. I try to explain that sex for me is about the act rather than I orgasm. I love the kissing, touching, the feeling of him getting hard for me and most of all I love the feeling of making him cum. It's about so much more than just cumming.
Does this make me weird or do others feel the same,
No, it most certainly doesn't make you weird in the least.
Tell me to mind my own beeswax if you like, but I am curious to know - are you able to orgasm through masturbation?
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Yes I am. Every time. I sometimes cum with him as well but not always. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I often orgasm, and sometimes in a club I can cum seven or eight times in a evening. But there are also occasions when I don't orgasm, but I have still enjoyed myself just as much (for example when a guy spurts cum on me). An orgasm isn't always the end goal. Unfortunately not many men understand that. |
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"I've had sex many times and not orgasmed but that doesn't mean don't enjoy it. My husband gets pissed off If don't orgasm. I try to explain that sex for me is about the act rather than I orgasm. I love the kissing, touching, the feeling of him getting hard for me and most of all I love the feeling of making him cum. It's about so much more than just cumming.
Does this make me weird or do others feel the same,
No, it most certainly doesn't make you weird in the least.
Tell me to mind my own beeswax if you like, but I am curious to know - are you able to orgasm through masturbation?
Yes I am. Every time. I sometimes cum with him as well but not always."
Well, some of us chaps have fragile male egos - which need a little massaging every now and again. 
The main thing is that you're communicating with him. |
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"I've had sex many times and not orgasmed but that doesn't mean don't enjoy it. My husband gets pissed off If don't orgasm. I try to explain that sex for me is about the act rather than I orgasm. I love the kissing, touching, the feeling of him getting hard for me and most of all I love the feeling of making him cum. It's about so much more than just cumming.
Does this make me weird or do others feel the same,
No, it most certainly doesn't make you weird in the least.
Tell me to mind my own beeswax if you like, but I am curious to know - are you able to orgasm through masturbation?
Yes I am. Every time. I sometimes cum with him as well but not always.
Well, some of us chaps have fragile male egos - which need a little massaging every now and again.
The main thing is that you're communicating with him. "
I try but he gets annoyed and I'm not very good at faking it |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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I feel the same as you. Just because I may not have cum, doesn't mean I haven't had a bloody good time.
If I say 'don't bother getting in touch again' before walking out, THEN you know it was bad  |
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