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Do straight men mind if straight/curious/gay men look at their pics?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but get loads off messages offering blow jobs from men that gets annoying/tempting lol never done it but starting to become curious because off this"
Do it u wont regret it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha yeh it's tempting I tell ya "
Haha i cant help bt try n tempt a str8 man i never mean harm and wud back off if needed, but its too hot to resist the try haha |
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Not at all dont care if they like my cock thats fine .i look at a lot of cocks on here .im not bi .just looking for the sort of guys wife will like there are some nice big thick ones on here .but she is very picky and she needs to see facial pics to. Heavy cummers also go top of list |
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I think there are plenty who don't like gay men looking and fabbing their pictures judging by the number of blocks I've received.
On the other hand there are many who wink back and sometimes chat, but I'd never message a straight man first! |
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"Haha yeh it's tempting I tell ya
Haha i cant help bt try n tempt a str8 man i never mean harm and wud back off if needed, but its too hot to resist the try haha "
and that puts straight men in a couple off meeting couples with bi-men, they always try and it's very off-putting. As for pics, appreciation is appreciated |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Why would anyone mind? That would make you a homophobe, and it's 2017."
Judging by some threads that get posted, whilst it may be 2017 there are still plenty that object, or at the very least moan, about getting attention from other guys.
Personally I'm with everyone else on this thread in that it should be taken as a compliment plain and simple - although that said I tend to avoid fabbing pics of straight guys just in case it causes offence....which I know is totally contradictory!! |
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"Just a random question..."
Why would you mind ? Do you as a man look pics of people and appreciate a good pic / body whether male or female ?
Lots of gay gays still Fab girls pics
Us women don’t get hung up on things like this |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
It's a strange thing but I always fab a photo if the subject looks sexy and turns me on. It doesn't matter whether the subject is male,female or a couple.
What is strange is as soon as I fab the photos of a small proportion of 'straight' men they immediately block me. I find it very odd. Could it be they are 'in denial' about their true sexuality ? I just don't know ? If a guy doesn't want to be ogled he should block all messages etc from the same sex. That's the whole point of filtering out people you don't wish to communicate with isn't ?
The majority if 'straight' guys whose photos I fab will message me to thank me. Even making complimentary comments about my own photos.
No doubt about it but like all social environments Fabswingers sometimes attracts some 'unusual' men. |
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"Why would anyone mind? That would make you a homophobe, and it's 2017.
Judging by some threads that get posted, whilst it may be 2017 there are still plenty that object, or at the very least moan, about getting attention from other guys.
Personally I'm with everyone else on this thread in that it should be taken as a compliment plain and simple - although that said I tend to avoid fabbing pics of straight guys just in case it causes offence....which I know is totally contradictory!! "
I usually fab the pics from the new photos galleries and rarely check the profiles to view preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but get loads off messages offering blow jobs from men that gets annoying/tempting lol never done it but starting to become curious because off this"
Yes is tempted even watch men now in bi room who wants to be my first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't care less but.....
Would it not make more sense to be on Fabs gay site? I ended up blocking males due to number of guys and TVs messaging to try 'convert' me.
No thanks. |
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"What is strange is as soon as I fab the photos of a small proportion of 'straight' men they immediately block me. I find it very odd. Could it be they are 'in denial' about their true sexuality ? I just don't know ? If a guy doesn't want to be ogled he should block all messages etc from the same sex. That's the whole point of filtering out people you don't wish to communicate with isn't ?"
Your statement makes little sense to me. If a man were to fab one of my photos, I might well block him because I don't want to receive messages from him. Why would I be "in denial" about my true sexuality. I don't block all messages from men, because they may have interesting things to say of a non-homosexual nature. For example a bisexual man started a thread about a particular lay-by which was used by couples and gay men. I mailed him to ask if he had seen a particular couple here. He replied that he had not. I have also exchanged other messages about dogging locations.
I only have face photos on my profile and I don't care who looks at them. Being fabbed would be regarded as a compliment by me if I found the "fabber" attractive. I do not find any men attractive, nor a lot of women.
I did "fab" one male picture because I thought it was witty. It is his main profile pic and shows a wellington boot over his cock. One cannot see his cock and if one could, the photo would not be witty and I would have no reason to "fab" it. |
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"Don't bother me i think everyone loves the idea of it
It is this arrogance I find offensive.
A rapist no doubt thinks all women are "asking for it".
See?"
Of course, your post proves I am "fab straight". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends, if they just appreciate it's a good picture then fair. If it's in a pervey way I hate it.
But getting offered BJs etc when my profile says I'm straight straight, is annoying |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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I look and if they look back or wink then I might contact them, but tend not to make the first move as I don't want to offend them - but they needn't be shy if they want to contact me - I don't bite lol |
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"Don't bother me i think everyone loves the idea of it
It is this arrogance I find offensive.
A rapist no doubt thinks all women are "asking for it".
See?
Your post proves I am "fab straight".
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It is dishonesty and hypocrisy I object to most of all. I have just looked at your profile - it says "Straight".
Then I saw your photos and feedback. I hope other thread readers take a look at your profile also. Better do it quickly before it goes AWOL. Glass houses, etc. |
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"Couldn't care who looks at my pics tbh.. if anyone fabs them then I find it quite flattering if I was being completely honest "
This If you put them up, you do so knowing that they can be looked at by anyone. Who cares what way they fly sexually |
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"Don't bother me i think everyone loves the idea of it
It is this arrogance I find offensive.
A rapist no doubt thinks all women are "asking for it".
See?
Your post proves I am "fab straight".
It is dishonesty and hypocrisy I object to most of all. I have just looked at your profile - it says "Straight".
Then I saw your photos and feedback. I hope other thread readers take a look at your profile also. Better do it quickly before it goes AWOL. Glass houses, etc."
Whats up with my pictures and veris? I don't remember asking for profile critique? |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"Couldn't care who looks at my pics tbh.. if anyone fabs them then I find it quite flattering if I was being completely honest
This If you put them up, you do so knowing that they can be looked at by anyone. Who cares what way they fly sexually "
I don't care how people label themselves - everyone has their reasons for the way they describe themselves. Some guys I meet don't want to put bicurious or bisexual - that's their choice - I'm not going to start preaching to mature men how they should be labelling themselves. Here endeth the First Lesson lol |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"Just a random question...
Why would you mind ? Do you as a man look pics of people and appreciate a good pic / body whether male or female ?
Lots of gay gays still Fab girls pics
Us women don’t get hung up on things like this "
I’ve Fabbed many a woman’s pic, just as I Fab a Guy or a Couple & even on a rare occasion a TV. It can be for numerous reasons...
A good pic of someone
From a “Fab A Pic” thread
The pic made me smile/was well taken/showed some individuality/was hot
Any number of reasons.
There will be some who don’t mind, & others who will instantly feel defensive or threatened & Block me immediately. No biggie, if that’s how they react. However, it’s seldom, if ever, Fabbed for any reason other than a positive one.
On the flip side, I’ve been fortunate enough to broaden my usual horizons in Bi MFM’s (even though I’m Gay - see profile), so yes it can be a “slippery slope” to trying new things & broaden horizons should that be their choice to do so. It must however be their choice.
Good post OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been known to fab a few pics of straight guys. Had a few messages back and forth on mutual appreciation as well.
Always good to pick up inspiration for new ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mind it at all, I’m not into guys in the slightest but regardless of whom fabs a pic of mine it’s nice to know that it’s appreciated. The only thing i have an issue with which is moreso based around the culture of the site is the lack of respect I’m given when men mail me with sexual intent despite my profile saying straight. Now I know men do say straight on here and not mean it but for me it’s a lack of respect just as it would be if a woman said not into white guys or whatever and I were to mail anyway. And I am aware i could just block males using the mail filters but as a forumite i often chat to various people in relation to posts and that’s part of what I use the site for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm straight, but as a shameless attention whore enjoy it. I will fab a few pics myself as I appreciate sexy pictures of females, makes and couples.
Don't mind the messages either and not opposed to engage in conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a random question...
The fab straight ones do... They get really angry, then have a secret wank. "
A secret wank or a crywank over the shame of being attractive to men. The bastards |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"Think of it this way a straight males and his mates go for a pint in a gay bar and he is the only one who doesn't get hit-on ..... He'd be gutted
Haha you might actually have a point there "
The most unusual example I’ve read, but a valid point. |
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"Yes I mind. I don’t like it. Absolutely sick of getting messages from gay guys. Can’t do anything about it so that’s what the block button is for. "
You know you can just block guys from messaging you |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"Yes I mind. I don’t like it. Absolutely sick of getting messages from gay guys. Can’t do anything about it so that’s what the block button is for. "
Or you could select the “Not Looking For Men” option. I believe that stops men from mailing you. Anyway, now that I know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I mind. I don’t like it. Absolutely sick of getting messages from gay guys. Can’t do anything about it so that’s what the block button is for.
You know you can just block guys from messaging you "
He must like the attention |
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"Yes I mind. I don’t like it. Absolutely sick of getting messages from gay guys. Can’t do anything about it so that’s what the block button is for.
You know you can just block guys from messaging you
He must like the attention "
They all do... |
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"Just a random question...
The fab straight ones do... They get really angry, then have a secret wank.
A secret wank or a crywank over the shame of being attractive to men. The bastards "
Tears on to an erect cock.....The saddest image possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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quite a few gay guys like stalking straight guys on here! Whether they see it as a challenge I don't know, But it's in a man's nature to be predatory. Definitely not keen on it!! But there is fuck all I can do about it. If you saying anything against it you're a homophobe. So I just block guys from messaging me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind at all or looking when im on cam, take it as a compliment that someone gets pleasure looking at my naked body.
Always nice to hear compliments.
All part of being on fab. |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"quite a few gay guys like stalking straight guys on here! Whether they see it as a challenge I don't know, But it's in a man's nature to be predatory. Definitely not keen on it!! But there is fuck all I can do about it. If you saying anything against it you're a homophobe. So I just block guys from messaging me."
At least you have the sense to tick the box “Not Looking For Single Guys”. As for guys being predatory... & gay guys stalking straight guys I wouldn’t consider your reaction as homophonic.
Guys can still Fab your pics, but at least can’t pester you with unwanted mails.
Being rude or offensive might be considered homomphibic. Standing up for your right to be left alone isn’t. It’s akin to a straight guy trying to be ingratiating, stalking or grooming a girl who isn’t interested, in the hope of getting their leg over. That is being “phobic” - that’s being a douchebag of the person being sleazy in their methods to gain another’s favour.
I’ve let women & Couples watch my cam, don’t mind them Fabbing my pics, dropping me a mail, chatting in Chat Rooms etc, but if I’m not interested in taking things further then I say so politely. Politeness costs nothing, & hopefully I avoid the douchebags.
(This post gave me stuff to think about. . ) |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I'm as hetero as they come, but I have no issues if men who are into men or TV / TS look at my profile or fab my photos. It is a public forum after all. They've all been respectful of my preferences as i've yet to receive messages from them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd feel lucky and happy to know that someone found me attractive or interesting enough to check out my profile regardless of age sex gender, or sexual preference. |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"I'd feel lucky and happy to know that someone found me attractive or interesting enough to check out my profile regardless of age sex gender, or sexual preference. "
You KNOW you’re attractive hunki. We’re not falling for that one. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd feel lucky and happy to know that someone found me attractive or interesting enough to check out my profile regardless of age sex gender, or sexual preference.
You KNOW you’re attractive hunki. We’re not falling for that one. Lol "
Hey, it's still nice to be looked at though isn't it? I know I'm not Sloth from the Goonies but it's a great ego boost when you see a number in that 'looked at me box' |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"Hey, it's still nice to be looked at though isn't it? I know I'm not Sloth from the Goonies but it's a great ego boost when you see a number in that 'looked at me box' "
Ah but I won’t show up as I view in Ninja Stealth Mode. I’ll jyst Fab yer pic instead. Lmao |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"I'd feel lucky and happy to know that someone found me attractive or interesting enough to check out my profile regardless of age sex gender, or sexual preference.
You KNOW you’re attractive hunki. We’re not falling for that one. Lol
Hey, it's still nice to be looked at though isn't it? I know I'm not Sloth from the Goonies but it's a great ego boost when you see a number in that 'looked at me box' "
Deffo - we all enjoy looking at who's looked at me - you get some surprises sometimes |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"I'd feel lucky and happy to know that someone found me attractive or interesting enough to check out my profile regardless of age sex gender, or sexual preference. "
Stop fishing for compliments you hunk! Lol |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"To flip the question..
Do bi/gay guy's mind when 'straight' guy's look at their profile or ask to meet "
I welcome it - some of the hottest raunchiest sessions I've had have been with straight, bi curious and bi guys. Some of them don't get the opportunity to play with men or don't have much experience but they certainly make up for it when we meet. Some guys wait a long time before they have the courage to meet a guy but when they do they usually love it and realise they should have done it before. |
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I'm not bothered and I'm as straight as they come. It's the same for anyone who posts a picture. You never know who will enjoy it. It could be some one you desire but it could also be people who don't turn you on. Male or female, but if you have shared a little enjoyment then where is the harm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all. If a straight guy looks at this profile though, it's usually for her. This leads me to believe that the occasional gay guy, or male leaning TS is checking me out.
It's always nice to feel like somebody is checking you out, even if it's not reciprocated, and a lot of women get to feel like this all the time. Asking as no one is being disrespectful, crack on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lean pretty heavily on the bicurious side and thus check out mens profiles a lot. Never message and I have blocked single guys from messaging. Turns out guys block my profile alot, ALOT. Always found it kinda comical really. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"I lean pretty heavily on the bicurious side and thus check out mens profiles a lot. Never message and I have blocked single guys from messaging. Turns out guys block my profile alot, ALOT. Always found it kinda comical really. "
Don't understand why they would do that. Perhaps they are envious of your physique which is impressive |
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I couldn't care less. If they happen to fab one of my pics or send a complimentary message then I'll take that as a compliment. It's not that big a deal.
It's a bit like minding about straight, bi and gay guys looking at me in the flesh as I go about my day to day existence. People look at people, that's life. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"I couldn't care less. If they happen to fab one of my pics or send a complimentary message then I'll take that as a compliment. It's not that big a deal.
It's a bit like minding about straight, bi and gay guys looking at me in the flesh as I go about my day to day existence. People look at people, that's life. "
I would imagine from the pics that their tongues are hanging out lol |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"I've noticed that on our couple's profile we'll often get a guy who fabs both of our photos. I like that, as it shows he's not ignoring the fact that we're a couple. "
Not much to fab there Clem - a dot in the Sierra and one body part |
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"I've noticed that on our couple's profile we'll often get a guy who fabs both of our photos. I like that, as it shows he's not ignoring the fact that we're a couple. "
Which profile is your couple profile? I may wish to "fab" your wife's photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a random question..."
To be honest I still get messages plenty of times from guys who are gay/bi on the off chance I'm up for fun. That's without a picture.
Don't think some guys care that much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a problem for me.... most of the fabs on my photos have been from guys!
I think we all end up looking at all sorts of photos. Whether we're bi/straight/gay..... I think most men can appreciate a great pic of a guy or his cock! |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"It's not a problem for me.... most of the fabs on my photos have been from guys!
I think we all end up looking at all sorts of photos. Whether we're bi/straight/gay..... I think most men can appreciate a great pic of a guy or his cock!"
In fact I think we'd like to see a few more of you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't bother me.
As a few people said upthread, any compliment is appreciated.
Doesn't mean I'm changing teams or anything, but my manhood is certainly not going to be "threatened" but someone looking at my pictures.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a problem for me.... most of the fabs on my photos have been from guys!
I think we all end up looking at all sorts of photos. Whether we're bi/straight/gay..... I think most men can appreciate a great pic of a guy or his cock!
In fact I think we'd like to see a few more of you! "
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"It's not a problem for me.... most of the fabs on my photos have been from guys!
I think we all end up looking at all sorts of photos. Whether we're bi/straight/gay..... I think most men can appreciate a great pic of a guy or his cock!
In fact I think we'd like to see a few more of you!
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Aww go on - don't be bashful lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I lean pretty heavily on the bicurious side and thus check out mens profiles a lot. Never message and I have blocked single guys from messaging. Turns out guys block my profile alot, ALOT. Always found it kinda comical really. "
Oh you’re bi-curious eh? I find myself checking out your photos lot!
Feel free to drop me a message and I’ll show you some more of me |
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It's gonna happen anyway, I'm sure most see straight on the profile and move on. I've got no problem playing around people that aren't straight as long as they don't touch without asking which has only happened once, not much to complain about considering what some women have to put up with.
I do find it off putting when guys are staring at me when I've been in the cinema, moving out of their eyeline should be more than a hint, puts me off going again |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"It's gonna happen anyway, I'm sure most see straight on the profile and move on. I've got no problem playing around people that aren't straight as long as they don't touch without asking which has only happened once, not much to complain about considering what some women have to put up with.
I do find it off putting when guys are staring at me when I've been in the cinema, moving out of their eyeline should be more than a hint, puts me off going again"
I guess men are always more persistant if they fancy someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mind at all - why should I - I’d say a good % of any Fabs I get are from men TVs TSs .... very very rarely do any of them follow it up with a msg - so if they look and Like why not Fab it to say so
If women aren’t going to - who am I to complain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t mind men fabbing and looking it’s winds me up when I get a message asking to suck me or something like that not even a hi "
You do know you’ll get lots of msg’s from guys introducing themselves to you politely now don’t you.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t mind men fabbing and looking it’s winds me up when I get a message asking to suck me or something like that not even a hi
You do know you’ll get lots of msg’s from guys introducing themselves to you politely now don’t you...."
Ya but at least it be a polite message to read unlike usual ones lol |
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"No but get loads off messages offering blow jobs from men that gets annoying/tempting lol never done it but starting to become curious because off this"
The problem is "Fab straight“.
Because so many men who are bi will not admit it, due to the worry that women will not want to meet them, straight is no longer a useful filter on here.
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"I've noticed a lot of guys fab my last couple of pics after posting on this thread, more than normal I think. Coincidence or not "
No not a coincidence - some guys are attracted by the title of the thread - but apart from that your pics are horny |
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