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Morning fabbers..
So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Morning fabbers..
So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?
Your thoughts and comments below "
When she gets in the kitchen and makes me a sammich. ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"Morning fabbers..
So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?
Your thoughts and comments below "
Women orgasm too?? ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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over a year ago
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If the lady Cums, I am happy,but also she likes you to cum, so both, I like to make it part of the fun and let each other know what you like and try to achieve that and maximise your fun for both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always makes sure they lady is pleasured fully but I'm sure she would like you to cum as well. Gives her that sense of satisfaction that she's pleasures you as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not generally a repeater, so love making the girl finish once or twice first. There's nothing worse than finishing yourself and looking at girl you've basically just edged and not actually satisfied.
On the same token though, I can't abide selfish females. No sack of spuds is getting me to finish, as I just stop caring if they're not making effort too. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Morning fabbers..
So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?
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"Morning fabbers..
So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?
Your thoughts and comments below Jesus, you really have to ask?!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are to many variables in the game of sex to give an honest answer.. things like where, when, what, how.. sometimes it's more about the fun and excitement then the orgasm.
But being a gentleman I always please the lady, be it physically or otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally I just deflate "her" and put her back in the box until next time.
I'm very attentive to her needs though, and I make sure all the air is squeezed out, as "she" hates feeling bloated |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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When we have had enough. I have learnt that focussing on the female orgasm actually detracts from the meet. It puts unnecessary pressure on. Better to make sure both or all partners have a bloody good time. |
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"When we have had enough. I have learnt that focussing on the female orgasm actually detracts from the meet. It puts unnecessary pressure on. Better to make sure both or all partners have a bloody good time."
Good answer.
I rarely if ever have an orgasm during casual sex. If a man focuses on that it makes it even less likely. It doesn't mean I haven't had a darn good time though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You keep fucking over and over until you both cannot go on
I always sit and have a cuppa and a Laugh after it all.
A nice hug, thank them and off hone.
Then message saying thanks again and plan our next debauchery |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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When I was meeting there were no cuddles, or big chats, not usually even cups of tea afterwards. I do think neither cared too much to bother asking many questions, it was more just a case of 'we can't fuck forever, it was fun, I've got to head home now'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Going to be a realist here
I tend to lean more towards regular meets, and have found that women i meet don’t always cum every single time, and yes at first I though “crap what am I doing wrong” but the thing with regular meets are you engage in conversation too, and all of them have quite openly said “I don’t cum every time, doesn’t mean it wasn’t amazing, just means I didn’t orgasm that time” with the same respect I don’t always cum and that has nothing to do with enjoyment or lack of it, just the way it goes I guess, and women I meet have found it strange at first when I don’t cum and have said they thought they had done something wrong... swings and roundabouts.
The main thing as I see it is that you both enjoy it, do what you can to ensure the other person enjoys the things you are doing, and don’t be afraid to talk ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are to many variables in the game of sex to give an honest answer.. things like where, when, what, how.. sometimes it's more about the fun and excitement then the orgasm.
But being a gentleman I always please the lady, be it physically or otherwise"
This is true. One of my exes used to love quickies on walks home from places. It wouldn’t last any more than 5 minutes tops. I know for a fact she didn’t often cum, but she always loved the thrill of it ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?
It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread."
Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?
It's a "I always make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread."
We've been rumbled lads they know were only good for two pumps and a squirt then fall asleep lol |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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Who said all the responses were just regarding women. Some of us meet a broader range of people.
I would admit that I have also had meets where my visitor has definately not cum, I would point out though this was as we had agreed in prior discussions.
I have even a meet where someone came and tried out a specific bit of equipment in private at my house where I introduced them to the item and then left them to it but this was definetly a one of with someone I had been having an extended discussion with and isn't something I want to make a habit of. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Here's a non-bullshit answer:
Me: my legs ache, can you go on top?
Her: no, i'm tired and it's late
Me: ok, I'm tired too, if i cum now; can you finish yourself off in the bathroom?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning fabbers..
So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?
Your thoughts and comments below
When she gets in the kitchen and makes me a sammich.
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"Morning fabbers..
So to the guys out there how does your sex session end? Does it end with just yourself cumming or do you make sure the other person has had an orgasm as well?
Your thoughts and comments below "
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"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?
It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread.
Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two "
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"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?
It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread.
Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two "
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"Is this an "I'm brilliant, everyone else is rubbish" thread?
It's a "I alway's make sure the woman has at least 5 orgasms and leaves the bed sopping wet before I cum" thread.
Stop cock blocking the peacocks you two
Never! "
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