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Improving chances of getting meets
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm pretty new to the scene, so I'm after some tips on how to improve my chances of getting meets... Whether it's changing something on my profile or having a different approach towards messaging other users. I'm pretty sure with me being an ugly so and so that it doesn't help my cause lol. Any tips would be greatly appreciated though!
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Four paragraphs. Three are negative (size, age, last experience here wasn't as good as you'd like) and the final is bland and cliched.
Say what you want. Show why people should meet you. Be positive ! And good luck cowboy ! |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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Profile reads ok. Not being able to accommodate is usually not ideal for a lot of people. Yeah too many cock pics is a problem. Also, how you got permissions from the girl in your pictures? :O
Just get involved in the community whether it is forums or chat etc as it really Is the best way for people to get to know you and likewise.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Four paragraphs. Three are negative (size, age, last experience here wasn't as good as you'd like) and the final is bland and cliched.
Say what you want. Show why people should meet you. Be positive ! And good luck cowboy !"
Thanks man, it's appreciated! I'll have a think of what to put and update them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty new to the scene, so I'm after some tips on how to improve my chances of getting meets... Whether it's changing something on my profile or having a different approach towards messaging other users. I'm pretty sure with me being an ugly so and so that it doesn't help my cause lol. Any tips would be greatly appreciated though!
Thank you "
We have to ask a question. You say you are wanting advice and that you are pretty new to the scene, yet your profile says you have been on here before and had success.
The two statements don't quite go together somehow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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too many cock pics...and yes, does the woman in them know?..your text is pretty negative, no humour, nothing at all about what you are actually looking for or what you could offer a meet..very empty of any information at all really.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback pics are a definite no.
And that bloody annoying phrase “I don’t bite unless you want me to”
Both are very off putting to me."
Got to agree that is one shite phrase! "I don't bite unless...."
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Hello OP.
Firstly, try to be more upbeat, most of your profile text has negative undertones. Don't put yourself down, big yourself up.
For example, your very first line is telling people to look elsewhere. If you think they shouldn't meet with you, then why will they want to?
Who cares about your last time on here. You obviously didn't have a great experience, so why bring that baggage forwards. Forget about it and concentrate on the here and now.
Your profile pic shows your face, but how about one that shows you smiling? Seeing as your now going to take a couple of pics, water down the number of cock pics with some face or torso shots. Be proud of what you have, don't judge yourself.
Because your young there will always be a large proportion of people that don't want to meet with you. That's fine, accept it and move on. Focus your efforts and searches on people who's profile you meet, and who meet yours. That way you stand a greater chance of success.
Chin up, don't throw the towel in, good luck  |
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