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Please enlighten me

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Please excuse my ignorance,

Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?? It just appears that this site is overrun by bi/gay/tv guys looking for hook ups.

Wouldn’t a site like Grinder be more productive??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Probably the same reason I joined up for. My reason is different now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why shouldn't they?...plenty are looking for women and couples as well as bi guys, not many of either on Grinder...and if you don't intend to meet them then why does it bother you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please excuse my ignorance,

Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?? It just appears that this site is overrun by bi/gay/tv guys looking for hook ups.

Wouldn’t a site like Grinder be more productive??

Yes, grinder can be great for swift hookups with guys.

Fab has forums, which are fun and informative.

Fab also has cis females and couples.

Now and then I treat a couple or a cis female to some time with me. I like to think fab is grateful for the service I provide

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"why shouldn't they?...plenty are looking for women and couples as well as bi guys, not many of either on Grinder...and if you don't intend to meet them then why does it bother you?"

Not saying anyone shouldn’t!!!

Asking why one would choose to???

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Because they want too. If I am not mistaken grinder is for men to meet men. A TV/TS may wish to meet women, men, TV/TS or indeed couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why shouldn't they?...plenty are looking for women and couples as well as bi guys, not many of either on Grinder...and if you don't intend to meet them then why does it bother you?

Not saying anyone shouldn’t!!!

Asking why one would choose to??? "

Answered.

Next.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please excuse my ignorance,

Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?? It just appears that this site is overrun by bi/gay/tv guys looking for hook ups.

Wouldn’t a site like Grinder be more productive??

Because they want to meet couples? Or because couples want to meet them?

Because they have kinks that ppl using stuff like grinder use don't have?

Few reasons there but I'm sure there are more lol

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By *aelawMan over a year ago

Paisley

There is fabguys, the sister site but it does not have anywhete near the features that we have here, so probably preferred.

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?"

Because they have the same rights as the rest of us, and are able to choose for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can someone explain why this swingers site is awash with single guys and gals? Rammed with bisexual women? Tickled with some bisexual, honest, men? Topped up to the gunnels with secretly bisexual men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's a cis female? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, to better understand your question may I ask what your understanding of a TV/TS sexual preference and orientation is?

You have not questioned gay or bi-sexual members motives for joining Fab... Being a "Swingers" site apose to a "Fuck" site Fab offers people a variety of options and situations to endulge in rather then just a one-to-one hookup

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By *ransGuyTV/TS over a year ago

Cardiff

Because Grindr is mostly full of twats?

The features here are better, I like the forum, nicer people, more people, I've met more people through here than on Grindr, I'm not limited to the number of people I can block here which helps a little more, guys seem to make more effort here than on just male sites, I like it?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"There is fabguys, the sister site but it does not have anywhete near the features that we have here, so probably preferred."
apparently there's no forum there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is fabguys, the sister site but it does not have anywhete near the features that we have here, so probably preferred. apparently there's no forum there

There is but no way to access it from the site!!!

You have to google it

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By *ransGuyTV/TS over a year ago

Cardiff

"What's a cis female? X"

Basically someone who was born with a female body and mind that matched. A transwoman was born with a male body but female mind.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS over a year ago

Cardiff

"There is fabguys, the sister site but it does not have anywhete near the features that we have here, so probably preferred. apparently there's no forum there

There is but no way to access it from the site!!!

You have to google it

Is there?!

Although, considering the difference in messaging from guys on Fabguys compared to here, I'm not sure I'd want to find the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do people feel inclined to question mark the choices of other individual ,,,,,,

I really am baffled at the futility of the question

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"There is fabguys, the sister site but it does not have anywhete near the features that we have here, so probably preferred. apparently there's no forum there

There is but no way to access it from the site!!!

You have to google it

Really?

That’s crazy!

Must admit I’m curious as to why guys just looking to meet other guys bother being on here (not come across many but if seen a few - usually on Male hot photos with gorgeous faces/bodies that they won’t let me grope (swines!) - but if fab guys is the ‘poor relation’ to here then that may be the reason!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"There is fabguys, the sister site but it does not have anywhete near the features that we have here, so probably preferred. apparently there's no forum there

There is but no way to access it from the site!!!

You have to google it

Well how stupid is that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's a cis female? X

Basically someone who was born with a female body and mind that matched. A transwoman was born with a male body but female mind."

Sorry I didn't word the question very well. I know what a cis female is, I wondered what cis actually meant?

Thanks

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By *ransGuyTV/TS over a year ago

Cardiff

"What's a cis female? X

Basically someone who was born with a female body and mind that matched. A transwoman was born with a male body but female mind.

Sorry I didn't word the question very well. I know what a cis female is, I wondered what cis actually meant?

Thanks

Oh sorry

"Cis" means on the side of, and in this context it's short for "cisgender" which means a person who's personal identity matches (is on the same side as) their birth sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's a cis female? X

Basically someone who was born with a female body and mind that matched. A transwoman was born with a male body but female mind.

Sorry I didn't word the question very well. I know what a cis female is, I wondered what cis actually meant?

Thanks

Oh sorry

"Cis" means on the side of, and in this context it's short for "cisgender" which means a person who's personal identity matches (is on the same side as) their birth sex."

Ahhh thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please excuse my ignorance,

Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?? It just appears that this site is overrun by bi/gay/tv guys looking for hook ups.

Wouldn’t a site like Grinder be more productive??

Why should we excuse your ignorance when a little thought would answer your own questions?

Or your hipocrisy in complaining about bi/gay people being here while your fem half is self-declared as bi and looking for same-sex contacts?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Why shouldnt they use fab?

There is clearly a demand for them on here and who are we to dictate to people?

You can tell its thursday by the moans and rants today.

Live and let live and all that

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is fabguys, the sister site but it does not have anywhete near the features that we have here, so probably preferred. apparently there's no forum there

There is but no way to access it from the site!!!

You have to google it

Is there?!

Although, considering the difference in messaging from guys on Fabguys compared to here, I'm not sure I'd want to find the forum

It’s a lonely place. No one knows it’s there.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe because they are human beings who don't fit into your neat little box? Not all tv/cd are gay plenty still enjoy or even only enjoy female company. Your post comes over as more than a tad homophobic.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Please excuse my ignorance,

Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?? It just appears that this site is overrun by bi/gay/tv guys looking for hook ups.

Wouldn’t a site like Grinder be more productive??

If it was "overrun" by anything it would be 'single' straight guys with zero interest in actual swinging.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"Please excuse my ignorance,

Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?? It just appears that this site is overrun by bi/gay/tv guys looking for hook ups.

Wouldn’t a site like Grinder be more productive??

Not so sure I will ignore the ignorance to be honest. For one, it's definately not overrun and you will more than likely find that TVs are the minority on the site if not second to single women.

Secondly you're also making the assumption. That they are all gay or bi where as you may find here there are a lot of bi TV/CDs, in general they are usually straight married men. Also the fact you did mention we are bi, so surely a swinging site is the best for us as we can find couples or singles where we can have our cake and eat it too

Thirdly, why does it matter to you? We are here for the same reason everyone else is, with the amount of messages I get from men, women's and couples I would quite correctly say that there is definitely a demand for us.

And finally, if you checked profiles you will see that the majority of us are verified with meets so we are clearly active and contributing members of the swinging lifestyle, I don't see you calling out the thousands of single men that are just here for a quick wank and go UNLOS within days of joining, or all the time wasters.

There ya go, there's my Thursday rant

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

because on here we can pretend we are straight but have sex with men who are married and the wife doesn't have a clue hahaha it's great fun, told all my mates about it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"because on here we can pretend we are straight but have sex with men who are married and the wife doesn't have a clue hahaha it's great fun, told all my mates about it."

Grim.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love the diversity and different predilections of the various members on this site which makes for a really fun and interesting mixture of Fabsters. What’s there not to like!

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS over a year ago

london

"Jo-Ru said:

Please excuse my ignorance...

Only if in the spirit quid pro quo I may first burst a gut laughing at it? Do we have a deal?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"because on here we can pretend we are straight but have sex with men who are married and the wife doesn't have a clue hahaha it's great fun, told all my mates about it."

Coffee spit moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"because on here we can pretend we are straight but have sex with men who are married and the wife doesn't have a clue hahaha it's great fun, told all my mates about it."

what a sad, poisonous little comment..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"because on here we can pretend we are straight but have sex with men who are married and the wife doesn't have a clue hahaha it's great fun, told all my mates about it.

what a sad, poisonous little comment.."

I suspect it was a joke. Well that’s how I saw it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP why would it matter to you what anyone does on here or even why they are here.

People have choices... all people..

If you have issues with their choices it's simple just don't interact with them.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

I don't understand all the people attacking the asking of the question, being curious about things and seeking to understand is good.

The question could have been worded better...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Please excuse my ignorance,

Could someone explain why TV’s/TS’s choose to use a swinging site?? It just appears that this site is overrun by bi/gay/tv guys looking for hook ups.

Wouldn’t a site like Grinder be more productive??

Not so sure I will ignore the ignorance to be honest. For one, it's definately not overrun and you will more than likely find that TVs are the minority on the site if not second to single women.

There ya go, there's my Thursday rant

Thanks for taking the time to reply. That has enlightened me a little.

I’ve met and spoken with numerous TV’s at clubs, just never felt comfortable asking. So I am ignorant. If I don’t ask, I’ll just remain ignorant.

As for the self righteous ‘forum police’ you can kiss my ass. You don’t know me. I’m making no judgement on anyone and don’t expect to be judged myself. So get off your high horses and put your efforts into something more constructive. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"because on here we can pretend we are straight but have sex with men who are married and the wife doesn't have a clue hahaha it's great fun, told all my mates about it."

Haahaa exactly!

It's called "fab straight" OP.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

So that they can meet couples like us

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