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Being called a slut!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???"
maybe its a typo and they meant LUST |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???"
not just girls
I am a deffo slut |
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???"
Depends on who is doing the calling. My friend was complaining that his sister is a bit of a bitch and i said "yeah, she's a bit of a bitch alright" and he threw a hissy fit over it. I think calling someone a slut is that same thing. |
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???"
I don’t like this word not even in the bedroom. Really not a fan of any profile names with it in either much the same with guys using derogatory terms in their names also
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate it! Really hate it. Any messgae I get calling me names I instantly block. I highly doubt people speak like that to strangers on the street so just because people like sex it automatically makes them a slur |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate it! Really hate it. Any messgae I get calling me names I instantly block. I highly doubt people speak like that to strangers on the street so just because people like sex it automatically makes them a slur "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I suppose it's the same with guys having big cock or extra large cock in the their profile name!! The most likely don't like being called one!! Even though they probably are one for having it as a profile name in the first place lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes I have called a slut every women i have met even infront of thier partner while face fucking n spitroasting them oright spanking them never had a complaint we are talking over 20 women so on my opinion most of them like being call slut or other names |
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Oh and forgot to add it does help to wean out the idiots on here
Sending a message with any crap like that in it normally gets an instant block or if I’m feeling a Bitch a rather nice message in return of hometruths before blocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a huge difference in the lady calling her behaviour in the bedroom slutty and having someone else call her a slut.
I'd advise caution before using such a derogatory term on someone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So what defines a slut?"
I haven't a frgging clue!! I have just seen it in many profile names!! I've always thought it was a very demeaning word to use towards women! But Mr Arkeb2 has a different experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???"
A lot??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???
A lot???"
Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes I have called a slut every women i have met even infront of thier partner while face fucking n spitroasting them oright spanking them never had a complaint we are talking over 20 women so on my opinion most of them like being call slut or other names "
Have they ever called you a slut? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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I can see how someone would just message someone on here and call them a slut.
I have used it before but with a lady who loved dirty talk during sex and she would instigate it.
I wouldn't ever consider calling someone it with some form of interest in it from the person I was with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you do a name search some women obviously like it enough to have it as profile name.
These things are contextual as to time, place, person and relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???
A lot???
Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!"
I had a look, there are a lot but it’s a mixture of couples, single ladies and quite a few tv/ts too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???
A lot???
Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!"
And what percentage of the profiles on fabs is that?! |
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???
A lot???
Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!
I had a look, there are a lot but it’s a mixture of couples, single ladies and quite a few tv/ts too " im a lovey t girl and definately no slut . I know a lot of t girls like to come across that way because they think it attacts people in their direction ....really I mean come on . my policy is if you are going to do this do it bloody right.we are not sluts |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Some women like it from a bloke they know and are attracted to. No woman likes it from random strangers. "
This.
In the moment with someone I trust, it can be a turn on. But it has to be "my slut", not just a general slut |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only find the word offensive if offence is intended or said with disapproval. I think the definition of the word is a sexually liberated woman who enjoys multiple partners. So slut is a perfect description of myself. I'm not a slag though. To me that's a slut with no standards or style.
Mrs |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I hate it! Really hate it. Any messgae I get calling me names I instantly block. I highly doubt people speak like that to strangers on the street so just because people like sex it automatically makes them a slur " |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
"We are all very different, but if anybody calls me that, that's any interest I possibly may have had completely dissolved."
I’ve had this recently. Someone I have been in contact with for a while, who has been utterly charming to talk to and we were planning on meeting, referred to me as a “cock slut”, apparently in jest.
Totally disrespectful and was just proof to me that some men are just not comfortable with a woman being in control of and proactive with regard to her own sexuality. Pure misogyny.
It’s a bit like the “what’s a nice girl like you, doing on a site like this?” comment.
I’m still a “nice girl”, I just happen to like sex, but don’t want to be in a relationship to get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really think this kind of sex shaming belongs in the ancient past. We're only interested in people who are sex positive
I can understand some people trying to reclaim the word, and to me women who are overtly sexual and enjoy sex are a massive turn on, so I guess I could say it in an admiring way in the right circumstance ... Saying it to a stranger is really backwards, misogynistic, and says more about the person saying it than the target of abuse.
My 2c
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???"
I used to meet a lady who liked to be called a slut and said her slut pussy was mine... we're all different. |
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"I have noticed a lot of women on this site have SLUT in their profile name, But I wondered if they enjoy being called it! I can't say I've ever called a woman a slut before!! Possibly because I've lived a sheltered life or I haven't been with the right woman!! But do some women actually enjoy being called it???
A lot???
Yes type slut in the username search and see how many profiles pop up!!
And what percentage of the profiles on fabs is that?!"
A fairly high percentage of the fake ones I presume.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are all very different, but if anybody calls me that, that's any interest I possibly may have had completely dissolved.
I’ve had this recently. Someone I have been in contact with for a while, who has been utterly charming to talk to and we were planning on meeting, referred to me as a “cock slut”, apparently in jest.
Totally disrespectful and was just proof to me that some men are just not comfortable with a woman being in control of and proactive with regard to her own sexuality. Pure misogyny.
It’s a bit like the “what’s a nice girl like you, doing on a site like this?” comment.
I’m still a “nice girl”, I just happen to like sex, but don’t want to be in a relationship to get it."
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"I only find the word offensive if offence is intended or said with disapproval. I think the definition of the word is a sexually liberated woman who enjoys multiple partners. So slut is a perfect description of myself. I'm not a slag though. To me that's a slut with no standards or style.
Mrs"
Well said |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"My hubby can call me a slut, but no one else "
This.
We toy with it in our own play sometimes, especially if we're being vocal and we're in a bit of a D/s situation, we'll both be getting off on it, but that's for us and not for fab. |
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Did someone call? Fuckslut here.
My take on this is, I live in a vanilla world. Mortgage, work and kids. Swinging is not involed in this world. I'm prim and proper.
Then theres the other side the kinky naughty side. So things I would not expect to find in the vanilla world I bring to the swinging side. If I was walking down the street and someone called me a slut I would find it offensive and abuse. But when I'm swinging it's fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did someone call? Fuckslut here.
My take on this is, I live in a vanilla world. Mortgage, work and kids. Swinging is not involed in this world. I'm prim and proper.
Then theres the other side the kinky naughty side. So things I would not expect to find in the vanilla world I bring to the swinging side. If I was walking down the street and someone called me a slut I would find it offensive and abuse. But when I'm swinging it's fine. "
Completely understand where your coming from there it's that element of fantasy involved in this world!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm not for me no!
Why? Because I don't consider myself a slut! Hubster would be extremely pissed off if a guy thought it ok to call me this! And would most likely get a fist in the face for his disrespectful behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?
Mrs"
I think it’s usually used in a derogatory way that’s why I hate it |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
My other half uses it as a term of endearment, but he’s the only one who’d get away with it! Again, it’s too close to humiliation for my tastes. I now plenty who enjoy being called all sorts though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?
Mrs
I think it’s usually used in a derogatory way that’s why I hate it"
I feel the vanilla world and historically it's used as a derogatory way of describing women like me. But I'm not ashamed of what I do so I'm not ashamed of any word that describes my behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it, but only from very specific people. If someone messaged me referring to me as a slut, I would block them. If someone randomly came out with it during a meet, the play would stop there.
It's only okay if I have said in advance that it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't take it from a random stranger, but have been called much worse in the heat of the moment,buts that's with the OH,and I know he doesn't mean it really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he whispers that in my ear when We are having sex I'm a wet squirting mess instantly.
Otherwise no thanks, I'm not one and have no desire to be called one. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"What is a slut anyway? I regard a slut as a sexually adventurous woman who has multiple partners, which is why I'm happy to describe myself as such. What do other people regard as the definition?
Mrs
I think it’s usually used in a derogatory way that’s why I hate it
I feel the vanilla world and historically it's used as a derogatory way of describing women like me. But I'm not ashamed of what I do so I'm not ashamed of any word that describes my behaviour. "
Like your angle on this, hmmm, food for thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a lady friend and if I DONT send her a text first thing every morning saying "morning my slut" she gets most upset. She told me it makes her tingle just reading it. |
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"yes I have called a slut every women i have met even infront of thier partner while face fucking n spitroasting them oright spanking them never had a complaint we are talking over 20 women so on my opinion most of them like being call slut or other names "
Another smooth-talking charmer.. |
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a stranger? fuck off. messages on here? same. if I talk to a friend about sex and they tease me in a nice way- no problem. if someone I meet and know well grins at me whilst I especially enjoy myself- nice.
always depends on how its said and when and by whom... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a stranger? fuck off. messages on here? same. if I talk to a friend about sex and they tease me in a nice way- no problem. if someone I meet and know well grins at me whilst I especially enjoy myself- nice.
always depends on how its said and when and by whom..."
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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago
Fareham |
Sophie loves me calling her my slut, and enjoys it in play from others too. But, as others have said not away from play time from random people, that's just rude and she would probably lay them out lol |
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