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Am I not straight enough?
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
Ok so been on here while now. I used to identify as a lesbian, I'm now with a man (first one since I had a bf as a teenager!!).
We both identify as Bi, yet I've been cussed by a couple of people on here for not being 'straight' enough to be a swinger?? I.e. I don't want to fuck their bf!
For the record we've had a MMF, surely that must qualify me? Am I being a twat? |
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"Ok so been on here while now. I used to identify as a lesbian, I'm now with a man (first one since I had a bf as a teenager!!).
We both identify as Bi, yet I've been cussed by a couple of people on here for not being 'straight' enough to be a swinger?? I.e. I don't want to fuck their bf!
For the record we've had a MMF, surely that must qualify me? Am I being a twat? "
Do you actually care what they think? You are who you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so been on here while now. I used to identify as a lesbian, I'm now with a man (first one since I had a bf as a teenager!!).
We both identify as Bi, yet I've been cussed by a couple of people on here for not being 'straight' enough to be a swinger?? I.e. I don't want to fuck their bf!
For the record we've had a MMF, surely that must qualify me? Am I being a twat? "
Not at all, they're idiots. At the end of the day, you shouldn't sleep with people you don't fancy. The problem you have is that you're still seemingly meeting people where both you and your man only want to fuck one half of the couple.
I'd simply stop meeting couples where you'll be leaving somebody out, as opposed to just wanting one or neither of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe there is a criteria in terms of who you have sex with (m/f), is there? Or did I miss that memo!? You simply do what you like, with who you like. As long as everyone is happy and enjoying themselves, that's the important thing, surely.
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
"Ok so been on here while now. I used to identify as a lesbian, I'm now with a man (first one since I had a bf as a teenager!!).
We both identify as Bi, yet I've been cussed by a couple of people on here for not being 'straight' enough to be a swinger?? I.e. I don't want to fuck their bf!
For the record we've had a MMF, surely that must qualify me? Am I being a twat?
Not at all, they're idiots. At the end of the day, you shouldn't sleep with people you don't fancy. The problem you have is that you're still seemingly meeting people where both you and your man only want to fuck one half of the couple.
I'd simply stop meeting couples where you'll be leaving somebody out, as opposed to just wanting one or neither of them. "
Yeah I get that and we don't meet couples unless they're both bi.
Plus I'm not saying I'd never sleep with another guy but I have to have a chemistry there that I don't think you can get from a few message exchanges.
Well it's good to know not everyone thinks I should get the f**k off fab as I've been told to! Ha |
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By *linxWoman
over a year ago
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Then you have been cussed by people who don't know wtf they are talking about and maybe they should sexually educate themselves before they sexplain to people on a swinging site what and who they are sexually
Just advise them for the sake of the world not to breed, and then block  |
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Your profile is quite clear on what you do and don't want, so if anyone is contacting you with a view to full couple swap etc then its them at fault, not you. Use the responses you get as a filter.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello.
I get that I'm completely the same. I have had a few men on here and couples have an issue with the fact I don't like to sleep with guys. But I have also met some amazing people who understood my point of view.
Just be you haters will hate. Some people just don't like to be said no to and will quite often lash out as a result.
As an adult you can choose who you want to be with and no matter what you identify as you choose what you want! X 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so been on here while now. I used to identify as a lesbian, I'm now with a man (first one since I had a bf as a teenager!!).
We both identify as Bi, yet I've been cussed by a couple of people on here for not being 'straight' enough to be a swinger?? I.e. I don't want to fuck their bf!
For the record we've had a MMF, surely that must qualify me? Am I being a twat?
Not at all, they're idiots. At the end of the day, you shouldn't sleep with people you don't fancy. The problem you have is that you're still seemingly meeting people where both you and your man only want to fuck one half of the couple.
I'd simply stop meeting couples where you'll be leaving somebody out, as opposed to just wanting one or neither of them.
Yeah I get that and we don't meet couples unless they're both bi.
Plus I'm not saying I'd never sleep with another guy but I have to have a chemistry there that I don't think you can get from a few message exchanges.
Well it's good to know not everyone thinks I should get the f**k off fab as I've been told to! Ha"
I don't think the couple being bi is relevant at all, that's simply a preference, but in the spirit of everyone getting something out if this, they're not all going to if you and your guy only find the same one attractive.
Essentially, you're ideal match would be a cuck guy who has no intentions of playing, with a partner who wants to play with both of you. If someone is completely left out though, it can be really crushing. |
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
Yeah that's the thing I'm always open to explore, I'm a horny son of a bitch so you never know what might happen when you loosen up around people.
The guy we had an MMF I slept with and enjoyed it but we'd been chatting for months and had a sexual chemistry going on so it just worked.
I think some people expect you to say yay or ney before you even meet them x |
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
"Ok so been on here while now. I used to identify as a lesbian, I'm now with a man (first one since I had a bf as a teenager!!).
We both identify as Bi, yet I've been cussed by a couple of people on here for not being 'straight' enough to be a swinger?? I.e. I don't want to fuck their bf!
For the record we've had a MMF, surely that must qualify me? Am I being a twat?
Not at all, they're idiots. At the end of the day, you shouldn't sleep with people you don't fancy. The problem you have is that you're still seemingly meeting people where both you and your man only want to fuck one half of the couple.
I'd simply stop meeting couples where you'll be leaving somebody out, as opposed to just wanting one or neither of them.
Yeah I get that and we don't meet couples unless they're both bi.
Plus I'm not saying I'd never sleep with another guy but I have to have a chemistry there that I don't think you can get from a few message exchanges.
Well it's good to know not everyone thinks I should get the f**k off fab as I've been told to! Ha
I don't think the couple being bi is relevant at all, that's simply a preference, but in the spirit of everyone getting something out if this, they're not all going to if you and your guy only find the same one attractive.
Essentially, you're ideal match would be a cuck guy who has no intentions of playing, with a partner who wants to play with both of you. If someone is completely left out though, it can be really crushing. "
Oh and I'd never let anyone feel left out even if it meant me leaving my comfort zone. I'd hate that done to me. Just keep politely explaining myself for now then |
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"Not so much just wondering if I've missed some kind of etiquette I should be following.
Reading these comments makes me feel better about it!
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Remember to use the "+quote" option when replying to a post, makes it easier to follow. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Ok so been on here while now. I used to identify as a lesbian, I'm now with a man (first one since I had a bf as a teenager!!).
We both identify as Bi, yet I've been cussed by a couple of people on here for not being 'straight' enough to be a swinger?? I.e. I don't want to fuck their bf!
For the record we've had a MMF, surely that must qualify me? Am I being a twat? "
If you don't want to fuck someone then you don't want to fuck them! I can't see anything difference from me turning down a bloke and I am straight! Quite simple, just do what suits you  |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
well we a normal [no such thing]fab couple had lots fun on here never done any thing with any one we did not want to .never feel presured enjoy doin what you want to do fab for us all .just going to put a crash helmet on k and fire her out of a cannon like human cannon ball .to pick up a take away from shop 3 streets away .guess she will have to walk back .we will have great sex in a bath full of vinderloo that normal enough for you great fabbers |
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There are some people on here, a minority, who spend their lives making rules for other people to belong to.
If this were a golf club they'd be the committee members policing what socks you wear with your golf shoes, and where in the bar you're allowed to leave your clubs.
Ignore 'em, get on with it and enjoy yourself. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Your profile, your rules - anyone disagrees with them then they're welcome to move on without having to give you grief for it.
Are these even bona fide people and not just single guys posing as a couple is my other thought? |
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
"Not so much just wondering if I've missed some kind of etiquette I should be following.
Reading these comments makes me feel better about it!
Remember to use the "+quote" option when replying to a post, makes it easier to follow. "
Sorry! V new at the forum thingy. |
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
"Your profile, your rules - anyone disagrees with them then they're welcome to move on without having to give you grief for it.
Are these even bona fide people and not just single guys posing as a couple is my other thought?"
Ah possibly! Why do guys do that. I mean surely it will become obvious when they're missing a better half? |
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